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Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Babastrong(m): 10:14pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Me bullying? my physical appearance plus sturbborness always repelled them from me. even if i came late to school, they (senior) would just pretend as if they didn't see me. THE WAY I LEARNED IT, THE KID IN THE SCHOOL YARD WHO DOESN'T WANT TO FIGHT ALWAYS LEAVES WITH A BLACK EYE. IF YOU INDICATE YOU'LL DO ANYTHING TO AVOID TROUBLE, THAT'S WHEN YOU GET TROUBLE. 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Drefaithful(m): 10:14pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
All what you guys referred to as bully is just a mere child play, in NMS. Anybody that attends NMS his life will never remain the same. 5 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by JBoss25(m): 10:18pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
TEEJHEY:ur school was soft then |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by brio1408: 10:19pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
That should be "Eleboto". He is now a gentle guy now. Oxtertee: |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Emmerlee(m): 10:19pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Everyone here trying to form victim. I'm sure there are real bullies here on nairaland. You see them everyday insulting other tribes and trying to bully them into submission. One day una go jabo real life or meet una match and waterloo. Evil things, Nonsense 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 10:20pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Quincy73:We are not interested! |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Hollysaint: 10:22pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
These stories are sad 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by ciro11(m): 10:22pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I had my own share of being bullied when I was in ss1, I was just admitted into ss1 at a federal government college, there was this ss3 guy who was a boarder that always extorted me, maybe because he saw that I was new and little in appearance compared to him and I stood no chance against him, so anytime he sees me he calls me over to the boys hostel, threatens me and forces me to give him all my money and then he'll tell me to go. Although all through his stay in the school he never touched or slapped me but I hated him for collecting money from me again and again and again. 6 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Firstorderwizard(m): 10:23pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
selfemployed: Which year did this happen? |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Drefaithful(m): 10:32pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
JBoss25: How I wish you can go back and give NMS a trial. You go know say na lesson you go. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Ademola121(m): 10:32pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I was very shy and gentle in school. So it was like I became a spot for everyone even girls would ride me until one Friday. My bully came to me to floor me again like he always did but unfortunately I landed him just 2 elbows in the back. Everyone heard the sound it was like thunder! Gbim gbim! �� Just 2 elbows publicly and that was the end. He couldn’t even move on the floor. This happened in js2 and I enjoyed immunity till I left in ss1. The best thing is to confront your bully. They have their fears too, in fact they are weaker than their victims when pushed to the wall. If you can’t confront your bully, learn to use your enemy. I encouraged my children to take taekwando classes so they won’t be like me ☺️☺️ 7 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 10:36pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
ComeToJesus:The thing shock him oo. He didn't know I would become that powerful cos I was a cry baby 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by ukaface(f): 10:36pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
If all of Una be the bullied,where are the bullies 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Bolaji26(m): 10:40pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by bjtinz: 10:43pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
SpecialAdviser: Lol. Just like I'm reading my own history. I was also thin, as in painfully skinny, and was the butt of hurtful name-calling. Though they never got physical with me, but the nicknames they gave me were painful. However what I lacked in body mass, was made up with intelligence, and was among the brightest in the class and loved by teachers and, like your case, even some of the bullies. Life truly can be funny. Many years down, you won't believe that I'm currently battling excessive weight. . . 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by shutupareyouGOD: 10:43pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
My own case left me feeling I was now the bully. I was a quiet child but I Dey craze….very few ppl knew I Dey stubborn since I was also quiet and so this girl decided to mess with me….she threw my slippers and ran….I went to pick my slippers….the next hour we went to fetch water and I asked her why did u throw my slippers…she no free answer me…na so I pour her water….she then poured my water …next thing fight started….I beat her eh and she had swollen chicks…she didn’t believe I could beat her cuz she was taller and chubby but she didn’t know I had strong bones she fell and had swollen chicks…I was scared and instantly regretted my actions….my parents had to go with me with ribena to apologize to her parents and made me apologize to her….I was scared sha…what if I injured her…..after that she and her friends stopped talking to me…I was fine by it as long as u no come throw my slippers again….plus it was a defining moment in my life…I learnt to control my anger and after that I let things go all through secondary school and uni days …if u slapped me on the chick I’ll turn my other chick…. Although now I know ppl would take advantage of u if u keep doing that…so I know when to switch when I need to sensibly…especially since my quiet nature gives ppl the impression that I’m an easy target…until I change it for them 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by bjtinz: 10:46pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
ukaface: Most people after being bullied become bullies themselves, but would rather focus on when they were at the receiving end. |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Oxtertee(m): 10:55pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
