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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Vaiki(m): 6:48am On May 12, 2021 |
Fedrick100:Nna na you Sabi that one o! My sexual energy is too valuable to dash out to every lady...I guess that's why I'm hot around the ladies because they wanna know what makes me special. 2 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jack005(m): 7:32am On May 12, 2021 |
Vaiki:Rubbish statement from either an impotent man, a gay dude or a woman wrapper. 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by molybdenum0012: 8:05am On May 12, 2021 |
Jack005: You are only smart by half. So whose fault.. The lady. If the guy had done his home work well, this would not have happened in the first place. Don't blame the lady, na the guy fumbled. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jeon(f): 8:08am On May 12, 2021 |
Lollittaa: My candy bar. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jeon(f): 8:09am On May 12, 2021 |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jeon(f): 8:09am On May 12, 2021 |
Lollittaa: Please don't leave me. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by laiza(m): 8:09am On May 12, 2021 |
Hanty let me be completely honest with you. Your besty may be the best thing that ever happened to you and probably the best man you have come across but the truth of the matter is he wants to bleep you and continue bleeping you. Don't fret yet, he's been there for 6 years, throughout all the good and bad and saw you cry and heartbroken and happy....he actually loves you but he just don't want a relationship, he already has that but he doesn't want to be on the sidelines anymore if you get what I mean. If you see yourself having sex with him and the relationship will still be rock solid then you probably want him more than you think. And please don't say it never crossed your mind, cos that' absolute crap. In all fairness he should be the one you should be having this weird conversation with and why you want to or don't want to have sex with him. You guys obviously know each other more than we could ever imagine but you don't want to give him the cookie because you know after the cookie you would either cheat on him or it won't last. I understand how you feel, he probably does too but e be like say na you de overthink am oh. Dude might not care about you having multiple partners and shit, na wetin una two have to talk about be that but no doubt a guy that can stay with you for 6 years is definitely in love with you. There are two ways to go about it....send him a message that if it's sex he wants you can get him one or two girls who will bleep him on a regular, and you gotta be sure about this cos once you offer it you can't go back and be prepared for him to say no, you still have to offer them shaa and no jealousy. Secondly, tell him if you guys go down this road would he mind if you have a new bestie? How he responds will definitely tell you what to do. But if I would advice shaa I believe dude deserve that cookie even if na one night stand but on a more serious note you guys belonged together unless for some weird supernatural stupid reason you don't want to believe you guys can have love and friendship together. Na you come sabi wetin you go do next oh. Shalom!!! |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by cayorday89(m): 8:10am On May 12, 2021 |
Jack005:LOL, she seems confused herself. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by BigBizzy(m): 8:18am On May 12, 2021 |
Bestie kill una there 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by DavidEsq(m): 9:09am On May 12, 2021 |
paulolee: 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by larryking540: 9:28am On May 12, 2021 |
Carchoice:some people keep saying let's be friends before starting a relationship ,I just laugh at them ,who is a high school kid here ,,,most ladies will say let's be friends then with time ,my guy I just pity you ,by the time she brings story of how she just came from a guys hux or spend the night over ,then u will ask yourself why punish ur emotions ... and the last time I checked getting into a relationship or even marriage with a bestie doesn't grantee a successful marriage |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by KingZaddy(m): 9:53am On May 12, 2021 |
Ginaz:Gina, I personally created a post on my blog for you, with the solution to your problem https://godhow.blog spot.com/2021/05/my-best-friend-is-in-love-with-me-solved.html Just close the space between blog and spot |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by CheedyJ(m): 10:15am On May 12, 2021 |
Never date out of pity, it wouldn’t end well 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Masturbator2020: 10:24am On May 12, 2021 |
Ginaz:You already know you can't, so what do you want nairalanders to do for you? |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 10:29am On May 12, 2021 |
Masturbator2020:I don’t want to lose him as a friend . |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Masturbator2020: 10:35am On May 12, 2021 |
Ginaz:Well,I think giving him a chance won't be a bad ideal..Dating Someone you already know is far better than dating someone you barely know..If were you I would give it a try..He's got good personality like you rightly said,what else do you want? |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 11:16am On May 12, 2021 |
Ginaz:Let him go then. He will be hurt for sure BUT he will get over it with time and then, he will never ask again. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 11:35am On May 12, 2021 |
I888: roll eyes |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 11:36am On May 12, 2021 |
Ginaz: |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Skullano(m): 11:38am On May 12, 2021 |
You know him for six years now and you don't know your way around him.. Una two dey joke abeg. 3 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 11:43am On May 12, 2021 |
Skullano:Bros, leave that girl. she knows what she is doing and wants him exactly where she has him. Women are not as confused we sometimes assume. They are often intentional about their missions in any man's life. 6 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 11:55am On May 12, 2021 |
I888: Your obsession with me is crazy. Leave me the hell alone! What can’t you understand? Should I put a gun to your head before you leave me alone ? All the comments of yesterday no reach you? You don start today for comment wey no concern you. Leave me alone o and stop bothering my life or anything that has to do with it . |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Vaiki(m): 12:01pm On May 12, 2021 |
Jack005:Rapist spotted!! I had my first real girlfriend at 14 please do the maths. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 12:20pm On May 12, 2021 |
Ginaz: |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 12:22pm On May 12, 2021 |
Ginaz:Why would I be obsessed with a two face cunning person? For the life of me, the day you broke shame was the day I didn't want to have anything to do with you lol. You drew a line, you overstretch your luck the day you did that. And like you already know, I will never forget those words. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 12:25pm On May 12, 2021 |
I888: Carry your fake concern somewhere else cos I don’t need it . And quit being a stalker and bothering my life. I’ve kept silent cos I like peace more than anything but it seems your head is blocked or shallow you don’t want to leave me alone . Stop calling or texting , I don’t need it and I don’t care ,mind your business and stay away. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 12:28pm On May 12, 2021 |
I888: Kindly leave me alone. Biko. Why is it hard for you to do that ? Leave me alone and stop stalking my life . |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 12:31pm On May 12, 2021 |
Ginaz:next time, don't come online to talk to me rudely. In reality you can't try that to my face. What is my business with how you wish to live your life? I can only advise like everyone does on nairaland. I called cos I do not keep malice lol but you should be bold enough to tell this forum that you broke shame someone that you are no where near financially.... Be bold enough girl... I mean run your hands like you love to do. I intentionally ignored you on here but you chose to want to be arrogant... i MEAN be bold to tell this forum what you once said to me... 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 12:35pm On May 12, 2021 |
Ginaz:who quoted me and tried to be rude on here? no one else but you! even though I ignored you and tried to be cool. And now you are hypocritically shouting "leave me alone" when you were the one that quoted with rudeness... Your problem is, you always think gentility is a weakness... You think some people being tolerant is a sign of weakness and when the person you tried to bully stand up against you, you start crying. Na who no know you go take you serious. |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 12:35pm On May 12, 2021 |
I888: roll eyes Obsession is real |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 12:37pm On May 12, 2021 |
Ginaz:lol.. fly! |
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 12:39pm On May 12, 2021 |
I888: Obsession is real, you need to see a doctor. Your comments of yesterday were not enough right? Your texts were not enough for you right ? This morning you continued and jumped on a quote that you were not called to say I know what I am doing. If you’re not obsessed, then I don’t know what you are doing which doesn’t make sense . Keep your advise to yourself , I don’t need it . My bestie is more important to me right now , I don’t have time for dramatic obsession. Leave me alone and stay away from my thread. |
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