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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Froshloaded: 1:26pm On Nov 22, 2021
EkehPraise:
My first official girlfriend. I dated her as compensation for being homely and caring for me when I was ill, she cooked, visited me at the hospital and stayed with me till I was discharged. We lived in the same compound, her affection for me was audible to the deaf and I didn't want neighbors to laugh at her or think of her as desperate so I shamed them by dating her.
When she started sleeping over at my apartment and I wasn't touching her She ended the relationship herself.
Bro you wicked sha grin

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by belshazzar(m): 1:35pm On Nov 22, 2021
Yes i did date a lady out of pity for her, but it didn't end well

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by SmartPolician: 1:37pm On Nov 22, 2021
GiftedTitty:


I don't call that love.... I call that desperation.
The lady was probably in her prime and trying to settle down and you took advantage of the situation undecided

@emboldened, that's not true.
Every girl has her kind of man.
She had guys asking her out, but she told me that they weren't her spec.

We were friends and I just saw her as a friend, but she had feelings for me. When the greenlight became obvious, I gave it a shot - something that I should not have.

Months later, I had to end it because I felt I was deceiving her but that made things much worse because she kept crying and stopped going to work. In fact, her colleagues were even calling me to know what I did to her (because she kept showing me off to everyone).

By and large, she is a nice person and an unrepentant giver. Afterward, I swore never to have anything with a lady I don't love ever again. Thank God everything is fine now. I cannot make that mistake again.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Aguilar(m): 1:38pm On Nov 22, 2021
I did. She's stuck with me. I've tried to ghost her not 1 or 2 times, but she keeps coming back.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Ojb194616: 1:42pm On Nov 22, 2021
Mine seem complicated. Somewhere in my head I want her gone. But anytime she decides to go, I really can't let her go. L

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Valuc: 1:43pm On Nov 22, 2021
EkehPraise:
My first official girlfriend. I dated her as compensation for being homely and caring for me when I was ill, she cooked, visited me at the hospital and stayed with me till I was discharged. We lived in the same compound, her affection for me was audible to the deaf and I didn't want neighbors to laugh at her or think of her as desperate so I shamed them by dating her.
When she started sleeping over at my apartment and I wasn't touching her She ended the relationship herself.
finally who won? Who laugh last .. You or your neighbors

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Onyiiobi7735(m): 1:46pm On Nov 22, 2021
BlackXabbath:
Yes, the best friend I've come across as regards to the female gender.

She's from akwa-ibom, Emem (peace). I met her when I was still in kaduna for business.

Apart from the mind-blowing coitus we did had, she showed me the beauty of companionship.
But are you still with her?
Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by marsup: 1:47pm On Nov 22, 2021
Hayee:
you see that Nigerian men don't like good women cheesy cheesy grin
But why is he committing suicide na sad sad sad
Guess he was tired of life, no money, no friends. He was a mess, guess that was why she took pity on him. He is doing well now, that's all that matters to my sister, she has moved on.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Onyiiobi7735(m): 1:48pm On Nov 22, 2021
Sonnobax15:
undecided
Yeah I did...Way back in 2013.....But later on she was the one who told me she wasn't good enough for me...So tay she even had to introduce a friend's of hers who was from a well-to-do home to me...But I no gree for her cheesy. In stead I was more interested in her.....Na so we take dey till this moment cheesy. My brothers,love dey exist... Don't let anybody deceive you....Na until you jam true love,na them you go realize say YES true true everybody get him own better half.
On point.
True love really exists.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by marsup: 1:48pm On Nov 22, 2021
angelfallz:
Hope she did not have sex with him

grin. I don't know. Do men have the urge for sex, when they are broke or stressed?

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Fremantle: 1:58pm On Nov 22, 2021
There was this lady friend of mine, who liked me but I wasn't feeling same. She would always want to walk by me when ever we were going for lectures(changing halls) but I neva liked her, too the extent she had to ask a couple of my friends if I can't date her or if I was gay cos what she expected me to do, I wasn't doing it.

Left school and about a year later, she confessed she liked me, I only told her how I felt towards her and y I neva made any moves.

Even after 3yrs she's still into me and still wants us to see although we're in different states. I try as much as possible to avoid meeting.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Rosement(f): 2:01pm On Nov 22, 2021
Gobengroup:
Your opinion please!
Have you ever dated a girl that crushed on you out of pity because you don't want to take her for granted.
If you date a lady out of pity, you will end up hurting her more and if you try not to hurt her, you will be hurting yourself because you don't love her. If she needs financial assistance, you can give it to her with no strings attached. You cannot force love, it is better to hurt her now than to hurt her later in a bigger way.

Why would you be with someone you feel is not worth you, such sacrifice is not necessary. If she hurt you later, you will feel so disguised because she means nothing to you.

