efemena5050:
no prob but hope u will not groom ur girls to be at the receiving ends of men ooooo......as per motherless babies advocate....or even IDP resource person .....

There is nothing like receiving end. Except you are open to marrying your age bracket that is financially stable, there is nothing wrong with their acct balances. They are young girls and there are men to marry them!

efemena5050:
shey Dem cut their hands and legs from hustling....parasites always trying to leech ...imagine ur last statement.....thank God tunubu don make simps ,over good guys, fat igbo men with big stomach,old men with pot belly,and church boys to open eye for this hardship ......no more free money with just one hole to dig without end ......men don open eyes oooo. ....is now a symbiotic things ..... complementary relationship...no more composite

Nothing wrong with my statement. You are only seeing it as wrong because it comes from a woman. It takes men up to 35yrs to be financially stable and ready for marriage. Whereas women of 27yrs are already considered expired. Would you consider your financially stable agemate or you will say she has used her prime to fck around?

I said what I said, if they don't want to work, they don't have to. They will definitely get a man if they pick a side ASAP.

Sigh!
Has to be a male kid.
Always them...

BRATISLAVA:


Case closed. You see it all over the Internet, though mostly in Nigerian spaces.

You are giving man vibes with your username, yet you write like someone else...

That is a man.

Nothing wrong with their account balances. They are young students and the choice to work or not is up to them. If they are submissive enough, they can get a Nigerian man to provide for them for another 40 years.

Thick is different from fat.

And when it comes to weight, different height would wear weight differently. So it is not fullproof to say I want 65kg without considering the height.

What is your chubbiness made up of?
Fat or muscles? They weigh same but look different. You can be thick without excess tummy fat and flabby arms. Many would like that one.

Irrespective of what men want, you should consider your overall wellness. Being overweight makes you look older. Makes it harder to find well-fitting clothes. Makes you clumsier...etc.

Except for health reasons beyond you, if it is such a concern, start cutting down on carbs and sugar. Take walks and skip in your house.

Personally I don't like fat, but I LOVE thick.

TheSuperX:
Brb.

Waiting...

TheSuperX:
Are you threatening me for saying the truth?
You must really be pained, lol. 😁

Please post just one evidence of your truth. No deflections as usual. And stop abusing this pained word. I'll be waiting.

AngelicBeing:
why, won't they be happy? Are they related to the victim

I wonder. I asked that he goes offline to make peace with the wife of his youth. How that amounts to wanting him in jail remains unknown.

TheSuperX:
Coco.candy and poco.hantas won't be happy about this, lol. 😁

I don't appreciate my mentions being spammed on falsehood. You will soon get what you are looking for.

NoToPile:
My own question is since the woman still wants the marriage by all indications, is the marriage still viable after all these?

Couples have remained even after worse drama and fallout. However, what they do with the versions of themselves that was unraveled in the past few weeks might be unknown to us. I don't trust him though. He might still bite.

Luckysbab:


😁😄

Dey play o. I no just get time to dey go find una comments from the last two days. Make we leave am like that.

It's his loss if he chooses to continue with a juju woman.

You don't have time because you can't find any. I wasn't even online in the last 2 days.

Luckysbab:


Wait a bit more, sogbo.

Ruminate over your disappointment in this matter and you'll be fine las las.

I have no disappointment as my concern has been the welfare of the wife. You are the one disappointed that they are back together.

Ntooor!!

Luckysbab:


And you the mockers have no take-aways abi?

Sebi una don think say he will get a possible 3 years. Nonsense and pretence.

Show me where I said he will get 3 years and I will deactivate now. D___ce.

Proserpina:
Marriage is dissolved indeed.

Na for better for worse them be o . Even if he gets time, he will be back to continue

Keep your hands to yourself Una no go hear

They want the marriage to fail. So that they can claim it is feminists that destroyed it.

Available9:


Now that you all have used social media to dissolve the marriage, she will end up going about fucking other women rich husbands while the man will forever find the peace he has always wanted...who loose

The marriage is not dissolved.
And I wonder why you are blaming the wrong person. The man and his in-law were the ones who brought the case to Twitter. The man himself gave full exposé to the issue with chats and receipts. The man had already served the wife divorce papers before he got called out by an in-law on Twitter. If there was anything SM uproar did, it made them settle. I am assuming they settled given that he posted a video of them together.

No one wanted him to chase his 1st wife away. I also would never understand why you guys think every woman is about to go on a fcking spree. Anything to make yourselves sleep better.

cococandy:
Penile logic 😂

Permit me to borrow the phrase please

When I am done with them and that logic, they will stop throwing it around.

DeeScan:
I say no further ..

Like I said earlier, you're not a kid ..

I am not a kid. I won't spend millions in an attempt to acquire what I won't need or rely on.

I won't try to destroy my family and cause my kids trauma in an attempt to acquire something I don't need or rely on.

But I do know penile-logic works in a weird way. So, I understand you.

DeeScan:


You wouldnt understand ..

If he relied on the 1st for something, the actual logic here is, he won't be getting a second one.

