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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Tonnyray: 3:11pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Tony speaks.. 17 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nezzjnr: 3:30pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
heartofcity12:If it's about my Tribesmen... This is just the obvious Truth. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 4:47pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Legionx: Wen I mean females don't have IQ, I talk based on generalizations Females don't have IQ because they always instinctively prioritize emotions before logic. Okonjo iweala and Dora are all exceptions and for every okonjo we have a million Einstein Am not in rp rage and I love women, I don't see women as my equals in anything in life. Men and women are very different 10 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 4:51pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Lightway: It's our innate biological makeup to provide, protect and give parental investment to the female we wanna have children with. If u want to fight biology then you will end up at the psychiatric hospital Men are idealist Women are opportunist 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 4:53pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Mentholated: ARE U STUPID? MEN ARE PROMISCUOUS NOT HYPERGAMOUS WOMEN ARE HYPERGAMOUS NOT PROMISCUOUS U STILL HAVE AN EGALITARIAN EQUALISM MINDSET SHA TUEHHHHH!!!! 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KennethIbe59(m): 4:53pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Abeg continue, I dey learn from u .. No let those people stop u from teaching others.... Na like dis Dem do con make king og stop posting, person way I dey enjoy his vibe.. Bros continue love no dey... Lightway: 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 4:54pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
heartofcity12: Female nature is amoral It is wat it is 9 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lordcassy: 5:09pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Mentholated:ooo My gosh!!!...I can't help you believe what you believe.... 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ElasmoBranchii(m): 5:10pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Lightway:What is your definition of love? 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rillycool(m): 5:10pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Lightway: So much on point... 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lordcassy: 5:22pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
DEMZEE: I don't like the way you insult them....they are just ignorant and are using their blue pill reasoning to think... Alot of half-baked people, who have not done the work but think they can break the redpill to fit their worldview and make themselves feel good are here.... Now I know why Rollo Tomassi calls out people who are drifters of the redpill... Concerning that light statement about provider ko forefathers nii.... Guess they do not know about Alpha bleeps Beta bucks...if you are trying to be beta then listen to girl...lol...you have already failed before you begun... Words of wisdoms..."You can never fill an already full cup"... if you come into the redpill and think you can bend to your will and some knowledge you think have....then you are no better than the fools in west shouting "Gender is construct".... Demzee take it easy on them...they know not what they do.... 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rillycool(m): 5:23pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
heartofcity12:[color=#000099][/color] Lmao!!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightway: 5:24pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
DEMZEE: This is what you wrote
Exactly just like in the days of old, a man will provide shelter, food, and protection for his wife and children but that was not love. Our forefathers did not describe this as love. This was our natural order. However, times have changed. We are not animals and we have evolved. Women are now becoming providers just like men. Women are even becoming smarter and they're using the fact that we, men are natural providers to collect money from us. You see women saying " a real man will take care of his girlfriend or another man will" A real man will make his girflriend happy. In fact, no one is talking about marrying a virgin in media these days, because men have been fooled to believing that they love ideally. Men don't demand anything from women like our forefathers did. (Our forefathers demanded virginity and cursed single mothers). Women are using the fact that in the days of old, they were seen as insignificant babies with fish brains, they are using this to outsmart men today. That's why you see them feign ignorance in some situations and hope that men come to their aid. Because men see women as soft creatures that don't think straight. But women today are using this to their advantage. They are using the fact that men want to be providers to take their money. The problem is that men think that by giving a woman money is how you show love. What about forefathers that married 4 to 5 wives and took care of all of them. What about Ned Nwoko? Do you want to tell me Ned Nwoko loves Regina Daniels or he just wants a fresh, fair body and he became a provider to secure it. Regina Daniels on the other hand saw that he is a provider who will keep her rich till the end of her life and she accepted it. Both parties win. The problem with today's men is that they are becoming providers for women all in the name of love without getting anything in return. if men stop providing for women, these ladies will either try to use SIGN langugage (Shame, Insults, Guilt and Need to be right) to bend the man to do their well. If all men stop being providers until they get something from women. Then you will see women returning back to their traditional status. I mean, why should I be your provider if you're not giving me your virginity. The problem with men today, is that men think they fall in love. There is no such thing as love. Nigerian men are so fooled by movies and their sex starvation that they think that providing for a woman is a way to show love. When a man provides for a woman, he will hope that she falls in love with him too. That's what the man wants. If you provide and she doesn't fall in love