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Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:33pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend. He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic. The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it. We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks 27 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by othermen: 10:36pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Did he add his transport fare to and fro? 823 Likes 54 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by thorpido(m): 10:37pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
There's no need to be diplomatic with someone like this.Tell him in capital letters. 94 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:38pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
thorpido:We are exhausted, he won't just go,he's somehow annoyingly very smart.My friend just don't want to appear as been materialistic 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:39pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
othermen:He came with his ride 34 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by NaijaBoy213(m): 10:41pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Quarrel with your friend in his presence, call her names and also tell her to go and treat dat sickness that's eating her up slowly, tell her to stop spreading it from Peter to Paul. 151 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
NaijaBoy213:He knows my friend is very reserved, he will quickly grab that we planned it.Can you imagine he's hinting on proposal, I mean who marries a hardcore stingy man 53 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:46pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
I just want to pick from various suggestions and hopefully some will work out 6 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Oviebright: 10:46pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Is this fictional or real? Even a broke guy won’t collect money back from an ordinary female friend he assisted to buy pads and other few stuffs for. Not to even mention girl wey u Dey call ur gf or girl wey u Dey date. Omo where una Dey see this guys from self? 198 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:47pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
marveangel:Not as easy because some family and friends are aware of the relationship 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Kondomatic(m): 10:49pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
You're not financially responsible if young women do not think you're stingy. Kondomatic 1985 518 Likes 40 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:49pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Oviebright:I've never seen his type,my friend is a soft person because if I'm the one I'll tell him to go away direct 6 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Kondomatic:Can you do same 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Worldwise(m): 10:56pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Because the guy is not doing fatherly role as a boyfriend now makes him a hard-core stingy.. By the way, let her tell him point blank... you are too stingy, you can't marry him.. it ✂️if off 106 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Skullano(m): 10:58pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
What has your friend ever gotten for this said stingy boyfriend?. 244 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Remijuice: 11:03pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
No need to end anything officially since you're not married. Start another relationship with another guy. Give other guys a chance in your life. Your reason should be that he is not caring and romantic. Since he's not taking care of your financial needs find another Maga.. 47 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Lilpen3758: 11:11pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
othermen:which means dey guy fit no stingy dey way she dey talk sef..... 124 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by slimman007: 11:14pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Rozcol: Leech and entitled lady spotted here.Why do most Nigerian ladies have this terrible mindset most the guy provide for you when he is not official married to you answer me,can't you provide for your needs while in relationship.Look here young lady that guy is not your father neither your benefactor so leave him alone and walk away.To me you are a liability to him and you have nothing to offer him expect your pucci which he can get anywhere so what makes your own special.If I may ask you ever since you have been with him what meaningful impact have you added into his life rather than to demand which is the emblem of an average Nigerian lady 308 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by slimman007: 11:25pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Rozcol: Please go and work.That guy is not your father neither your financial so leave him alone.it people like you that won't contribute anything in your matrimonial home even common maggi and salt you won't contribute rather you will be waiting for the man to come back from work before you can buy salt at home.Shame on all stingy ladies and please guys take note this is one of them 206 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Zhunnurayn(m): 12:00am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:First of all, Op tell us the truth,it is your relationship not your friends own..then I will plot a perfect excuse for you 48 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by LikeAking: 12:17am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Just dump the evil man. Tell him its over. Make him cry small. Stop giving him ur biscuit, he will finish it o. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by chatinent: 12:19am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: She is. 64 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Vulcanheph(m): 5:09am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Op If it's not your relationship , then mind your business... 44 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Kondomatic(m): 5:35am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:Or may be worse but then my way is not the standard for all. Giving is a gift, there are so many Nairalanders that are dirty rich but they don't give but I have seen someone receive money during a give away here and gave someone who wasn't so lucky something from the little he got. If it's not in you, forget it. Now back to the OP, if my imaginary girlfriend calls me on phone and asks me to help her buy some stuffs, I will ask her for the money even before buying the stuffs. The things that could make me buy the them first before/without collecting money are if we agreed on "pay on delivery" or maybe the level of the relationship or the way she's been spending on me. I give when I want to give not when I am indirectly compelled to give. Do you know that there's a difference between "Babe, I need these things but I am tall on cash please can you get them for me" and "Babe please help me get these stuffs" The first needs my favor, the later is sending me on errand. You send me, you pay. Besides the OP is one hell of a crafty lady. She said that she(her friend) asked him to buy her stuffs and pad. Why did she name pad and left the others? Simple, to get you all on her side. So if your lady asks you to buy her stuff(iPhone 12, Lexus RX 350, MacBook and Gucci wears) and pad you will not collect the money because you wan prove say you be man? 348 Likes 36 Shares
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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Kondomatic(m): 5:39am On Jun 12, 2021 |
LikeAking:She's also collecting sugarcane 144 Likes 7 Shares
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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by mosdii(m): 7:24am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them 124 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Kobicove(m): 7:26am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Where did Nigerians get this idea that if you ask someone to help you make some purchases then the person is not entitled to ask for a refund? The earlier you free the guy the better for him, he does not need an entitled lady around him 120 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by bepositive11: 7:38am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic: That guy is extreme though. How can he ask his gf to pay him back a few thousands? What will he do if they should get married? Ask her to pay for everything he buys for her? That's madness Stingy and financially responsible are 2 different things 34 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Wizywiz(m): 7:43am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Most Naija ladies Always demanding...you don't give they term you broke... uncaring..stingy.. unromantic every every they can think of...must dey collect money from me 30 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by bepositive11: 7:44am On Jun 12, 2021 |
slimman007: He's dating with the intention of marrying her so he has to show how he would be as a husband. What he did was very cheap. I'm sure if a woman did that to you, you would feel that she's cheap too. Just a few thousands and he's even well off 27 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Dncl2021: 7:50am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Rozcol how was your exams? Good luck ooo. You must pass by fire by force o. From my experience with aaccountans, they don't like wasting money. they are stingy white or black accountants are the same. Your friend's boyfriend could be an accountant. I am not an accountants, but i would have done the same. Naija girls have this self entitlement that the guy must provide everything etc. This is 2021 50/50 policy take it or leave it. Tell your mate to be blunt and walkway. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
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