Lightway:
Mentholated

Your points are top notch.

Love is a social construct

Men don't fall in love

Don't deceive yourself.

You can never love a woman

heartofcity12:
Oh ok, not surprised. Flavor has the body, Future the toxic type. Another classical example that women are attracted to bad boys. Both men have multiple baby mamas, she’s a feminist and you wonder why she’s still attracted to such men, what happened to intentional and real men like Will Smith and Russell?

ma373733:


Not really it happens when there's no reciprocity from the other person as expected.

Women in general invest so little men are very sacrificial I'll repeat that again again

The only time women are sacrificial is just having a child that's why they love Thier children .


Men love women women only love Thier children sacrificially

I'm still waiting for his stat
Men have higher rate of heart breaks because they can't easily move on due to Thier sacrifices towards the relationship .
Men have highest sucides half of them are relationship related .

CaveAdullam:


Nice summation!

In addendum: The intersexual dynamics, will not say it is complicated but wide and contains a whole lot of nuances that must be understood and puzzled together in order to ensure a successful relationship or have a good knowledge of its framework and mode of operation.

For anyone to mention that men and women are hypergamous by bringing up some absurd linear equation (emotion + knowledge = Hypergamy) is funny and at same time, stupid!

Mr light like I said before has a point, but the framework from which he is defending it is not appropriate.

Hypergamy got two sides: alpha fvcks beta bucks which is rooted in the feminine psyche. He is concentrating on the beta bucks side and how men are exploited which is true. What about the Alpha Fvcks side--- the genuine desire we talk about? That women fvck broke dudes? That women fvck bad boys? We all know that these alphas, jerks or don juans does nothing to win a woman's heart, it just happens! If that's the case, what do we say it is if it is not an emotional attraction called love?

Men love, women love, but how they express this love differs. I agree with Mr light in the aspect of simping, the beta portrayal of love by media outlets and the ignorance men are being led. Although his childishness has warp and woof his brain that he is unable to arrange these pegs accordingly.

Withal, this shouldn't stop us from saying what is true as present until a better knowledge arrive. And no one here knows it all; I grow by learning and interaction and I believe it is same for others. But then, a reasonable individual should set himself aloof from the unintelligent and their emotional whims---if it means not being open-minded, I prefer it rather than be a goalpost for nonsensical melodramas.

Thanks.

PS: Lordcassy, my lord I sight you!

Mentholated:
Humans are naturally selfish which is essential for human survival.

No human either male or female is capable of sacrificial love. We all love opportunistically.

Whenever we invest anything into something, we hope to get MORE in return, either cash or kind. That is being opportunistic.

If I spend a million naira annually on my girlfriend, it means I believe the relationship is worth more than a million annually. That is not sacrifice, that is opportunistic.

Earlier I advised men to keep developing themselves so they can always get what they want and also know the real WORTH of what they are getting.

All humans are hypergamous in NATURE. Redpill guys are hypergamous and opportunistic in all their dealings with women without even knowing it.

All human relationships are transactional whether you like it or not and your aim is to reap more than you sow irrespective of the sacrifices you think you are making.

Enjoying the best years of a woman is hypergamy.

As you understand female nature, the first thing you will notice is a gradual change in the type of women you associate with. Your redpill lens will only deal with women that are beneficial to you.

The benefits with time will keep getting better as you realise the REAL VALUE of what the women in your lives are offering.

If you are a young business man, you fall in "love" and marry the daughter of a business tycoon and that association brings you great success. That is your hypergamous nature at work.

MJBOLT:
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emmaodet:

Let us even assume you are right with your “men love opportunistically and are selfish”
But then, in the process of loving a woman, he makes VISIBLE and TANGIBLE impacts in the life of the woman. Can we really say that about the average woman?
Yes, to you men are selfish yet he places her on monthly income, showers her with gifts, sponsor some to school, take her abroad etc. what else can a human ask for? If that is not Love enough then what else?
You can hardly date the average woman out there and after a year you do an appraisal and see what she had done.
If it is sex, they both helped each other. If it is prayer, advice, emotions support, the man is also giving her.
You also said in one of your comments that men have self esteem issues reason while they date ladies below them instead of going for there mate - are you really kidding me? With one mouth, we scream women are hypergamous, in other words they won’t date a man they perceive their mate or below them. They will look down on him and not respect him. He won’t be attractive to them. There was a thread last week were ladies were commenting they hate broke struggling guys approaching them. Another thread a claimed she is earning far above her hubby and he has to step up and move his ass if he is to earn the respect and head of the house blah blah blah.
It seems you are a lady and this may be my last comment to you because it seems you are not here to learn anything rather push your points.
What a mama needs in life is “Rest of Mind/Peace” and not another competition at home with his said wife who is regularly telling him to measure up instead of helping or support. Most women at your level won’t give you the rest you need after the daily pressures of life because they will be rubbing shoulders with you at home.
No reasonable man will want to settle for less.
If given the opportunity and my rest of mind, peace, respect guaranteed, I will always choose a presidential daughter to the average common street girl.

