Calibrator:
We learn and update our knowledge every day

I'm glad bro

Bloody introvert like me,
I don't do workmates,
I don't do churchmates,
I don't do neighbors,
I don't do online dating,
I don't do ashawo,
Yet my libido is off the roof, my dear redpillers where do I get my booty supply?
Candid question.

@CaveAdullam (at least you tolerate me small around here)

Tonnyray:
Bloody introvert like me,
I don't do workmates,
I don't do churchmates,
I don't do neighbors,
I don't do online dating,
I don't do ashawo,
Yet my libido is off the roof, my dear redpillers where do I get my booty supply?
Candid question.

@CaveAdullam (at least you tolerate me small around here)

Don't you have engine oil at home?

Klchnjoku:


Over the weekend an hostel mate brought one of his female friends.. they were gisting outside the hostel verandah which is close to my own room so I could hear their discussion from my window.

The lady was telling the guy about one of her female friends that she (her friend) doesn't want a boyfriend because her parents are rich.

The guy who she was telling didn't read any meaning to it from his response but me that have understood female nature to a greater extent I picked up a meaning and confirmation of the redpill from her statement.

Here is the meaning

Women only view men as a tool to be used to cater for their needs and foot their bills.

If a woman has other means of getting those provisions.. she won't give a damn about having any man in her life.

Women only see men as a tool to be used for their own satisfaction.

That is why when one man can no longer give them the satisfaction they crave, they don't hesitate to jump to the next available man who can.

Women don't value when like men believe, in fact the society in general doesn't value men.

They only see us as slaves that can used for their own satisfaction or gains any time they want.

That is why every man reading this must create value only for himself and perhaps his immediate family.

Every man must make himself a PRIORTY not one daughter of eve.

Facts!

If you have ever been chosen by a woman before even if it is just once, you will never ever find cold approaching interesting. It would be a great waste of your precious time.

If a woman has ever wanted you so badly before, you will know that women also SIMP in great heights as bluePILLED men.
A woman who chooses you will call you every blessed day without even worrying or complaining about you not reciprocating.

If you have experienced being chosen before, cold approaching will bore you. Trying to impress a girl to like you will feel so stupid and abnormal.

You will never have to use a punch a line when she chooses you. You can do no wrong in the face of a woman who chooses you.
She will hug you on the first date. If you try to kiss her she won't resist you. She won't make you wait for anything.

When she chooses you, you don't have to take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her. Merely seeing your face alone she is already impressed, to the extent that she won't even notice the environment of the first date.

When you have experienced being chosen, you will never ever deal with low interest women again.

So much to talk about so little time. With all that has been preached here, there is still a lot to be learned.
If you want to do things the way you have always done it before coming to the REDPILL, then there is no reason to be here.

#TAKETHEREDPILL
#STAYREDPILLED
#STAYCOLD

chukshobayo:



What makes you think Ronaldo may not simp later on? One can't tell

Karlifate:


Gbam!

Sometimes, I do have this thought that Ronaldo may wife Georgina, and she'll end up divorcing him.

Prophecy about to come to pass.

https://www.nairaland.com/6960332/cristiano-ronaldo-confesses-georgina-rodriguez

NeroStealth01:
If you have ever been chosen by a woman before even if it is just once, you will never ever find cold approaching interesting. It would be a great waste of your precious time.

If a woman has ever wanted you so badly before, you will know that women also SIMP in great heights as bluePILLED men.
A woman who chooses you will call you every blessed day without even worrying or complaining about you not reciprocating.

If you have experienced being chosen before, cold approaching will bore you. Trying to impress a girl to like you will feel so stupid and abnormal.

You will never have to use a punch a line when she chooses you. You can do no wrong in the face of a woman who chooses you.
She will hug you on the first date. If you try to kiss her she won't resist you. She won't make you wait for anything.

When she chooses you, you don't have to take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her. Merely seeing your face alone she is already impressed, to the extent that she won't even notice the environment of the first date.

