Toks2008:


Calm your nerves... Asides sentiments the guy made perfect sense just that as I wrote, it does not sound cool taking the life of anyone regardless.

I know what I faced with my dad when he was down with serious stroke.

You never pack shit before I guess.. I pack shit tire, the stress was so mentally torturous and you won't even have a life of your own.

Anyways I believe in Miracle so they should pray and seek for alternative solution.

Lalas my dad passed on.

Most people dont realize what it takes to take care of someone in such a state. If they do, they will have a rethink.
And OP's father is alive because they are spending money they dont have for a project that will likely not succeed. I will encourage him having a heart to heart with the doctor on the probability of the man comin back, after that its a matter of diverting his resources elsewhere and letting nature take its course.
Poor people die daily of such ailments without lasting a week.

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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Are you sure you'll be able to live with the guilt that will come afterwards?
I passed through something similar. Dad was sick for years. We eventually lost him late last year after spending in millions. Time and effort nko? Mental stress nko? Yet, till date, I still feel guilty for not being able to diagnose the illness and responding quickly enough.
But that's me anyway.

Please don’t continue as you have done God reward you

Decryptor:


Shutup! Africans and their hypocrisy!

Someone who is in a vegetative state battling with pains but is not in the position to express himself and his relatives are bearing the brunt of it financially, emotionally, psychologically etc are suffering and you are talking nonsense about being heartless but the same you will still go to juju houses to "jazz" someone who really wants to live out of envy!

You are just exposing yourself and the life you live, and the kind of family you come from. Your reply speaks for itself. I will not write any further, because if I do, I will be talking to a wicked soul.


I pray you don't become terribly sick one day, that is all I will leave you with. Then you choose this OP option for your life.

So you want to kill Your OWN PAPA, eh? Are you sure you're not a bastard?

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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May God's healing find your Dad now in Jesus name.It will be so if your faith can carry this prayer.

SportsHD:
Euthanzing is the correct word here. I swear if he could talk to you, he would tell you to go ahead. He is in pains, seeing y'all going through all that to take care of him is making him sad also. He just can't tell y'all. Hospitals does euthanization, you just have to talk to your mom and brothers about it. It's not a decision you can take alonew, except you have a heart like mine. The hospital would make it faster and easier. I think they'll put him to sleep first, then inject something that'll stop his heart. Thereby, he wouldn't even feel anything.
Please update us on how it goes.

The bolded is not done on Nigeria.

Pray and ask GOD for wisdom.

When men fail, try God. If you can, bundle and bring him to PortHarcourt in OPM. Do prayer for him. It might just work. Just give it a second thought. Try God. Do OPM or mountain of fire prayer. OPM is mercy prayer and fasting for one day. Then followed by 21 days midnight prayer. Good luck

Eeeyah.... OP I feel your pain. May God provide you the easiest way out.

Richy4:
why can't you open up to your lecturers instead of devising a means to eliminate your own Father... I believe you got smart phones.. take couple of pictures and show them with tears in your eyes...

What are you trying to prove to your lecturers?... Why are you bottling things up? ... Are you trying to prove to them by acting tough in their presence that all is well with you when clearly all isn't...No matter how sadist they are, even the devil got soft spots...Assuming your school has students advisors, This situation is enough to granted you a study leave because you can't concentrate.... Please tell your lecturers the situation of things....

You are clearly passing through a traumatic situation at the moment but u have to try your best to leave your dad out of it until his maker calls him...Can you be able to leave with it that you killed your own father for the rest of your life? besides, you have no right whatsoever to take a life u did not make..... he did not kill you when u were a toddler..No matter what you call it, Mercy killing, or kind killing, killing is killing....Thou shall not Kill

I am very sure that you did not read the write up, if not you won't be spilling this trash.

Now go and read it again

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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Please don't ever try it brother. You bring curse upon you and your generation.
Infact ask God for mercy for even giving it a thought.

Take a Life Assurance Policy for him....

