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Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Nobody: 8:30am On Nov 29, 2021 |
KusherAbel:Ohh that girl na big wahala.... u never know her 1 Like |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by ImaIma1(f): 8:36am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Truvelisback: Because she bent her knees to greet you, she's respectful lol. Haven't you heard "Brother Femi your head is not correct" 5 Likes |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Truvelisback(m): 8:40am On Nov 29, 2021 |
killmods:Although, I know that some ladies have audio respect by bending the knees as sign of respect. Some could do that because of the man's wealth or to hypocritically get the man's attention, Some so as to appear as "the girl is good" in the sight of people, etc. But if u are a sensitive person, u will be able to know whether her respect or respect by bending the knees is real or fake. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Truvelisback(m): 8:45am On Nov 29, 2021 |
ImaIma1:Those ones aren't respectful. There are ladies who are polite and respectful. These ones were properly brought up. |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by ImaIma1(f): 9:01am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Truvelisback: Some have perfected the act of eye service. Don't be carried away by it. Look at the real substance. 7 Likes |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Nobody: 9:09am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Truvelisback:How did you jump to this conclusion? Simple english, most of you can not understand... You mentioned gender based expectations from a woman... (Submission and obedience)... So I mentioned that for men... (Provider and protector)... If you want a woman with African values, one who would kneel while serving you, then you most be a man by true African standards... That is a man who can provide for his woman adequately, keep her comfortable... Don't you know how your culture hates men who can't feed their wives and children? Y'all want to imitate the West, split the bills 50/50... Yet you want women who would be subservient... In your dreams! Be a man, and you would get a woman... Don't be a broke-ass nigga expecting a virgin who would worship the ground you step on... You either choose- African culture or Western culture... 4 Likes |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Nobody: 9:10am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Truvelisback:Abeg how can u tell without being close to them over a certain time? I love so much to learn |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Nobody: 9:16am On Nov 29, 2021 |
[s] Truvelisback:[/s] What's so special about a girl kneeling down tho? The ego of men! Even you that's a small boy... 2 Likes |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Truvelisback(m): 9:36am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Datboredberry:It isn't special in ur culture but it is special in my culture. By the way, who are u refering to as a small boy? Lol, it's obvious that u don't have respect. So, is that how u be will talking to ur husband? Or if peradventure i married u, is that how u will be talking to me? What's really happening to ladies of nowadays? |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Truvelisback(m): 9:42am On Nov 29, 2021 |
killmods:if u are that sensitive type who is good at read ladies words and body language, u will know. |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Nobody: 9:44am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Truvelisback: And child marriage was special too... And FGM... And polygamy... Most of our cultures have proven to be very useless... Especially this UNNECESSARY demand for UNDESERVED respect! You're like those adults who would criticize you for not saying 'good morning ma/sir'...as though it adds anything of worth to their person... You're small... You're not up to 25... Am I wrong? Told you, no intention of getting married... But who ever I'm with, he would know before that that I intend to mimic his every move... If he kneels down, I would do so... He's polite, I would be too... Having a diçk and two wrinkled balls... Not enough to earn my respect! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Truvelisback(m): 9:53am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Datboredberry:What are the women expected to do? sit at home & watch Zeeworld, rear babies, eat & grow fat while the man work his ass out. 1 Like
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Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Truvelisback(m): 9:54am On Nov 29, 2021 |
ImaIma1:U are right, i can relate. |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by drezzyx(m): 10:04am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Once a lady taste the forbidden fruit,they feel like they have arrived, and another one is if she has more money than you just forget respect and expect lot of insult if you are not up and and doing. 