My sister dated a guy out of pity, because he lost everything he had. Stayed with the guy for almost two years, feeding and taking care of all his financial needs. She finally got him a contract, and he started making money. The guy later turned into an ungrateful monster and a cheat, she quietly called it quits and moved on. She has no regrets though, just glad she helped out, especially when the slowpoke almost committed suicide.

inoki247:
why will I date a gurl out of pity if I go mistakenly giv her belle nko..

na make we come chop naming food.

If you can't drink or eat poison out of pity or sentiments, why then would you commit to something that could lead to marriage or deep commitments out of pity... Except you don't value your future.

Damnnn
He get one girl wey we gather dey that time for army barrack for upper saponba.... The girl just love up maybe because of I dey hot.... She go cum dey visit me, dey use style dey seduce me.... Las Las I straff am.... We no dey date Sha but we dey bang steady.....
She is actually a nice girl

Those Calabar girls enh

Them dey bang tire...

Gobengroup:
Your opinion please!
Have you ever dated a girl that crushed on you out of pity because you don't want to take her for granted.

Dating is still ok, but married out of pity , its suicidal!

I biliv 90% of ladies that guys married out of pity (women hardly married out of pity) always lead to problem and enduring if not divorce.

dreh17:


I've not had a gf since I broke up with my last. That's a year plus now. Ion even have pussy to Bleep and not really interested. Just weed and money.

Nice 1 bro.
no time for love, smoke my loud and hurstle.

Bigredmachine:
Who does that... Doing such is not wise for either party... I have heard it's very suicidal to marry out of pity... But for dating out of pity, and considering the time and resources to be wasted, I don't think it's a wise thing to do...

U may be doing it but you wouldn't know. Some people just keep lying to themselves. U can't let her go cos she is too caring and if u let her go she may harm herself
All am saying people lie to themselves

EkehPraise:
My first official girlfriend. I dated her as compensation for being homely and caring for me when I was ill, she cooked, visited me at the hospital and stayed with me till I was discharged. We lived in the same compound, her affection for me was audible to the deaf and I didn't want neighbors to laugh at her or think of her as desperate so I shamed them by dating her.
When she started sleeping over at my apartment and I wasn't touching her She ended the relationship herself.

You well so? You ran for FREE PUSSSY?

Nakedtruths:

Is she fair, slim and fine like?

Do you still recall a chidinma, the music star that features flavour often?

She looks like chidinma in all external features.

Twice.
I dated the first one for five years.
Anytime we wan break up, she go fall sick. It was hard. But she was a great girl but she wasn't ready to get married. She wan finish school first. She was a virgin too.
I began to look for excuse to break up. I finally found one that was justified.
The second one was a virgin too and an SU. She was absolutely great, very prayerful but she was not well educated. I regretted dating her because someone introduced us. I was afraid of how she might feel if I broke up with her. I finally told her the truth.
Their future husbands are going to be very lucky if they are not stupid.
Great Girls but they weren't for me.

marsup:
My sister dated a guy out of pity, because he lost everything he had. Stayed with the guy for almost two years, feeding and taking care of all his financial needs. She finally got him a contract, and he started making money. The guy later turned into an ungrateful monster and a cheat, she quietly called it quits and moved on. She has no regrets though, just glad she helped out, especially when the slowpoke almost committed suicide.

you see that Nigerian men don't like good women
But why is he committing suicide na

Why weren't you touching her?

EkehPraise:
My first official girlfriend. I dated her as compensation for being homely and caring for me when I was ill, she cooked, visited me at the hospital and stayed with me till I was discharged. We lived in the same compound, her affection for me was audible to the deaf and I didn't want neighbors to laugh at her or think of her as desperate so I shamed them by dating her.
When she started sleeping over at my apartment and I wasn't touching her She ended the relationship herself.

Hope she did not have sex with him

marsup:
My sister dated a guy out of pity, because he lost everything he had. Stayed with the guy for almost two years, feeding and taking care of all his financial needs. She finally got him a contract, and he started making money. The guy later turned into an ungrateful monster and a cheat, she quietly called it quits and moved on. She has no regrets though, just glad she helped out, especially when the slowpoke almost committed suicide.