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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If you're a Christian, remember to tell him to make peace with God,
You can write it in paper for him to read.
Tell him to seek for forgiveness mostly the ones relating to his thought.
Whether or not heaven or hell is real

Abortion is muder too but what if its done to save the mother's life or the baby wasnt going to be normal hence the need to terminate? Bro your Dad is going through alot but i wouldnt advice euthanasia. Cut your expenses give him proper homecare and attention since its obvious the test and hospital trips wouldnt make any change. I know of a man though his case is a bit different in that he could still talk, he told his family to suspend all drugs and treatments that theyve tried. He died after one month . Death isnt realy evil but if we initiate it like you are seeking you've to cleanse the land if you understand that tradition. It is murder, perharps not of the same degree just like the instance given above.

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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IS IT PARTIAL STROKE OR FULL,AM ASKING BECAUSE AM WONDERING WHY YOU HAVE NT TRIED HERBS..

askjohnprosper:
When men fail, try God. If you can, bundle and bring him to PortHarcourt in OPM. Do prayer for him. It might just work. Just give it a second thought. Try God. Do OPM or mountain of fire prayer. OPM is mercy prayer and fasting for one day. Then followed by 21 days midnight prayer. Good luck

Yes ooh, true words, let him take him there. God still do great miracles.

Realestbae:
This is d problem with Africa parents , perhaps your father parents imposed alot of responsibilities on him thereby leading to the stroke he suffers today . If I may ask where is your fathers family(mother n siblings)?Is his wife n children that are carrying all d wahala now Abi. Later all these small small boys will cm here n say my immediate family over my wife.My advice for U is to Tk life as U C it do not put too much pressure on yourself to avoid being in the same situation as Ur dad thereby creating problem for Ur future wife n kids.

He had 7 kids! More like he stressed himself into stroke. May God help us. Unfortunately, as young as OP is, he is stressing himself mentally and physically too. Better keep your eyes on your BP.....it is well.

As for your dad, please don't do it. While I'm not opposed to euthanizing where appropriate, it is absolutely important that the patient's consent is gotten. Since he is not cognizant enough to give it....you should keep praying for him until God's mercy reaches him. Epele. All will be well.

Bola146:
So sorry, please don't kill him. Continue praying for him, God will help you out.

Continue praying
Why prayer no work all this years?

Mercisharelove:
Some of you castigating religion forgot that religion rules the essence of life. How dare you relegate religion to zero...

This generation

Religion rules the essence of life? If that was the case, Nigerians will follow it to a T. But you guys are just hypocrites

duro4chang:
Do not try anything funny with him o. We are watching you.

even if he does anything radical it is for the greater good of the family,after I lost my senior brother,my father and mother within a space of 5 years and having the mantle of leadership on my shoulders,it is not easy to take some decisions as a leader,there are some decisions that must be taken without sentiment or emotions,you may personally not like such decisions but it must be taken for the greater good,that is one of the requirements to be a leader.

What was he diagnosed with? Why couldn’t he shiit?

Goldiness:






Oga, I have experienced same alright, you Know the sickness of your dad,my dad had different sickness all in one body, my dad own was worst than stoke, hospital to hospital, in this Nigeria and outside Nigeria, I wish I have my dad, alive in that sickness that killed him badly than dead alrighty.

You even see shit pack, my dad own we had to beg shit to come out, if it doesn't we will put gloves in our hands and use olive oil to massage his anus to beg shit to come out, my dad was decaying while alive, he by himself said he was tired and wanted to go, we bagged he said no he wants to go and he slept of and never woke up, we had to bring him back into the country for burial.

Abeg we all know what we have faced in this life. So leave the man let him live his life, it's a blessing to take care of your sick parents, nobody knows tomorrow, who's turn it will be.

So pray not to be sick alrighty

Octopusssy:
Aren't there nursing homes in Nigeria that take care of invalids like this?

Euthanasia, or assisted suicide has to be voluntary. The invalid has to give his consent, except for cases where he/she has no control of their cognitive faculties. That is not the case here.

Anything short of that is murder, plain and simple. Op may God grant you the wisdom to take the right decision.

So you think they'll just accept him without payment. The family will pay their *ss out. The condition in most nursing homes is worse than prison sef. I really don't know what to say to the op...this is just too heavy. May the Lord comfort you.

We have exactly that same problem in my family, But looking at the suffering my Dad passed through in training us we see it that the best we can to is to take care of him, now that He needs us most...

