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Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by elonmuskbaby: 5:47pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
OgunLaakaye:it's about LAZINESS AND ENTITLEMENT NOBODY IN THIS WORLD OWES YOU SHIII EXCEPT GOD AND YOUR PARENTS Money is just an illustration because it'll have been ok if he's too big to enter kitchen but he's useful by being generous.at least that way he's making contribution but this one house work he no fit do,he no get money to drop,then what is his usefulness? What's making him feel big and entitled? Ori eyan bashe.person wey suppose tell am to wash plates and pot.if he dey form Na That empty pride he go eat as lunch 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Mrluv(m): 5:47pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Am not his wife still yet this is no way to treat a woman whether she is your wife or not. This part just dey make me laugh e be like say you like that nigga 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Habib101: 5:48pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
He need corrections 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by tolaswim: 5:48pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Abetterperson: You better don't dear.... 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Nobody: 5:50pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Fuckthamods:Why would you expect them to contribute financially when you don't do house chores or cook? This is the problem I have with most hypocritical folks these days. Y'all want to be traditional and liberal at the same time. Just pick one part, if you're liberal then find a liberal woman and live a liberal life. Don't say you don't want to do house chores or cook because you're a traditional person but you want your wife to assist you with bills (which is untraditional). 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by ziondaughter247: 5:51pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Fuckthamods: My dear, forget the narrative of our parents generation. In this present generation, most women contribute almost equally to running of the home! That is just a fact. Forget all these clout chasing of vilifying Nigerian women by you nairaland boys...Even you will admit that your mother played a major part in your upbringing financially... yes she might not have done the heavy work like paying school fees or house rent, but those small small pocket money daddy will not give you, mommy will definitely find it and give you. And don't lie to yourself, no oyibo woman is blessing you with dollars! In the event of divorce, she will even collect the shirt off your back. I am not contesting the green card one, but the way oyibos are wired, if you don't work you can't chop! You cannot leech off the average oyibo man or woman. Abroad, their men and women contribute almost equally too, that's why they have gender equality. In Nigeria, most times the husband or the wife will carry on with the bills (even though grudgingly) in the event that one of them is not working or loses his/her job. An average oyibo man or woman will never tolerate a leech, either husband or wife. Even if you lost your job for a few months, no one is dashing you dollars unlike a Nigerian partner. This is the FACT. You can argue all you like. 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by WoundedLamb: 5:51pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
He's probably a nairalander. After reading all those stuff they write in the romance section, some of them go back home to start misbehaving. @OP, I had a lot to type, but the way you wrote, I have a strong feeling you can handle him. Failed musician. Haha... wow! 5 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Knows(m): 5:51pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Just say u don’t want him agsin in your mom’s house.. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by elonmuskbaby: 5:53pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
ziondaughter247:are you minding him We know their type.no be Micheal wey dey form I'm an African man dey do boy boy for angela.he dey wash plates,wash pots,go to the market,mop ground and that is on top insults o.if you see how Angela reign insults on top him if he doesn't iron her clothes,you will be wondering is it the same African man that it too chauvinistic to enter kitchen ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by GREATESTPIANIST: 5:53pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Abetterperson:You did the right thing, and I salute how you comported yourself, you are a lady of wisdom, when he is hungry, he go enter kitchen, he's such a lazy and spoilt b*** 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Tajbol4splend(m): 5:54pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
What an effrontery, palapala Ilu Apala 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by LegitGuy22: 5:55pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Op be careful how u talk to him now, incase if he becomes rich like Obi Cubana tomorrow. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by elonmuskbaby: 5:55pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Knows:who will want a rude, arrogant and entitled man around him? If I'm the one sef I'll do same if not worse.its just that komoju komora.if he had self respect sef he supposed to have gotten the body language and check out by himself without being told 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by elonmuskbaby: 5:56pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
LegitGuy22:lmaoo see emotional blackmail There's nobody that can ever be rich with the spirit of pride in him ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by onlyforchrist: 5:56pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
