Blueelf:


Bros I have bookmarked your post. Very inspiring and educative

Can I PM you Sir?

post=106283554:


Men should live and let women live, too. Morality was not created for only women.

It's men who encourage all bad sex things in society. They want it, they seek it and they have the equipment to do it.

Men also bring children from outside sex to destroy the sanctity of their homes. They threaten to divorce their wives if they don't accept their own "flesh and blood". Yet it's somehow wrong when a woman brings her own flesh and blood home.

Men showing their double standards again.

larryjonze:



TBH !! i am beginning to see reasons why our forefathers subjugated women, if the best that could come out of educating a female child is what we now see online these days then we need to ask them for forgiveness
amazontopaz opens a thread to justify paternity fraud cos men cheat, so if i cheat the next tin is for my wife to go fetch me a baastard, how many children of tuface idibia outside is annie paying there schools fee or footing there social welfare bills.

sajmark:

Damn, this struck me deep bro... My elder brother happens to be one of the biggest simp that I personally know of.
I once dropped out of secondary school then for about a year (I refused going to a public/government school) because he wanted to marry this girl he just met, his traditional and white wedding were loud because this simp actually collected loans just to please the Ho.
Today he lives a frustrated live, struggling with repaying his debts and sponsoring the lifestyle of his beloved wife who just sits at home and contributes nada.
Sadly the more he suffers the more of a man he thinks he is, because he is following the so called right way that society set up for men...
I just watch and enjoy the show in 3D

pansophist:
Nigeria is suffering from a heavy brain drain, and the poster is an evidence of such. Someone can actually sit down, think this nonsense and post it, with genuine believe that she is making sense ? Jeez. This is too painful to read.

A Home built on lie and deceit is not a home. There is nothing there to break, it's already broken just that the confirmation is not revealed yet, and that is what DNA test does. I'll rather know the truth and be shattered, than to live a life of a lie. How can you deceive a full grown man to father a bastard, deny the child true knowledge of his/her father, and feel offended a man choose to determine if his sacrifice worth it ?

Yes men cheat, but no matter the PhD emeritus a man has in the art of philandering, you can never deceive a woman that a bastard child is hers. Even at that, he would still be financially responsible for the kids. How dare you compare the effect of both? If wickedness, stupidity, shamelessness is a person, I'll give it to whenever support this post. What rubbish.

JESHAL:


, even panso dey vex

JESHAL:


, even panso dey vex

Martinez39s:
The opening post of that thread can make any sane man weak. I can't can.

pansophist:
As in eh, the more I read some stuff online, I just say to myself that truly, some people no be am. I don see the thread since, I just choose to respond since it made the front page. See even nedu wife, she even blame nedu for her fidelity. Saying that he didn't ask if the child was his, even get mind carry her matter enter social media. Can people be this daft ?

The brand of stupidity I see daily in Nigeria shakes the core of my bone marrow. Its too much. To be intelligent and live in naija na torture. I swear to God.

Martinez39s:
Funny enough, the sophistry and rationalisation are deliberate and these females know what they are doing; they know what they are saying is pure nonsense, but they are doing it for manipulative reasons. The Nigerian sisterhood is panicking.

SOZINN:
Look at what this fool is saying.

pansophist:
I don't think they believe themselves even. Lots of people use an argument I coined as "try your luck" argument. It goes like this.

They would bring an argument (like this post), then decorate it with some kind of moral flavour (eg, I'm not in support of cheating, paternity fraud etc), then usher something really stupid, and see who agrees with them.

May God save us from try-your-luck people.

palmshots:


Bro, a lot of things happening in this world when critically studied you'll know nature sometimes comes with its wonders I won't call it mistake, where the problem comes from is our religious and moral orientation towards some of thise things.and how things should be
Have you seen an heemaprodite before does it look normal to you, how would they have been regarded in like 570AD?
Infact homosexul behaviour is not only discovered in humans it's also present in animals.
Affect society in what sense?, That was why I cited some of the countries that supports their rights how are they fairing
Look at Germany, Canada,UK e.tc how are we better than these countries except for their harsh gynocentric laws which makes life difficult for an aspiring patriarch, many are just bunch of hypocrites that won't look back when been opporruned to live with them in those countries
Thing is a lot of things would have seemed normal and make sense to us if that's how we had known it.
Personally,I don't see any future problems with it tho because they're just a minute part of the world population and they can't stop evolution and procreation

pansophist:


As in eh, the more I read some stuff online, I just say to myself that truly, some people no be am. I don see the thread since, I just choose to respond since it made the front page. See even nedu wife, she even blame nedu for her fidelity. Saying that he didn't ask if the child was his, even get mind carry her matter enter social media. Can people be this daft ?

