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Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Foodqueen(f): 11:38am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Op, don't try to explain anything again. U are angry right now and u might be typing with the anger. Whatever u write might be use against u. Let your husband handle it. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by ikennamadu1(m): 12:42pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
You be wicked woman ... Allah , you deserve no place in that family |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by TheManPregnant: 12:53pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
GofuckYourself: Kindly elaborate on these "spiritual laws" you speak about |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Prugee: 1:10pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
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Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Acidosis(m): 1:14pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
perryy: And na one unfortunate woman go still marry this thing like this?? Eh God. Women dey try o. Some of you are better off marrying a calabash because who marry this one I quoted is gone gone gone 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Crossroad1(m): 2:16pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
TheeDetective:you are seriously sick in the head, you need to check yourself for madness.. What's the need calling her husband's attention? And who told u the husband didn't see it already? God punish that wicked spirit in you idiot 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by elantraceey(f): 3:02pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
franklingud: Do you know their plans? Do you know if they only went for studies or something and plan to return back soon? Will they be worried about a house they have no plans to live in? Stop making assumptions for others, what is bad is bad especially in this case where the man has been faithfully catering for the shelter of his parents. Thank God for my parents, they will never do this nonsense. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by elantraceey(f): 3:06pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Danjikanbauchi: You are the wicked one here. I pity the woman that'll end up with a man like you. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Homeboiy: 3:08pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
The husband don first post this thing nah It made front page this morning The husband detailed the story well more than this woman |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Maravilla: 3:21pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
This Op is very wicked, you leave in the UK, you'll probably visit Nigeria once in a year, and the house will most likely be empty whenever you aren't around, what's wrong with your husband's parents living there?? I'm sure there are rooms to accommodate everyone whenever you're around. How can I have a vacant house and my parents will be staying in repented apartments, receiving insults from landlords?? God forbid bad thing. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Adeoyelee: 4:35pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Maravilla: It's only the OP's husband that is leaving in UK, not the op. The op dey leave for naija here |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Danjikanbauchi: 4:59pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
elantraceey:she is already enjoying with my Mom, they are best of friends, she sees my mom as her own mother that some times she is the one reminding me to go shopping for my Mom. Is that not beautiful ? Instead of crying that the poor woman packed into her son's House. I just hope you are not the type that wish their mother in-laws dead. Give your life to Christ and allow love into your heart. That you don't wish for your own mother don't pray so to another. |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Danjikanbauchi: 5:09pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
elantraceey:they are best of friends with my Mom, go to market and travel on holidays together. You are bewitching that innocent man to drive away his mother that carried him 9months, suffered with him till he became a man before you married him, now you don't want them stay in his House. This is witchcraft. |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Acidosis(m): 5:10pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Danjikanbauchi: Did your MIL moved to your newly completed house without prior notice? This discussion would be productive when that happens. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by elantraceey(f): 5:21pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Danjikanbauchi: I have a mother and she have sons and even if she doesn't, I'll never wish someone my heartbeat cherish so much dead, not even if she ends up becoming unkind to me. And I thank God I have a mother who supported her husband to build his own house when her mates were buying new wrappers and has her retirement all planned out so she won't have to depend on or wait for her children before she can eat well. I was trained by a disciplined and virtuous woman and a proud father who will never pack into a house his son and his wife built for themselves and their family to save face or brag and I don't pray to get married into a family that'll do this to their own son after doing his part of taking care of them. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by elantraceey(f): 5:23pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Danjikanbauchi: When she builds a house and your mum's moves in without her consent then we can have this discussion. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Danjikanbauchi: 5:35pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
elantraceey:Aunty a House her son build na you build am ? Whaaat now I believe witchcraft are in stages. I feel for your hubby seriously. |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by elantraceey(f): 5:40pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Danjikanbauchi: Did you not read they both built it and she has equal rights to the property with her husband? If a lady decides to keep her money to herself and build properties in her name alone, she's tagged a witch and wicked woman. If she decides to collaborate with her husband, she'll be ripped off any claims to the property. What exactly do you men want? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Danjikanbauchi: 5:41pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