brio1408: You are right, he at times comes into abadina college abandon sch bus with snake. 1 Like |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by bjtinz: 10:56pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Ademola121: @bolded, not a wise choice, in my opinion. Don't forget why we having this discussion in the first place. The bullies in this case we're hardened cultists who had to no qualms torturing the poor (now late) boy. Those guys can do and undo. To me the best thing is to involve the school (though they may likely not do much), but if becoming too severe them inform ones parents. |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Oxtertee(m): 10:56pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
brio1408: Sorry to ask, which of the sch did you attend? |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Simpubozz(m): 10:57pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I don’t really think I got one cos I was one myself |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by bjtinz: 10:59pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
ashawopikin: Hmm. See una |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Pope98: 11:03pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
my days at fsty,we were sitting down one afternoon me and my friends,suddenly we heard noises some group of seniors appeard shouting, different thing's we didn't know what they were saying but it was obvious they wanted us to do a task... innocent me trying to grasp what they were saying, one just gave me a slap that covered my left eye.. for three weeks i couldn't see with that eye it was swollen red and painful,water was just oozing out and i fell sick.... fast forward after exams this so called senior failed and had to repeat (shaw beans) we were now level mate... wetin me and my guys do that boy for the school na only God fit forgive us.. at a point this guy came to meet me at the dinning hall and started begging me to forgive him.. we beat that guy shege... 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Neddstark: 11:14pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Drefaithful: If it is Nigerian Military School, Zaria you are talking about, that was the ultimate drilling school. We used to hear stories about there then and appreciate our private boarding school. 2 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by CrownDthrone: 11:14pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
There was dis family I was taking home lesson then. The eldest son came back from boarding school with a big wound on his palm,I asked his mum wat happen she said d boy mistakenly pour hot water on his palm. I told the mother d boy is not telling d truth. They is more to that story than wat he is saying.. d next day d woman called me to tell me dat d boy have told them d truth dat it was a senior dat tested acid in d school lab on the boy’s palm n she is on her way to d boy’s school as she was talking to me to meet d school authorities. When she came back I asked her wat transpired. She she d principle was begging n d senior was begging too n she is withdrawing d boy from d skul. I tell her if na me I go pour d acid for d senior body back ooo d scar is till dia. 7 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by TheGreatIYANU: 11:19pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I was bullied by my own mates because I was the youngest and smallest in class. Irony - I was the President's son. I let a lot of things slide because if I reported, the judgement was 2x on the perpetrator. I'm not sure I bullied my juniors, although when I meet some of them now, they playfully remind me I did, by way of harsh punishments, no violence. My younger brother on the other hand was tough for his age. When I graduated, I heard he beat somebody because they spoke bad about me. |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by Christabelluv1(f): 11:20pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
My first term as a border was a very horrible experience as my bonk mate then was in SS2 and she subjected me to so many things I don't like remembering but I thank God that I left that hostel the next term and karma caught up with her and she was disgraced and suspended from school.. Whenever I see that geh I remember all she did to me that year... |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by PoliteActivist: 11:33pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
SweetPreeq: Not all boarding schools. Went to two. One, not a single homo. The other, several homes bothering the small boys |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by nnamdiosu(m): 11:33pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Bolaji26: Then, na there you would have given devil chance. The reason you are being blessed is because God just wants to use you as an example to prove himself strong in your life. Showing him pepper will just make God hands off from your case. God don dey glorify you, move on, free the man, and God will still promote you more. Allow God show the pepper. Wish you the best in your endeavors 3 Likes |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by fkj950ax(m): 11:39pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
donprincebigt: Reading your comment is difficult. Bad spelling. Wrong use of capitalisation. Missing full stop and comas... |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by nnamdiosu(m): 11:41pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
DropsMic: I don't the year o...but if it was from 91 to 2001, do Thanksgiving in church tomorrow Sunday Looking back it looks like commedy but then, icy for junior boarders was hell on hell. Lol. |
Re: Share Your Secondary School Experience With Bullies by snoopz: 11:48pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I attended one fstc in southwest... The only time I felt bullied was when one senior in the morning asked me to fetch water for him later in the day , so in the evening I wasn't feeling well and I couldnt go for prep sef, na so this senior tolu come back from prep e be like say Dem just share exam script thàt night for prep naso he call me to the senior's corner room wey he flog me like mad E be like say the beating too much for me I nearly beat am that night when the other seniors see say I was about to change it for tolu naso Dem say make I Dey go. Just think about it, that I still remember his name and this thing don pass 8 yrs o. I didn't report the case because I did something that made the seniors leave me Unless na. General hostel beating Dem no dey near me o I cursed him that day shà 2 Likes 1 Share |
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