This is the mind of a woman: a woman with low self-esteem who is a 10 will think she is a 6 will think dating a man who is a 7 is leveling up; the same woman will reject a man who is a 5 in SMV. This is what women see as low self-esteem. Obviously, this women doesn't even love the man who is a 7.

CR777:


Please learn how to punctuate your writeups.
Reading your sentences is a big punishment to intelligent people.

Thank you.

Lightway:
Mentholated

Your points are top notch.

Love is a social construct

Men don't fall in love

Don't deceive yourself.

You can never love a woman

Lightway:
Mentholated

Your points are top notch.

Love is a social construct

Men don't fall in love

Don't deceive yourself.

You can never love a woman

emmaodet:


Let us even assume you are right with your “men love opportunistically and are selfish”
But then, in the process of loving a woman, he makes VISIBLE and TANGIBLE impacts in the life of the woman. Can we really say that about the average woman?
Yes, to you men are selfish yet he places her on monthly income, showers her with gifts, sponsor some to school, take her abroad etc. what else can a human ask for? If that is not Love enough then what else?
You can hardly date the average woman out there and after a year you do an appraisal and see what she had done.
If it is sex, they both helped each other. If it is prayer, advice, emotions support, the man is also giving her.
You also said in one of your comments that men have self esteem issues reason while they date ladies below them instead of going for there mate - are you really kidding me? With one mouth, we scream women are hypergamous, in other words they won’t date a man they perceive their mate or below them. They will look down on him and not respect him. He won’t be attractive to them. There was a thread last week were ladies were commenting they hate broke struggling guys approaching them. Another thread a claimed she is earning far above her hubby and he has to step up and move his ass if he is to earn the respect and head of the house blah blah blah.
It seems you are a lady and this may be my last comment to you because it seems you are not here to learn anything rather push your points.
What a mama needs in life is “Rest of Mind/Peace” and not another competition at home with his said wife who is regularly telling him to measure up instead of helping or support. Most women at your level won’t give you the rest you need after the daily pressures of life because they will be rubbing shoulders with you at home.
No reasonable man will want to settle for less.
If given the opportunity and my rest of mind, peace, respect guaranteed, I will always choose a presidential daughter to the average common street girl.

CaveAdullam:

DAY 327, REDPILL 2021

Ladies be claiming "I'm in a relationship, I'm engaged, I'm not searching", but keeps ticking the single box in evey forms they fill.

BRO, YOU ARE JUST AN OPTION, A MEANS TO AN END, AND AT THE RIGHT TIME YOU'LL BE DISCARDED!

Reverse the game!

Don't be a fool!

Authority: don't be a simp.

clownway:


Our forefathers never fell in love. In fact, there is no word Igbo language to pronounce love.

CaveAdullam:

DAY 327, REDPILL 2021

Ladies be claiming "I'm in a relationship, I'm engaged, I'm not searching", but keeps ticking the single box in evey forms they fill.

Bro, you are just an option, a means to an end, and at the right time you'll be discarded!

Reverse the game!

Don't be a fool!

Authority: don't be a simp.

ProphetJeroboam:
Just a friendly reminder:
Non-neediness is attractive. Even if you don’t have a life, create the illusion that you do. Stop languishing in her dms with pointless conversations. If you’re bored, don’t call her. Stop explaining yourself like a timid 9 year old boy. Women are all about “NOW” , they don’t give af about all the nice things you did yesterday. Don’t let any girl make you think they are innocent or naive, they are not!!! The moment you believe they are, you’ll almost never get what you want with them.

luminouz:
Will y'all stop quoting that melodramatic moniker up there?

It's changing the flow of the thread. She/he/it can create a damn new thread and argue about LOVE till eternity.

Mentholated:


We all love to GAIN. Everyone.

The problem is understanding your actual gain. That is where knowledge comes in.

If you set up a girl economically in exchange for sex, it means you value sex with her more than your financial investment in her.

You believe you are gaining subconsciously.

That is not sacrificial love. Sacrificial love occurs when you actually believe you are reaping less than you invested.

Humans are simply incapable of that.

clownway:
no man can love a woman born with a dick. She is not longer a woman.

Jessepaid:
hehehe...


