GloriousGbola:


who knows what our resident genz feminist is getting up to offline

This is not a case of being on the wrong side of 30. If the girl is actually 21 she may not even have finished uni.

That lady is not 21, please. I have seen her pictures and if she is 21, I am 4 weeks old.

larride:
For this life, hypocrite lo po ju.

Na them...

Beremx:
she's not greedy or wants all the money and attention to herself. She doesn't want to share the love she has for her husband with another woman. 14yrs of marriage no be beans.
I visited Twitter yesterday and red the full story of the gist. He even met the said second wife on Twitter.

Oga Jarus you no try o! I no longer have his contact if not I for blast am on phone. Chai! Whoever advised him to take a second wife is heartless.

Nobody advised him, he did what he wants to do. If you read his post, you will see his actions were premeditated. He was already done with it before even telling the wife.

The problem with this is, there would always be women who think they are different. So say whatever, they would still make choices that will shock you. I don't even stress it anymore. Marry whatever you wanna, but don't tell me your problems. Na my own be that.

izzou:


You no say we no sabi Nedu wife until that story came out.

But Odanz wey dey type up and down??

Hmmm.. E go hard make that guy last for Twitter

Nigerian woman no deactivate for a whole paternity fraud. Na man go come deactivate for infidelity? Abi na the 10k e dey send go make am deactivate? But that guy no try sha. He sent his wife 30k and asked her to return it. In his words, he gave it to her to run the house. Na dog house? Wetin she dey run with 30k?
😂😂😂😂

Emaprince:
My observation too.

That was the first thing that came to my mind. Why cant you take good care of your wife first....and then you can have many side ch8cks. But let your wife and familly be well catered for.

E really shock me o. And some women would see him on Twitter and start fighting their husbands.

izzou:
Odanz should just deactivate.

The wife don destroy the destiny of that handle.

Nedu Wazobia's ex-wife. The one that did paternity fraud is still on IG till today. What is na Odanz?

raumdeuter:


I dey tell A.40 say all those IG baddies most of them na hungry people

All those I cant date if you dont have 1bllion and house in Banana Island in the mud

So na 5k dem dey use shift pant, If you check codedruns on iamo.yindamolas laptop/phone you go even see 2k ones

I really do not think it is about the money. It is the influence and fame. A lot of these Twitter and social media infuencers have that hold on their followers. These ladies just want to be the women fcking Odanz or Jarùs. The money is a plus. The Abiola side-wife doesn't seem hungry from her pictures. She was most likely attracted to the Twitter warlord profile. Even here on NL, start going hard and crazy and you will be amazed at what ticks it for some ladies. For a start, they know you can defend them online.

And contrary to what you guys think, there is an innate urge to prove to guys like this that you are different. That is how she ends up collecting 10k.

User09:


No Ostrich.

He said "react" a couple of times, then said led to - beating. Why is react leading to beating - Very open to interpretation

He could easily have said "She frustrated me to beat her a couple of times.

Like I said, it's not a slam dunk and to me, Based on what he posted, self defense can be argued.

Yes, he was defending himself to take a 2nd wife. The wife has attested to that in an earlier post. Her bruised face over the months shows how well he reacted.

User09:


To be fair, I have already disclosed my bias/conflict, so there isnt any agenda here. The below is what he posted

"She frustrated me to react a couple of times which led to beating"

Led to beating not beating(s) and further provided context as to the beating that occurred - with the midnight incident. My English isnt great but I'm sure this is open to interpretation

Now this is isolating what he posted alone without taking into the account of the wife's own which i've just come to see

Lol. So the couple of times led to one beating? Who then was giving his wife black eye for months? Play the ostritch alone, please.

raumdeuter:


With SUV, Millions flying left right and center
who wont be bold

If that is his wife's shop in those pictures with her sitting by the door, I hate to say his millions is audio. 🤐

User09:


Yes I have.

Only saw where he alluded to the midnight own. I haven't seen any one where he admitted to the couple of times you posted

Okay. If you take your time to read his now deleted epistle, you would see where he admitted to being provoked a couple of times which led to beating. You will also see the wife post as far as April saying she has been going through DV due to the other woman's call. The midnight own was a counter response to being called out for the initial post. Na Jarùs use im hand type am. Check the links.

