In 5 years she bears 3kids for you and you said she doesn’t like sex… Don’t treat that kind heart like a dog Biko…

Amb1045:


He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

Lol! It's none of those. It's a health challenge. It's a natural phenomenon. If she never gets wet no matter the thrust, it's very hard she cheats. she really hates it for real. I've seen women in this situation calling chics for their husbands. It's normal. Let him cope or buy intimacy gadgets. Or discuss with her if he should cheat. Too much thrust in her will cause her to bleed. She won't tell you.

Mjanee:

Why didn't u test b4 marriage

Na suya!

superCleanworks:
this story was sent in from where to where?

Or you just cooked up one story to keep Nairaland busy.

you're mean

There isa something she is not telling you just fine out a way to know, abi na she suppose to they disturb you.

Let him do more of romance than sex the wife will be the one that will even ask for it . Smush her for at least 1hur before sex proper u will thank me later

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

He should go and get himself one or two girlfriends but back home he should make sure he is taking maximum care of the wife but he should STOP asking the wife for sex. Any day she is ready so be it.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
He should keep begging her for sex...
If he can't keep begging divorce is always there..very easy..

or he take second wife....as easy as that!

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

Make dem both go seek help of professional sex therapist...not the roadside sex vloggers abeg.

This story ehn...

So many marriages are going through this silently.

Please ignore those saying you should go outside, when it blows in your face, they won't be there.

Seek for an Elder in the family that you can confide in and explain the situation to him or her. Also check yourself hygiene wise, try and help with chores in the house, change her environment (maybe take a trip).

Find a way to make your marriage work.

Bonesbreaker:
Get her younger to come visiting and bang shit outta her head

So you think marriage is girlfriend and boyfriend relationship?

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

She might have been FGM'ed ........... If she has, this is the reason ........

Are you a chuk and go, or you start with for.eplay ......

Mjanee:

Why didn't u test b4 marriage

What is he testing. . ?

That why its advisable to marry who you are sexually compatible with.... Stop waiting until wedding night abeg.

There's something wrong with her. How can somebody not like sex Dear future wife u better like sex or else back to ur fathers house u go

Basicend:


What is he testing. . ?

Testing groundnut

ukaface:
I wan ask question o
Please at what stage do men stop being sex starved?

Ask you real Dad he's way older than all naira land men.

Take your wife to any hos to boost her hormones..very difficult to correct she may be placed on pills for life.sory for this..u didnt notice this during courtship

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

Someone else is banging the wife....

Take her for counseling so she know the dangers of what she doing

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

Send me the wife number make I talk some senses into her head

Me I no understand again o.. Wentin be the purpose of courting fess?? Say you no notice all these before

This is one problem codedly happening in many homes. Your wife does not have low libido anything.... She is just not feeling you.... She doesn't have natural affection for you.... Simple

Not possible

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

You don't ask a lady for sex, you put her in the mood.

mach7:
This story ehn...

So many marriages are going through this silently.

Please ignore those saying you should go outside, when it blows in your face, they won't be there.

Seek for an Elder in the family that you can confide in and explain the situation to him or her. Also check yourself hygiene wise, try and help with chores in the house, change her environment (maybe take a trip).

Find a way to make your marriage work.

As much as I would have agreed to this, dis days when you discuss your personal matters with others they inturn discuss it with another person.... It's better to resolve your matters yourself... For the good of everyone

Favourdesent:
make i chill for here

When I advice against buying non tested, holy Marys and Josephs go dey criticize me. Una dey see the results now after you carry am reash house.

Oya manage am like dat, shebi you sign "till death do you part"? Go buy intimacy gadget, or in the extreme find a regular olosho who will be available on demand.

Toks2008:


You don't ask a lady for sex, you put her in the mood.

For how long will you continue to put her in the mood.... Why she no dey make efforts to put her husband in the mood too.... Make we stop to dey make excuses for People abeg....

Toks2008:


You don't ask a lady for sex, you put her in the mood.

If de mood no come dey their nko?

brandsoncharlie:

Mumu, how old are you? You are probably still living in your parents house.
A married man that provides for family and take care of most of everything in the house.
If na range rover as gift. Dem go open mouth give me.

nincompoop! Fuckwit!
As old as you are, you feel it's sensible to abuse me while making a point?

Geddifok outta my mention with your stupidity.

Kukuma no provide for your family Na, them put gun for your head?
Grow, old man

brandsoncharlie:

Ask you real Dad he's way older than all naira land men.

abeg getat