When you have experienced being chosen, you will never ever deal with low interest women again.

So much to talk about so little time. With all that has been preached here, there is still a lot to be learned.
If you want to do things the way you have always done it before coming to the REDPILL, then there is no reason to be here.

#TAKETHEREDPILL
#STAYREDPILLED
#STAYCOLD

this right here is my modus operandi, I think it has to do with how you start out in the sexual aspect of life,I've always bleeped girls that chose me and see men who pay for this things as idiots(sorry to say) I can't pay for sex and I've never paid for it,if the feeling ain't mutual I don't wont even enjoy the sex.

Tips for Kings

JESHAL:
Lolz
The future will be epic

God forbid

Be dat guy roll with girls wey get level nd the low ND lower will be simpin for u



The boy have sex with her tho

After doing shit with lot of guys, Dem go come Dy closer to God

Even tho she a nun, she still gat dat dark side in her, she's even trying to run shit with da guy

People think that I am lying whenever I say the last time I toasted a girl was in 2013.


They will be like all these girls flocking around you, how do you do it?


No dey loud am.
I just go about my grind and one way or another, my body satellite dish is always on to pick up greenlight signals from the opposite sex.


Though I have to admit, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and those who throw themselves at you might not be your spec on a regular day but a man gotta do what a man gotta do


Going after and maintaining a relationship with your spec is one sure way to lose frame and the genesis of oneitis.

NeroStealth01:
If you have ever been chosen by a woman before even if it is just once, you will never ever find cold approaching interesting. It would be a great waste of your precious time.

If a woman has ever wanted you so badly before, you will know that women also SIMP in great heights as bluePILLED men.
A woman who chooses you will call you every blessed day without even worrying or complaining about you not reciprocating.

If you have experienced being chosen before, cold approaching will bore you. Trying to impress a girl to like you will feel so stupid and abnormal.

You will never have to use a punch a line when she chooses you. You can do no wrong in the face of a woman who chooses you.
She will hug you on the first date. If you try to kiss her she won't resist you. She won't make you wait for anything.

When she chooses you, you don't have to take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her. Merely seeing your face alone she is already impressed, to the extent that she won't even notice the environment of the first date.

When you have experienced being chosen, you will never ever deal with low interest women again.

So much to talk about so little time. With all that has been preached here, there is still a lot to be learned.
If you want to do things the way you have always done it before coming to the REDPILL, then there is no reason to be here.

#TAKETHEREDPILL
#STAYREDPILLED
#STAYCOLD

I'm trying to get this right;
I'm entering a shopping mall and a Xoli Mfeka booty sashays out unaccompanied.
I retrace my steps immediately, walk up to her, introduce myself and collect her details.. and that makes me weak and not the prize
What am I expected to do? Say "one man is tired of this pvssy?" lmfao
I should rather respond to the evergreen lights flashing continually in my office by regular and temporary (NYSC) female staff neh? or that of members of my new church and end up in a Sammie Okposogate?
Who says there is no "choosing" in cold approaches? You think a 7+ chick gives out her number to every Sule, Rasheed and Mufutau?
"I don't give my number to strangers" is the biggest lie from the pits of hell, he's just not her spec, period.
And collecting a chick's number is just the very first step in hitting the coochie.. there are so many other possible steps in-between.
Where do I even begin on this topic?
Dayum

Smartb0y:


Cold approaching is for men that don't see themselves as the prize.

They still have a long way to go

What are your thoughts on recommendations?

I know some guys don't fancy it because it kind of makes them look like a coward or sissy and it's also kind of old-fashioned but I've discovered it has a higher success rate than cold approach.

Reason being that the person recommending you for example her friend, relative or sister will divulge some information about your person which the Lady won't be able to gauge immediately from cold approach and get her interested.

Another added advantage is that peradventure she rejects, it won't hurt as much because the communication wasn't personal in the first place.