with you, you will try harder to win her love and do more. This is what men thinks will keep a woman loyal . That's why you see them crying after they spent on a girl and she broke up with them. You will hear him crying that after all he has spent. This is the sunk cost fallacy that Ubunja talks about. When the man spends so much it is harder for him to pull out. Not because he is in love but because of how much he has given. He can't believe that he will lose everything. It is the same thing with businesses. When you invest so much in a business idea. Even though the ship starts sinking, you will want to hold on for as long as possible. Is it because you love the business? No. It is because you've invested so much and you don't want to accept reality just yet. Many Nigerian men will have sleepless nights if a woman spends on them and they don't have enough money to spend on her. If she tells him that she is going to pay for the marriage. He will get scared that people will hear that she is the one paying for the relationship and he is not man enough to hustle. Does this sound like love? There is a story on nairaland of a man that was worried that his girlfriend earned more than him. He even posted it on nairaland asking if he should double his hustle or end the relationship. Men see themselves as providers and when they're not providing for a girl, they feel worthless. That's why you see men sacrificing for a girl. That's why you see them writing exam for their girlfriend. If he doesn't do it, it will look as if he can't help his girl in her time of need. He takes his problem solver position and helps her out. This is not love, but because he sees himself as the provider and if he doesn't do it, she might break up with him or go somewhere else. He is not doing it for love. There is no love anywhere. There is also the issue of low self esteem. A lot of blue-pilled men have low-self esteem. When they look at a girl, they see pussy, breast and a soft voice of an angel. They calculate this as a woman's worth. That's why when they see a beautiful woman that doesn't ABC, they are ready to get on their knees and beg her. He is ready to be her provider to ensure that this beautiful woman he saw belongs to him. Is that love? 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Aaron12(m): 5:30pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
All these woke redpill drifters typing shiits up and down this thread. Please real redpillers give us better quotes, Thanks. 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightway: 5:37pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
ElasmoBranchii: Love is about fidelity, allegiance, commitment, being there with each other through sickness and in health, and establishing a well fortified bond underneath all that sexual dopamine bullshit. This is what another redpiller describes as love. The truth is that, this love we talk about is a social construct. Just the way sexual harrasment is a social construct. Here is the meaning of social construct A social construct is something that exists not in objective reality, but as a result of human interaction. It exists because humans agree that it exists. It is not something natural but something that was born from the West. It is something designed to make life look more beautiful. Because in life, no one wants to be alone, no one wants to be lonely. And love means someone will be there for you always. So humans or white people created this belief of love to make life look more beautiful. But since there isn't anything like love in nature, the feeling wears off after a while. Just like any other feeling (anger, hate, sadness). The feeling can last long just the same way depression can last long. When I say the feeling, I refer to the feeling we think that is love. There is no such thing as love, but we as humans have managed to create a feeling that we can be with one woman and one man and hope that it lasts forever. Remember they say that "true love lasts forever". Remember I say that no one wants to be alone or lonely in this life. This is why so many people are chasing true love. However, it is not real. That's why you see some men after marriage start cheating with younger women with fresh bodies. But some men will stick to their wives no matter what. These men believe so much in the social construct and will not want to pull out because if you say that there is no love in this world, then the world becomes a dark place with no colour. Men don't fall in love Women don't fall in love The reason why a lot of blue-pilled men provide so much for women is that they see themselves as providers, they have low self esteem, and they think that by providing for her, she will love him back. He want's to her to be his. And he thinks she is worthy of his money. He thinks that by doing this she will see it as a sacrifice, he thinks that it is love. No. it is a Hollywood dream, because women are smarter than that 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Someoneschild2: 5:39pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
... I only see a particular moniker trying to shove an opinion down every other person's throat. Lmao @ "we are not open minded". Just a mischievous say of saying "you must accept what I say" Let's stay on course, comrades. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightway: 5:41pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Someoneschild2: I'm actually hoping for someone to counter this so that I can learn more. I'm not interested in being right or wrong. I'm interested in seeing people's perspective based on their experiences. That is how the rich get richer and the poorer get poorer. By looking for knowledge rather than trying to be wise. 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by adambeatz(m): 5:46pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
