FuckAllTheMODs:
I don't have much to say other than dropping this image for you.

Ponder over it...

You are a devil,he was also cheating and doing this with another woman as well

chatinent:
Huncle, you separated and the hanty tapped current outside, it's damn legal. She didn't cheat...she owed you no loyalty then. You weren't dating while you separated! Don't get me wrong, I aint taking sides. I also understand some people are notorious for cheating...like na follow-come.

What's cheating is when you both are together.

All you need do is cool down tell am to block off the dude since you are back again.

By the way, I don't support her lying it is her customer. Some lies girls mah dey lie to protect dem current relationship, dem no know say na grenade and when man find out, e fit hard to add up..which breeds suspicion and distrust.


You should be more interested in more important things as you both medical and spiritual compatibility and miscibility.


Make I poke your bubble small..whether you are betrothed, dating, or engaged, you are still single unless you are married. Yes, na me talk am.


Inasmuch as I don't support distant relationships beyond national boundaries at all, if I feel I must leave the country, baba, when I balance in a year or two kindof, I go kuku come marry am...cos the same way you dey feel she fit dey cheat there is the same way she mah go dey feel how you go see all those petite, smirnoff-shaped, rich, and lovely white girls finish come still marry her mbgekishly.

You sef reason am.

This life na balanciaga.

God bless you for me for atleast saying the truth.. I’m facing similar things, he travelled abroad and intensionally stopped talking to me for 7 months, if I msg him he wouldn’t answer, then I moved on with my life, I found someone else and we clicked, when he came back I told him I had moved on, he said he could cope and I said fine...
I left that innocent guy and went back to him
It’s been two years now
He used it against me today

No be juju be that??

mudiana:
do u know there are 6 women to a man ratio in this world? like this u re suffering urself for just one. I pity u sir. pls wake up and get another good gal then settle down.

this is extremely ignorant - there aren't 6 women to a man
.there are actually more men than women worldwide ..try and do some research before sounding so ignorant on a public forum .

Decolink:
Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.

You should be grateful that she waited for you.

Eyinju112:


God bless you for me for atleast saying the truth.. I’m facing similar things, he travelled abroad and intensionally stopped talking to me for 7 months, if I msg him he wouldn’t answer, then I moved on with my life, I found someone else and we clicked, when he came back I told him I had moved on, he said he could cope and I said fine...
I left that innocent guy and went back to him
It’s been two years now
He used it against me today

Eiya you shouldn't have left the innocent guy,men are never OK knowing about your other partner, they will never forgive you,don't be carried away by the pretence of forgiveness, they are very possessive and jealous and can kill.You shouldn't have gone back to him,your greatest mistake.

Geminiempress:
Even d guy man give her hot doggie like u said make d op swear say he himself neva give another hot doggie, missionary, cowgirl etc to another, den we can pass a fair judgement. inbetween y is it so difficult 4 guys 2 forgive such on like women who easily let go

African women let go because society ( men basically) has bullied them into accepting cheating . If you cheat on an oyinbo woman you will know women don't easily forgive - that's becos of equality in marriage, women have their rights and fidelity from a partner is one of those rights

Iyaebe:
You are a devil,he was also cheating and doing this with another woman as well

Ignored!

Decolink:
But I have also cheated,and I have been outside the country for 2year.

Cheating for A man is different from cheating for a woman. The women get emotionally attached to the ones that fvck them after you, even if your dick is times ten of his own and you are more handsome. He conquered her.

You can never enjoy that marriage. Look for someone else. The issue will always come up.

Iyaebe:
Eiya you shouldn't have left the innocent guy,men are never OK knowing about your other partner, they will never forgive you,don't be carried away by the pretence of forgiveness, they are very possessive and jealous and can kill.You shouldn't have gone back to him,your greatest mistake.

You know one thing he does, he keeps dragging this girl he cheated with when we had a fight into the relationship, I no longer talk to that other guy, infact I blocked him on every social media platform,

But he is not ready to let go of that girl he cheated with and everytime I complain, he would say he’s the man

Why is it so

Eyinju112:


God bless you for me for atleast saying the truth.. I’m facing similar things, he travelled abroad and intensionally stopped talking to me for 7 months, if I msg him he wouldn’t answer, then I moved on with my life, I found someone else and we clicked, when he came back I told him I had moved on, he said he could cope and I said fine...
I left that innocent guy and went back to him
It’s been two years now
He used it against me today

You see what I am saying @ decolink?

The issue will always come up.
@eyinju, leave the guy before it's too late. Men don't forget such things.

Pataricatering:
African women let go because society ( men basically) has bullied them into accepting cheating . If you cheat on an oyinbo woman you will know women don't easily forgive - that's becos of equality in marriage, women have their rights and fidelity from a partner is one of those rights

You almost got a tear out of my eyes.... thanks for this

Iyaebe:
Eiya you shouldn't have left the innocent guy,men are never OK knowing about your other partner, they will never forgive you,don't be carried away by the pretence of forgiveness, they are very possessive and jealous and can kill.You shouldn't have gone back to him,your greatest mistake.