GloriousGbola:


he is clearly commited to iyawo tuntun and he is going through with it

She must be one bold 21yrs old to go on with this. 🙂🙂

User09:


Hi,

Can you point me in the bolded direction?. It's important to have a balanced take on these things

Hello, you can scan this thread for the screenshots and links. I believe people have posted them.

raumdeuter:


Has the horse not left the stable already with all spilled and exposed by both of them

If you want to be a SM person, leave your wife and kids out of it unless they are in agreement with you

Well, I have heard of women that told the Police to release their violent husbands. One even called the lady that escalated the case a homewrecker and went back to her husband. It was all over Twitter a few months back.

This woman still wants Jarùs. As long as iyawo tuntun is not yet in, the case is still within control.

GloriousGbola:


There is no empirical proof that juju works.

All those arrests of people with charms cannot stand in a court of law.

He should apologise to his 1st wife and die the case internally. She didn't want to kill him. She only wanted her head office to be spiritually sweeter than the baddie's own. In fact, they should apologise to themselves because social media people don't care. It is all Twitter polygamists vs feminists agenda and those Twitter ladies don't play. At the end of the day, only his family suffers the effect.

dominique:


OMG these bloggers are something else! How on earth was that bragging for goodness sake?

I feel so bad for their kids

The kids would be fine. They won't be the first.

I do hope 1 of the SUVs is available to the estranged wife, and her and the kids maintain a good standard of living. This one it took a 2nd wife for him to be giving her money per second.

BlueRayDick:


In all of these, their innocent kids are the victims. Both the husband and wife have their faults

Indeed they do. The wife scored her own goal when she put Jarùs inside bottle. She played into his hands there.

GloriousGbola:
https://arbiterz.com/money-for-homes-interview-suraj-tunji-oyewale/

GenZ baddie go come live for the house.
Wahala for 1st wife o.😂😂😂😂😂

BlueRayDick:


No he didn't brag about it. His first post admitting it , he said it was in the middle of the night and the woman provoked him which made him lose his cool.

I didn't see where he bragged about it

"I beat her a couple of times".

"She sat on me once in the middle of the night".

"I have tried to be a good husband in the past 3 months"

The remaining times when she wasn't sitting on him, why did he beat her?

Has he been a bad husband for 13yrs and 9months?

TheSuperX:
So na wetin I talk pain you? Pele. 😂

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I am not interested in your story. Have you finally agreed you know nothing about the subject matter and my TV indeed consumes that much data? Next time do not display the dumbness you hate. If topic pass you, sit it out.

BlueRayDick:


Bloggers always aim at destroying something while milking a trending issue 🤦‍♂️

Imagine the wicked caption ! They highlighted the fact that he is a popular real estate developer and then proceed to claim “he bragged “

They just set him for premium dragging

If you know Instablog, you will know they have the most useless captions.

Theflint1:
Crazy thing is it could even be a sponsored post.

I doubt it is. I just saw it on another page now. This is the kinda bad marriage news people like. So blogs just copy themselves for the traffic.

Oh No!!!

Instablog has the most indicting captions.

raumdeuter:


I am interested in this bold part. How does this work

Do you know any woman who is an expert at building men, I might need to see her for some mentorship

If Jarùs himself was once all over NL admitting to her influence and support in his growth, he would be in a better position to explain to you how it works and where to find such women.

GloriousGbola:


I believe am older than Jarus. Probably by two to three years. Jarus and Dayo should be same age group

He looks way older than you. I have seen the picture that started the drama and a 40yrs old man shouldn't even play polygamy that way. You don't see Ned jumping upandan Regina's comment section. Comport yourself!

GloriousGbola:


I was checking the girls thread and wondering about the prominent nose ring. So 21 tracks. But I weak sha. All these genz chicks just dey form. Like wtf does a 20 year old want with a 40 year old? What are they even going to talk about? No wonder madam dey vex.

Is Jarus 40? He looks almost 50.

Theflint1:
Lol, it was probably a waist bead from her waist, guess so Jarus is attracted to her waist and not the new wife's

Omo. This polygamy no easy o. This thing is painful, but she didn't have to go that far. Either you stay or you leave.

BlueRayDick:


It will be difficult for a man to trust a woman who put his name and his new wife's name inside a bottle with waist bead inside.

I'm not sure u saw the videos he posted before they were deleted. There were native soaps here and there, the bros was so scared he had to recite Quran verses while making videos of them.

