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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by harmony75: 10:40am On Jun 12, 2021 |
My dear if she's not ready to confront the guy no matter what family or anyone says then she's not serious pls let her speak to the guy herself how she's hurt and end the relationship no need of pretending I'm marriage she's still the one to face it! |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Onyekamike(m): 10:40am On Jun 12, 2021 |
If you love him tarry with him |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ShootThemAll(m): 10:40am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Where is the love? You are calling your boyfriend that you "LOVE" stingy. Does True Love exist? Or is it all about the benefits. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Lostchild(m): 10:40am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Sharap ya maut Which stingy boyfriend? do you know if your friend has a bad character? I once dated a girl who call me a very good guy but stingy boyfriend, only me and God knows that her bad characters gave me deep anger that nearly kill me. In anger I nearly drive into a taxi. Many men are currently in their grave because of their wives attitude Nigeria women with their bad characters is what is making me wants to marry a white tiiiii babe Rozcol: 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ayenale1(m): 10:41am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Immediately you ask a Nigeria lady out either she agrees or not, you've started owing her especially emergency 2k, recharge cards, pads, help upon help etc can't they jus work on their own? I taught one a lesson...she ask for 1k card for sub i said OK...i sent her used recharge card...she called and called till she saw the signs that she never disturb again...Nigeria ladies go and work...nonsense... If your friend was sincere to pay for buying those stuff, she wouldn't have waited for the guy to calculate everything she sent him before giving him his money...her approach to me has a big question mark...there's different between please buy me this buy me that when u come ill pay or please dear i need this i need that I'll appreciate it if u can get it for me...if my wife tells me to get something for her and she mentioned it that she will pay me back why i no go collect my money... 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:41am On Jun 12, 2021 |
kachi08:Pad is now going to 600 naira, for me as a lady I buy a few toiletries like Toilet rolls and antiseptics during my period, so those ones alone are above 1k5 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by heybeebugatty(m): 10:42am On Jun 12, 2021 |
skywalker240: Yes oooooo 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Teddyaiyez(m): 10:42am On Jun 12, 2021 |
He is good In what aspect ? How is he good when he is not caring and generous to his girlfriend. Abi na bed u dy say he for good. Dump his selfish ass at once |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Simplythebest: 10:42am On Jun 12, 2021 |
My sister this ur story. If u are tired of the relationship go ahead and tell him that u don't want again cus he doesn't spend his money anyhow on u. And also pls go and hustle he is just ur boyfriend not ur husband why do u want to see him as a maga. Better go and hustle. I wish i could have that kind of heart the guy has cus some women don't deserve to taking care of them. I need to have strong heart on them. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Depressed101: 10:44am On Jun 12, 2021 |
bepositive11:mumu idea, behave like. Husband when you are not a husband? Get sense for once 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Buzx: 10:44am On Jun 12, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: You really believe that the girl cannot walk up to the shop next to her house and buy pad for herself and her boyfriend has to do it? The OP didn't mention the rest of the things he brought and only mentioned pad just to make the guy look bad. If it was the guy that asks her to buy card or something else on her way, I'm sure she'll collect the money back. My is my money. Your money is our money; most naija girls way of thinking. This story is even fake AF, coming from this particular OP. 6 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by bigx(m): 10:44am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Let her get a job. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by mikkyjay(m): 10:45am On Jun 12, 2021 |
MrPaul2: What nonsense! Is she the one that loves him? Let op tell us what she has ever bought for him throughout their dating, we are waiting. See how she was quick to say a few thousand, but only mentioned pad, which is less than 1 thousand. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by slimman007: 10:45am On Jun 12, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: Madam people like you will be liability to your man in marriage.l know you won't add any value in your marriage always waiting for the man to provide even salt and maggi 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:45am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:This is really extreme then, it’s best your friend talks to him. If he still continues like that, then breaking up the relationship would be the best option because if they get married, no matter how rich she might be, she will suffer financially |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by omoadeleye(m): 10:46am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: If you know what's good for your, she should stick with the guy till eternity. He is her boyfriend and not her father okay? You can't be in a relationship and expect to be getting paid just for being as someone's girlfriend. Go get a job for that. 9 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by adonis89(m): 10:46am On Jun 12, 2021 |