elantraceey:I can swear that your one cent is not in that project. You are lucky, if you are married to me I would have kicked your black as* seriously if you ever complain of my family moving into my home that nobody is occupying. why am I talking to this lady self ooh gosh. GTFO. |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by elantraceey(f): 5:46pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Danjikanbauchi: Don't sweat it, I won't get married into a leech and entitled family that has no respect for their son and his wishes. God help the woman that ends up with you and the kind of life she'll put up with when challenges comes. God forbid anything happens to the man, it's this kind of family that'll claim all the man's properties in the name of he's our son and leave the wife with nothing. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Danjikanbauchi: 5:53pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
elantraceey:now I see your fear you are scared if anything happens to the man his family will send you away. You need to change your mind set, and believe that you will get old with your hubby or else you will go before him. Beside tell your hubby to develop his brothers too, in a family where everyone is comfortable my dear no one cares about properties of their late brothers mostly if he has children they will even give you more. |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by elantraceey(f): 6:06pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Danjikanbauchi: I have no such fear because I'm not a woman that depends on a man but you see this things happen to people everyday because of entitled family that won't work hard to lift up themselves but instead lazy about and depend on the one they perceive is rich and kindhearted even at the expense of their own family. You know within your heart what this woman's in-laws did is wrong but out of whatever it is that's controlling your head you won't admit it. I'm done with this topic, whenever this kind of situation happens to you, that's if you'll even attract a woman that'll be willing to build with you, then we can return to this discussion. Till then, it's easy to claim you'll do this or do that in an issue that has no impart on you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by franklingud(m): 6:23pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
elantraceey:My dear, if the said couple went abroad for studies alone and plan to return back soon, does it matter? If they come back after graduation and find the house bushy and scattered because no one is around to tidy the house. How about it? But they can just allow the old people to live that house and keep it tidy and clean. However they shouldn't tamper with the house documents. You don't really know the importance of parents. Wait till you get married and have your own kids then you will know. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Danjikanbauchi: 6:26pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
elantraceey:wish you all the best.
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Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by descarado: 6:26pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Acidosis: Lol at calabash 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by mariahAngel(f): 6:27pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Acidosis: Imagine the amount of people that liked those your comments where you insulted the guy, compared to this comment where you apologized. That is to tell you the amount of hateful and wicked souls this toxic forum is filled with. If only negative likes could kill... You did well by apologizing, and by so doing, you retained the respect I have for you. I was hoping you'd apologize, and you didn't disappoint me. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by mariahAngel(f): 6:30pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Acidosis: Bawo la se ma fe igba bayi? |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Acidosis(m): 7:41pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
descarado: |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Acidosis(m): 7:43pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
mariahAngel: Ose dear I realized the insult wasn't necessary. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by teemy(m): 7:43pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
@Solatpumpkim, a friend and I have been following your thread since morning and I feel it is time I talked on this. I have also made several assumptions that I believe to be true. Depending on the exposure and mindset, parents especially African parents might not live to the expectations of enlightened folks and sometimes, society tells us to suck it up. I talk to my sons, I say please, sorry, and thanks when appropriate. Sometimes, we come to terms on some agreements which garners trust that both sides have to keep. Unfortunately, your hubby might not be accorded such regard as seen from the write-up of the two of you. Managing the current scenario lies in both your hands. That house which I assume is in the village (based on you guys want it to be the place you will land in when you come around) is gone. I reiterate G.O.N.E. Cococandy hinted that with the visit of a few family members at intervals and a stay now and then, even the authority of who lodges will totally be in the hands of your FIL. That house is now a family house. Almost no one in that village will hear any story in the court of public opinion. The words of some people here on NL is enough to let you see the mind of our 'exposed' brethren talkless of the village where it is expected that children do things for their parents. I can deduce hubby sending money to FIL for the house building will also include money for papa and mama (considering that even the money fo the next house rent was borne by him). In all honesty, having someone decide what they want to do with your property could be painful but any attempt to force them out will even turn your hubby against you especially it being a thing of shame to him if it becomes a rowdy public affair and in the protection of ego, common sense finds its way out. The only other option left to you will be to collect your invested funds but I will tell you straight up that doing that will be a huge mistake and I will explain that in a moment. It will be the beginning of friction in your marriage as you will not want to combine funds with him on any future projects. That trust would be gone and despite you being in the right, he will hold it against you in a way and this could find its way in future dealings (coming from a divorcee). Trust me, you have many more years ahead of you guys than to let money at this infant stage of your marriage together split you. I know I have no moral right to tell you to leave it as it is obvious it is a huge cost you guys to even get the house to this stage (he has been building it before you got married, you both contributed to it and it is yet to be 100 completed.) I do plead with you, I implore you to not ask it of him. If he wishes it, let him be the one to offer it and even at that, not collecting it will be a deposit that you will always earn interest on. The rest, I leave to you. Wishing you well - Teemy 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by Acidosis(m): 7:44pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Re: My Husband Parent Is About Taking Our Property by mariahAngel(f): 8:01pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
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