You're the stupid one here kiddo Ammishaddai: 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Fuckthamods: 5:57pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Plead:I'm not complaining about the financial aspect, I'm just saying they should respect themselves and perform their duties since most of them don't contribute financially. Also, men perform chores, but sending them to the kitchen is an abomination. 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by elonmuskbaby: 5:57pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
GREATESTPIANIST:imagine if he was a woman.now imagine the insults she will have gotten about how much of a spoilt brat or slay queen she is ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by 0m0nnakoda: 5:59pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
My own perspective Woman can be funny sha I wonder what your mother would say if he was the son of your father's brother or sister |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by elonmuskbaby: 5:59pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Fuckthamods:lmaoo but to eat the food that comes out of the kitchen isn't abomination? ![]() That's how they just waste your type for nothing by Just cooking anything for you e.g cooking food with unclean water or dirty pot 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by GREATESTPIANIST: 6:00pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:one of the lazy dingbats spotted 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Bamzyriches451: 6:01pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Just angrily shout to his ears "this is not your father's house" you will see him Mello down 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by ziondaughter247: 6:02pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Plead: Are you minding them? They want the best of both worlds, traditional and modern. You cannot eat your cake and have it! This is why we read reports of Nigerian/African marriages crashing abroad. You want your wife to work and split bills down to half and still serve you food like a king, wash your clothes, have sex with you and worship you... ! Lmao.. pick a struggle...I cannot be sharing bills 50:50 and you won't help with anything else (chores) because you are a 'MAN'. I am a 'Woman' too and I deserve to be taken 'kariof'. As the igbos call their wives 'oriaku' 4 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Walkee: 6:02pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Ardar:it's not your house. The house belongs to another male. The guy is a joke BTW |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by dreamtech3636(m): 6:02pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
I bee ghost personal everywhere I no dey contribute to discuss But this topic dey invoke ma provoke The best thing to do na to LOOSE CONTROL SHEAR HOUSE WORK 50-50 IF HIM REFUSE, NO WAHALA COOK SMALL WEY U FEET FINNISH NOW IF HIM NO STILL BEHAVIOR , NO WAHALA LOOK FO agbero GIRLS TROWEY HIM BAG OUT SIDE LOKE DOOR THE BOTTOM LINE BE SAY HIM MAMA DON SPOIL AM AND NOW THEY DON BROKEN FINANCIAL SO THE OVERGROWN BABY ELEPHANT DEY FIND SOME BODY TO SPOON FEED AM NO ASK LOOKING UR MAMA FACE OR ANY BODY WHEN U WAS " SPEAKING THE LANGUAGE THE OVERGROWN BABY ELEPHANT UNDERSTAND" NNWAN NNEM INU GO #EBONYI# 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Nobody: 6:03pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Fuckthamods: If women didn't exist, won't you enter kitchen? Women weren't born with special kitchen hands. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by GindoX(m): 6:04pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
You guys are just raining words on the niggar, girls too get Dem own for body... ![]() |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Kobojunkie: 6:04pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
pocohantas:The reason the OP is having to deal with what she is even today is because of silly sexist ideas such as the one you are spewing here. Change your mindset if you want others to change too. ![]() 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by urchcoded(m): 6:06pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Ardar:I agree the boy in question as well as the one above u are really stupid but, it would be more effective if you calmly explained to him why he should be responsible and know that he doesn't deserve to be worshipped just because he is a man... I'm not saying it's compulsorily oh but if successful, you would be so proud of yourself and he would always talk about you, respect and care for you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Kobojunkie: 6:06pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Plead:Abi! We all have to learn these things as we grow! ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by elonmuskbaby: 6:10pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
ziondaughter247:now someone is seeing the real picture for who he really is 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by elonmuskbaby: 6:12pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
dreamtech3636:see real man talking like a man that was properly raised 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by OlujobaSamuel: 6:12pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Lol, it has nothing to do with gender. My cousin sis(younger) visited and she did no chores throughout her stay, myself, wife and younger brother did house chores while she would just sit and watch. Everyone was angry at such attitude but we kept mute and let things slide as we all know that is her own way. If my wife don't know her other sibling, she might have the impression that it's from her home, but she has lived with the other for longer periods and she knew it's her own way 2 Likes |
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