Toks2008:


You don't ask a lady for sex, you put her in the mood.

shakespere:
When a woman has children things are different. Been married for 17 years and have experienced this . House chores and the kids, plus her own job is enough to kill her, sex is the least on the agenda, and easily see the husband as selfish. He does not go through same thing. She has lost her mojo, threatening her with side chick is not the answer, she does not care.

kkins25:

see as you listed reponsibilities of a woman you don't know. neither was any info provided that she was exhausted from work.
raising kids is stressfull? would she like to go and carry bags of cement? would she want to go and work, and let rhe man sit at home? Don't give us that BS.

African women are - i don't know- trained to be resistive to sex.

I once had a GF who complaimed to me that her weakness was sex. But it took me more than 30mins before i could reach the under wear, the first time we did it. smh!

if she can't cooe then she should shift and allow another to enter or support.

watch her get wet without provacation. lol

Botking:
He should discuss with her about taking a second wife, Then see how she will change quickly

ImoleNaija:
How is their financial life?

Let's start from there.

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

shakespere:
When a woman has children things are different. Been married for 17 years and have experienced this . House chores and the kids, plus her own job is enough to kill her, sex is the least on the agenda, and easily see the husband as selfish. He does not go through same thing. She has lost her mojo, threatening her with side chick is not the answer, she does not care.

Man should help her with the kids - home work, bathing, getting them to bed, cooking, washing etc. Create the atmosphere for her to want to, give her free time, rest time, me time, take her out, let her rest whilst you and the kids cook during weekend, massage her leg, tell her kids words, show appreciation- it is toasting her all over again. This thing can be really frustrating for women, and make them intolerant, untop, if you dont have money and she is the one working her ass off to take care of the family!

Little by little, she will change. Call her before you come home, buy food istead make she cook, tell her there will be show tonight, rest o, no give me story, bring her gifts, sebi thats what we do for side chicks, who dont do all the laborious things, so they always ready.

I have done this and she came around, i get it more regular now. Side chikcs is not the answer, safe money for old age income o

Mjanee:

Why didn't u test b4 marriage

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

GreatUniben:
Give her spanish fly gold, make sure you let her know that you are giving her the Spanish fly gold.

Ihatebuhariwith:
So if she no hate sex na every month u deh born pikin? 3children within 5yrs

Amb1045:
This was sent IN earlier this week by a married man living in lagos with his wife of about 5yrs and a family of 3 kids.

He complained that his wife has extremely low libido. Infact, he practically begs for sex every night and labours even harder during the act cos the wife never gets wet at all. He has grown so frustrated with this since the wife has advised him to masturbate if that would make him feel better cos she has no interest whatsoever in sex.

He is now thinking that about their miserable sex life as a couple and now thinks that perhaps the wife has a spiritual husband or cheating and really disillusioned with the marriage and turlt needs help.

What do you advise him?

kkins25:

see as you listed reponsibilities of a woman you don't know. neither was any info provided that she was exhausted from work.
raising kids is stressfull? would she like to go and carry bags of cement? would she want to go and work, and let rhe man sit at home? Don't give us that BS.

African women are - i don't know- trained to be resistive to sex.

I once had a GF who complaimed to me that her weakness was sex. But it took me more than 30mins before i could reach the under wear, the first time we did it. smh!

if she can't cooe then she should shift and allow another to enter or support.

watch her get wet without provacation. lol

Ashinze:
Suck leak her Private, she will be the one begging you for Bleep all the time. But if her Private is not clean, take her to the bathroom, clean her up with Dettol soap and liquid.

LagosNissan:



Leave that talk


You guys are encouraging these women to be doing shit.

They feel less interested when they know they can get away with it.

Do you feel like going to work and paying bills all day?

But you do it nevertheless.


Same way people brag that they have hot temper but they don't show the temper at embassy during visa interview or at the army barracks.

They don't show it to their boss too.


Women are selfish by nature. Once they feel comfortable and assured in marriage they will be stupid.