This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

make i chill for here

this story was sent in from where to where?

Or you just cooked up one story to keep Nairaland busy.

divorce or get a second wife.



na we men dey make matter look complicated.




all this kind topic dey always make me vex, it be like make i beat sense enter the poster brain.

He should discuss with her about taking a second wife, Then see how she will change quickly

omo

...thats when the talk of bringing a new concubine should be placed on the agenda. if she cant fulfill her marital duties then let someone else do that, no biggie!

He should keep begging her for sex...
If he can't keep begging divorce is always there..very easy..

Get her younger to come visiting and bang shit outta her head

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

he should go and get a side chick and leave his wife alone

Why didn't u test b4 marriage

nobody way no like sex,, if she is not getting it from her husband,, she dey bang somewhere

I wan ask question o
Please at what stage do men stop being sex starved?

ukaface:
I wan ask question o
Please at what stage do men stop being sex starved?

Do u mean at what age does a man's libido reduce?

swido:


Do u mean at what age does a man's libido reduce?

yes, if you want to put it that way

Men always remember that a woman can get married to someone she doesn't even love! Just because she chose to marry you doesn't mean you are or where her first choice. To them it is nothing.

SIMP

Pastor wey pray for una wedding day didn't see this coming??

most marriage like this sef them deh talk say na pastor choose am or na God.

No sex before marriage..hian if I hear?

superCleanworks:
this was sent in from where to where?

From Lagos to Abuja

Mjanee:

Why didn't u test b4 marriage

but some of you insist sex after marriage

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

How do people marry these days sef?
Wasn't he sensitive to these things in his wife while they dated.

People just cry over everything, especially things they could ve avoided.
In most cases, we are the architect of our problems.

Haha then what are you enjoying in the marriage self ?

Better opt out now

Divorce her asap or Make u find one small banny wey go fuccck ur essence off, gobble down your mamba with joy, life is too short to put a woman under your roof, provide and protect for her, clothes her, then she turn around to deny you sexx, she dey ment


What else she has to offer you

He should get a side chick

WTF?

Why self-service when I have a woman at home? I'm not against polygamy but I'd rather divorce than stay with such woman.

To avoid cheating on her, get a divorce and get married to a suitable spouse

If she's not fulfilling her conjugal responsibility the best option is to part ways.

Any husband wey complain about the wife's sex life is a faithful man the rest of others are even happy that the wife no disturb them after being "spent" with mma ino

Omo me wey be say na virgin I wan marry like this nko

Botking:
He should discuss with her about taking a second wife, Then see how she will change quickly

If she be Lez, she go gree. She go convert the second wife. I don hear am happen, lolz.

KiNg0G:
divorce or get a second wife.



na we men dey make matter look complicated.




all this kind topic dey always make me vex, it be like make i beat sense enter the poster brain.

Everybody is not a dog, please.

He needs solution to his problem. not a damage to his life and Marriage.

pozehnani:


Everybody is not a dog, please.

He needs solution to his problem. not a damage to his life and Marriage.

are you calling me a dog.

becareful