Do this and come back with testimony.


Take your Dad to the Deeper Life Church crusade coming up in PH. You will be shocked to see your dad healed.


Do no, I repeat, do not kill your dad!

1Sharon:



Are you the same Nigerian that kills a man for stealing a necklace?

My God help your poor soul

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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. Thank you for taking care of him in the past 12 years..Nigeria constitution does not recognize ethunasia like western world. Please don't kill him yourself.because same will happen to you. ..You are making sacrifices for him .God will reward you greatly

Kerry111:
We have exactly that same problem in my family, But looking at the suffering my Dad passed through in training us we see it that the best we can to is to take care of him, now that He needs us most...

God bless you, and your generation

Omorotionmwann:
It has been 12years now since my dad has been down with Stroke which has affected his speech,his right hand and leg and some 4years ago,he couldn't walk anymore but had to be carried to sleep,sit and all physical metabolism is done where he is,even after I and my mum have spent and still spends a lot on physiotherapy,speech therapy,brain checkups at Mecure oshodi,routine and forthnight high blood pressure checkups with expensive drugs and still no changes but it gets worse,all done going around in taxi as I have no car.....

I was 18 and in 200level in a federal uni with him and my mum my only support system when all of this started,couldn't concentrate and focus on school work anymore as I am the firstborn of a 7 boys family and my attention was always needed.....Mum told me I need to drop out that she can't afford all of this alone but I was strong hearted and determined to graduate with a B.Eng...

I had issues with my lecturers as my attendance were poor and my course adviser said it to my face that I would never graduate but I never told them about my travails or they wouldn't even believe me anyways cos they were mostly SADIST,All Engineering lecturers in Uniben especially Mechanical/PRODUCTION ENGINEERING from 08/09 upward,OGUN KILL ALL OF UNA!!! Life was tough for me and my Mum....

Now that I am a Man and supposed to be focus on my life future and raising a family but this is still taking a toll on me emotionally,financially,mentally and I will come home to my mum nagging,crying that she has tried enough over the years and i might come home one day and she has left ....THIS BREAKS ME,I AM TIRED,I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO....I LOVE MY DAD,HE IS IN PAINS TOO!!!

IF I COULD SEE THE FUTURE BACK THEN WHEN IT STARTED,I WOULD HAVE ASKED THE DOCTORS FOR MERCY DEATH,DO NIGERIAN DOCTORS OR HOSPITALS GIVE OUT MERCY DEATH TO PATIENTS?

NAIRALANDERS,I AM DEPRESSED AND I NEED YOUR ADVICE

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I sympathise with you but hear a lot of excuses,you need to have informed your school lecturers on the situation and showed them some hospital paper work some of them would have shown compassion and assisted you but you are here asking Ogun to kill them.
Your father,s condition is degenerative so at this stage it is too keep him comfortable and free from pain there are prescription only high strength ones like Dihydrocodeine and morphine.They are affordable and can be used at home since hospital bills are piling.
It is sad you would think of taking his life as if he forced your mum to abort you we would not be reading this story today.You can decide with your family not to resuscitate him if he has an episode that’s a DNR but should not take a life.
May Your family find strength to bear this hardship.

sirjoggy:
Please don't try it bro, it can create a generation curse

Smh. Africans and their useless superstition.

He shouldn't do it on moral grounds not this bullsh*t generation nonsense.

Firstly I would commend you for your efforts and how you managed to conquer engineering amidst all odds.

You have to call on your siblings, time to work together and harder, he's still alive for some reason that would be known to you sooner or later.

All you need is a financial step-up, he gets better health care, your mom starts living better and the family would be blissful again, thinking of sending him on a journey forcefully might come with consequences and could be a decision that's gonna affect everyone in the family.

Stay strong and positive, you've handled it for 12years. Don't forget "What doesn't kill only gonna make you stronger".

Peace and Light to you and your family.

Bola146:
So sorry, please don't kill him. Continue praying for him, God will help you out.

If to say I fit see you, I for flogg you big time....as in, I go whip you lashes... If you didn't have anything tangible to say, why not sh*t the f*ck up....
"Continue praying" ... So you think they haven't done this and to achieve what?
No, tell me