When I was taking my kids to their grandpa few days ago to spend the remainder of their holidays I was so happy! Coupled with the fact that my wife was also traveling the following day, my joy knew no bounds. Finally the peace and freedom I craved was here!

This weekend my home didn’t feel happy! It was sad and lonely. I felt cold loneliness throughout. I tried everything I could to distract myself but I miss my family so bad!

I miss our little quarrels, our eventual understanding and acceptance of each other using truce keeping.

I miss their mum badly. This made me wonder? How do older bachelors cope in this very lonely world? Una dey try o... respect.

Older bachelors won't feel anything..they are used to it..
You can't miss what you don't have..

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lilvicky68:
Older bachelors won't feel anything..they are used to it..
You can't miss what you don't have..

Thank you my brother.

You are insulting us here indirectly,

Old bachelors are always happy because our wives and childrens are always in scrotumz

lilvicky68:
Older bachelors won't feel anything..they are used to it..
You can't miss what you don't have..

Truly, to those who are still single, you can't miss what you dont have.....

They probably have other things they spend their time with or they get involved with other vibes in the society as a correct older bachelor would do sometimes. I think one way or the other they get something to occupy the space/gap with the different things that keep them alive.

Benadeyemi:
They probably have other things they spend their time with or they get involved with other vibes in the society as a correct older bachelor would do sometimes. I think one way or the other they get something to occupy the space/gap with the different things that keep them alive.

like work, flex and womanize

lilvicky68:
Older bachelors won't feel anything..they are used to it..
You can't miss what you don't have..

I beg to differ sir!

Merely seeing friends/family that are married then Bachelors know what they are missing.

I have a very close friend who is a 43 year old bachelor and he has turned my kids to his kids...

Dude calls me way ahead of time to discuss how he would celebrate my kid’s birthday (without asking for his help o)

We (Me and wife) tried hooking him up a lot of times but he was very choosy. The last girl we hooked him up with (That appeared to be perfect. 24 year old Young lawyer Who just finished law college) he said she had incision at her back and that was it...

He confided in me sometime ago that he envies me a lot, and that he knows something is missing in his life, which is having a family.

Reason he had been treating my family like his.

Truth is: Bachelor’s know they are lonely, and they miss having a family.

Oblongata:

I beg to differ sir!

Merely seeing friends/family that are married then Bachelors know what they are missing.

I have a very close friend who is a 43 year old bachelor and he has turned my kids to his kids...

Dude calls me way ahead of time to discuss how he would celebrate my kid’s birthday (without asking for his help o).

The friend you described is not every bachelor out there and every bachelor out there is not like your friend at all.

They want to guilt men into marrying.

Oga op, jus say you wan use scope mock bachelors.

Table shaker!

We dey live near Allen Avenue...efie fa

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Damnnn niggar
Isoright ....

You said older bachelor

lilvicky68:
Older bachelors won't feel anything..they are used to it..
You can't miss what you don't have..

You must be a real niggar

Get busy

Benadeyemi:
They probably have other things they spend their time with or they get involved with other vibes in the society as a correct older bachelor would do sometimes. I think one way or the other they get something to occupy the space/gap with the different things that keep them alive.

They do stuff like
*play games
*Nairaland
*Watch their favorite movies without unnecessary intrusions and interruptions...
It goes on and on

Thank God I'm still a young bachelor

Well, I just have this feeling that the op is trying to compel older bachelors to go and marry......But my dear older bachelors, don't listen to op,he no know wetin he dey talk about

It's because you're already used to their company. Bachelors love their solitude, it helps a lot of them stay productive and well rested.

TarOrfeeek:



They want to guilt men into marrying.

Why marriage? When a man can get surrogates to have children for him, pay them off after birth, hire nannies to be care givers....so you see, he does not need to get married.

I dey cope with NL at my reach.

I miss our little quarrels, our eventual understanding and acceptance of each other using truce keeping.

Na who get one dey miss all these that you listed. Forget loneliness, there's a special happiness/relief that comes with being single.

Hmmm.....older bachelors,oya come and answer....

See insult

Chei

Lol, Mr zero824 we are waiting for you

This is like asking virgins how sex feels. Lol. There is no way a bachelor will feel lonely if he never was married in the first place. If he feels so because his girlfriend broke up he’ll just enter a woman’s friend zone or search his harem for a new catch. You are married, only divorce will give you an idea what you seek.

Same for me. When my husband travel for business trip and the kids are in school, even that tiny window is enough to make me realise how much I miss my family.

Loneliness were ashawo quarter never finish

greenie77:


Why marriage? When a man can get surrogates to have children for him, pay them off after birth, hire nannies to be care givers....so you see, he does not need to get married.

Na so!

Honestly you can't miss what you don't have

When am in my parents house for vacation the kids , neice and nephew actually chase me out quickly... So much energy 24/7 , no filter, noise, never ever letting you stay in peace no matter what, you are just another toy to them and you must just be available

Lol