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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by bisqit: 11:00am On Jul 29, 2021 |
kmcutez:what happened to submit before complain |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by pius4luv(m): 11:01am On Jul 29, 2021 |
I have learn a good lesson i have to run away from any lady that was raise by a single mom |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:02am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Belafonte: A lack of functional womb will not get pregnant TWICE, an incompetent cervix will have multiple miscarriages as is evident of Op's wife, a simple Google search will enlighten you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by cRobo: 11:02am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Spy360: This one deep |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nobody: 11:02am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Rozcol:mumu 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nobody: 11:03am On Jul 29, 2021 |
ImDStar: My point is not contradictory because in this context, i only used that first point of mine to stress the fact that where two people are acting the boss, the end result is always the OPs predicament and I wasn't trying to place or stress a hierachial order. You guys misconstrued my first point. Thats by the way. Now, when i say we are all equal, I'm simply saying they both have equal rights to respect for each other. That it shouldn't be one sided. The fact that the man is the head doesn't give him the right to abuse the woman and expect to be respected in return just prove a point that he's the captain. What's good for the goose is also good for the gander hence my advice for them to drop the mentality of who the head and treat each other with equal love and respect. I'm not trying to displace the man's position here but simply saying he shouldn't run it in her face but lead by example as the head. Shebi, all of una like wetin Booboo they do us, since na him be the head? Ok. |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by NaBanga: 11:03am On Jul 29, 2021 |
I'm not a fan of civorce, but in this case it seems to be the right step. There are no children involved. At that rate things are going, one day the op could just strike and kill his wife out of frustration. Although the wife is not responsiblefor all his problems, he seems to think so. It's better for him to let her go and preserve her life. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by mechanics(m): 11:04am On Jul 29, 2021 |
For one to follow your advice, men won't marry on time, is all about patience and understanding in a marriage, for a lady to have that mentality that only men will be bringing the money to the house is wrong, maybe that's what she knew when she was growing up, she should know that both couples are meant to assist each other and not the duty of only the husband, and the anger issue, is another thing, if there is understanding amongst couples, that won't arise. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Rubbiish(m): 11:04am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Rozcol:@bold how old are u? So u haven't seen good men ending up with bad women & good women also ending up with bad men maltreating them? 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ibechris2: 11:04am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Pecoleee345: And she was still stubborn with all that. She dey craze. That alone should have humbled her. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Belafonte(m): 11:05am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Fountainofyouth: Okay, she has a functional womb but the cervix lack competence due to abortions of her past life. Why should the OP be forced to bear the brunt of her poor choices? |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by gassbee: 11:05am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:but is it really possible to carry out a medical check dat wil reveal weak womb while dating |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by BamBamK: 11:06am On Jul 29, 2021 |
omo, small quarrel like this and e don blow to big time issue... i knew i was sitting on gun powder... one spark and she fit send me to d great beyond Folorunsho15: |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by kuffy05(m): 11:06am On Jul 29, 2021 |
You be Man bro! It's not Everyman that will stand up and walk away from trouble. These days our singles rely solely on genotype and blood group compatibility forgetting their mental health 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Ibechris2: 11:06am On Jul 29, 2021 |
TarOrfeeek: U better do. Do it before Buhari comes back from London. I feel,u will be doing yourself a great deal if u can do this. |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Roon9(m): 11:08am On Jul 29, 2021 |
When it comes to marriage, due deligence can never be over emphasized. That's how someone I know very well legit married a lady that has had 4 kids.... I swear |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Kingosytex(m): 11:08am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Ishilove: 2 Likes
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Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by kapelvej: 11:09am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:Yes you are right. Love does not answer anything. Character and upbringing is everything. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by kripen(m): 11:09am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Not only the reasons the ops gave but also too much watching of movies and social media exhibitions make these women equate their self with that of men at home. The bible don't lie when it says the man is the head of the house, the bible has seen it all from the beginning to the end that if it give the woman the opportunity of being the head. The man would have been messed up. What's is submission in the context of marriage? Ans. When your ego is nothing/zero |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Mairice125: 11:09am On Jul 29, 2021 |
