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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Pete01(m): 9:20pm On Nov 28, 2021
Because it was never an option from the "beginning". I know you know what I'm referring to.
theForth:


Why do people act like divorce is not an option, nawa o.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by flokii: 9:21pm On Nov 28, 2021
theForth:


I can see why a lot of people are poor, even the bible says that a wise man leaves an estate for his children yet unborn.

I am not saying you're poor sha, but your advise isn't making sense.

Whatever rocks your boat sire..
A man won't take a single penny with him when he dies, instead family members who didn't know how he struggled all his life to acquire the wealth will sit on his properties and enjoy it all.

It boils down to choice tho.. some want money first while some prefer kids. Yorubas will say 'omo l'aso'. It's your kids that will fend for your when old age comes knocking.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Raalsalghul: 9:21pm On Nov 28, 2021
theForth:


I laughed so hard, so many people making decisions out of fear.

The way people think on this thread is just baffling.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by fitinwell: 9:22pm On Nov 28, 2021
chukwuma0000:


When exactly is shiloh?

Shiloh is Annual Church Convention
Living Faith Church Winners Chapel

Dec 7 -12
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Knows(m): 9:22pm On Nov 28, 2021
Biyec:
Correct Guy! But when you find that girl after everything, don't tell her you have an estate, you hear?
sounds funny but na key point. One Japata for u bro..

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Nobody: 9:22pm On Nov 28, 2021
Pete01:
Because it was never an option from the "beginning". I know you know what I'm referring to.

Times have changed.. No one has to be stuck in the past bro.

Any rubbish stress, I leave asap.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by frozen70(f): 9:22pm On Nov 28, 2021
Raalsalghul:


You don't tell a man what to do with his money.

If he has 20 girlfriends and decide it's not time to settle, I don't see how it is anybody's business.

Is because he needs advice that's why he brought it to this forum

If he is thinking the way you are reasoning, he won't be looking for advice

As for you, deal with yours the way that suits you
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by emmyN(m): 9:27pm On Nov 28, 2021
yomi007k:


Lol....u think this is 1914?

Women don't plan to suffer with man o...if ur end no soft dem go change am for you.

Change am for me as per wetin? I'm doing them a favour men cheesy
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Raalsalghul: 9:29pm On Nov 28, 2021
frozen70:


Is because he needs advice that's why he brought it to this forum

If he is thinking the way you are reasoning, he won't be looking for advice

As for you, deal with yours the way that suits you

Did you read his post at all or you want me to paraphrase again for you?

The only reason he's considering marriage is because his girlfriends are putting pressure on him not because he wants to.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by micflo28(m): 9:29pm On Nov 28, 2021
If you have a good job or business that will keep bringing income stream. Please go ahead and marry. You can build your house while married. Please go for a working class lady that can support you.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by mascot345: 9:30pm On Nov 28, 2021
nurez305:
Did you have the require money to build an estate or you have a better business that is going to supply you the required money needed for an estate? If you answer is yes, I wish you good luck, if otherwise, kindly get married now because you might not get married till you clock 50 years old while still waiting to build your imagery estate.


Building house is not a joke
..

I have a good business that profitable.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by frozen70(f): 9:31pm On Nov 28, 2021
Raalsalghul:


Did you read his post at all or you want me to paraphrase again for you?

The only reason he's considering marriage is because his girlfriends are putting pressure on him not because he wants to.


If he can have three women at a time, why is he being pushed around with marriage from them
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Nobody: 9:31pm On Nov 28, 2021
fitinwell:


Shiloh is Annual Church Convention
Living Faith Church Winners Chapel

Dec 7 -12

Really want to attend the annual program but have not been to Lagos.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Raalsalghul: 9:33pm On Nov 28, 2021
frozen70:


If he can have three women at a time, why is he being pushed around with marriage from them

Because they've seen that he's a well to do guy and can handle the finances.

Simple!

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by babyfaceafrica: 9:34pm On Nov 28, 2021
flokii:


Whatever rocks your boat sire..
A man won't take a single penny with him when he dies, instead family members who didn't know how he struggled all his life to acquire the wealth will sit on his properties and enjoy it all.

It boils down to choice tho.. some want money first while some prefer kids. Yorubas will say 'omo l'aso'. It's your kids that will fend for your when old age comes knocking.
Lmao, get money, people who don't have kids will still be fend for. Na kids go fend for dangote, bill Gates and slim helu?

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by frozen70(f): 9:34pm On Nov 28, 2021
Raalsalghul:


Because they've seen that he's a well to do guy and can handle the finances.

Simple!

