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Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by donprincebigt(m): 9:22pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
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Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by cayorday89(m): 9:23pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Mannylouis:The secret bully is who you are... 7 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Mhomies: 9:23pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Ooops! I remember one Godspower guy who was 2 years my senior back in the days. I was this JJC guy that just joined the JSS3 class from Lagos who everyone respected for being very good in Mathematics. The guy had a girlfriend in my class then who might have told him about my proficiency in Maths. On that fateful day, we were having a Maths Test and somehow the guy was drafted by our teacher to supervise us. He kept spying on my answers and giving it out to some classmates. When I noticed it, I decided to cover my answer sheet and that got him provoked. He got so annoyed that he felt I was embarrassing him; he kept saying "I did my Form 3 many many years ago". He took me to his class after the test and I was punished. I'll never forget that incident because I really cried for being bullied unnecessarily. Funnily, I learned that the guy didn't even make his WAEC before me. 4 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Cyphar(m): 9:24pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
There is this albino In my class that would beat me Everytime and anywhere anytime he feels like. It was too much to the extent his junior brother started joining him to beat me. One day, on a Friday after closing hours, both of them dragged me to an open space at the back of the classroom and took turns to punch me. As they were beating me, students were watching as if they are watching a live wresting match.... Sincerely speaking, I never knew what came over me that day... The beast in me came out. I fought both of them, beat them at once. The whole crowd started clapping for me..... No be small thing o 4 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by piagetskinner(m): 9:27pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I was bullied in primary school by one guy named billiock or so.. I had to become tough and learn how to fight In secondary school, because it was a day school I didn’t suffer much bullying. I learnt how to develop a thick skin and didn’t put my nose in other people’s matter |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Fidelismaria: 9:29pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I was the bully, I don't bully innocent kids just the ones that crossed my way. 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by abeeee(m): 9:29pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Bolaji26:Silent killer |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by emperordelis(m): 9:29pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
BarrElChapo: Lol,please share your story nwanna |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Akharmony: 9:30pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Nah Full higher education i go write. As in if i remember the stuggle far back as 2004.Federal Government College, Ido-ani, Ondo State Omoh water deh run from my eye.. Only God will forgive those ruthless senior. . I dont know if those guys were some kind exconvict or demon they even beat teachers.. 5 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by TEEJHEY(m): 9:31pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I was never bullied while in school because I was tough myself and I never bullied no one... U dare not bully me because I rolled with d toughest guys in school.. Nulli Secundus... |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by PUKKA25: 9:31pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Knealt down after church service by the church perfect in his room for not going to church with my hymn book. Missed my breakfast and lunch, while reciteing and memorizing Hymn ancient and modern 636 till dinner time, in jss 2 then Good shepard Enugu. That hymn after more than 17 years is still my best hymn. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by FahBuLous: 9:34pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
One foolish senior back then gave me 50naira to buy eggroll, fanta, gala and buns and bring him 100naira change... I was like, see this mumu o... I collected the money, used it to buy ice cream and buns, ate it very well and said to myself, one of us must kill one person today... I beat nonsense commut for him body, him classmates run enter me, na so my guys too run enter them... I was in a rogged school, so you must be hard to be there ... 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:36pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
The only boy that ever bullied me was when I was a child and he was a few years older than me and some other kids in the neighborhood. He would beat us for no reason. Until one day I came home crying and my grandpa asked me who beat me I told him it was the boy. That was how he told me never to allow anyone bully me again. That I should make sure I don't cry or run. I should face the person and attack them with with my teeth finger nails and a hard heading if I can. That he doesn't want to ever hear that a child whether my age or older than me beat me and I cried. That was how the boy waited for me one day when I was coming down from an errand and started kicking me. I grabbed him and we fought real had and I succeed and throwing him on the ground, fed him with soil and used my head to smash his own head, gave him a sharp bite and he screamed. And the worst part of it was that there was not one to cheer of seperate us. We fought to our satisfaction and he bleeded with that he will never touch me again. I won't him and went him feeling victorious. The news of me beating the area bully soon went round and he also stopped beating my friends. That was the first time I fought and I was about 8yrs. With that, I knew I could fight anyone and I became voice of the voiceless. My grandpa again started begging me to stop fighting. In my secondary school no one ever bullied me. Went to an all girls day school. Even as a senior I never had a reason to flog or punish anyone. I saw students who try to bully their juniors as idiots because they are supposed to be protecting those kids and not the other way round. I never bullied anyone and no one will bully my kid and go free. 8 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by ComeToJesus: 9:44pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Primary 2: One girl with head like Dauda, clearly the oldest in the school used to crawl from the back, past many seats just to come and pinch and claw at me just for answering questions correctly. All these happened with the class teacher in class without having a whiff of it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Love800(m): 9:46pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I dont know shall but e get one kind demonic spirit wey dey enta me anytime i dey feel intimidation around me. Na dat time u go know say my head no correct. Back then in d boys hostel in secondary sch d seniors there like to give their clothe to us d juniors make we wash. They go still send u bucket make u fetch water for dem. Collect ur slippers or school uniform with force if dier own no dey. Infact everytin oppression dey d sch. FEDERAL GOVT COLLEGE WARRI. But time con reach wey i no fit dey bear diz oppression again all in d name of na my senior. I am not dat reporting type bcus i like to do my stuff mysef. If na revenge