If you want to get married to a woman , practice celibacy (continence) for minimum of one year.Celibacy is a powerful tool to get to k know the woman you want to marry , without it you can never get the right woman .While being celibate make sure you chase your goals so keenly never loose sight on your goals ,make money and be financial bouyant.When you finally get married make sure you are very good in bed ,I mean very very very good in bed Believe this or not great sex is the only way you can submit yourself and your wife to God .When you chase your goals ,great sex , holding firm to your morals and values that way any woman would surrender and submit are whole being to you .Dm me I will advice you more 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Nobody: 11:10am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Juoflife1:Why shouldnt they be rude, imaging not supporting or adding anything to a man's life, yet you want to have an opinion on things.. I dey laugh. |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by ObaKlaz: 11:10am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Rozcol:They were providers and in charge of their homes by, say 75%. But then came the generation of females like you who want men to remain providers while they whittle down his leadership of his own home yet wanting to remain just 'care-givers' . We are providers & should be the leaders of the home - you will all cry, "Patriarchy! Gender equality!!". OK, let's share responsiblities - " Go & learn from your forefathers! Since y'all new generation females are so confused, wanting to eat your cakes & still have it whole, then maybe y'all need to go learn for your maternal predecessors too. 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:10am On Jul 29, 2021 |
[s] Aksnoopy:[/s] I will not lay a single blame on the wife cos Op singlehandedly painted her as evil and y'all followed suit typical of resident manboys lacking intellect, if Op was a female painting her husband evil, dolts will rant the usual "we dont know the husband's side of the story so let's not judge" typical of males here I pity the woman that's dating or married to you that's if you have a wife. Nigeria today is filled with lots of useless and stvpid men, only a tiny number are reasonable. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Belafonte(m): 11:11am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Flier: Seek professional help 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by TheWolfen(m): 11:11am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Pls don't proceed with any court wedding... Pls quit doubting your inner feelings else you will regret it. Take your time and stand you ground and don't let anyone intimidate you or tell you how to treat your wife you paid her dowry already. You see anyone that is meant to fvck up will eventually do and do make sure you divorce her when you notice any rash moves. The father can come and take his daughter if he so wish wish and marry her himself. Abeg take your time. You can decide on your own will to do court wedding in the next 10,20 or 30 years time after you clear all doubt. Stay safe man . Afodot0022: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by kapelvej: 11:12am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Mogadishuu:You see that area check is the final solution. The area people can always tell you all the koko 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by BigDan69: 11:13am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by wizdooarchy3(m): 11:14am On Jul 29, 2021 |
i have read all this your story but finding difficult to get the ACTUAL point that make u take your decision. i know woman has issues atimes with up bringing BUT we men has the major problem such as; enjoying sunday sunday rice (sex) but gets tired when licence is give (at will), during dating/ courtship u will be tolerating all bulshit in the name of baby but after changing the name to wife u will start saying I cant take this. pls your advice for young guys is a reflection of your mental fatigue . I fill 4 u my broda but go and have a break with full dose of sleep and see if your advice will not be edited. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by ImaIma1(f): 11:15am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Mogadishuu: It's not the olden days o. My brother went to my husband's side to find out about the family and did all the checks before we got married. It's still done till now if the proper process for marriage is followed. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by cococandy(f): 11:15am On Jul 29, 2021 |
TarOrfeeek:but you won’t physically break up with her so that you can still string her along and benefit from the relationship while knowing you don’t care about her or a long term. You can’t see your own toxicity? 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by cRobo: 11:16am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Mutemenot: Invite him He need helps seriously from the shackles of the bleeding hoes |
Re: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by Rubbiish(m): 11:16am On Jul 29, 2021 |
Nancee4love:This is lovely 2 Likes |
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