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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AutoChick4U(f): 10:29am On Jun 12, 2021 |
slimman007:Don't be stupid! If he can't let go of a few thousand now you think he'd when married? Abeg he's not a husband material 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Farki: 10:29am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Your friend is already materialistic. Honestly I'm sick of Nigerian women's entitlement mentality. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by naijapikin2(m): 10:30am On Jun 12, 2021 |
She should use the same style that she used to break up with the last boyfriend,. Rubbish! 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 10:30am On Jun 12, 2021 |
God Almighty Continue To Bless That Guy for me 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Ecstacys(m): 10:30am On Jun 12, 2021 |
stingy boyfriend is very bad but are u are rich girl if No don't complain cos life hard now |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Born2winnx: 10:30am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Oviebright:your a simp 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ThatIgedeBoy: 10:30am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic:You have spoken the minds of many 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Sholaco: 10:31am On Jun 12, 2021 |
OP learn to spell the word 'excuses' not escuses 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by amazingspiderma: 10:32am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Tell that lady to go and get a job. You are not his wife, so you are not yet his responsibility. You are the one with the private part, you are the one to buy the pad. So you want to assign your monthly menstrual cycle hygiene duties to him. To you and the person posting this online, how much is the pad in question that you can't afford. There is something call prudence. Not everyone from a wealthy home was brought up to impress people. Some people are prudent. And prudence is a virtue. Any girl can buy her pad without announcing it. That's is a fact. 10 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Ecstacys(m): 10:32am On Jun 12, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:go buy d material wey go fit well for husband 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:32am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Since he is already hinting on a proposal, it’s best your friend opens up to him. COMMUNICATION is a very important factor in every relationship. Me for one if I was a guy, I will not help my GF buy her pads/tampons or basic stuffs and still calculate and ask for a refund from her. These are little things that can be overlooked, even male friends do it without asking for a refund. If your friend is not financially bouyant, it’s best for her to end the relationship so as not to be a financial burden to the guy if he eventually proposes because once they get married, she won’t be getting a dime from such guy. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AutoChick4U(f): 10:32am On Jun 12, 2021 |
ThatIgedeBoy:You lack sense. What's bad in asking ur bf to buy you toiletries on his way to your house? Her pad probably wasn't enough or she was caught unawares. She gave him d money back but you men no even read to comprehend but rush to comment like illiterates. Don't they teach comprehensive English in school again? Fools can't reason outside d box 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AmazingELixir: 10:32am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Op the way I see it ......immediately your so called friend succeeds in dumping him you'll gracefully step in.. Now tell that your friend that I said she should be very careful of you. Some women and entitlement mentality ...did the guy not communicate the terms for helping with the purchase...do you know if the guy had already budgeted the money for something else prior to the request. 6 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Born2winnx: 10:33am On Jun 12, 2021 |
bepositive11:your a simp 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Farki: 10:33am On Jun 12, 2021 |
bepositive11: Women already don't send men, some even see it as an insult for their man to ask them for anything. Women are cheap by default which is why they always threaten men with sex. 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by slimman007: 10:35am On Jun 12, 2021 |
dominique: You can't tell me that the man hasn't been providing for her is just that most Nigerian ladies sees relationship as an avenue to cash out where all her needs must be meet without contributing anything meaningful into the guys life 8 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:35am On Jun 12, 2021 |
amazingspiderma:This has nothing to do with responsibility, when I was in school anytime any of my male course mate come around to visit me in my hostel, I usually request they help me buy a few things because I was too tired to go out. They would and will not collect their money from me, was I their responsibility back then? Some of us pay for our friends Tfare especially when we go out together, does that make them our responsibility? These are some of the red flags in relationships. She didn’t ask for a phone, she didn’t ask for a car, she only asked for a basic thing which as a boyfriend/girlfriend you should be able to help your partners pay for without asking for refunds. For this kind of guy, if they get married he will never spend on her as his wife. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by kachi08(m): 10:35am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic: Please ask her to mention those other things.....because she said and I quote: everything amounted to thousands besides pad is just in hundreds. Lolzzzz 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Farki: 10:36am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: He is simply treating her an an equal who is capable of taking care of herself, just as feminists demanded. 6 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by hustla(m): 10:37am On Jun 12, 2021 |
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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Depressed101: 10:37am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:don't you think he's playing it safe? I mean girls these days are all after money,... And also why do I think the guy is not simping..... Also you don't know if a man is stingy until something serious happens... And also if you've dated him for like a year no single gift then you can conclude he's not the giving type,.. More importantly remove eye from chopping his money, it's his not yours... 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by juwoonn(m): 10:38am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Las las e fit be test. If this banana thing is true, it’s most likely he’s stingy. My advise... try to know how he behaves with friends and relatives... if he’s stingy to them. Pay more attention to the way he talks; does he talk like a stingy person/ is he overly concerned about my money.. I can’t do this or I can’t do that with my money...sey u get?... if yes, it’s a red flag. Like someone advice you above, don’t close the door... just try another relationship...and compare... no go dey open kpekus anyhow o. I wish you and your friend all the best. Rozcol: 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by KORLAR(m): 10:38am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Are you a thief? You asked someone to help you get something and you don’t want to refund. You’re just entitled to money that’s not yours and think you can determine how it’s spent. If you or your friend had a job and source of income, you’d not be peaking and lusting after another person’s money. If you wanted him to dash you, you should request and ask nicely. Not feeling entitled. 6 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 10:38am On Jun 12, 2021 |
marveangel: Don't mind the myopic hypocrite 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by suarezteeth(m): 10:38am On Jun 12, 2021 |
He's still called a good guy here because he's rich... And again, she would have dumped him without struggling. There are guys out there who gives a lot. Leave us alone oh... Why not tell him talk it over with him? Rozcol: |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by heybeebugatty(m): 10:38am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic: Your source of wisdom will not die.. Amen |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Buliwyf: 10:38am On Jun 12, 2021 |
bepositive11: How do you know what the lady calls a "a few thousands"? It might be something even her parents cannot afford to get her yet she is mouthing off. Do you know the financial position of the guy at that time? Because a guy is well off doesn't mean he doesn't have other responsibilities. Lastly, there is no way this lady is not exaggerating. Most times when people tell stories like this, they minimize their own flaws and blow up the supposed flaws of the other party. It's a shame you are jumping to conclusion based on her tale alone. How hard is it to break up with someone if you really want to? 6 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Saintinoo(m): 10:39am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:Your friend is a good defination of a leech... Sorry, but what have your friend ever gotten for him, the gentle guy thinks it is irrational to spend on a girl that feels it is the responsibility of a guy ro spend on his girlfriend. Your friend should rather talk it out with him and expect him to spend on her only when they are married. 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Femeto: 10:39am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Olamide done talk am. Ma lo fe broke Nigga run for your life. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by gbaskiboy: 10:39am On Jun 12, 2021 |
slimman007:If the lady in question is your sister you'll advise her to leave the relationship. Aside affections for each other giving gifts is very important to make a relationship work out 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by skywalker240(m): 10:39am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic:Word's of the Wise ones are word's of life savers 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by oluspicy: 10:40am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Confused homo sapiens. 1 Like |
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