It has its own demerits too, but in my opinion better than cold approach.

Raalsalghul:


What are your thoughts on recommendations?

I know some guys don't fancy it because it kind of makes them look like a coward or sissy and it's also kind of old-fashioned but I've discovered it has a higher success rate than cold approach.

Reason being that the person recommending you for example her friend, relative or sister will divulge some information about your person which the Lady won't be able to gauge immediately from cold approach and get her interested.

Another added advantage is that peradventure she rejects, it won't hurt as much because the communication wasn't personal in the first place.

It has its own demerits too, but in my opinion better than cold approach.

To start with,to each his own.
Based on behaviourial temperaments,an extrovert might find it hard sticking to the chosen principle because they love expressing themselves.

Know your temperament and stick with the principle that doesn't seem like a headache to you.

In a country like Nigeria where honest women are just too hard to find,do you think you can get someone serious using the cold approach.

These are the kind of questions you need to ask yourself, it'll guide you on how to go about things.

Ubunja gave an apt description about how things play out when you go with the cold approach.
Surely, you'll invest one way or the order be it your precious time of which when she decides to flip on you, you'll get angry.
Be it your money, you'll end up simping.

Some might deny that they don't invest one way or the other when they use the cold approach but it's lie.
They're are simply living in denial.

That moment when you see someone/something that you like but you're unable to attain it,of course you'll feel some kind of dissatisfaction and disappointment.
It's like treating someone like a celebrity and from where the ugly vaginarian stands, you're simply a fan, hence why the outrageous complains from guys saying girls have entitlement mentality.

Where do you think it all originated from,cold approach is responsible.

Someone mentioned that cold approach is a thing of the past, I totally agree
We are in different times but men don't want to adjust, they're still doing things that pedestalize these vaginarians.

Gone are the days when you sponsor a woman, you're guaranteed a wife/ a good house wife.

Anyone that tells/shame you that you're a sissy for valuing yourself and your time over a woman is a pussy worshipping simp who doesn't know their worth. Separate yourself from people with such mentality.

Have fun but never do it at your own detriment.

NeroStealth01:
If you have ever been chosen by a woman before even if it is just once, you will never ever find cold approaching interesting. It would be a great waste of your precious time.

If a woman has ever wanted you so badly before, you will know that women also SIMP in great heights as bluePILLED men.
A woman who chooses you will call you every blessed day without even worrying or complaining about you not reciprocating.

If you have experienced being chosen before, cold approaching will bore you. Trying to impress a girl to like you will feel so stupid and abnormal.

You will never have to use a punch a line when she chooses you. You can do no wrong in the face of a woman who chooses you.
She will hug you on the first date. If you try to kiss her she won't resist you. She won't make you wait for anything.

When she chooses you, you don't have to take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her. Merely seeing your face alone she is already impressed, to the extent that she won't even notice the environment of the first date.

When you have experienced being chosen, you will never ever deal with low interest women again.

So much to talk about so little time. With all that has been preached here, there is still a lot to be learned.
If you want to do things the way you have always done it before coming to the REDPILL, then there is no reason to be here.

#TAKETHEREDPILL
#STAYREDPILLED
#STAYCOLD

One has to be very careful with being chosen because a woman that has a promiscuous and damaged past, masculine tendencies, retiring hoe, past her prime years, single mother can sense your glory or potential for glory and play the Feminine sweet easy to get role to attract and tie you down, women are not stupid, they are socially calibrated and calculative, my advice to anyone that find himself in this shoes is not to take such women seriously for commitment, never give such women access to your heart( love), don't pay full price on this leeches who won't consider you a valuable option if you are not doing something meaningful with your life, don't pay for the sins of another man her past alpha widows, don't tolerate her masculine mannerless attitude because she chose you, at best make sure such relationship remains strictly Sexual, let her waste her time chasing you, trying to win you over while you are heads up knowing her overall plan and laughing inside, don't stake your future on desperate hoes no matter how you find them attractive , submissive and easy to deal with, don't let the pain of the rejection faced during the scarcity days make you attached to this loose women, sharpen you eye, your future is more valuable than any alpha feeling you get in the present from such women, select only the best quality women for a long term relationship