NaijaBoy213:chai! Guy i don't laf taya. Hu born u? |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ClearAll: 10:46am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Make una gettat 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Styluss: 10:46am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty:you skipped the most vital part... She should buy him gifts too... And wait for the magic ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ThatIgedeBoy: 10:46am On Jun 12, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:You are obviously one of the parasitic women in our society.... You already arranging the story for OP "probably kee you dia" The average Nigerian woman can't pay her transport, can't buy pad.... And how stewpeed can you people be to ve surprised at a period you see everymonth.... Was she expecting she will be pregnant...... There is nothing wrong with a woman who is getting ready for marriage being unable to buy herself pad abi ![]() That guy better run from you and your type.... Serious liability... Worse thing from experience its you parasitic poor ones that brag the most... Brag about things you can't afford. Looking for men to make your dreams come true 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 10:47am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic: Why would my boyfriend ask me to help him get shaving creams, sticks and a few things and I will still collect refund from him? Ahn ahn, it’s a relationship for God’s sake 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ogascomax: 10:48am On Jun 12, 2021 |
slimman007: Am a guy and I won't accept that. A man should be able to show is capacity of handling a family from a relationship especially to a woman that you have began to be seeing as someone that you want to marry. I am not saying be wasteful here. Even if she is working you may not be giving her money but buy gift for her, clothes, shoe etc. At least once a while. Do little things for her that is spending little. A girlfriend of mine then told me, I like receiving money even if it is 100 naira just give me. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by clockwisereport: 10:48am On Jun 12, 2021 |
mosdii: Mosdii is back with the gospel 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AuroraBrls: 10:48am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol you need to find a subtle way to tell your friend that she is unequally yoked with that his boyfriend, they have no business being in a relationship. Their upbringing, mindset, values and focus does not align. It's more like a drug addict girlfriend trying to date a professional meticulous hard-working accountant. One person will drain the other down soonest. She is like a gaping void itchy badly to be filled, but unfillable. She is a good sample/specimen of about all Nigerian females mindset wise. Men have a natural duty to foot my bills as long as the want or are having my pussycat. Your friend is actually parasitic, lecherous, looking for a man to live off. She needs a rich and stupid sugar daddy not a principled boyfriend. Tell her too that some of her fellow women take care of their men in these trying times till they can bounce back. But someone like her can't hold a brothers back when the 50cent comes asking 21questions. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by ClearAll: 10:49am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Simran94:does her being Financially buoyant And dependent revolve around the guy? Make una gettat jare 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AutoChick4U(f): 10:50am On Jun 12, 2021 |
ThatIgedeBoy:Lolzz. It is what it is. Your sweat will eventually belong to a woman and her kids. Don't fight it, it is what it is |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AutoChick4U(f): 10:51am On Jun 12, 2021 |
slimman007:You sure? |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by goldman777: 10:51am On Jun 12, 2021 |
That your friends boyfriend is wise dont spend on an anonymous girlfriend till you marry her.he doesn't owe her money only a birthday present stop the stupid entitlement mentality.Naija ladies need money get a job or buisness. No boyfriend is your ATM only husbands 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Slurity(m): 10:52am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Diplomacy is the problem of the whole world. Drop that idea of not wanting to hurt him, tell him in plan words the reason behind the incompatible union, is either he change with you or you help the next lady he will date in future. The only way to help yourself and him is to tell him to face 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Blackdisciple(m): 10:52am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Hmmm! Just some few thousands , and she was waiting for him to bring the items to her. See , i was waiting to hear u say something tangible . Tell your gurl to wait for another day . |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by AutoChick4U(f): 10:53am On Jun 12, 2021 |
Simran94:Thank you! Little things like this shouldn't b a big deal. Some frustrated mofos already showcasing their bitterness |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by sun123: 10:53am On Jun 12, 2021 |
mosdii: Mosdii....... The nightmare of Nigerian girls 2 Likes 1 Share |
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