i go revenge u mysef no need to go report give any house-master. Though reporting no too bad shall, cos house-masters will fight for u. But anoder bad tin abt dat reporting be say afta d house-master don punish d boy finish, na u nd d senior boy still dey d same hostel, house-master go live u go him house. Na u nd d senior go still dey d hostel nd last last wen house-master don go u go still collect anodar beating from d senior. Fast forward to wat i want to say is dat i became a terror, horror, pandemic in d presence of my seniors then. I sent cold shivering signal running down dier spine anytime they see me because now i started to challange dem i started to question dem anytime they wan send me message. nd dis was rare in my sch back den because all d junior dey fear d senior like madt. Only me and some few juniors dey do am. Now i was begining to fight for my freedom after i was fed up with dose nonsense d seniors did back den, dat was why i put up dat devilish behaviour to scare dem away. Though i suffer beatings shall but after some time it stopped to some extent because i was rugged. Going forward wen i finally became a senior i did not oppress any junior. I did everytin mysef, wash my clothes mysef, wash my plate mysef. Juniors love me then back in sch nd aways want to come around me. And mind u, if u were my classmate then nd u mistakenly touch or beat my school son, oboy ur own don finish. I drop my pen here. 7 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Flier: 9:46pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
bjgurl:Just saying you weren't alright during your secondary school days |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by ComeToJesus: 9:48pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: Same grandpa that gave you the morale asked you to stop fighting. This is so hilarious. |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by tunize(m): 9:48pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I never experienced any I rugged for secondary school so nobody fit oppress me, cope with my school they don't tolerate nonsense and all thanks to the good management system too. |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by marvelos: 9:56pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
oscarlamba:Yes, which set did you graduate? |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by hope4nigeria(m): 9:57pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
SweetPreeq:Op who wan bully ajepako boys like us, you wan die be that where catapult dey? And now, I will never put my children in burden school or what is it called, and in day school, if you touch my child? I will go and beat your father first before I beat the child to coma, I dey save money for police case 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by LILTJAY: 10:00pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Nobody try am with me... you bully me, I push rollin come your side |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by 22o62021: 10:01pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
In 2009 I was in SS2 and this guy was made a teacher in our school then. He always forms a bad guy. One day he made a speech in our class and after he was done. I said it’s a lie, he asked me to lie down on the chalk dust. I did not pain me because I was using the opportunity to view girls under wears from where I was lying down. I was angry at him, and I promised to pay him back. In 2013 I was learning a hand work , he came one day to repair his phone, he met me at the shop, maybe he has forgotten what he did to me and others. I wanted to destroy his phone beyond repair but I had a change of mind. 10 years later, I was already living very far away from our state with my then secondary school class mate. I came out very early in the morning to withdraw money at the atm and I saw him. He greeted me and asked me many questions. He gave me 1k and bid me farewell. One week later I was driving with my friend and we saw him trekking under the hot sun. He stopped to carry him but shame did not let him enter. He politely declined. All the bad things I have for him on mind disappeared the day he gave me 1k. Uncle your tie’ you do us sha that year but I hope others forgive you the way I did. If not that he stylishly apologized with that 1k I for arrange boys for street to kidnap him because I have been in town for years even before he came in. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by GoldenSpec: 10:03pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
E no go better for those seniors that year o. Naso dem drawn one mallam wit a huge goatee on the blackboard that fateful day n asked me to be removing his goatee one after the other. Chai i suffer that day 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 10:04pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Flier:She thinks big mouth is an asset! 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by SonofGod231: 10:04pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
kingthreat:Such schools should be closed down,I mean these schools go a long way to decide the kind of values inculcated into children and I find it hard to believe most of them are still up and running with all these atrocious acts.These shouldn't be tolerated. The first babe I dated in the university told me she was a virgin but Otu aka Abuo(one hand two hands) dey enter the pusssy and I started wondering why until she opened up that she was yet to taste a real diick but Dem girls for girls college don use hand and bottle scatter the place. I cum weak for the whole gist then. Personally,I went to a faith school and these kind of questions/cases never arose...We were too busy learning and reciting too many "Hail Marys",they were far more important than the thoughts of berating anyone. 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by tradepunter: 10:05pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I took care of my bullies after we all graduated.... I utilized my acquired skills, the unrepentant ones got a lesson they won't forget soon.... The repentant ones I let go.... Funny thing was the shock on their faces... Thinking what are the chances but they never knew it was all a worked out process... Enjoy your evil now but just know we never forgive and never forget. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by blackslayer: 10:05pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I was never bullied because i always fought back and fiercely! I also always defended the bullied! |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Alhajiemeritus: 10:05pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Bolaji26:I had a similar issue, but this guy didn't directly called mẹ a cultist, He saidi I was pretending I was gentle, he never taught mẹ before, but anytime he sees mẹ,he hits mẹ. He always said I was notorious but pretended to bẹ gentle. He was my principal. 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by IsaacJazz(m): 10:10pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I survived 6 (six) years of boarding school. Truth be told, were were treated badly. I mean, very badly. I have got a lot of stories of bullies. But I can't forget this easily. Senior "Mac Don" made all the boys in Gongola house to wash the bathroom/toilets with there bare hands! What I found really disturbing was how when we became seniors, some of our mates did a lot of horrible things too. They oppressed have become the oppresors! It's a CYCLE!! 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by GeneralKoko(m): 10:10pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Mannylouis: Seems like you attended LAPAH 1 Like |
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