I honestly believe that cold approach is a very outdated and silly thing to do in today's world.
While I do not pronounce judgement on anybody who chooses to do that, I maintain that it is always better to be chosen and to flow with girls that have already chosen you.
Walking up to a randiny girl and toasting her is more or less pedestalising her already, I would never be caught dead doing that.

I would never be the source of any random girl's overbloated ego.
The truth is that as the price that I know myself to be, I'll always roll with girls that have already chosen me.

Moreover, it is also easy to get a girl to choose you.
Simply looking fit, well groomed, a healthy sense of esteem, mannerism, choice of words and a touch of wealth/flamboyancy can get girls attracted to you. They then start giving you the green lights.
This is way better than walking up to any random girl. I'd never ever do that.

All I can say is whatever you do in this life, Have fun
E get why.

Smartb0y:

To start with,to each his own.
Based on behaviourial temperaments,an extrovert might find it hard sticking to the chosen principle because they love expressing themselves.

Know your temperament and stick with the principle that doesn't seem like a headache to you.

In a country like Nigeria where honest women are just too hard to find,do you think you can get someone serious using the cold approach.

These are the kind of questions you need to ask yourself, it'll guide you on how to go about things.

Ubunja gave an apt description about how things play out when you go with the cold approach.
Surely, you'll invest one way or the order be it your precious time of which when she decides to flip on you, you'll get angry.
Be it your money, you'll end up simping.

Some might deny that they don't invest one way or the other when they use the cold appointment but it's lie.
They're are simply living in denial.

That moment when you see someone/something that you like but you're unable to attain it,of course you'll feel some kind of dissatisfaction and disappointment.
It's like treating someone like a celebrity and from where the ugly vaginarian stands, you're simply a fan, hence why the outrageous complains from guys saying girls have entitlement mentality.

Where do you think it all originated from,cold approach is responsible.

Someone mentioned that cold approach is a thing of the past, I totally agree
We are in different times but men don't want to adjust, they're still doing things that pedestalize these vaginarians.

Gone are the days when you sponsor a woman, you're guaranteed a wife/ a good house wife.

Anyone that tells/shame you that you're a sissy for valuing yourself and your time over a woman is a pussy worshipping simp who doesn't know their worth. Separate yourself from people with such mentality.

Have fun but never do it at your own detriment.

This is the plain truth.
Cold approach is nothing but pedestalising women.
It is from here that entitlement mentality springs up. This is the very root of it all.
It doesn't make any sense at all.

Why go through the stress of cold approach when you can invest in yourself - physically, mentally, financially - and see them begin to gradually revolve around you, then as the chosen one, things get easier for you.

Only lack of sexual control will make a redpill guy decide to cold-approach a seemingly hot lady.
She looks so hot and irresistible, you then decide to pedestalise her by walking up to her and toasting. Really, is she the only hot girl you've ever met?
Anybody who HOLISTICALLY invests in himself well enough will get chosen by even the so-called hot girls, sooner or later.

Calibrator:
Going after and maintaining a relationship with your spec is one sure way to lose frame and the genesis of oneitis.

See where the confusion is? My last relationship is almost 4 years ago. If I want a relationship that's when what these sermons by "redpillers" will apply to me. Mating calls and green lights in my everyday sphere of operation are the norm, but all I want are fvck buddies. So I don't complicate my life by responding to mating calls of neighbors or colleagues at work. I have a separate phone and truecaller ID exclusively for fvckmates and potential fvckmates. It's a totally parallel life. And a fvckmate that wants to "graduate" to gf status gets eliminated ASAP.
When I'm done with this "hoeing" phase of mine, then I'll look the way of my "perfect" spec in church maybe.
This sh!t is simpler than what people are actually making it out to be.

