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Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by ImaIma1(f): 6:39am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere: There's always a balance that people like Chimamanda might apply. You can't be married and carrying feminism on your head and in your home. Marriage comes with selflessness, compromise, etc. The single feminist(maybe not all) in Nigeria think being a feminist is about being rude to men or challenging them wherever they go. Feminists that have remained married especially to Nigerian men need a balance. Or they can marry white men who don't place emphasis on respect and honour. Besides, your example, Chimamanda can claim feminism in public, do you know how she is in her home? Does she fight to be the head? Or is she submissive when it applies? 2 Likes |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by bigtt76(f): 6:53am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Do we not have women perpetrating such too? Or is it all men that are criminals? The online feminists generalize and accuse ALL men which is not the case. Only a fraction of men and women are criminals. We should note that and try to educate the other remaining fraction on how to be better people not stigmatized them sapphiere: 1 Like |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by bigtt76(f): 6:54am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Honest truth! ImaIma1: 1 Like |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by Masterkernel1: 7:00am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere: Don't mistake your wickedness for feminism... Chimammanda Adichie. 2 Likes |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by Drella(m): 7:16am On Jun 18, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: Anybody doesn't have to try so hard before female will get recognition.Was there ever a time when men came out that they want better representation,equal playing field,egalitarian laws etc? Nature took it's cause already because they are more capable. Females mostly acting under emotions while men making logical decisions devoid of emotions.....Where will the equality come from naturally? Now what makes you think you have no better representation,equal playing field,egalitarian laws etc?(low self esteem). Will you want to contest for a position and they will tell you not to contest because you are a woman? Even if they know you won't win (because a man can handle the position better),you will still get the equal right to contest and be voted for. If you want to join the music industry as a woman,will they tell you "NO" because it is dominated by men? The women who are side by side with men now,they distinguished themselves as worthy of contending with men.They were not screaming all over the place shouting feminism.They simply developed themselves like men, distinguish themselves to be worthy of the position and they earned it! Even among men,there is no equality,talk more of women. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by Drella(m): 7:20am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Sterope: So without feminism,she won't grow? Y'all should go and deal with your low self esteem first. You are the ones bringing yourselves lower than men and complaining why men are so above you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by avrilwisedata: 7:24am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere:You need to reconfigure ur brain. Those women achieved all they did being women and raising a family of their own with men. Don't be an ignoramus thinking u can create a meaningless movement over nothing. Feeling oppressed because u have a low self esteem is your own fault. Don't project it on men. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by HRMK: 7:27am On Jun 18, 2021 |
hmmm...as long as the man does not meet a lady that does this things better!LADIES,THAT SHULD BE UR PRAYER POINT!GOODLUCK!! |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by afroxyz: 7:29am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere: So who opened the do for Funmi Ransom Kuti (Fela's mum), Margaret Ekpo, Grace Alele Williams, Aba women's riot, Queen Idia, Queen Amina, Amazons of Dahomey and others? Was it feminists? Study history and stop blaming men for your incompetency 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by Sterope(f): 7:31am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Your first sentence is disgenious. The status of prostitutes and prostitution in our society today is largely because of Feminism. The platform she has today, is because of feminism. First, you can't comprehend. Second, you are quoting the wrong person. Which part of my posts inspired your silly assumptions? Drella: |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by jimmychang: 7:43am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere: Is she not a woman like you and I have two friends who were abused by their aunts ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:47am On Jun 18, 2021 |
revolt:If only you knew that those Queens came as a result of no Male heirs and men were forbidden to take another wives you won't say this. It was only recently in 2011 that there were laws put in place to stop discrimination to the throne in the British monarchy.Why name those Queens when you can name a 100 more men. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by Sterope(f): 7:48am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Not people like Chimamanda, more like people with common sense in healthy relationships including friendships. Those principles are not mutually exclusive or mutually exclusive to submission or feminism. They are the bare minimum for a good working and healthy relationship. I don't understand why you are hoping Chimamanda must be doing something different in her marriage. She might or not and I know that nothing about her views or herself is a unicorn. Feminism like every ideology has its good, its bad and its ugly. Part of the good is that it gave you the opportunity to be able to go to school. ImaIma1: 1 Like |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by SenecaTheYonger: 7:50am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere: You got banned didn’t you? Hahahaha. I’m going to mock you till it’s over. You got banned instead of me ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:51am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Susily:I won't waste my time enlightening you if you wanna be enlightened step out of your comfort zone and see things for yourself.It was only a few days ago we saw a woman who was being pressured to drink her husband's corpse,daily we see where girls are being assaulted and raped and you think that rights mean implementation when the average Nigerian doesn't even know their rights and claim that Nigeria is a conservative society with cultures.If you don't see the cultural marginalisation of women then I have no time to waste on you. I did not join nairaland to waste my time convincing on teaching people on feminism this is not a summit or workshop. You can advocate for a ministry of men affairs no feminist is stopping you 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by AmazonTopaz(f): 7:57am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Drella: There is no scientific evidence that men are logical and women emotional.To correct you many things feminist advocate for come from societal construct and not nature.Nature didn't say men are better than women,nature didn't say men should have more powers than women,nature didn't make society patriarchal it was men themselves that did that and made laws and traditions to favour them. There is no evidence that men are more logical there are emotional men and logical women and what exactly do you even know as logic? You don't know what equality is when you try to me that even among men there is no equality,who doesn't even know that. You have a misconstrued meaning.of feminism if you think it is all about what and what not.It seems you don't know that stereotypes and orientation is part of what feminism is trying to change. Maybe I will use the word equity since equality is confusing you 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by perousd: 8:06am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere:The Spits on you. Third wave feminism is only man hating and stupid agenda pushing. And they don't fight for equality but for superiority because where women have been advantageous are never brought up. Feminism has evolved into Bull crap. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by aujile(m): 8:07am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Try and forgive the guy that offended (oppressed) you so that you can have peace of mind. AmazonTopaz: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:12am On Jun 18, 2021 |
aujile:I have peace of mind and no man can dare oppress me just because it hasn't happened to me doesn't mean same is said of other women. Your thinking that women were oppressed or offended by men is reason they become feminist shows you have no idea of what you are talking about 4 Likes |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by pansophist(m): 8:20am On Jun 18, 2021 |
AmazonTopaz: Don't be so sure about that, not only after you've undergo proper psychological diagnosis ![]() Diagnosis number one. Do you believe in the theory of patriarchy? If yes, why? If no, why ? 1 Like |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by godlessmind: 8:23am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere: Infact it shows how dumb many Nigerian women are. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by angelfallz(m): 8:30am On Jun 18, 2021 |
I was wondering when I'd see your comment. ![]() bukatyne: |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by angelfallz(m): 8:46am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Lord have mercy! ![]() ![]() crackhaus: |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by grandlexuz(m): 8:50am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere: As in the moon will fall on the earth. All this unfortunate creatures roaming the earth. You would have been better off a sheep. 1 Like |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by angelfallz(m): 8:55am On Jun 18, 2021 |
God bless you Susily: |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by Psoul(m): 9:10am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere: ...because you Nigerian Assumed Feminists (NAF) don't know what feminism is all about especially you. You people's assumption about feminism means fighting men Showing men that they are useless in your lives while you go home every night crying over the man's vacuum in your lives. Your assumption about feminism is that you should be disrespectful to men to show them u are not afraid of them and when the table turn, you will start crying that he doesn't know that you are a woman and that you need to be pampered. Your feminism means equal right wth men but not equal responsibility. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by Psoul(m): 9:25am On Jun 18, 2021 |
wpadmin: www.nairaland.com/attachments/13719462_a9f837d94b9242d7bdfe38c72c95f19d_jpeg_jpeg22c9f0107ce4c65aa019dc8c9a2014c3 She will totally avoid this. She will pretend as if she did not see it. Ndi Feminist. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by vivaciousvivi(f): 9:26am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere:Please, I am a woman and that is not what feminism is truly about. We don't believe that men need to be disrespected or not tolerated. |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by j0sh001: 9:47am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Rest. |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by josh123(m): 9:48am On Jun 18, 2021 |
SimplyFacts:I swear, she would want to control you |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by j0sh001: 9:49am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere:rest. |
Re: ''Feminists Avoid Me''- Mercy Eke Writes (photo) by NwaliE01: 10:09am On Jun 18, 2021 |
sapphiere:It’s not everything we copy sweetie. Most people that gave you the feminism would not tell you the truth. You can see the resultant of this ugly movement you called it. I pray you understand this before it’s too late. The man is the head of the family and no two captains can sail a ship. Be a woman God has made you to be and don’t make unnecessary comparisons to find equality with another gender. 1 Like 1 Share |
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