As Rudolf Steiner once said ''people who don't have the courage to be cruel often develop cruel beliefs''. Believe me this isnt far from the truth as we see it occurring in our everyday lives. Politicians are looting the economy without pity, security agencies who swore to protect the innocent end up harming them at times due to survival instincts, the average Nigerian man goes out in search of resources to cater for his family knows its a dog eat dog world, the youths know the moment they are given power they must loot enough to sustain themselves. The ones already in power know the average Nigerian is a thief waiting for his turn at power and as such make sure he never gets it. An average Nigerian women knows the hardships that awaits her cause the system is already broken, she knows its difficult for men already then how much more she a lady and as such is ready to manipulate and Bleep her way to the top. Kids who should be in school are already into yahoo as they know things aren't getting better and the earliest they strike Gold the better for them. The people in power tell you in order to change the system you have to be within the system to change it from the inside, lol, lies as they control the system and would never let that happen. You see gentlemen I'll be honest with myself here, what i do before dating any girl is i investigate her family to find out how she was raised: 1. Was she raised in abundance or scarcity. 2. Did her parents even show her love or they simply brushed her aside whilst growing up Gentlemen learn how to ask yourself questions so you don't pick up an emotionally broken person and come cry foul when she's breaks your heart or when she's more in tuned with gathering resources from you like there is about to be a zombie outbreak. We are men, we know more than anyone what hardship does to a human's soul talkless of a woman. #staywoke# 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Peaceyw(m): 5:50pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Stop feeding that guy attention, I figured it out early and told him to think before he post anything here. The whole attention he is getting has gotten to his head, @Martinez39s, ignore him, don't type epistles for him again, he just wants to feed his ego. 15 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by jrobbins: 5:55pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Benee1000:Gold 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:57pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Someoneschild2:LOL. Gbam! No answer is ever enough, yet he/she wants to keep arguing. He/she has clearly made up his/her mind, yet he/she wants to keep arguing. Agree to disagree is not even enough. Tell me if something isn't fishy here. If you don't engage the person because you notice his/her mind is made up and you tell others to ignore because the person's mind is made up (hence arguments are futile), you will then be accused of being narrow-minded and not open to learning. The narrow-minded folk will then act like he/she is just trying to learn and just looking for answer... all to keep on arguing to score worthless points. All you see are nonsequiturs from the argumentative individual. 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 5:58pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Peaceyw:I have already done that. I can now see the mischief at work. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:01pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
luminouz: 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:06pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
From what I am reading, I can see more mischievous accounts infiltrating. Spot them and ignore them. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Lightway: 6:11pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Martinez39s: Sorry about derailing your thread. This is my last post here.. unless someone quotes me. Then I'll reply. It was never my intention to detail. I thought redpillers are more open minded. Goodbye 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Peaceyw(m): 6:17pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Intact we are not open minded, don't come and use "open-minded" to score cheap points here. Let us be narrow minded, we love it like that. Imaging saying " I thought redpillers were more open-minded". Which means you don't even see urself as a redpiller and u want to come and tell us what to do here... Abeg getat 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ThomasShelby(m): 6:19pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Lightway: Most of all you described as ‘love’ is simping, which the redpill is totally against. Love is another entity which the redpill brothers have been telling you. 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 6:21pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Peaceyw: 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ElasmoBranchii(m): 6:22pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Lightway: Do you agree with his definition?
Interesting, are other emotions social construct too because they don't have physical representation?
Can you say that other emotions such as fear, anger, happiness etc don't exist because "the feeling wears off after a while"?
They said... What do you say love is? this is a very important question. The reason why a lot of blue-pilled men provide so much for women is that they see themselves as providers, they have low self esteem, and they think that by providing for her, she will love him back. He want's to her to be his. And he thinks she is worthy of his money. He thinks that by doing this she will see it as a sacrifice, he thinks that it is love. No. it is a Hollywood dream, because women are smarter than that Would you agree with me that they were taught that was how to express the feeling they call love? 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Algebrah: 6:34pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
I don tire for him aswear It is what it is, let's move on abeg Peaceyw: 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Andremalan731: 6:36pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
Hello brothers Abeg make una come advise me o My baby mama is now using my surname I went to her workplace today to check my daughter and some of her colleagues were calling her Mrs (my surname) I didn’t say anything or really take it serious until I saw her name on some materials and documents on her desk That’s when I confirmed she has been using my surname officially I was so angry I wanted to slap her. I wanted to also arrest her but my friend said I don’t really have a case against her and I should also think about my daughter. Please what can I do to stop this nonsense 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 6:41pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
mehn,this one off me women sha I think you should speak to a lawyer,they will know how to handle such a thing. Andremalan731: 7 Likes |
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