This matter don tire me I swear...



Both genders both male and female (I don't want to use the word love) become attached emotionally with whatever and whoever satisfies you their positive emotions eg. emotionally security, the feeling of being wanted, affirmation of self worth etc...


When these needs cannot be satisfied, it's natural for a person to move to where he finds more value...


For a person to hold on even after realizing that value can no longer be added is not entirely sacrifice...

Investments, memories, loyalty and gratitude can be at play..


Under the right circumstances most people will abandon you, maybe a shoot out, drive by, fire, life changing opportunities etc... All man for himself..



I believe that for a person to be tagged as sacrificial in a relationship context...


It's what's the person gives up to be with you that seals the the sacrifice...


Not what the person gives to you. This applies to both genders...


If gun men stopped you and asked for your phone..

Smart people would just hand it over, thus sacrificing the phone to save their lives which means they love their lives...

The ones that do it in reverse end up sacrificing their lives for their phones


You hate Nepa bills and that fvcking bleeping prepaid meter..

But you like to take a shower after work, eat a meal, turn on the AC and flip through cable tv...

So you sacrifice your money monthly to ensure that the feeling of being posted up after work is always available...



Anybody or any gender can be sacrificial when they want to be...


Some people sacrifice their money,

Some their dreams...

Some their time..

Some their health..

Some their very existence to get the continued satisfactory feeling they get from whatever or whomever they get it from..


Love is not constant..


Love changes...



Responsibility is always confused with love because they require giving up something to get something...


I dont know what you are sacrificing today in your relationships..

But whatever it is...


Don't simp..



Women are like crypto...


Very volatile...



Invest only with spare cash..

Mentholated:


People give up whatever they give up in a relationship because they believe they will gain more. That is not sacrificial.

If I give up my phone to save my life, that is not sacrificial but opportunistic because my life is worth more than my phone.

If I fail to give up my phone and I lose my life, that is sacrificial because my phone is worth less than my life.

CaveAdullam:


DAY 74, REDPILL 2021

Harry is the father, son and spirit of simphood, who was thoroughly taught efficiently in the gynocentric college, passing all his feminization courses in flying colours and undefeated. He is the king and god of betaness. All hail the beta king!

Many thinks "Nigerian women" are the only types of women that act with wiles and caprices, and yearns to engage with foreign women, not knowing that AWALT all over the planet. A man can only manage women responsibly only if he knows their true nature, therefore, TRP!

Meghan, is a typical example of what women are capable of eliciting if the men around her or her husband allows her to wield her internal chaos by granting her explicit independence and impunity. She's efficiently manifesting her hypergamous nature and she's not stopping soon. The straw that will breaks the camels, sorry, Harry's back is the forthcoming divorce papers. Meghan is really doing the Lord's work, as per she's taking no chances in leaving any card behind.

Harry choose a single mother, an alpha widow over royalty and royal privileges. He muffed his ears to one the most wonderful and powerful family in the world because of a woman. He forsaked his allies. He decided to lose quality people and opportunities in order to prove a useless point. Like Candace concluded: Harry is the victim not Meghan. By the way Meghan was never a victim but a storm that was earlier forecasted.

Lessons learnt:

1. Never think twice, it's family before any external woman.

2. Never commit to an alpha widow or single mother.

3. Never jettison any quality opportunity for a woman.

4. Never engage with an unhappy or unlucky woman. Watch out for the traits she exhibits and endeavor to see if there's any simulacrum in her history.

5. Always be the decision maker. For this to be possible, you must be a man of wisdom, courage and intellect. And if you are not smart, you will be oscillated by every winds.

6. Women only come for themselves, you must make sure you don't lose your time, energy, resources over them. Women are consumers, you must treat them like Pavlov did with his dog.

7. You've come a long way, never let a woman make you become jaded. If you notice any sign or symptom of belligerent behaviour, victim signalling, dump her.

8. See beyond a woman's body. Women are in motley, if you lose one today, you will get another better package tomorrow. But if you lose your dreams and time, you can never recover. Let your focus be above women.

9. Women are for fun and relaxation. If you quid pro quo quality and productive time for leisure, at the end you will lose both women and your objective.

10. Don't expose your dirty linens. As a man you must resolve internal problems internally. Rather than showcasing in to the world who will not help you but use it as an advantage to exploit you and identify your weaknesses. Only women does that, never go along with her.

11. Have options in every areas of your life. Option is the predecessor of confidence. Your ability to ignore or exit any termite work, relationship or people is a superpower. You must used your quality time in creating or seeking options. Don't live life by chances or luck but by the opportunities you've laid on ground.