Gbam!

obaaderemi:
You see what I am saying @ decolink?

The issue will always come up.
@eyinju, leave the guy before it's too late. Men don't forget such things.

We’ve come too far,,, infact in few month we thinking of getting married

Eyinju112:


We’ve come too far,,, infact in few month we thinking of getting married

Think twice. Unless there's no chance of meeting another eligible bachelor.
It will always be an issue. You deserve to be fairly treated, pampered, respected and happy.

For sleeping with another guy after him, he will never truly value you.

I concur it is wot it is

Pataricatering:
African women let go because society ( men basically) has bullied them into accepting cheating . If you cheat on an oyinbo woman you will know women don't easily forgive - that's becos of equality in marriage, women have their rights and fidelity from a partner is one of those rights

Oga you leave woman when dey her prime for 2 years, what did you think was supposed to happen? I no blame her. She had it in her mind that you were broken up and you might not come back for her. No be all of una dey talk say make dem nor take relationship too seriously? . I love my girl o but if me or her commot the country, problem don dey. Una for break up officially so that as you come back like this, this information no go affect you. But what do I know.

so SENIOR MAN yu need confirmation to knw say na yu be the SIDE CHICK nw?

Zobbyjazzy:
Help me ask werey oh ...beside you know either na Sierra Leone or all these strict Muslim countries werey go

E no get sense be that

Eyinju112:


You know one thing he does, he keeps dragging this girl he cheated with when we had a fight into the relationship, I no longer talk to that other guy, infact I blocked him on every social media platform,

But he is not ready to let go of that girl he cheated with and everytime I complain, he would say he’s the man

Why is it so

They are very weird, I'll advise you to leave that relationship before it becomes very toxic for you.

please give me her contact let me talk to her , trust me she will change.

Bloody simp!

Your mumu never do

You guys separated , and you expect her not to move on? Not possible

marriage and relationship is for people that can forgive, if you can not forgive do not start dating her again, let her go.

Were you faithful the years you guys seperated?















quote author=Decolink post=107158819]Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage pyou ans.[/quote]

Decolink:
Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.

Please I will strongly advise you forget about the relationship cos it will never be the same... especially since you wanna marry her.
Unless you wanna die of HBP....if she really likes you she should be the one doing this and do everything possible to get your trust again...
A friend was told me once your woman f another is over

How are u sure after marrying her then something some how , maybe work takes u out again she will not go out to follow some dude outside....

Well the ball is in your court..

You are talking rubbish, is not true, people marry and move on, are you saying all.married women are having sex with their ex
Are you saying everybidy have sex with their Ex
Go and read the post again, they query and sepearated , meaning the relationship ended, and she moved on to another relationship, so you expect her to keep waiting for a guy that quaried her and seperated from her . Not possible .











author=SmellySperm post=107158910]Is she the only woman in this world? There're chances of her still f.u.ck.ing the other guy when y'all eventually get married.
Seems you want to learn the hard way [/quote]

Decolink:
Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.

u are abroad,how did u get d guys number to call him?

Bro, girls no dey finish. Out of 7 billion people in this world, 5.5bn are women. Don't stress yourself. You are a man, act like one. Just know that there's always that one ex or side nigga or chic who will ruin things. Trust me, she can never be done with him. That guy will keep coming back to her.

Decolink:
Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.

Wow! You are sensible with this comment
This is the best comment I hope the guy read this advice.











uote author=chatinent post=107158911]Huncle, you separated and the hanty tapped current outside, it's damn legal. She didn't cheat...she owed you no loyalty then. You weren't dating while you separated! Don't get me wrong, I aint taking sides. I also understand some people are notorious for cheating...like na follow-come.

What's cheating is when you both are together.

All you need do is cool down tell am to block off the dude since you are back again.

By the way, I don't support her lying it is her customer. Some lies girls mah dey lie to protect dem current relationship, dem no know say na grenade and when man find out, e fit hard to add up..which breeds suspicion and distrust.

You should be more interested in more important things as you both medical and spiritual compatibility and miscibility.


Make I poke your bubble small..whether you are betrothed, dating, or engaged, you are still single unless you are married. Yes, na me talk am.


Inasmuch as I don't support distant relationships beyond national boundaries at all, if I feel I must leave the country, baba, when I balance in a year or two kindof, I go kuku come marry am...cos the same way you dey feel she fit dey cheat there is the same way she mah go dey feel how you go see all those petite, smirnoff-shaped, rich, and lovely white girls finish come still marry her mbgekishly.

You sef reason am.

This life na balanciaga.
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luizpippo:
You traveled in 2020 and you are already outside for 2 years?

How did you arrive at such mathematics.

Guy, you sure say you go school so?