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Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Nobody: 10:44am On Sep 16, 2021 |
I happy say I never marry.Make I die alone. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by dododawa1: 10:46am On Sep 16, 2021 |
FAKE STORY as usual,1 month and she parked. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Neddstark: 10:47am On Sep 16, 2021 |
MummyD2020: Yes I am. I have a better wife than you would ever be. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Neddstark: 10:50am On Sep 16, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: Well when you make money, it is good to let go of the all frustrations i.e the noisy generator set, hanging laptop and nagging wife. This life na just once. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by idahme(m): 10:50am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ishilove:It's good to read and comprehend before typing, Looked again to see where OP said the wife left with five kids, to no avail. Don't allow emotions to go with your fingers, allow comprehensive skills to prevail always. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by AlwaysMotun: 10:51am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Lovely! chatinent: |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by baggioni: 10:55am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Richy4:God bless you 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Musso16: 10:58am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai: You’re a mumu person |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by wallarwallar(m): 11:00am On Sep 16, 2021 |
She was very wrong and hope u @ telling us d truth and no beating inbolved in ur disagreement. For peace all u need is to call her to enquire why she left may be dere is another reason she did not tell you and u can take it up from dere only if she haa genuine reason dat warrant an apology if not just focus on ur life and ur kids 4 now. For her parent to have accepted her back home without calling u to know what happen shows d kind of family they are.. My brother ur life's matter |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by ayobams(m): 11:03am On Sep 16, 2021 |
God bless you for this. Please don't get bitter. If you have five kids with an unemployed wife, it is a big challenge. Sometimes you might just have to do something radical. Don't rest on only looking for a white collar job if chances are becoming dim. Get a sales job in commission and work like your life depends on it because it does. Losing a job should now be the new normal. We are in the midst of a shrinking economy and the likelihood of job loss is a reality. If she is not whoring around praise God for that. Her family would soon asking her to bring something to the table. Temptations are rife and just be a man and do something. I pray for you to find your feet. Oya, go do something and stop whining in this space. quote author=Richy4 post=105852574] If you were not at home when she left, Traditionally, you have to go and ask her why she left... This is just to fulfill all righteousness.. Do it without wasting time.. if she said she wasn't coming back, thank them and leave..do not beg her... Don't make her do what was against her wish... Take the three kids to your family if U can't look after them.. look for a job with determination, Try your best to take care of your children.. please also remember the ones she took with her... They are also your kids... Forget about anything on skirts at the moment and focus on finding a job.. if she wants to come back in future and u will allow it okay, if not, just stay focused in training your kids.... [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by EmyGod(m): 11:12am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:The Bible says if anyone so it must not be the man alone thank you. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by MummyD2020(f): 11:14am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Neddstark: I just asked a question. Same goes between your sorry ass and my hubby. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Neddstark: 11:21am On Sep 16, 2021 |
MummyD2020: Nigga is a simp. If you leave cos of finances, he'll come back begging. That is a weak man. If every Nigerian soldier were like him Boko Haram would have conquered Abuja |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Justbehave(m): 11:21am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:Go finish your chores. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Nobody: 11:24am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:You are overtly SICK. You need a course of 9months of IV ANTIBIOTICS 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by legacystore: 11:24am On Sep 16, 2021 |
quote author=Olivertwist1985 post=105852108]My wife which we have been married for the past thirteen (13) years and have five(5) children, four boys and girl for me ,just left my house on Sunday to her parent house without informed me. She left because we have little disagreement about monthly food allowance which I used to give her every month but I failed to give her this month when she requested for She left with the girl which is six months old and a boy two years and left three boys for me. Please I need your advice, should I go and beg her or I should forget about her and continue with my life. According to my family members, they said I should forget about her because of the manner she left. [/quote] Make money and she will come back � She is just with bc of what you can provide just let him stay with her parents or come back on her own. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by BotafogoJunior(m): 11:25am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Oladeji245:no mind dat Mumu........him even say,redpill go tell you to take another woman. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by IamHonourable1: 11:39am On Sep 16, 2021 |
If I happen to hear your wife's own part of the story it would most likely be contrary to what you wrote here. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by baby124: 11:42am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985:Men can get vasectomy. It’s a quick solution but you need to find the right doctor and spend the money. Having 5kids in this day and age is extremely silly. Encouraging your wife to be a jobless baby factory is also incredibly unwise |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by abuaaliyah(m): 11:45am On Sep 16, 2021 |
That is definition of women, men are made to cater for them once you are having issue regarding that bro you are in big problem, may Almighty God keep on providing for us. as for your condition now you need to talk to her and the reason why going to her parent house is not the best uption. make sure you are not aggresive, pray and add more effort to your hustle 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by RPirez: 11:58am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai: |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by mayorjosh(m): 12:03pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Why do you even have five children in this economy?(nobody should chat shit about this opinion because the last two kids are not older than two years). In this age and time, one source of income is rarely enough to make one comfortable and now it’s just one source of income you want to use to feed seven mouths habaaa Get your finances in order before you can have any sort of conversation with her. What she did isn’t justifiable totally but it’s totally understandable. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by deebrownneymar: 12:06pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
This is a good example of women marrying who they don’t love because of pressure. If she truly loved you she would never have done that. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by GetMeRight: 12:06pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985: Do what is best for you and the kids, you don't anyone's opinion on whether to plead to her or not as long as you know what's at stake here. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Dulfy(m): 12:12pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Bro..u want her to die abi?with plenty children you can not take care of,you could not even provide the basic(food), not to talk of the rest things that will make life more pleasant...u think when u give food, you have done it all...and I even sense pride in you...shld u beg or let her be? imagine..she don suffer for 13 yrs with u and she could not take it anymore,that's why she left.if na ur sister u go like am? My advice, get a job, then go and beg her like your life depends on it.then try to give her more than bFre.u no get money..u d born plenty |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Kobojunkie: 12:35pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
royalfly:It is not that we don't understand. Instead it is that we also know that with eyes wide open, many of you chose those particular women for yourselves knowing quite well their level of reasoning before committing to begin with. Way too many men go in to marriage believing a woman is some sort of dog you can "teach" new tricks to after she becomes a wife.... and when that fails, the men come running with hands up in the air as is something strange has happened to them. This when the handwriting has always been on the wall. For instance, this man most likely knew his wife's ideas as far as family planning is concerned and did nothing on his end to cover for her lack. Only to attempt to dump the problem all on the woman. You can't sensibly do that and then expect the world to believe that it was all her fault now, do you? You chose this person so you need to be willing to accommodate this person as their irrational ways of thinking same applies for women as well. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Noeasyway042(m): 12:39pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
She left because she didn't love you. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Mom007(f): 12:51pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Why did she leave Oga? You have not told us the real story. How many times did you batter her emotionally, maybe even physically because you can't handle your negative emotions? How many times did you transfer your self pity and negative aggression on her? A woman doesn't just leave because of missed 1 months feeding allowance. Be sincere with yourself and try to do better. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by tonididdy(m): 12:56pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:See as you open mouth waaaaaa.... That same Bible, bread was almost free in those days but in reality now.... So what happened to the woman also providing for the house, what happened to her having a job? or is she a baby making machine? EVEN MACHINES DON'T COMPLAIN WHEN WORKING. |
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