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Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by ShaqFu: 11:14am On Dec 12, 2021 |
Hathor5:women with entitled mentality. That is how I see them. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Hathor5(f): 11:18am On Dec 12, 2021 |
eazzzy1: bold Something tells me that you will be a great father, loving and loved dearly. blue In many countries governments encourage fathers to look after their children temporarily. While the mother stays at home after delivery for 6-12 months, the father can stay with the kids for some months afterwards. Or if the mother is not breastfeeding, he can take over few weeks after delivery. I love fathers to be more involved. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Hathor5(f): 11:20am On Dec 12, 2021 |
ShaqFu: But someone has to stay at home temporarily with a newborn. 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by ShaqFu: 11:23am On Dec 12, 2021 |
Hathor5:that's the keyword, not full time. Remember newborn won't stay newborn forever. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Hathor5(f): 11:30am On Dec 12, 2021 |
ShaqFu: I understand. Would you be willing to stay for a few moths at home with your newborn? 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by faithfull18(f): 11:38am On Dec 12, 2021 |
wunmi590:Thank you, most men wouldn't survive for a month. Women deserve serious appreciation. They do the work of cook, this is some people's career for crying out loud, they are paid for it. They do laundry, some people's full time job. They take care of children - Nannies are heavily paid in the west, it's a full time job. They clean the house, mehn, let's not get started. All these in addition to holding down full time jobs and businesses. If you doing all these alone for yourself, it's not easy not to talk about caring and cleaning after 2 and more. If we swap gender roles, most men can't survive. Women deserve everything good abeg. 8 Likes |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by ShaqFu: 12:25pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Hathor5:Of course yes, why won't I. |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by NoToPile: 12:26pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
faithfull18: The bolded is the truth. 7 Likes |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by wunmi590(m): 12:27pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
faithfull18: You made a valid point, i used to think house chores are easy, not until I get married and it started telling on my wife, couple with a baby ooo.. God bless every hard working married women out there. 8 Likes |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by ShaqFu: 12:27pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
faithfull18:How did you arrive at this conclusion? Did you conduct a research? Please kindly share your findings, thank you as you do. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by ShaqFu: 12:28pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
NoToPile:the truth according to who or whom? 1 Like |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Hathor5(f): 12:29pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
ShaqFu: Don't know. Some men and women think it's a woman's job to look after the baby. I am beginning to think that there is quite a number of men who would like to get more involved in childcare and that maybe it's us ladies who are not open enough to that idea. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Hathor5(f): 12:32pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
faithfull18: But would we swap? There are some men right here on this thread who are open to the idea of staying at home temporarily. Can we say the same about the ladies? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by ShaqFu: 12:34pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Hathor5:well we still live in a very traditional society so I'm not surprise. The men who tow that line of thought have broken the shackles of traditional thinking. I have friends who took time of their various jobs to take care of their newborn. As for women who still believe in that archaic kind of reasoning. I want to believe they hold firm to their belief because of what they gain from it, but like you said, maybe 3 Likes |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Hathor5(f): 12:52pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
ShaqFu: bold I'm very much interested in their reasons why they would not share maternity/fraternity leave with their husbands if they are not breastfeeding for 18 or 24 months. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by ShaqFu: 2:12pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Hathor5:perhaps you can conduct a personal research to ascertain this. |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Hathor5(f): 2:28pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
ShaqFu: Or you open a thread. |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 2:39pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
....I will gladly stay once she can provide all my needs, pamper me,buy me gifts and offcourse get me pregnant. Is gonna be very sweet. 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Opeyemiextra(f): 2:41pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE: You are even ready for the pregnancy part. Interesting 1 Like |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Mariangeles(f): 3:10pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
wunmi590: I’ve been noticing your comments. You are the best husband on nairaland. 4 Likes |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:13pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra:......Lol. Yes Oo. As a house band |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Mariangeles(f): 3:13pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE: Men do not pamper in first place. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:15pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Mariangeles:....Ha. Nne na only that one you see? . I pamper my own wife so she has to do same. |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Mariangeles(f): 3:19pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE: Women pamper their men more na. And men love to be babied by their women. They only form macho online. 1 Like |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by JONNYSPUTE(m): 3:21pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Mariangeles:...Inukwa!. If she can do all I stated,then I'm ready. |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by eazzzy1(m): 3:34pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Hathor5: Bold Lol thanks, I do hope to be a good father someday. Blue Yes some countries have 5 weeks paternity leave with benefits. Both parents must do everything they can to be involved in their kids lives, especially during their developmental years. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by sammirano: 3:37pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Not in this life |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra: There is no table that will be turn around here . God has made it to be like that and so shall it be |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Elidrisy20: 3:38pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
I'm not married, so this is not my problem |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by nnenwa5: 3:39pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Some men are at war with women, so they make it a battle. Later they will say women play the victim card. 5 Likes |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by Johel(m): 3:39pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra: A man has his roles to play in home keeping and general house maintenance,there's nothing I can't do for love but to the right one only. |
Re: Men, Would You Consider Being Househusbands? by nnenwa5: 3:40pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Interesting thread, but as usual they will make it a man vs woman battle. 1 Like |
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