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My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Decolink: 10:16am On Oct 29, 2021
Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Jeon(f): 10:17am On Oct 29, 2021
Decolink:
Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.

Just quit no need for too much stress.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Sonnobax15(m): 10:18am On Oct 29, 2021
grin
Mennnnnnnn,the fact that the other nigha enjoyed your woman to the fullest Simply because you both had a little quarrel should always serve as a quick reminder to you anytime you think of forgiving her lipsrsealed

Anytime wey una go get small misunderstanding,the other guyman go just dey at the receiving end tongue. Free WiFi,free chopping and free digging and pouring tongue

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Nobody: 10:20am On Oct 29, 2021
Is she the only woman in this world? There're chances of her still f.u.ck.ing the other guy when y'all eventually get married.
Seems you want to learn the hard way

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by chatinent: 10:20am On Oct 29, 2021
Huncle, you separated and the hanty tapped current outside, it's damn legal. She didn't cheat...she owed you no loyalty then. You weren't dating while you separated! Don't get me wrong, I aint taking sides. I also understand some people are notorious for cheating...like na follow-come.

What's cheating is when you both are together.

All you need do is cool down tell am to block off the dude since you are back again.

By the way, I don't support her lying it is her customer. Some lies girls mah dey lie to protect dem current relationship, dem no know say na grenade and when man find out, e fit hard to add up..which breeds suspicion and distrust.

You should be more interested in more important things as you both medical and spiritual compatibility and miscibility.


Make I poke your bubble small..whether you are betrothed, dating, or engaged, you are still single unless you are married. Yes, na me talk am.


Inasmuch as I don't support distant relationships beyond national boundaries at all, if I feel I must leave the country, baba, when I balance in a year or two kindof, I go kuku come marry am...cos the same way you dey feel she fit dey cheat there is the same way she mah go dey feel how you go see all those petite, smirnoff-shaped, rich, and lovely white girls finish come still marry her mbgekishly.

You sef reason am.

This life na balanciaga.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by luwiizy(m): 10:21am On Oct 29, 2021
Calculate all the good side about her and the bad side and Decide

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by joshdeni77(m): 10:23am On Oct 29, 2021
No vex
Babes no dey that abroad ni

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Divoc19(f): 10:24am On Oct 29, 2021
Go ahead only when both of you make honesty your best policy.
You reason am, she's been alone for too long

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by GoldenJAT(m): 10:25am On Oct 29, 2021
This relationship matters go make all of us run MAD one day!
Be honest with yourself! You expected her to be faithful to you? Women?. Make expectations no kill man Sha!

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Nobody: 10:25am On Oct 29, 2021
Decolink:
Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.

As long as its a long distance relationship its always a gamble. The two parties will claim faithfulness when sometimes one person or even both are actually cheating.

If she's a good girl and has extraordinary qualities then forgive and continue. If she has nothing to offer but s*x then dump her sorry ass.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Bola146(f): 10:25am On Oct 29, 2021
grin grin who be this again tori Olorun grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Decolink: 10:26am On Oct 29, 2021
But I have also cheated,and I have been outside the country for 2year.
Sonnobax15:
grin
Mennnnnnnn,the fact that the other nigha enjoyed your woman to the fullest Simply because you both had a little quarrel should always serve as a quick reminder to you anytime you think of forgiving her lipsrsealed

Anytime wey una go get small misunderstanding,the other guyman go just dey at the receiving end tongue. Free WiFi,free chopping and free digging and pouring tongue

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Akakanfirstclass(m): 10:26am On Oct 29, 2021
Small quarrel
She don carry kpekus give other niggas..

Yo!..
In Nigeria close distance relationships don't work well, Nigerian girls will be still be playing you evil, how much more long distance..

Mehn.. I know it hurts but, you won't see true love from a girl between 18 - 27 years old cos they are on hoe phase..
Their body still they hot
Until they have seen it all and ready to build an empire with a king.

So just calm down, make money

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by FvckAllMods: 10:27am On Oct 29, 2021
My brother, ask that dude for me o, maybe in dey fear follow oyinbo talk
joshdeni77:
No vex
Babes no dey that abroad ni

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Nobody: 10:27am On Oct 29, 2021
Divoc19:
Go ahead only when both of you make honesty your best policy.
You reason am, she's been alone for too long
Been alone kwa,go back and read carefully. She was fu.c.king someone else when they hard issues
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Sonnobax15(m): 10:30am On Oct 29, 2021
Decolink:
But I have also cheated,and I have been outside the country for 2year.
cheesy Eyahhhhh.....ok I understand bro....Both of you cheated grin. But every guyman with him own mentality cha...But as for me,I don't think I can ever forgive such type of woman,....E go better say make everybody kain e lane make peace for dey......

