[quote author=seangy4konji post=30160433]G girl makes sense though and @ rocktation you keep banning me but you know u r a fool.so many idiots come to d sexuality section to talk poo and shit but your brain goes on holidays then and I post and you ban me which is second time and to make.matters worst u say respect ur elders. I just wan polite but I wan say it no go better for u and ur elders.

I deh watch u ooo.ayilala fit locate u any where and unless say wetin I do weh u take ban me warrant am. Olonshi nie. And u and ur plenty prow never reach elders.

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Odikwa funny.

ProfGday:
marry kogi woman @ ur own peril especially Kabba women. Quote me and u will see why fowl stopped urinating.

Kogi women remains the most caring and trustworthy women in Nigeria.

carammel: you won't be the first neither will you be the last. There are many guys who are doing it as we talk,almost every guy is as guilty as Bleep.
Since you already identified your problem and determined to stop,you can do it. All the best.

Thank you for that comment.

yousee: I admire your forthrightness and guts. This issue in my opinion can be best handled by a counselor, physically. That way, sincerity will take the day.
You will get very good pointers from this forum, but please, be open to loads of negative and downright insults as well.


That said, seek your imam, alfa or pastor/priest, these guys are proven counsels in issues like this.
Cheers!

I came in contact of the word "masturbation" in Anglican youth camp in 2004, there was a debate on it and there i made up my mind to give it a try. Thanks for your advice.

bknight: Well, realizing u need to stop it is the start of the redemption. You were going gay!

What specific reasons is bringing u to this point? Is it so ur friends can now relate with you like before? Or ur eyes has opened to the luxury beauty of yansh&breasts? Or u're wasting ur body nutrients jerking off 6 times a day? Anyways whatever ur reasons:

1. Determine to stop it.
2. Stay away from churches that encourage it.
3. To disengage from habits needs mental strength, so start developing urs.
4. Get a gf

But in truth, I think u gay how else can one explain d fact that jerking off made u stay single &not had sexx since 2007,,,7yrs ago?! mehnnnn! Niqqa u gay!

Thank you for your contribution, quiting it is part of my new year resolution but as am typing now i've done it more than once. Honestly, i want to quit it but its hard.

Mynd_44: So much emphasis on sex these days. Smh

How?

I started masturbating when i was in secondary school in 2004, then i was a playboy in my area but it got to a point that i no longer derive any sexual pleasure with my girlfriends.
As a result of that, i started masturbating and at that time i enjoyed it than having real sex, this made me to leave all the girls i had then because personally, i believe it cost nothing, i do it anytime i want to and as many times i want to in a day.
However, it is affecting my relationship with my male because whenever we are in a public gathering in shcool, they always woo girls of their choice and the end of the day they'll ask me why i'm not talking wooing, my response to them is "the gal is not my choice", at first the excuse works but now they call me so many names that i can't start to type, some of them have stop coming to my house cos they think i'm a gay.
What started in 2004 as a joke has become part of my life today and i can masturbate up to six times daily, it has made me loose flair for ladies because i they don't look attractive to me. The last time i had sex with any lady was in August 2007 since then i've been masturbatin. I really want to stop but i don't know how.
I need your advice, mature advise only.

Up the gunnerz, we are winning this game by at least two goal margin. COYG

Another potential 419. Theif.

Like a lion seeking who to devour, Wale is back with his ''i can link you up with a sugar mummy'' trick.
The guy is a fraudster and should not be allowed on nl.

I don't know the problem with you guys on nl. I posted this topic so that people'll learn 4rm my flop. But all you do is make fun of me and laugh. Idiots!

Do you really need a sugar
mummy link up ? Go to where
they usually hang - out and try
your luck !!
Like where?

Don't at anytime send money or recharge card to anyone on nl just because he/she promise 2 link u up with a sugar mummy. They are fraudsters.
On 23-12-2011 i was duped by a guy namely OYELAMI AHMED ADEWALE. of 4000.
He promised 2 link me up with a sugar mummy dat i should send 4000 into his bank account OYELAMI AHMED ADEWALE A/C 3029821883 FIRST BANK. I sent the money but i later discover that the guy is a 419.
BEWARE!

THERE ARE 419 ON NAIRALAND. BEWARE!
I want to use this medium to warn fellow nlanders that there some criminals.
I personally was duped by one OYELAMI AHMED ADEWALE, who promised me that upon sending him certain amount of money (4000) he'll link me up with a sugar mummy. I don't trust human beings but he said 'WALLAHI TALLAHI SUMABILLAHI' dat its true.
I took him serious on that oath and sent d money 2 his acount. Account name: OYELAMI AHMED ADEWALE.AC NO.3029821883 FIST BANK. Later i discovered he's a 419.
All this happen between 21 to 23 december 2011.
BEWARE!

I knw its not easy to survive in this country,go to God in prayers when things goes wrong.
God has a purpose for creating you and I, God will see you through. Trust him.
Think twice!!!
Its well with your soul.

the problem we are having in this country (Nigeria) is not in our leaders but its in our collective determination to fight them out. Until we act like lybians, egyptians and d syrians b4 this country will be a better place.

As for me, GEJ is a failure of the decade. After all the support he got from the mases. He's now paying us with subsidy removal. God will GEJ and his slowpoke wife.

such is life. Poor boy!!!