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Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by yuping(m): 10:39pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985:Man of what you wrote down you don't have any faulty but you are still at fault. When a woman complains about sex it means it really affecting her, but you might not see it as anything. you no as well the way they love money and you deny her this 2 precious thing. She has been keeping it for long and she might even be seeing you as someone that having sex outside and spending your money on girls. And you are not lazy don't mind this new Big boys, small online cake they are getting they will be claiming clever. Na God dey run am for everyone no be by smartness. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by crackhaus: 10:40pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985:Listen to your family members. Anyone telling you to go and beg her does not understand the gravity of what she has done. The idea however is not that you should forget about her totally, rather it's for you to leave her to her demons until they're ready to release her from their possession. If she has/had good and responsible parents, they should/will send for you to find out what happened. Is your wife's father alive/still in the picture? 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Rubbiish(m): 11:19pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
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Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by flokii: 11:24pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Whatever happened to.. for better for worse. She was there to eat the man's money when he had steady income but when he couldn't provide for just one month, she left him and ran. @OP If I tell you to look for one smallie that will be taking care of the house and your needs in her absence now, it will look somehow. I don't know the advice to give you o cos losing a job is not entirely your fault. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Ishilove: 11:36pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
LIES. She left with 5 kids because of allowance? How will she cater for 5 children alone? 1 Like 2 Shares
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Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Ammishaddai: 12:01am On Sep 16, 2021 |
[s] Richy4:[/s] You're just more stupid than necessary. But that's okay since Nairaland allows moròns and degenerates access 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Kobojunkie: 12:12am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985:Seems you are Christian, so the best I can tell you is that you listen to God on this. According to JesusChrist, you cannot end it with your wife based on this - Matthew 5 vs 28 - 32 & Matthew 19 vs 1 - 12. You and your wife have to come back together and figure out a way to work things out You married a woman with her mentality and maturity level - she was the picture of love for you and you tool her as she was, as wife. She didn't have her own business, and, even "worldly" knowhow when you met and married her and you took her nonetheless as you wife. My guess is you probably thought she would change over time. Now you have seen what that mentality and maturity is capable of- you have seen the downside -sadly that is not enough of reason for you to decide to check out of the marriage. You need to sincerely work at the relationship beginning now. Maybe you should begin now doing what Jesus Christ said...die to your self/ego and go beg your wife so you can both hash things out and learn a way out of this together. What would be ideal is if you and your wife can come together as grown-ups to plan your life together(family planning included) without involving third parties, giving yourselves time to heal from the hurts and also to learn new solutions to old issues. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by DukeNija(m): 12:24am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Hmmn this advice is solid. Well done Kobojunkie. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by tellwisdom: 1:16am On Sep 16, 2021 |
U just de born but no fit establish your wife. Op, Your head no correct- But I believe e go correct after you come out of this wahala. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:37am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985: if you cant solve this simple issue on your own then really immature you are in this union. 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Justbehave(m): 1:52am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:Using Bible quotation to talk rubbish. Your gender Eve slept with Satan the serpent and that's why you all are wores. Idiot 12 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Omolarablg: 7:03am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Sir, be strong and courageous. Examine yourself well, and ask yourself this questions 1) when you were in money,how did you treat your wife?did you treat her nicely by giving her money to buy things for herself and the kids or did you do otherwise to her by maltreating her financially? 2) When you were in money, do you save or whatever you have you spend it the way you like, as if there's no tomorrow? 3) When you were in money, how well do you pay your tithe and how close are you in serving God? There's a saying that if you want to know the level of humility of a man, you'll definitely know when he's broke but if you want to know the level of arrogant and pride of a man, that's if he's in money and power. Well, there's a possibility that your wife got married to you because of the money you had then, but not for TRUE LOVE, and now that you are broke financially, instead of her to patiently and prayerfully assist you and the family for a while, she rather left , but I won't really blame her because nobody knows how you treated her when you were in money then. So for now, you need to get closer to God, ask him for mercy and take you to the land of prosperity. I don't know how close is your relationship with your male friends, but I believe if you tell them you are searching for a job, I believe if they are good friends,they should be able to assist you, in case there's a vacancy in their place of work. Pray to God to restore you back, to the land of blessing and prosperity. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Klass99(f): 7:26am On Sep 16, 2021 |
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Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Karleb(m): 7:33am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Matheusmartin: 7:33am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ishilove:. She only left with two of the kids leaving the op with three. Make una dy try dy read... 14 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Matheusmartin: 7:34am On Sep 16, 2021 |
tellwisdom:. OP opened business for the wife. Look it up, it's there 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Klass99(f): 7:55am On Sep 16, 2021 |
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Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Ammishaddai: 8:03am On Sep 16, 2021 |
[s] Justbehave:[/s] Rubbish in the form of ignorance |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Ammishaddai: 8:04am On Sep 16, 2021 |
[s] Justbehave:[/s] Fvcking lazy man |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by femi4: 8:08am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985:Continue with your life, when you have job, she ll come back. This should motivate you to get job asap 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by mrblessed(m): 8:11am On Sep 16, 2021 |
I have to blame you for not being adequately prepared to confront/manage whatever unreasonable behaviour that your wife might display if and when the going gets bad. Why didn't you realise she would jump ship if things become rough and tough? You weren't emotionally alert to plan ahead, to anticipate she would not provide some sort of closure to you in difficult moments. This sholud serve as a teachable experience for you. It makes sense now to include your in-laws and see how their intervention could make her return home. But you need to seek out ways to provide for your family because, as you have known by now, your wife does not accept -- nor practice -- "for better or worse" Christian teaching of marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by GboyegaD(m): 8:14am On Sep 16, 2021 |
You need to understand why she took the action. Besides the money, did anything else change? |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by money121(m): 8:21am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ok |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Goldbw122(m): 8:21am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Well try to get her back. ok just try. She is your wife. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Nobody: 8:21am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Your family members are right. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 8:22am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Nawa o I will continue to say this, most of Nigerian Ladies Has Nothing To Offer, Apart From Heart Break To Their Partner. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by StayMotivated: 8:23am On Sep 16, 2021 |
It's obvious she never loved you genuinely. She only loved you because things were rosy at the beginning 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Kay25(m): 8:23am On Sep 16, 2021 |
chatinent:rightly said |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by sgtponzihater1(m): 8:23am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985: Continue with your life. You are not related to your wife by blood remember. The only link you have with her are your children, who you share the same genetics with. Women are largely a liability. Lucky she left without much fuss. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by TOPCRUISE(m): 8:24am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985:Lol. You want to forget your wife that bore you 5 children. You married her because you have a job and she married you because you have a job. That job and your ability to give her monthly allowance is what she saw before she said I do. My advice is go and get a new job. Because it's a job that tied you to the marriage contract. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by bmdmix11: 8:24am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985:she don reduce ur stress, let her go n hustle n leave u b 2 Likes |
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