JESHAL:



One has to be very careful with being chosen because a woman that has a promiscuous and damaged past, masculine tendencies, retiring hoe, past her prime years, single mother can sense your glory or potential for glory and play the Feminine sweet easy to get role to attract and tie you down, women are not stupid, they are socially calibrated and calculative, my advice to anyone that find himself in this shoes is not to take such women seriously for commitment, never give such women access to your heart( love), don't pay full price on this leeches who won't consider you a valuable option if you are not doing something meaningful with your life, don't pay for the sins of another man her past alpha widows, don't tolerate her masculine mannerless attitude because she chose you, at best make sure such relationship remains strictly Sexual, let her waste her time chasing you, trying to win you over while you are heads up knowing her overall plan and laughing inside, don't stake your future on desperate hoes no matter how you find them attractive , submissive and easy to deal with, don't let the pain of the rejection faced during the scarcity days make you attached to this loose women, sharpen you eye, your future is more valuable than any alpha feeling you get in the present from such women, select only the best quality women for a long term relationship

I largely agree with you, except for one thing.
You speak as if men get chosen by only women past their prime. That cannot be farther than the truth.
Girls of all strata - young, single, working class, etc - will choose you and will heavily simp for you once you play your game right.
No girl is exempt from choosing a high value man. They will, once you apply the various principles discussed here, especially by ubunja, on being the chosen one.

It is left for you to decide what to do with them.

Tonnyray:
Lmao.
I had to think real hard whether or not to reply to this.
80% is a feat to you? Like seriously? 4 out of 5? You can't get the numbers of 4 girls out of 5 you approach?
I really as in honestly want to believe you're mixing things up.
I never for once referred to actual sex because I have a body count that's still less than 100 (80+) while my phone that is solely dedicated to women has a contact list of about 1,400. And the problem has never been about game or lack of it. The problem always has been lack of time.

So my question to you is with all your game, getting 4 numbers out of 5 girls is an impossible feat? Because based on my understanding that is what cold approaching means.

oh, success to you is a phone number Lol we are in different worlds
Carry on. Don't mind me. I thought you were talking about sex. My bad.

ubunja:
oh, success to you is a phone number Lol we are in different worlds
Carry on. Don't mind me. I thought you were talking about sex. My bad.

The sarcasm is well noted but trust me I won't go low with you.
There are different phases to this game thing. Success in cold approach (which is the very first step when meeting a total stranger) is getting her to release that vital information (phone number) that ensures things progress from there. Cold approach was the topic. Sex was not. Unless you have a different definition for cold approach though.

NeroStealth01:
If you have ever been chosen by a woman before even if it is just once, you will never ever find cold approaching interesting. It would be a great waste of your precious time.

If a woman has ever wanted you so badly before, you will know that women also SIMP in great heights as bluePILLED men.
A woman who chooses you will call you every blessed day without even worrying or complaining about you not reciprocating.

If you have experienced being chosen before, cold approaching will bore you. Trying to impress a girl to like you will feel so stupid and abnormal.

You will never have to use a punch a line when she chooses you. You can do no wrong in the face of a woman who chooses you.
She will hug you on the first date. If you try to kiss her she won't resist you. She won't make you wait for anything.

When she chooses you, you don't have to take her to a fancy restaurant to impress her. Merely seeing your face alone she is already impressed, to the extent that she won't even notice the environment of the first date.

When you have experienced being chosen, you will never ever deal with low interest women again.

So much to talk about so little time. With all that has been preached here, there is still a lot to be learned.
If you want to do things the way you have always done it before coming to the REDPILL, then there is no reason to be here.