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by DhanBaba(m): 10:41am On Oct 29, 2021
You for reason if you sef fit forgive and forget

Reason if the lady, will have add a certain positivity into your life... No follow love enter that marriage

My 2kobo�Follow what she have to offer you..

No follow ladies who fall out to other men's Everytime you guys have issues

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by joshdeni77(m): 10:42am On Oct 29, 2021
FvckAllMods:
My brother, ask that dude for me o, maybe in dey fear follow oyinbo talk

Some guys dey funny oh , Nigeria girls majority are not dating you because they love you , it's for the thing you are giving them
Example.... Lagos to Enugu - long distance relationship, Lagos - London - true love...

Moral lesson : white girls would show you legit love .. leave Naija girls

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by chatinent: 10:43am On Oct 29, 2021
Decolink:
But I have also cheated,and I have been outside the country for 2year.

If when you “cheated” was when you guys separated, it wasn't cheating.

Make things up. Go marry am.


Lalasticlala Dominique

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Nobody: 11:03am On Oct 29, 2021
The first mistake is keeping a relationship when you left Nigeria.

The second mistake is dating her again after the breakup.

The third mistake is yet to happen but I know you will not have sense to cancel your subscription for the relationship.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by luizpippo(m): 11:38am On Oct 29, 2021
You traveled in 2020 and you are already outside for 2 years?

How did you arrive at such mathematics.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Tbvxl: 11:52am On Oct 29, 2021
luizpippo:
You traveled in 2020 and you are already outside for 2 years?

How did you arrive at such mathematics.




grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy
I swear the guy awed me

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Decolink: 12:26pm On Oct 29, 2021
luizpippo:
You traveled in 2020 and you are already outside for 2 years?

How did you arrive at such mathematics.
January 2020 is approximately 2yrs now

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by jericco1(m): 12:30pm On Oct 29, 2021
Relationships matter don tire me angry

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by jericco1(m): 12:31pm On Oct 29, 2021
Akakanfirstclass:
Small quarrel
She don carry kpekus give other niggas..

Yo!..
In Nigeria close distance relationships don't work well, Nigerian girls will be still be playing you evil, how much more long distance..

Mehn.. I know it hurts but, you won't see true love from a girl between 18 - 27 years old cos they are on hoe phase..
Their body still they hot
Until they have seen it all and ready to build an empire with a king.

So just calm down, make money

Interesting

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Divoc19(f): 12:34pm On Oct 29, 2021
Alone without the op I meant
SmellySperm:

Been alone kwa,go back and read carefully. She was fu.c.king someone else when they hard issues
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by goshikid: 12:35pm On Oct 29, 2021
Sometimes the rate at which weak guys claim they love their cheating girfriend is alarming undecided Like WTF, is she the only girl in the world? Guy you need a brain resetting slap. Never wife a ho.e, no girlfriend is to be trusted. Have an abundant metality and see yourself solving half of relationship problems ... WTF is wrong with you bro undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by arthurwillia(m): 12:38pm On Oct 29, 2021
Lol Oga
She’s just coming back to you because you are abroad and she sef wan japa

If she’s still intact
You can risk it sha
But if dem don tear am
Free her

But do you want to lie you are not sampling other girls there

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by peedeeasobie(m): 12:52pm On Oct 29, 2021
Decolink:
Please I will try to be brief.
I started dating her in 2017,we dated for 3yrs and I traveled outside the country in 2020.
We didn't have any problems and I was serious about getting married to her.
When I was leaving she promised not to have another boyfriend and to wait for me(she is 24). I promised not to disappoint her.
It was going well for sometime until after one year,we had a quarel and separated.

About 3 months ago,we got back together,and she said she was still intact and waiting for me.
We started communicating regularly,but I noticed that each time were talking,she would be receiving calls frequently,after sometime,I confronted her with it,she lied that he was her customer. But I called the guy and found out he is a guy that was chiking her before.
She later admitted that she dated the guy when we had quarels. She also admitted to going to night clubs that period.

I still love her,but I'm pained because she cheated,lied about it and was reluctant about coming out of that relationship.
I'm also thinking of continuing the relationship because I have been outside for 2year now,it happened when we quarelled and she has agreed to stop it.
Nairalanders,do you think I should quit the relationship or go ahead with marriage plans.




Why would you call or confront a competitor? Why??
Never ever call a guy calling your girlfriend or asking her out...

There is a reason he is calling, your girlfriend allowed and permitted it

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by ramatintin(m): 1:00pm On Oct 29, 2021
Some guys are a disgrace to the male gender. You are in love with someone who lied and cheated on you.you need a resounding slap to reset your brain

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated Yet I Want To Continue With The Relationship by Pinkyposh(f): 1:01pm On Oct 29, 2021
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