Accommodating people to me is one of the most scary thing ever. I never do it especially if I don’t know you, because many people are snakes and parasites

Lol

Where is the lie ?

If na negative thing na , here for don full

My very very close male friend have hacked my Facebook account before, From That day I stayed very far from him. Any friend that can do that , can use me for rituals .

Shugavee:
Bitter men everywhere, the worse part about this new sets on nairaland is that,They actually think they are making sense, lol , This has opened my eyes to realize there are a lot of bitter men out there , but they will never admit that stinginess and brokenness is their problem. If you hv money and class, trust me u won’t be creating yeye trends to prove a point that’s totally pointless. Group chats really ? Over women r this and that ? Wonders shall never end.

Only on nairaland where men who are men are called simps , by broke men who most times hvnt figured there lives and r stack lonely . It’s alright, anything that makes u sleep at night .

someone finally said it

Yessssssssssss

This happens to everyone , but only a few are discipline enough to identify this emotion, people who actually emotionally evaluate themselves, and trust me , that’s a strength many people don’t hv ,, people who are jealous don’t even know they are jealous or are in denial ,, the minute u WISH for what someone else has , my dear u are jealous,, and when yu get close to that person u feel that rush of emotion u want to subdue , so u don’t expose that feeling, cause trust me jealousy is a very very dangerous feeling , the minute u say this is jealousy, you are saved and you know how to control yourself . Yes I feel jealous too , and the best remedy is giving the person some little space while focusing on ur goals . If it’s about your friend being in a relationship, that’s something u cannot control , no matter how u try , so focus on ur career and other things with all u hv got , when the time is right it will happen, remember God’ Time is the best .

Correcto:
Lol you are hiding something in your personal space

good question

Red Flag for me, We are about to own a life together.

MichaelUweh:
Maikanti Baru, former NNPC Managering Director is dead.....

may his soul Rest In Peace

LOl there is a difference between, instagram men , Facebook men , Twitter men and nairaland men . Ladies pick wisely . Broke girls will keep marrying rich billionaires, na only mouth nairaland men get ,in the real world , they are ashamed of themselves. Just imagine someone saying I am a red piller in real life , or can they boldly condemn men who actually take good care of their women ? Only on nairaland will u see a guy trying to abuse a man who publicly say , I take care of my woman like a queen , But u dare not in real life !! Shame No go let you .

Most Men will continue to be the provider for their women . They can’t change nothing

A lot of trash talk from broke stingy men !! Encouraging the world to be stingy like them ,, tahh if u can’t be a responsible person , just stay clear from me. How can u date someone for a year and u hvnt given her nothing ? I want to understand the dirty ideology behind it , cause most of you just speaking from a place of hurt and bitterness not the realistic truth . I am not broke , I am from a well to do family, I am definitely not a liability, Diamonds ain’t shit when am with you ,, n if u can’t TRY to pamper me as u should I am gone. Life goes on! Get ur life straight.

Decryptor:


I hope you are not trying to blackmail this guy because fro the psychology of this write-up, it seems to me that you are more concerned about his "stinginess" and may be using his "no vision" life to cover up.

Because the modern day Nigerian lady does not mind if her man is a no vision-no focus man but as long as he spends on her frivolously, they are okay with it.

I stand to be corrected though

I am very concerned about his stinginess but also concerned about everything else

odinga1of:


Should I continue with the prophecy? He is tall and very intelligent.

hmmmmm

The ones saying birthday is not a good enough reason, though it’s not the only reason but if I ain’t shown love and care on my birthday, what day then will I expect it .. I can’t deal with that kinda life and mentality. If he didn’t hv no problem, not spending money going to the club with friends and telling me trash .

Zoie:

You made a mistake bringing your case before broke, bitter nairaland boys. They'd tear you down to smithereens as if you're the cause of the multiple misfortunes in their lives.
Never ever date a stingy man again.

na them get their mouth , I am focused on comments that shows genuine care , not the ones who are looking for reasons to bash me .

I agree with you

odinga1of:


I know your boyfriend OP, he is from Delta State. And you currently work in Rivers State.

And your boyfriend schooled in the North.

hmmmm

Uzomaglovani:
Abeg let me hear word jor how can you build a stingy guy? Mtcheww it quit painful when your stick to one man and he is not taking care of you assuming she is cheating she for nor worry....... listen women only build a supportive man and pray for him to be more successful,,,,,,,,,,,,, how on earth can you pray for stingy man when you know dat when the blessings manifest he won’t share or appreciate you with

exactly, thank you

ekerintee:
It's not about being broke .it's the African woman mentality.even when they have money,they still want the man to spend and that is the sign of a responsible man.this ought not be so .if he does not send you money but he remembers it and values you .its still better .life is about time ,have u asked him about his plans for life,and what he intends to do with his life..did you try to support with miney for him to start a course ,maybe in it.how much did you invest in him? .I think the guy knows you have money and he is only acting stingy

Lol

Nooil:



Do you still like him?

I don’t know I’m kinda Emotionally num .

Nooil:



Is it that you guys didn't see where the said bf spent money buying drinks for his friends? Where did he get the money from? You people should stop supporting wickedness.

it’s seriously funny how they ignore all that

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AreaFada2:

Quite amazing how some women still have a sense of entitlement in 2020. If this continues the respect and equality many women want will keep eluding them. Not that spoiling a partner is a bad thing. but tt shouldn't be the yardstick when dating.

@ OP how well do you even know his economic situation? Has he shown you his payslip and bank balance? Lots of guys are not nearly as buoyant as they look outside.
Yes
Had he sent you just 100k for your birthday, you'd ignore his immature approach towards the future.

I'd have been impressed by your decision it wasn't based on birthday stuff. Misplace priority.

Move on. He will find his true bearing and then settle down with the woman he truly loves.

May you also find find a guy who's ambitious enough in your estimation and gives you money as you desire.

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joyandfaith:



you have been wasting your time. the man does not need you. I think you have been forcing yourself on him. do not be a fool in love.

I doubt , I don’t force myself on people.

frozen70:


For the fact that he can't take care of you, he will keep suspecting you and keep expecting you to be loyal and faithful until he leaves you for another

Just drop him without much notice about it and move on

facts. Noted

greatseed:
Your impatience might make you regret the manner & excuse for breaking up with him.

If you had said you caught him cheating, it is more tenable. Anyway time will tell

why do u think he isn’t cheating .

STENON:
You have done the best thing. Break up, pay your Bills, Focus more on your life, Have a good savings, I mean save enough money.

Take yourself out for birthday shopping, enjoy and live a happy life. Surely, a good man will locate you soon.

amen .

Chris2863:
I'm not surprised reading this trash because this is Yoruba babes for you, very shameful zeds always depending on boys even for pad... Aunty go get life please

u didn’t read my write up

ume1000:
why must you decide who he associate with
Only control freaks posses such attributes

Maybe one day you would say you don't like his brother

I never decided, I only stated I didn’t like that his particular friend , for many good reasons. They r still friends till now .