ottiz:
I am not sure how you misconstrued what I wrote. Or why you are sorry.

My children know my sacrifices for them. They know they will not be where they are today without me. They also know that I will cherish a simple plaque showcasing their appreciation to me more than any money, when that time comes.

You can't put a price tag on the sacrifices real men make for their children to become good global citizens.

If my father was alive today, it will be the same way. It'll be much easier to give my mother money than to my father, even though I cherished him more. It'll be an insult to him, since he was already comfortable.

Again, men should not put themselves in a position where they will incessantly require money from their children for survival. It is just not natural. With women, it comes natural.

it becomes natural fr sure when you stop promoting gender equality apart from that you will continue wailing and feeling sad for your fate

because moters spend more time with the children and most of them use those bonding time to lie their children manipulatively to draw thenm to their sides than their fathers.
it is only when most children grow up and start having their own children that they realize the sacrifices their fathers were making in the background while their mothers took all the glory
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this picture below sums up how it normally is

Bola146:


Exactly narrative of your mother

e pain am

gaftsoil:

Bro, I want to tell you something, why Africa is going back is because everyone wants his child to be lawyer, doctor , engineer. As a father, train your child towards his passion. Everyone must not be a lawyer or engineer. What if my dad sent me to a football academy and allow me and my destiny to decide my fate. I'm happy now because he realised it lately that he should have supported me. I own 3 shops now and doing well and I'm planning to go into sports fully, maybe become a football analyst.
You can't cheat destiny.

maybe you dnt know that world celebrated Kante is an accountant too, he became accountant even before he was known all over the world as footballer, you should blame urself for not going to sch and not ur dad,

as it's today in poor country like naija, every right thinking dad would want his child to go to sch. why? it's still much more easier to be successful through education than football, you ask urself, how many of Nigerian oringin, home grown o, that desired to be footballer during their teenage years that are successful later in life as footballers? I can bet it with 1 of 500.

Fiscus105:


maybe you dnt know that world celebrated Kante is an accountant too, he became accountant even before he was known all over the world as footballer, you should blame urself for not going to sch and not ur dad,

as it's today in poor country like naija, every right thinking dad would want his child to go to sch. why? it's still much more easier to be successful through education than football, you ask urself, how many of Nigerian oringin, home grown o, that desired to be footballer during their teenage years that are successful later in life as footballers? I can bet it with 1 of 500.

I graduated as a civil engineer after one extra year with 2.2 . I never said I didn't go to school. I would have still went to school if I started my football career to fulfill all righteousness. What I'm saying is that, I have passion for football and want to live life and make money through sports related stuffs. I didn't have a love for civil engineering that he pushed me into. If I was sent to football academy, I would have had more chances in life because I will still be a graduate but not as a civil engineer he wished. I'm advising u to always know ur child's passion and follow it up. When he start making money, he can get a certificate anywhere. Just an advice

gaftsoil:

I graduated as a civil engineer after one extra year with 2.2 . I never said I didn't go to school. I would have still went to school if I started my football career to fulfill all righteousness. What I'm saying is that, I have passion for football and want to live life and make money through sports related stuffs. I didn't have a love for civil engineering that he pushed me into. If I was sent to football academy, I would have had more chances in life because I will still be a graduate but not as a civil engineer he wished. I'm advising u to always know ur child's passion and follow it up. When he start making money, he can get a certificate anywhere. Just an advice

in another way round, you could as well not going to school then, went for football and came out with nothing, by now to go forward will be difficult abd to go back to school will also be a daunting task as well.

for you to have civil engineering certificate is good, you can get good job any moment and leave a normally life, ur dad gave you the best as good father, it's only that thing not go as expected.

Bola146:


Exactly has your useless siblings and father too Do you even know your father

Is not your fault, I blame it on your irresponsible parents who can't handle their home peacefully. Irresponsible parents giving birth to an irresponsible daughter. May God have mercy on them & help your frustrated life. You need prayers!

Fiscus105:



in another way round, you could as well not going to school then, went for football and came out with nothing, by now to go forward will be difficult abd to go back to school will also be a daunting task as well.

for you to have civil engineering certificate is good, you can get good job any moment and leave a normally life, ur dad gave you the best as good father, it's only that thing not go as expected.

Do you know what it feels like making good life from what you're passionate about?

gaftsoil:

Do you know what it feels like making good life from what you're passionate about?

Do you know as well that what one likes and have passion for might not bring success for him, infact it may destroy him?