1 Like |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Nobody: 10:07am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Truvelisback:YOUR CULTURE SAYS YES... I don't give a damn... I'm not interested in marriage... And I couldn't care less about you... I think you do not understand English... I'll explain one last time... In Africa and other societies: The man is expected to be a provider and protector while the woman is expected to be a wife and mother. In the West: The man is expected to be both a protector and provider and also a a dutiful husband and father who would stay home when necessary to care for his wife and children...be respectful and accept equality in the marriage... In the West: The woman is expected to be both a protector and provider and also a dutiful wife and mother who would stay home when necessary to care for her husband and children...be respectful and accept equality the marriage... Which do you prefer? Remember, In the West, women split the bills but they can still throw you out of the home of your infidelity, they can arrest you for physically assaulting them, they won't ever kneel down to you... But in Africa, these women would be dependent but they would tolerate every bullshit of yours and worship you like a lord... Your choice... You can't have both. 2 Likes |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by POLYGAMY: 10:08am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Datboredberry:OGBENI STOP MENTIONING ME |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Nobody: 10:12am On Nov 29, 2021 |
POLYGAMY:Oh, sorry! I wonder why folks here choose monikers like yours... Expect many mentions... |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by SenecaTheYonger: 10:14am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Respect is to be earned. Right from when our women are 15, men of 30+ don dey mumu themselves for them. Why should they have respect? 1 Like |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by jornwhite: 10:15am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Datboredberry: incase of next time, you need to know the difference between morals and crimes, study |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Nobody: 10:19am On Nov 29, 2021 |
jornwhite:If you were raised right, you wouldn't easily commit awful crimes like these... Have you seen the people who are internet frauds? Their characters are nothing to write home about... A good respectful man isn't only polite, well-spoken... His actions are also decent... 4 Likes |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Truvelisback(m): 10:26am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Datboredberry:I'm small. I'm not up to 25yrs. U are perfectly wrong. So, he would have to kneel for u b4 u will kneel for him. U want to be equal to him. |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by jornwhite: 10:28am On Nov 29, 2021 |
ImaIma1: Brother naa respect, besides people usually make that expression in a joking way. make God save nigerians gurls frm those femi As long as she put respect first, it depict she is not serious about it. |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Nobody: 10:29am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Truvelisback:Am I not equal to him? What makes him superior? So you're a grown man? Surprising... But I guess age has nothing to do with maturity... I thought you were a teen... probably 16. 1 Like |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by ImaIma1(f): 10:30am On Nov 29, 2021 |
jornwhite: The "brother" she put there is for formality sake. But it doesn't mean they won't insult you with it. You haven't stayed in the west. 1 Like |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by jornwhite: 10:30am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Truvelisback(m): 10:36am On Nov 29, 2021 |
SenecaTheYonger:U are talking from a different perspective. I know that there are men who make themselves to be disrespected. However, i am talking abt men who aren't that way. If u check many marriages nowadays, u will discover that majority of these women do not have regard for their husband. Some go as far as yelling at their husband and talking to them as if they are kids or their kid brother. That's what i am driving at. |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by RoyalBlu(f): 10:37am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Truvelisback:. Lagos! I thought as much. Folks from there 'west' are known for such upbringing... But tbt, that alone does not determine how respectful a person is. |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by MJBOLT: 10:41am On Nov 29, 2021 |
after eating eba,you went outside to buy yam and akara to eat again?? Na wa o |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Truvelisback(m): 10:42am On Nov 29, 2021 |
RoyalBlu:Yes, u are right. I also overheard her mum instructing her younger female daughters to be good mannered. |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Truvelisback(m): 10:56am On Nov 29, 2021 |
drezzyx:No be lie oooo. I can relate well. This is one reasons many men don't take or rarely take ladies and marriage serious. In those days, it wasn't like this. |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by jornwhite: 10:56am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Datboredberry: Morals & respect got nothing to do with. crime, have you ever wondered why whenever notorious criminals are caught people that know them exhibit so much surprise n shock ... evans was a respectful man in his area. weytin make omo pastor dey do olosho for school, should we say she lack good upbringing. Respectful man don't exist, its like saying "gentle woman" buh on a curious why do Mcs say ladies & gentlemen why not; gentle ladies & gentle men equality |
Re: Many Naija Ladies Lack Respect For Men. by Truvelisback(m): 11:00am On Nov 29, 2021 |
Datboredberry:With this ur behaviour, no man will be able to live with u in the same house. Arrogancy and pride won't take u anywhere. |
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