He can't eat his cake and have it
He loves them and they likes his money

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Bluewitch(f): 9:36pm On Nov 28, 2021
chatinent:
Five years remaining to reach one beautiful adage.

cheesy cheesy
Werey

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Raalsalghul: 9:37pm On Nov 28, 2021
frozen70:


He can't eat his cake and have it
He loves them and they likes his money

Sure, but the bottom line is that he doesn't want to settle.

So unless they're content waiting or being played around, they can walk away anytime they choose to.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by yomi007k(m): 9:40pm On Nov 28, 2021
emmyN:


Change am for me as per wetin? I'm doing them a favour men cheesy

9ja women will call u a useless man that cant cater for his family.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by frozen70(f): 9:40pm On Nov 28, 2021
Raalsalghul:


Sure, but the bottom line is that he doesn't want to settle.

So unless they're content waiting or being played around, they can walk away anytime they choose to.

You cant be eating pounded yam yet you forbid yam itself

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by jaxxy(m): 9:40pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

Never listen to ladies pushing u to take emotional decisions on business or financial issues. 80% of the time they don’t know what they are saying.

If they tell u that both of u together will build a better estate pls judge which of them has been impactful to ur current progress? Which of them has helped u build anything now that Ure not yet married bt dating? A gal cannot give what she doesn’t have.

The only gal u should believe her when she says we will build together after marriage is the one that has built with u as a boyfriend. Anything else is selfish talk.

Most of them only bring bills not revenue and that’s what will continue after marriage trust me. More billz grin

Take ur time and build ur dreams to a stable point b4 venturing into marriage with a selfish gal who only cares about her comfort.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by franchasng: 9:41pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.
If you made the money you used to acquire the lands from a sustainable job or business, and you have a savings of at least 5million cash, and your lands are located in a place that can be sold instantly at 3million per plot and you have like 3 plots since you are desiring to own an estate, then dont wait until you build the estates before you settle down, go ahead and marry now



If you meet the above description, please get married next year, but you must study the girl you want to marry and know her own future plans and what she is currently doing to achieve her goals and aspirations. Having a goal is not enough, but making efforts to achieve your goal is very important because majority of Nigerian ladies become lazy once they get married, especially when they get married to a financially buoyant or comfortable guy; they will abandon their lifes dreams and become lazy in their husband's comfort zone.



Dont delay getting married. I married before your age and even though I wasnt so enthusiastic about getting married then, i can boldly tell you that getting married to my wife has brought me more financial blessings than I ever imagined.



Sometimes i will be wondering if its magic how things skyrocketed for me financially after I got married.


Marriage doesn't slow down a man's financial progress unless you marry anyhow and end up marrying the wrong lady.


If I tell you what I have achieved within 2 years of getting married, you will be shocked.


I also know some relatives and friends whom marriage changed their life for good, so dont be too pessimistic about marriage. Just study whoever you want to marry, marry with your head not just with your dick and eyes alone.


Many guys marry the wrong woman because they married with their dick and eyes, without using their head.


Above all, pray for God's mercy and grace before you pick any lady as your wife. God answers honest prayer request.



Don't delay getting married just because you want to build an estate or even a company, you can even build more estates as a married guy. And its also possible that even at 40yrs you won't complete a single house even as a single man.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by fitinwell: 9:42pm On Nov 28, 2021
chukwuma0000:


Really want to attend the annual program but have not been to Lagos.

You can Watch Live streaming Broadcast on YouTube..

For more information..
https://shiloh2021.org.ng/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsmwHqxlNBw

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Jaylord12(m): 9:45pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

Sir,life is full of choices...if u allow anyone to pressure u into something and crisis set in,they might not stand by u to the end of the crisis..Deep inside u, u know when u are ready for marriage,so my advice for u is to follow your heart
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by MarveworldG: 9:50pm On Nov 28, 2021
Mcslize:


Who still uses ceiling these days for building? What happens to P.O.P?

Check my thread before you draw conclusions please.
Thanks
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by chatinent: 9:54pm On Nov 28, 2021
Munzy14:

That is a fool at forty grin grin

Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by chatinent: 9:55pm On Nov 28, 2021
Brimstone77:
grin

You mean a ..... at 40??

Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by abbey503(m): 9:57pm On Nov 28, 2021
By December all of them go don marry.....do wetin u suppose do on time so that u won't use your wife do girlfriend..
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by chatinent: 9:57pm On Nov 28, 2021
Bluewitch:


cheesy cheesy
Werey

Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Loreettaa: 10:00pm On Nov 28, 2021
Toks2008 food don land
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by authority2006(m): 10:02pm On Nov 28, 2021
tctrills:

Why tell everyone your plans.. learn not to vomit you personal goals. And don't ask for advice you wouldn't take.

Just learn and waka pass, brother sofo. And if u no wan learn, let those who will learn do it in peace. After all, no one asked you to vomit your personal goals here.

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