Something or someone you rely on are usually not disposable... 😋😋


You're not a kid and you probably know this.. He's having a second one for the same reason he went for the 1st ..

No, I don't know this. If you don't rely on something for anything, you don't get it, let alone twice or four times. If you even make the mistake of doing it once, you won't do it a second time. Marriage is not compulsory, let alone marriage to two women.

No logical human expends time, money, even pays the 1st wife 5m to allow him bring in a 2nd of something he supposedly doesn't need or rely on.

DeeScan:
😂😂

We rely on females for exactly what?!



Well we all know what...
Place that out of the picture, what on God's green earth are we suppose to rely on females for ??

A man is here fighting to marry a 2nd wife. Who gets two of what he doesn't benefit from? I wonder where you guys use this your supposed logic.

cococandy:
I just said he doesn’t abuse me. That’s all I said.

See how offended you are by that. You’re making up scenarios to try to put words in my mouth and claim I’m lying.

I never said I live in a castle. Or that he physically carries me around so that my feet don’t touch the ground. Or that he serves me breakfast in bed, worships me, washes me clothes etc.

The simple thing I said is My husband doesn’t abuse me . It’s really that simple. Pls don’t be offended by that. It’s not a good look on you

Oh he has to be offended because it doesn't fit the life he wishes for you. I wonder why they are so triggered by healthy marriages. Next they run making extreme scenarios to push an agenda that you are walking on your husband's head. But if a woman comes out to say her husband is abusing her, same person would claim she is lying.

Someone says her husband doesn't abuse her and you are triggered. Are you a wizard? Shouldn't that be a win for men he so loves to support?

In compliance, I want to appeal to married people to seek peaceful means of seeking marital disputes. Patience will always solve issues no matter how long it takes.

Hopefully his supporters see and adhere to this simple advice. Just like him.

yewit37486:
Good move to stay off twitter for a month, because he was just digging himself further into a deep hole with his subsequent jibes and posts. Ja.rus, I pray this time off SM will be a time of reflection for you, to reflect on how far you've come and pick the lessons from this experience - wisdom, patience, self control.

The people hailing and making him posts those subtle jibes were (unconsciously) on a mission to make him self-destruct. There is time to retreat and let tempers calm. Especially for a man who has a name and brand to protect.

Nonexisting:
She is in a perfect marriage, that's exactly what she said when she claimed she had never abused her husband and neither had her husband abused her too. Now let me address that a little. What she practically meant is that she and her husband have never gaslighted each other, never given each other silent treatment, never tried to somehow control each other's behaviors, never overly being critical of each other, never argued seriously over irrelevant issues, and never isolated each other over flimsy reasons etc. You think abused starts and ends with your husband beating you up? She is in a perfect marriage and that's exactly what she implied, stop twing to twist facts.

That is not perfection. Argument is not physical or emotional abuse. I would advise you stop looking for marriages that are failing because I have known you across your various monikers to know nothing delights you as such.

Your post I quoted clearly said her husband cooks and washes for her...etc, I have seen you make this claim severally even when the said moniker is an active participant of the Food thread where she posts meals she made for her family.

Since you don't want to marry, remove your eyes from other people's marriage.

Thank you!

I didn't know it was you, same gang member as her. Mtchew, I just wasted my precious time.

Your precious time hasn't put you in the list of elite men, so what is the fuss? Abeg swerve.

TheSuperX:
Coco.candy, poco.hantas won't agree with the pastor's words.

I don't have to agree. It is for his wife or chosen woman to agree. This should be common sense.

Nonexisting:
My brother, this is the internet so anyone can claim anything. I am not with her and her husband who worships her, who serves her breakfast in bed, who washes her clothes and carries her around everywhere so that her feet will not touch sand. Who am I not to believe her, do I live with them in their castle.

She never said all this, so stop trying too hard.
If your mum or dad endured physical and emotional abuse, tell us more about it. At least it would put more perspective to why you think healthy marriages do not exist.

Sulele04:

She is literally 21, 2003 born nah small girl.

Her Twitter acct is 13yrs old. You are saying she joined Twitter @8. And probably became a quantity surveyor @ 14 . Served @16 (NYSC in 2019). Moved from Lag to Abuja @20. She must be a genius. She deserves a rich husband indeed.

cococandy:


How old is she even

I don't know. But I put her at 27 to 31.
Asides being educated and obviously more bougee, I see no core physical upgrade he couldn't have implented in his wife.

cococandy:


You can’t make this up

Na her Twitter acct be that o.
Na she use her hand post am. 😂

cococandy:


Yep yep actions do indeed speak louder than words. Especially with men. If they really hated “indecency” in women, indecency wouldn’t be so lucrative. When you bring this up to them they’ll tell you those ones are just good for sleeping with but not marriage.

As if we should be proud to be the chosen ones for marriage. When marriage to them is not a guarantee that you’ll be loved, respected or honored.

😄😄Then cause the virtuous woman emotional distress with their baddie-hunting. 1st wife dey collect black eye. Baddie say she dey enjoy her car for Abuja road. 😂😂