Just this year, I helped one of my mum's student but I did it through my mum because I know he has feelings for me but he did not communicate it to me through his words because I allowed him to know his boundaries.
He is meant to graduate this year but he carried over another lecturer's course and his family refused to pay his school fees, he tried to struggle to raise his school fees for himself but he had an accident while trying. Though, I did not have much with me, I told my mum to ask him how much remained and I paid it off because there is no harm in helping, why will I watch someone drop out of school when I can try to help? My advice is, a guy can assist such lady if he wants to help her but he should not hurt her by dating her.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Hayee(f): 2:07pm On Nov 22, 2021
marsup:
Guess he was tired of life, no money, no friends. He was a mess, guess that was why she took pity on him. He is doing well now, that's all that matters to my sister, she has moved on.
ahhh your sister is God sent but some foolish men will see someone like her and still treat her like trash angry angry angry

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Joelobioha(m): 2:09pm On Nov 22, 2021
BeeBeeOoh:
My grandfather told me these 3 things on his sick bed before dying.


1. That I shouldn't date or marry out of pity.

2. That I shouldn't date or marry out of wealth. And lastly,

3. That I shouldn't date or marry out of beauty.

Reason is because the disadvantages weighs more than the advantages.
didn't he issue other wise words besides relationship stuff..just asking.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Ofadaman(m): 2:18pm On Nov 22, 2021
I have
Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by OFAIKGROUPS(m): 2:19pm On Nov 22, 2021
Joysticks:
Baba,lie smallNa lie.Your grandpa told you nothing.

bad guy aka DETECTIVE JoySticks cool grin grin grin grin grin grin heheheheehhehh!...

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Nobody: 2:23pm On Nov 22, 2021
Valuc:
finally who won? Who laugh last .. You or your neighbors
By the time the relationship ended their gaze on us had shifted

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Tapout(m): 2:24pm On Nov 22, 2021
Danjikanbauchi:
liar Mohammed have many disciples ooo, sleeping over in your place and you don't touch her uncle tell us another lie.

I don't know if that guy is lying, but what he said is possible. I'm speaking from experience. There are guys out there that won't be moved by a lady's presence if they have no feelings (likeness or whatever) for her.

I wonder why some of you are surprised at that statement.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Nov 22, 2021
Froshloaded:

Bro you wicked sha grin

grin Honestly to get intimate with someone I'm not attracted to is not in my mode of operation

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Nov 22, 2021
angelfallz:
Why weren't you touching her?


I didn't find her attractive to that extent.
Just a few kisses here and there

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by QuickStandard: 2:25pm On Nov 22, 2021
EkehPraise:
My first official girlfriend. I dated her as compensation for being homely and caring for me when I was ill, she cooked, visited me at the hospital and stayed with me till I was discharged. We lived in the same compound, her affection for me was audible to the deaf and I didn't want neighbors to laugh at her or think of her as desperate so I shamed them by dating her.
When she started sleeping over at my apartment and I wasn't touching her She ended the relationship herself.

Huh
Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Nobody: 2:28pm On Nov 22, 2021
ImoleNaija:


That thing dey pain girls ehn
grin grin
The way she ended it ehn, it was like I became a monster to her. Whenever I tried to get intimate my senior man will refuse to obey. Even when kissing her my mind will be roaming the whole town thinking about something else entirely.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Nov 22, 2021
prophetfire:
. You weren't touching her It's like Lia Monhammed has an apprentice inside Nairaland. Talk true naaaaaaaa ahah!

It's up to you to believe it or not. I am that self controlled

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by younglleo: 2:29pm On Nov 22, 2021
Worst 3yrs of my life!
Dated this girl out of pity and her low self esteem, always laying curses wen ever i requested for a breakup!
But laslas it ended, all thanks to the most high

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by LMS1(m): 2:50pm On Nov 22, 2021
Sonnobax15:
undecided
Yeah I did...Way back in 2013.....But later on she was the one who told me she wasn't good enough for me...So tay she even had to introduce a friend's of hers who was from a well-to-do home to me...But I no gree for her cheesy. In stead I was more interested in her.....Na so we take dey till this moment cheesy. My brothers,love dey exist... Don't let anybody deceive you....Na until you jam true love,na them you go realize say YES true true everybody get him own better half.
8 Years! Pharoah Let My Sister Gooo! grin

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by angelfallz(m): 2:56pm On Nov 22, 2021
Lol. yes. ask poor people.
in fact the more broke and stressed they are, the stronger their sexual urges.
marsup:
grin. I don't know. Do men have the urge for sex, when they are broke or stressed?

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Kirkman: 3:11pm On Nov 22, 2021
Feelings79:
I'm currently dating a young widow out of pity.[b]She lost her husband very early in life and is left to cater for her two kids all by herself and l find myself providing the most of what they need out of humanitarian considerations.[/b]The truth is I wasn't aware of her situation until I got deeper into the relationship and it would be disastrous if I should leave
God bless your good heart for being a helping hand to them.

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Segunthekingmak: 3:24pm On Nov 22, 2021
Gee nigga leave that matter for Matthias
Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Nov 22, 2021
Joysticks:
Most of you are telling lies.If a guy date a girl out of pity and not love,your prik no go stand.You no go get mood to fuk her.
As for ladies you can't date a broke dude right?So you can't date a guy out of pity.
You dey mind dem grin

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Re: Have You Ever Dated A Girl Out Of Pity?? by goodLord3dg2: 3:31pm On Nov 22, 2021
No I have never seen a girl that will crush on me with sincerity and honesty

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