The brand of stupidity I see daily in Nigeria shakes the core of my bone marrow. Its too much. To be intelligent and live in naija na torture. I swear to God.

heironymos:
I have been following this thread for months now and I must say bravo to everyone that has contributed positively to it's growth.
I have never seen people especially Nigerians this coordinated, and that gets to show the type of minds we have here you are all geniuses(whether passively reading or actively contributing.

I will give my own little contributions of my blue and and redpill experiences but for now my elder brother is the issue.
I am quite introverted and don't normally see the need to advice or interfere in people's businesses, but my brother(40yrs) always argues with his girlfriend over every little things. But the one that got me really pissed off to even post this was when he got on a job interview on zoom(which he eventually got). After the interview which he told her will last for 45min she didn't spare a second and called just when he was telling me about the interview, when he saw her call he clearly was pissed off but kept a straight face, not to give away his displeasure because I had once complained about her narcissistic personality.

When they spoke on phone I overheard him telling her that he just got off the interview, why is she calling to ask why he didn't call her immediately after the interview till she called him without even asking how it went, and she kept nagging about him keeping things away from her he was like what if the interview extended after the 45mins and she calls and distracts him. Long story short he ended up apologizing and could not maintain frame, she always makes things all about her and now that he is starting a new job I don't want him getting distracted because of a woman.
He has spent 10yrs no job, and now getting it with an oil company and entertaining a time and emotional leech is my issue.

Finally when ever I try to talk to him he brings in this OG vibe like he knows what he is doing but this b**ch keeps whooping his ass emotionally but he won't simply learn from a wise sage because of ego(he is 40 I am 28).

How do I advice his egocentric Mr know all self in this regard(cos he feels knowledge and experience only comes with age)

SkyFlint:


This is very valid.

I don't subscribe much to conspiracy theories, but it is very evident that someone, or a group is someones, is using movies/shows to brainwash the public.

It became obvious with the homosexuality trope. It was weird the first time we saw it on TV. But now, it is expected.

The desensitisation of homesexuality through the use of movies and TV shows has been quite successful. Few people, if any at all, think it's weird anymore.

That said, writers of movies and shows seem to have a list of mandatory characters. The list includes:

1. A gay person (preferably male).
2. A black man.
3. A patriarchy-oppressed white woman (usually the lead).
4. A caricature of a masculine man.
5. A lovable doofus of a man.
6. A very powerful man whose balls are in the palm of a woman (wife/GF).
7. A strong, independent woman .
8. A transgender (EXCLUSIVELY a man turning into a woman. Women are already perfect just the way they are).

For these writers, finding a way to slot in a "black gay man" character is like hitting the jackpot. It makes them giddy with joy. A black transgender man? That's bliss!

That aside, there's a fairly new narrative that movies/shows are pushing now. Writers, or perhaps their sponsors, are catching on quickly. And it's gaining ground rapidly.

The narrative is this:

Men willfully relinquishing their rightful positions of leadership or authority to pursue love or a life of mediocrity and frivolities.

Of course, the narrative is fostered by conveniently making the men in the movie/show grossly incompetent and the women overwhelmingly competent.

Somehow, the women are natural-born leaders with huge ambitions and transformational ideas. Whereas for the men, leaders are just "not who they are."

First time I noticed the new narrative was in Coming 2 America. A poor bastard forfeited his throne to a natural female leader to pursue love with an ambitious lady. And that's okay?

The next time I noticed it was in Cinderella (2021) where the Crown Prince, who's conveniently made out to be incompetent and irresponsible, also forfeits his throne to his ambitious sister to pursue love with an equally ambitious girl whose ambitions require her to travel.

Avengers: Endgame was the next movie I saw with the narrative. Thor forfeiting the Asgardian Throne to a Valkyrie. In Norse mythology, the Valkyries are just servants of Odin. But it's okay to give up the throne to one of them and then go jostle for the leadership of a small space shuttle.

The objective of the narrative is simple:

It's okay to be unambitious as a man. Leave the leadership roles to women, they are more capable than you anyway.

If the propagation of the narrative continues, it'll become imprinted in the minds of men. Men will become more laid-back and unambitious than ever. Women will have the reins of society more firmly in their grasps.

Then HELL will reign on earth.

KiNg0G:


All my post are majorly hardcore, game plays, streetdrills, from personal experiences... nor be from book or television, I dey tell you as it dey happen..how many times I don bash people here when dey try help female genders neglecting their male counterparts.




I don live rugged life bros, never in a day have i simped for a lady when it comes to my money, except she gon put in extra work for it.

Check me out, have done several giveaways to guys I don't even know on nairaland, for the past few years. (all this nor be words I supposed to dey talk about)

But when I see kids, when dey masturbàte that don't even know about the game dey won chyke..... then it becomes a problem.



Me and you nor get problem,


dude turned a lady who was portrayed as a good girl to a Slut within a secs...... he's an MVP.