Bola146:
It's natural, some men are just useless maybe by curse or behavior. If I give my mother #30 million, I'll give my father #1million

Quote me and I'll give you your sincere answers

You tried sef.

if I give my mother 30million, my Dad will get 30k.

That's what it is period.

lakefist:


God bless you for this.

Amen.

Happy Sunday to you.

Swinger60:
You tried sef.

if I give my mother 30million, my Dad will get 30k.

That's what it is period.

Please forgive him

ceeceeco:
Is not your fault, I blame it on your irresponsible parents who can't handle their home peacefully. Irresponsible parents giving birth to an irresponsible daughter. May God have mercy on them & help your frustrated life. You need prayers!

E shock am please go for Deliverance before it's too late

streetsoldier1:

perhaps you were raised by a bad mother who didnt make you see your dad's sacrifice or your dad is just naturally useless, not all men are useless and not all women are wicked like your mum

Mum Ade and co, please let me answer this mumi slowpoke please .

I guess you are raised by prostitutes called your mum and dad Useless kid

alabo1:


I don't know about your experience. My dad is my role model in life and I am closer to him than my mum. I have tried to emulate him and can say today my kids are closer to me than their mum. I spend all the time I can with them

God bless you with this comment, not the once that drank ogogoro and smoked Igbo before commenting

IYANGBALI:
oniranu, olosi, were, asewo, odoko

Lalasticlala. Please kindly block this animal from me please, thanks

Fiscus105:



Do you know as well that what one likes and have passion for might not bring success for him, infact it may destroy him?

Once it's not a bad thing, it can never destroy you bro.

gaftsoil:

Once it's not a bad thing, it can never destroy you bro.

car is a good thing and it may destroy person, going abroad it's good it may lead to problem, marry is good it can lead to downfall, doing certain profession may be good and lead to problem as well.

Bola146:


Lalasticlala. Please kindly block this animal from me please, thanks

see my babe, you fine reach am? You clean reach am? You get money reach am? Your ringtones loud reach her own? Take your time and know your mate from today

Kriss216:

Ishi adighi ya mma. o wu onye nzuzu.

Why u think say mumu no like part 2?

Bola146:


E shock am please go for Deliverance before it's too late

Keep deceiving yourself.

tonididdy:

The post meant "children" not adults, you are certainly not a kid any longer lol.

@OP it's simple, children spend more time with their mother from being a foetus (listening and hearing her familiar voice everytime) to 3years or more.
Children will be closely bonded to the person who spends most of their time around them, whether teacher, aunty, uncle or who ever.

My 2 months old baby will hardly or never smile around me but the mom everyday keeps sending me WhatsApp pics of her smiling on every camera shot.

I am still the child of my parents as you are of yours.

RealAlubarika:


You've said it all,it depends the role father played in your life I for one love them both, cause of the sacrifices they made towards us their kids. Though Dad passed on Friday 7th of May 2021 he is still loved even in death by all his children

Dad your memories is blessed

We rise by lifting others

Sorry for your loss. May his soul rest in peace.

Hathor5:


I am still the child of my parents as you are of yours.

Whatever u win

Fiscus105:



car is a good thing and it may destroy person, going abroad it's good it may lead to problem, marry is good it can lead to downfall, doing certain profession may be good and lead to problem as well.

In that case, Evey profession leads to destruction. Bro it's better making money with what you love doing. Take it or leave it

tonididdy:

Are you speaking as a kid or an adult?

Speaking as what ur Brain tells u

hslbroker2:
They are more closer to their mother while the man is outside hustling for the home, and at the end the kids don't know the effort of the man.

A lot of women do the same thing ,they work long hours like their men then go home and create time to bond with their kids .

Hathor5:


Sorry for your loss. May his soul rest in peace.

Amen

HITsquad:
I personally think this might be a natural instinct... It's not just in humans, in every Animal babies tend to stay closer to their mothers.

It was initially because of breastfeeding... And feeding.. Protection. Nature wired our brain to stay closer to our mothers to get all the nutrients and care we need as mammal.

But we are evolving... fathers are finally catching up and breaking the instinct.

No, though there is some truth to a hierarchy of need. In actual fact if made to choose, a child will attach themselves securely to the affectionate caregiver without food over a non affectionate caregiver with food.

Amarisco:


No, though there is some truth to a hierarchy of need. In actual fact if made to choose, a child will attach themselves securely to the affectionate caregiver without food over a non affectionate caregiver with food.

what are you? A scientist? Or just a nerd? Nice one!

HITsquad:
what are you? A scientist? Or just a nerd? Nice one!

The former

Amarisco:


The former

lol cool