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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by mastermaestro(m): 6:05pm On Sep 11, 2021
Parizz:
...and chop assorted banana

I didn't add that o. wink wink
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 6:05pm On Sep 11, 2021
mastermaestro:


Very annoying to read. A 25 year old girl wants to continue doing sisi? What exactly has she been doing since she turned 18? This is unbelievable! When most girls are marrying between age 20 and 22, this one doesn't know she is even too old to be in 400l unless of course had had some other kind of education somewhere before.

Rubbish talk! angry

Exactly. Her mind isn't developed. If it was, she would even be the one disturbing the guy for marriage. After 25 she is no longer a hot cake, not even for guys in their 30s.

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by koyyess: 6:07pm On Sep 11, 2021
BabaIbo:



What IF the relationship doesn't survive the time?

She may meet another person during her NYSC program and you know what's up na?

It is either you try and convince her to agree with you doing something on her and after she grads, you guys can certify everything with marriage,
Or
[s]You impregnate her knowingly, which in turn will require you marrying her.

My advices are valid only if you want to marry her and ready to shoulder some of her responsibilities, because as a schooling married woman, her parents go comot hands small for her responsibilities.[/s]
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Angeldemon: 6:11pm On Sep 11, 2021
Even a LovePeddler wont tell you she wants to do "sisi" for 1 year let alone a decent girl.
The fact that she had the audacity to tell you that means she doesnt respect you as a man neither does she take you seriously for marriage.
If she did she will be the one begging you everyday to do quickly and get married to her.
She wants to keep you as the lowest backup plan incase she doesnt get the kind of man she dreams of in those 4 years.
You are doing mumu and loving her thinking of waiting for her.
Everyday we teach redpill here but you guys dont read to learn tricks of women.
That girl will useless your time. Even if she ends up coming back to manage you after 4 years becaus eshe didnt get the type of man she truly wants, it is sure she will cheat on you during your marriage because you werent her first choice and she never had respect for you from the beginning.
at 34 years you are not a young man. B wise for goodness sake.

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Microwhy: 6:13pm On Sep 11, 2021
Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.
Please while you're waiting, if you a good option, please just go with that alternative.

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by emmyN(m): 6:14pm On Sep 11, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
I don’t know why this thread is making me laugh grin grin

Please think hard and furnish us with reasons. I'm waiting...
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by BTTS(f): 6:14pm On Sep 11, 2021
bobowaja:

U re scared?
I am careful
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by folks4luv(f): 6:22pm On Sep 11, 2021
If you marry her now, are you ready to start sponsoring her education? Or you think her family will cont to pay school fees? Bottom line is, she is not ready, if anyone force her into marriage now, you both will regret it.

Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 6:22pm On Sep 11, 2021
Vinnie2000:


If she is cool, fine and respectful generally, Wait..Be patient!

Do not Rush into marriage with any Available young lady because you are 34..
Pple still see Marriage as a Competition!
It's the ability of a Man to bring up a beautiful family and Cater for them, without Stress!

When I see some 29, 30 yrs Guys rushing into Marriage, I just Pity some of Dem!.. sad
no mind them bros dem never see anything dem never know watin marriage be

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Susily(m): 6:27pm On Sep 11, 2021
mastermaestro:


She wants enjoy the life of a single girl. Play games without relationship restrictions. In other words, freedom to run around and mingle.

Oh! Hoe phase
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by JayB11(m): 6:29pm On Sep 11, 2021
Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

Its a tough decision but i believe it is okay to wait.
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by jabojafa(m): 6:33pm On Sep 11, 2021
Op, if you are truly ready, then i can link you up with someone who is ready for marriage as soon as possible. She don finish nysc and she is into business.
Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Nobody: 6:33pm On Sep 11, 2021
It's totally bad there's no way you can tell what she's up to except what she tells you which is a hundred and fifty percent lie....I wish all guys can be like some of us that have that fine tuned bullshit detector
825jobs:


Side needs to drop her ASAP. dating a student as a working guy is usually a bad idea.

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Giltexo: 6:37pm On Sep 11, 2021
Damn why on Earth do I have to wait on a woman that will be seen as a sister in next 2yrs after marriage....damn a man didn't start family @ 30 hang boot before 40..na long jump you won give yourself

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Snitch24(m): 6:38pm On Sep 11, 2021
Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

The beginning of your problem bro
Ur earning below 70k and you still want to settle down with person wey wan do sici
What you need is a better paying job bro
I just hope you're ready for the consiquences of the actions you're about taking

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by bobowaja(m): 6:41pm On Sep 11, 2021
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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Giltexo: 6:42pm On Sep 11, 2021
You no dey even read news here

Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by APCNig: 6:42pm On Sep 11, 2021
Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

Wretched lazy youth wants to get married with 70,000 salary. You want to start breeding like the Northerners and turn your kids to Almajaris. God will not gree.

You are not ready for marriage, your dicck just dey hard, so you dey look for who to fuccck everyday without hinderance.
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Gaddafi1: 6:44pm On Sep 11, 2021
Parizz:
seven years! Fùck! You must be job's brother. If na me eee, within that period, she go done give me tiri pikin.

grin grin grin grin

Age was on my side
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Toks2008(m): 6:58pm On Sep 11, 2021
Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.