I don't care if money is involved.

heironymos:
I have been following this thread for months now and I must say bravo to everyone that has contributed positively to it's growth.
I have never seen people especially Nigerians this coordinated, and that gets to show the type of minds we have here you are all geniuses(whether passively reading or actively contributing.

I will give my own little contributions of my blue and and redpill experiences but for now my elder brother is the issue.
I am quite introverted and don't normally see the need to advice or interfere in people's businesses, but my brother(40yrs) always argues with his girlfriend over every little things. But the one that got me really pissed off to even post this was when he got on a job interview on zoom(which he eventually got). After the interview which he told her will last for 45min she didn't spare a second and called just when he was telling me about the interview, when he saw her call he clearly was pissed off but kept a straight face, not to give away his displeasure because I had once complained about her narcissistic personality.

When they spoke on phone I overheard him telling her that he just got off the interview, why is she calling to ask why he didn't call her immediately after the interview till she called him without even asking how it went, and she kept nagging about him keeping things away from her he was like what if the interview extended after the 45mins and she calls and distracts him. Long story short he ended up apologizing and could not maintain frame, she always makes things all about her and now that he is starting a new job I don't want him getting distracted because of a woman.
He has spent 10yrs no job, and now getting it with an oil company and entertaining a time and emotional leech is my issue.

Finally when ever I try to talk to him he brings in this OG vibe like he knows what he is doing but this b**ch keeps whooping his ass emotionally but he won't simply learn from a wise sage because of ego(he is 40 I am 28).

How do I advice his egocentric Mr know all self in this regard(cos he feels knowledge and experience only comes with age)

SOZINN:
Look at what this fool is saying.

Dizzyyish:


They're obviously rationalising.. poorly..
Like a boxer, they dodge and weave through the blows of accountability, responsibility and (perhaps often) common sense. They will deflect, strawman, shame, resort to ad hominems no matter how illogical they may sound in the process because common sense be damned!
A classic case of Blame-shifting. People who do this will ruin your life.


Blame shifting--"People who ruin their lives have a tendency to blame other people when things go wrong." - Daniel G. Amen, MD.
e.g. "I never thought I’d be the type to cheat, but you made me feel so unappreciated."
*As a last resort, usually when they’ve been blatantly caught or called out for something they know they did wrong, they use a "Stink bomb" (they throw a completely unfounded, terrible accusation at you)
By sucking you into these arguments, they are consuming your energy and watching you be progressively self-destructive, so they can use your reactions to prove their own points. (“Wow, look how bitter and angry you are!”) and that’s the whole point. The blame is now off of them, and now you’re the one in hot water. Now you readily find yourself fighting to win your case.You will feel compelled to but don’t.
[*Source: themindsjournal.com]

When you see people like this, do not J.A.D.E (Justify, Argue, Defend & Explain). You will feel compelled to but don’t. When you try to defend yourself against a false accusation, you legitimize it by even acknowledging it. The only way to respond to these tactics is to stand up and walk away. Just walk away. Silently.

Serena Williams gets caught cheating during a match, when confronted she says
"Men have done worse."
Apparently the 'the sin of others also absolves you of your own sin'.. smh..
Matured on the outside, nigh infantile on the inside.

Dizzyyish:


They're obviously rationalising.. poorly..
Like a boxer, they dodge and weave through the blows of accountability, responsibility and (perhaps often) common sense. They will deflect, strawman, shame, resort to ad hominems no matter how illogical they may sound in the process because common sense be damned!
A classic case of Blame-shifting. People who do this will ruin your life.

Blame shifting--"People who ruin their lives have a tendency to blame other people when things go wrong." - Daniel G. Amen, MD.
e.g. "I never thought I’d be the type to cheat, but you made me feel so unappreciated."
*As a last resort, usually when they’ve been blatantly caught or called out for something they know they did wrong, they use a "Stink bomb" (they throw a completely unfounded, terrible accusation at you)
By sucking you into these arguments, they are consuming your energy and watching you be progressively self-destructive, so they can use your reactions to prove their own points. (“Wow, look how bitter and angry you are!”) and that’s the whole point. The blame is now off of them, and now you’re the one in hot water. Now you readily find yourself fighting to win your case.You will feel compelled to but don’t.
[*Source: themindsjournal.com]

When you see people like this, do not J.A.D.E (Justify, Argue, Defend & Explain). You will feel compelled to but don’t. When you try to defend yourself against a false accusation, you legitimize it by even acknowledging it. The only way to respond to these tactics is to stand up and walk away. Just walk away. Silently.

Serena Williams gets caught cheating during a match, when confronted she says
"Men have done worse."
Apparently the 'the sin of others also absolves you of your own sin'.. smh..
Matured on the outside, nigh infantile on the inside.

SOZINN:
Look at what this fool is saying.

Akinbahm:


My dear brother, if you are the type that love going toe to toe with women when it comes to argument trust me you will lose your sanity...