Joysticks:
Most of you are telling lies.If a guy date a girl out of pity and not love,your prik no go stand.You no go get mood to fuk her.
As for ladies you can't date a broke dude right?So you can't date a guy out of pity.

lol u are yet to experience so many things in this life.
I feel like such a bad person when ever I remember my ordeal with the lady that disvirgined me.
I did her bad. My first year in uniport.
She was older and from a well to do family. Not that she wasn't fine, I just didn't find her attractive.
This lady had been giving me signs for months, I saw the signs but wasn't interested to much. One day she invited me over to her place after talking she started kissing me. I took control as a guy reached for the breast(very huge breasts) and I later bleeped her. She gave me BJ during the sex cuz my penis fell I wasn't feeling her to much.

Pillow talk , she started telling me about her past relationships and how she never gave blowjobs but beacause she really liked me.

I realised what I was getting into(the lady was to emotional) I told her there and then while we were still naked that I didn't like her and j didn't enjoy the sex.
She took it in good faith but would do things like cook for me expensive food and bring it over and always wanted to be near me and my friends. I had to drag her out of my house by force one day. This lady would cry and beg me that I should take her out she would spend all the money and I did not need to worry(of course I declined not only cuz I didn't want to be seen with her but my pride as a guy would not let me.) I took advantage of her love and would make her do all types of nasty things like give me deep throat etc

I would go off and on and anytime I put her on call she was ever ready to take me in and I would bang the shit out of her and disaapear. As long as I could tell a lie.

I did that girl dirty god forgive me.

prophetfire:
. You weren't touching her It's like Lia Monhammed has an apprentice inside Nairaland. Talk true naaaaaaaa ahah!

I've housed a very attractive lady for two months and na only hug we dey collect only when either of us comes home. Not all men are like you.

Yep,did once n regretted it....their poor state at first attracts the pity, after see me finish don enter and she is getting on her legs ,d real colour enters .this can take years .wen dat thing dat made u pity her is no longer there break up is inevitable

I'm currently dating a young widow out of pity.She lost her husband very early in life and is left to cater for her two kids all by herself and l find myself providing the most of what they need out of humanitarian considerations.The truth is I wasn't aware of her situation until I got deeper into the relationship and it would be disastrous if I should leave

That was my first girlfriend

You have the idea, but you are getting it twisted.

Firstly there is no such thing as someone loving you more than you love them. It is either you love them or you don't love them.

Now the lady in question does actually like you a lot, for her to be willing to empty her account for you.
Look women are very easy and simple to understand. It is just that some men(maybe including you) try to twist things and make it seem as if women are complicated.

Too many men currently are in relationships(transactional relationships) with women that don't like them. Such women are with the men only for what the men can provide them.

Once a woman likes you, she would be prepared to move heaven and earth for you, it is that simple.

SmartPolician:
Yes oh! The babe wanted to finish me with love. I had to end it because I knew I didn't have feelings for her. But then, I learned something: when a woman loves you more than you love her, you will realize that love is a beautiful thing.

Imagine someone I earn much more than trying to empty her account for me because I told her I was broke. Life is not fair; those we don't love love us, but those we love keep saying that they are scared to give their hearts away.

It ended in tears

i married my husband out of pity

inoki247:
why will I date a gurl out of pity if I go mistakenly giv her belle nko..

Lol then u will become a father out pity.

Feelings79:
I'm currently dating a young widow out of pity.She lost her husband very early in life and is left to cater for her two kids all by herself and l find myself providing the most of what they need out of humanitarian considerations.The truth is I wasn't aware of her situation until I got deeper into the relationship and it would be disastrous if I should leave

What do you intend to do with her?

Any plans to bring them into your house to be family?

Thread carefully.

destinychidi:
i married my husband out of pity

But head over heels in love with him now... it do happens.

SmartPolician:
Yes oh! The babe wanted to finish me with love. I had to end it because I knew I didn't have feelings for her. But then, I learned something: when a woman loves you more than you love her, you will realize that love is a beautiful thing.

Imagine someone I earn much more than trying to empty her account for me because I told her I was broke. Life is not fair; those we don't love love us, but those we love keep saying that they are scared to give their hearts away.

I don't call that love.... I call that desperation.
The lady was probably in her prime and trying to settle down and you took advantage of the situation

Yup. Did that a couple of times both in high school and in college; it always never ends well.

Moral of the story: it isn’t worth it … not even for her, so don’t do it.


O pari

Gobengroup:
Your opinion please!
Have you ever dated a girl that crushed on you out of pity because you don't want to take her for granted.

Danjikanbauchi:
liar Mohammed have many disciples ooo, sleeping over in your place and you don't touch her uncle tell us another lie.

Of course na, that's self discipline. I hv had on two different occasions that I slept on same bed with these two girls without torching