12. Flowers are beautiful and precious, women much better. A gardener don't spend his whole day manuring and trimming flowers; act like him. Give a little tender here and there and face important task mano a mano. Remember: flower fades.

13. Take the REDPILL to eviscerate all traits of simping and betaness in you.

Authority: You first.

Mentholated:


People give up whatever they give up in a relationship because they believe they will gain more. That is not sacrificial.

If I give up my phone to save my life, that is not sacrificial but opportunistic because my life is worth more than my phone.

If I fail to give up my phone and I lose my life, that is sacrificial because my phone is worth less than my life.

CAPSLOCKED:


AFTER SKIPPING THIS USER FOR MANY WEEKS I DECIDED TO START READING TODAY, AND O'BOY! THIS CLOWN POSTS A LOT OF ACTUAL UNDILUTED CLOWNERY.

MEN DON'T LOVE WOMEN BORN WITH DICKS?
LOL. HOW ARE MEN LOVING HERMAPHRODITES AND TRANS-WOMEN?
YOU CAN'T EVEN COMPARE THE UNION BETWEEN HOMOSEXUAL MALE COUPLES AND THEIR HOMOSEXUAL FEMALE COUNTERPARTS.

THE WORST FORMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND BETRAYALS, CHEATING, NAGGING, BACKSTABBING AND CHAOS GO ON BETWEEN THE WOMEN. RESEARCH & EVERYDAY ONLINE PUBLICATIONS AND CONFESSIONS FROM WOMEN IN THESE UNIONS ARE EVIDENCES FOR THIS. MAYBE BECAUSE NATURALLY, TWO MEN WORKING TOGETHER WILL ALWAYS BLEND WELL AND ACHIEVE MORE THAN TWO WOMEN WORKING TOGETHER.... AND THIS APPLIES EVERYWHERE; WORKPLACE, SCHOOLS, FRIENDSHIPS, AND RELATIONSHIPS.

I BELIEVE THIS IS BECAUSE MEN, THOUGH TOUGH-MINDED TO AN EXTENT, ACTUALLY HAVE REAL FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS FOR EVERYTHING. THIS IS WHY MEN WORK ALL THROUGH THE YEARS TO INVENT THINGS FOR US, TO BETTER THE PLANET, TO MAKE LIFE EASIER FOR OTHER MEN AND WOMEN EVEN IF IT MEANS SACRIFICING THEIR OWN LIVES.
IT'S THE OPPOSITE WITH WOMEN WHO RARELY CONCERN THEMSELVES WITH BETTERING ANYTHING AND WILL JUST SIT AND WAIT FOR THINGS TO BE HANDED TO THEM.

Y'ALL CAN CONTINUE ARGUING BUT I'VE SEEN MEN TAKE BULLETS AND DIE FOR TOTAL STRANGERS AND EVEN DROWN TRYING TO SAVE STRAY ANIMALS, SO YOU CAN'T TELL ME THAT MEN DO NOT LOVE. IT'S THE WORST NONSENSE.

CAPSLOCKED:


I WOULD NEVER MENTION A TRASH-MASTER, BUT YOU'VE SAID THIS MANY TIMES. YOU MISLEAD PEOPLE. THIS IS WRONG.

FROM THE OLDEN DAYS THE IGBOS USED IHUNANYA (IFUNANYA) TO DESCRIBE LOVE.
SO IN LAY TERMS LOVE = IHUNANYA (IN IGBO) SO YOUR ANCESTORS DEFINITELY FELL IN LOVE.

CAPSLOCKED:


I WOULD NEVER MENTION A TRASH-MASTER, BUT YOU'VE SAID THIS MANY TIMES. YOU MISLEAD PEOPLE. THIS IS WRONG.

FROM THE OLDEN DAYS THE IGBOS USED IHUNANYA (IFUNANYA) TO DESCRIBE LOVE.
SO IN LAY TERMS LOVE = IHUNANYA (IN IGBO) SO YOUR ANCESTORS DEFINITELY FELL IN LOVE.

virginboy1:
With great wisdom comes great pain.
When you see the world for what it actually is, those of the world will begin to attack you and look at you differently, because the world is the Matrix, and those who are still Blue Pilled are still plugged into the Matrix, they're not ready to be unplugged.

Word

Lordcassy:


I greet you my Brother CaveAdullam...Keep up the good works Bro...
I just had to interject...

The newcomer think the redpill is an ideology but they are very wrong...

THE REDPILL IS A PRAXEOLOGY....

spin it all you want but the truth is always remains.....

Nobody created the Redpill but wise people pointed out the knowledge that somehow our ancestor knew about human dynamics