She is not sure she wants to spend her life with you. Be guided.

A lady of 25years will run to the alter with a man she truly desires.
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Toks2008(m): 7:00pm On Sep 11, 2021
APCNig:


Wretched lazy youth wants to get married with 70,000 salary. You want to start breeding like the Northerners and turn your kids to Almajaris. God will not gree.

You are not ready for marriage, your dicck just dey hard, so you dey look for who to fuccck everyday without hinderance.

You are not making any sense.

Wealth is progressive and a 70k earner today could earn 700k tomorrow and the fact that you earn 1M a month today does not mean you can't be jobless tomorrow

If the lady is supportive I believe they can build a life together.

Stop reasoning like a toddler.

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Savedday: 7:01pm On Sep 11, 2021
Ah! Wait for a naija girl?

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Toks2008(m): 7:04pm On Sep 11, 2021
Snitch24:


The beginning of your problem bro
Ur earning below 70k and you still want to settle down with person wey wan do sici
What you need is a better paying job bro
I just hope you're ready for the consiquences of the actions you're about taking

Why are you people reasoning from your anuses?

Or is it not the same naija that getting even a 50k job is a miracle.

Please you guys should stop this lopsided reasoning.

A guy can start a family with 50k a month if he has a supportive wife, they only have to live within their earnings and if possible delay having kids but they can start a life together.

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by asunmoGGMU(m): 7:06pm On Sep 11, 2021
Toks2008:


You are not making any sense.

Wealth is progressive and a 70k earner today could earn 700k tomorrow and the fact that you earn 1M a month today does not mean you can't be jobless tomorrow

If the lady is supportive I believe they can build a life together.

Stop reasoning like a toddler.

You're very right. I don't even understand how most give their submissions here. They just give some people unnecessary pressure and give them low self-esteem. People collecting 50k salary are even getting married and they are doing very fine. We've students into business nowadays. The potential wife can be supportive. It's all about plan. If you look at it well, it is those that don't even know what it takes to pull money together that say these things the most.
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Habib101: 7:13pm On Sep 11, 2021
Why not if theirs love but remember some women are scam things fit change and u should have a backup, in other to avoid heart break
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Snitch24(m): 7:14pm On Sep 11, 2021
Toks2008:


Why are you people reasoning from your anuses?

Or is it not the same naija that getting even a 50k job is a miracle.

Please you guys should stop this lopsided reasoning.

A guy can start a family with 50k a month if he has a supportive wife, they only have to live within their earnings and if possible delay having kids but they can start a life together.

I'm happy you used the word supportive wife
From his narration
Do you feel she can be supportive ?
And if the marriage end in bad terms
Na people like you go still dey talk rubbish
Why digging your own grave when you're nt ready to die
Maka why

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Habib101: 7:16pm On Sep 11, 2021
Nonexisting1:
Marriage is scam, marrying an undergraduate is scammer but you see marrying a Nigerian girl while you earn less than 70k, that one na the scammest of it all. I see everything ending in premium tears.
cheesy cheesy no break the man's heart na
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Habib101: 7:18pm On Sep 11, 2021
Vinnie2000:


If she is cool, fine and respectful generally, Wait..Be patient!

Do not Rush into marriage with any Available young lady because you are 34..
Pple still see Marriage as a Competition!
It's the ability of a Man to bring up a beautiful family and Cater for them, without Stress!

When I see some 29, 30 yrs Guys rushing into Marriage, I just Pity some of Dem!.. sad
Simple, Good answer
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Bngf: 7:21pm On Sep 11, 2021
If you love her but mind you you have to be doing something saving and planning and limit what you spend on her coz she might end up marrying someone else when she is tired of you
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by Joeyfizzo: 7:21pm On Sep 11, 2021
E go shock u ... She will finish n dump u for the guy fucking her in skool

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Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by 4reala(m): 7:25pm On Sep 11, 2021
Yimmicks:
worst advice of the year�
For your mind abi, ode
Re: Should I Wait For My Girlfriend Who's In 300L To Finish While Am Already 34yrs ? by stevups(m): 7:28pm On Sep 11, 2021
Kadejo:
I meet this lady during COVID-19 pandemic period which was last year May 2020. She is still a student in a reputable University here in Nigeria, 300Level to be precise. She is 25years old.
She has insisted that until she finishes her school, gone for service and do what ladies call "Sisi" for at least another one year, she won't get married. That will be about 4years to this time.

I am in my mid 30s already, working class, earn below #70k per month, also into IT business, willing to get married now because I feel lonely, also need to build a family of my own before I turn 40yrs.

This lady in question appears to show me love, that's to her own way, my orientation is a bit different, I love her too anyways.

But would you advice I wait for her till she is done with all she has said or should I leave her and look for someone else to get married to?

Please, no insult, advice needed from experienced person.

Thank you.
Leave technically, talk to ladies. God will set you free from bondage you have systematically locked yourself

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