Ah. Our senior wife went far o.😂😂
What is the significance of the waist bead? Make them no knack ni?

dominique:


J during his Facebook days was always gushing about now wife, her sound words advice which helped him make his best financial decisions, her impeccable homemaking and entrepreneurship skills etc. They were always posting lovely family photos. It's so sad that things could spiral down to this level. Polygamy brings about nothing but the worst in people and it tears families apart.

Yes, he always spoke good of her on Nairaland too and he posted their holiday pictures. I remember him for that more than his intellectual posts.

Polygamy indeed brings out the worst in people. Once a man cheats or gets a 2nd wife, your wife stops looking at you as a partner but an opponent. Her game plan is to outsmart you and the other woman for the good of her kids.

iamoyindamola:

And he sounded like it was a compulsory life and death mission in Islam
When he said he wants to exercise is islamic right by taking a second wife

Hahahaha. I read as him reminding us it is permissible in Islam.

GloriousGbola:


oh well . . the new wife does not look that hot to me
infact if anything she looks like an open eye chick

i am not really surprised at Jarus wife reaction. most educated women who grow up in polygamous settings actively seek out men who they believe will not be the same.

a woman who witnessed her mother being relegated to the background will not want the same fate for herself.

I have never seen a man that married a 2nd wife wey calm pass the first o. So I am not surprised she is an open eye chick. This is why I don't buy the peace of mind your brothers dey always claim. The 2nd is most times a baddie. She would do things the 1st would never have dared to do and get away with it because baba done calm by virtue of age and more funds.

BlueRayDick:


Let me just say the truth.

if the wife is my sister, I will explore every legal angle to make sure she get a cut of the wealth he has built within the past 14 years they were together. It is obvious the marriage has broken down and fences can't be mended anymore

I am surprised it is after 14yrs he is giving her money to buy land and mentioning the things he has done in bulk. The woman suppose vex na. 14yrs she has been playing the understanding wife game, all for one small girl to overtake. He shouldn't have allowed it get to this point. If the 1st wife was so bad, the 2nd won't find him desirable to marry.

He did what he had to do and I don't fault him for that. Their religion permits. He just needs more tact.

izzou:
But wetin Muslim woman see, wey make am leave Alfa, go find Cele Pastor?

Omoh!!!

Naija men fit turn atheist to deeper life prayer warrior. Una dey do strong things.😂😂

BlueRayDick:


The bold is the summary of what happened to that bros.

I perused his account of the whole event and I didn't see anywhere he mentioned she was a bad wife or that she had inadequacies that necessitated him getting a new wife. It just appears as though baba is financially capable and he decided to get a second wife.

The wife is hurt and decides to resist the move through diabolical means and baba catches her which led to the whole fight/domestic violence and he eventually sending her packing.

I remember reading one of his old interviews where he spoke about how his wife advised him to sell his range rover to complete his house that was under construction. It is only normal for such woman who believe she's part of ur success story to resist another woman coming into the picture.

This is where I agree with Izzòu that he is honest. He has made the case easier for both counsels . First he admitted to domestic violence, then he made us know she did nothing. That way we don't have to assume she wasn't giving him peace of mind. Baba did what he wanted to do.

That was how I knew him too o. I was shocked when I saw Jarùs on my feed. I was thinking it is another Jarùs. He was always speaking good of his wife. Her money and home management skills. E reach to go CELE o. He should sha not allow her leave. If he has to beg, he should keep begging.

GloriousGbola:


na - i have not seen his wife pic , but from is days on this platform and from others accounts the woman is HOT. Jarus has always said he would likely take another wife.

as an ilorin guy, it is actually more the norm.

I have seen the first wife. He was quite open with his life way back on NL. With all due respect, she wasn't "HOT". She looked like the average devout muslimah. Maybe the second is the HOT one.

izzou:


Well, true.

But after i read everything this morning, it didn't change anything.

All i saw was a honest man who had made mistakes.

In all, may marital issues that will reveal the beast hiding inside never come our way.

Nothing honest about beating your wife "a couple of times". That was a serious own goal. Also no woman would take polygamy lying low. Except she had/has her own plans from the beginning. I have a uni mate that went into polygamy fully prepared. She sef na agaracha and she clearly said she can't be with a monogamous man.

I do hope we can all agree that men (and women) grow into their taste of partners as they have more means. As a broke student, I was sure I didn't have a spec in men. It is foolhardy to assume one's husband cannot stray because she built with him.