Wise singles focus on marrying RIGHT. Foolish ones focus on marrying FIRST. What is the use of being the first to marry when the person you marry is wrong? Pray that God helps you escape the wrong person Satan has prepared for you. Marry right, not fast. In marriage, accuracy is better than speed. Accurately marrying the preferable person, even if it takes time, is better than speedily marrying the available person. A slow car going in the right direction, is better than a fast car going in the wrong direction.

saphiere:
I really needed to read something like this. Thank you sir.

God knows what is best for us. May He give to us what we deserve and not what we desire IJN.

Saviolamemphix:
Future is transgendered lmfao

PrimadonnaO:
Sometimes the comparison is just unnecessary.

There's a way people tend to tout this advice that makes it misleading, as though marrying late automatically means marrying right. And that's entirely untrue.

Simply tell people to maintain a healthy relationship, pray, and do their due diligence before getting married.

First could also be right...
Taking your time could also be right..


It's the intentionality one approaches it with , and the grace of God that makes the difference.

saphiere:
Meaning?

BabbanBura:


Go and marry "...female".

You no get shame to even be dreaming of marrying a man!!!

BabbanBura:


Thanks my dear, I tend to see it that many last actually comes after alot of pressure on the lady from family, frienda, and society at large, sometimes even from within the lady due to worries of advancing in age, this therefore causes some sorts of desperation that often blinds sound judgement leading to marrying who ordinarily she wouldn't have.

The advantage of marrying last actually [b]can be the experience that the lady has, she therefore is prone to appreciate life and being with a man, [/b]so the marriage is likely to survive early challenges that a young inexperienced lady who thinks everythinf is about her, may not be able to successfully overcome. Those girls feel the easy out of any little challenges in marriage is divorce simply because they could get someone else to remarry

PrimadonnaO:


Very well said.

I'm all for intentionality. If a person knows that they intend to get married, then they might as well set S.M.A.R.T goals around it.
This would ensure better results and fulfilment all the way from the relationship to the marriage itself.

Carchoice:
she will do the proposing and paying of grooms price.

BabbanBura:


Go and marry "...female".

You no get shame to even be dreaming of marrying a man!!!

saphiere:
I'm so busy to be dreaming of a man. If it's God's will I get married I'd definitely get married. If it's not His will, I'm cool with that.

Some of you think if a lady isn't married she's not useful in/to the society.
This is 21st century. Change the way you think.

Luak:
I think marriage is a commandment from God for our good

Duplexxx:
Wetin you dey talk make no sense

saphiere:
Depending on the angle you are viewing it.

Duplexxx:
Na human eyes i take view am

saphiere:
It's not a do or die. How many God's prophets and apostles were married?

SimplyFacts:
Marriage is like an abiku, o maa n so oloogun di eke ni 'gbami. And, it does not respect the language of motivational speakers or role models. It's a dark market, where you may need to just close eyes if you can't afford going blind completely.


Marry Right,,,,Marry First,,,, all na twist of tongues. It takes only a grace. Na Reno know where shoe dey pain am too. God knows I can't take some of my Pastors' wives in even if they are laced with money

PrimadonnaO:
Sometimes the comparison is just unnecessary.

There's a way people tend to tout this advice that makes it misleading, as though marrying late automatically means marrying right. And that's entirely untrue.

Simply tell people to maintain a healthy relationship, pray, and do their due diligence before getting married.

First could also be right...
Taking your time could also be right...


It's the intentionality one approaches it with , and the grace of God that makes the difference.

Kebbiprince:

First time you've ever made sense to me oo, no insult intended

SimplyFacts:


You're stupidly right

PrimadonnaO:
Sometimes the comparison is just unnecessary.

There's a way people tend to tout this advice that makes it misleading, as though marrying late automatically means marrying right. And that's entirely untrue.

Simply tell people to maintain a healthy relationship, pray, and do their due diligence before getting married.

First could also be right...
Taking your time could also be right...


It's the intentionality one approaches it with , and the grace of God that makes the difference.

PrimadonnaO:
Sometimes the comparison is just unnecessary.

There's a way people tend to tout this advice that makes it misleading, as though marrying late automatically means marrying right. And that's entirely untrue.

Simply tell people to maintain a healthy relationship, pray, and do their due diligence before getting married.

First could also be right...
Taking your time could also be right...


It's the intentionality one approaches it with , and the grace of God that makes the difference.