#TAKETHEREDPILL
#STAYREDPILLED
#STAYCOLD

I was actually thinking about this yesterday..... On this chosen/cold approach debate, it's like the guys who have never had a girl choose them and never experienced a relationship based on chosen, are the most hardcore opponents of it. All their life they've been choosing yet hate being chosen like the very plague. Why are they so opposed? It's an ego thing. The very thought of being chosen makes them feel weak and effeminate. It appears un-Alpha to them. Such guys have a lot of un-learning and deprogramming to do.

ubunja:
I don't usually quote you cause you're more blue pill than red pill, but I'll stop you right there and call bs on that 80% blue lie. Dude even women themselves don't hit 80%, don't come here with that bs man. We're not kids here. Even di Caprio himself with all his looks and status and money, if he approaches 10 girls I bet you he will not get all of them to say yes,, and even getting 8 (which is the 80% mark) isn't guaranteed. hypergamy itself isn't as straightforward as many guys think. Many times it misfires because women are first of all emotional. Ask yourself, If hypergamy was as ironclad as it supposedly is, why are many women married in poverty. But that's not why I'm responding to you,, that 80% lie is what I can't countenance. I could have ignored. The more realistic stat that has been shared is "approach 100 women for sex and 1 will say Yes". Of course You may get more than 1. But to tell us that for every 10 chicks you cold approach 8 will say YES is bullshiit on top of bullshiit because even women themselves don't hit those numbers.

Anyways, you've said it yourself that cold approaching is addictive more than sex. No wonder. Cause I doubt there's a lot of actual sex there.

Yeah, have a friend who does more if the cold chasing stuff more than he gets laid. He sees it as flexing since he's good looking and hardly get turned down when he request for a girl's number.

The short story is, he hardly every get to fucck this girls, after wasting time and money on airtime and WhatsApp chat. Lol...

I keep asking him the aim of it all since he only ends up wasting his time and making these bitches feel valuable than they are worth.

SMH.

Tombrown3:


Yeah, have a friend who does more if the cold chasing stuff more than he gets laid. He sees it as flexing since he's good looking and hardly get turned down when he request for a girl's number.

The short story is, he hardly every get to fucck this girls, after wasting time and money on airtime and WhatsApp chat. Lol...

I keep asking him the aim of it all since he only ends up wasting his time and making these bitches feel valuable than they are worth.

Exactly. Why will any same man elevate a woman's worth and place her on a pedestal, at his own detriment?
I'm still struggling to understand the foolery behind the so-called cold approach.

The other day, a quote from Ephesians crossed my mind:

Let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

Funny... why not love both ways or respect? It's almost as if woman can't love man and man can't respect child (woman). Coincidence, (un)intentional redpill from 2000 years ago, or I'm just overthinking this?

Dizzyyish:
The other day, a quote from Ephesians crossed my mind:

Let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

Funny... why not love both ways or respect? It's almost as if woman can't love man and man can't respect child (woman). Coincidence, (un)intentional redpill from 2000 years ago, or I'm I just overthinking this?

Food for thought, indeed! And since they claim we are equal before God, I wonder why Christ chose 12 only male disciples.....

Dizzyyish:
The other day, a quote from Ephesians crossed my mind:
Let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Funny... why not love both ways or respect? It's almost as if woman can't love man and man can't respect child (woman). Coincidence, (un)intentional redpill from 2000 years ago, or I'm I just overthinking this?

See it as needs based.
Women need love.
Men need respect.
That's my understanding of it.

Tonnyray:
The sarcasm is well noted but trust me I won't go low with you.
There are different phases to this game thing. Success in cold approach (which is the very first step when meeting a total stranger) is getting her to release that vital information (phone number) that ensures things progress from there. Cold approach was the topic. Sex was not. Unless you have a different definition for cold approach though.

you've explained well. Cold approaching is about phone numbers.

Now, I'm explaining to you. Being Chosen is about sex. And in Chosen we give phone numbers we don't take them.

I have realized we're in different worlds. You're after phone numbers,, while I'm after pussy. Success to me is sex, not a phone number. Why the hell will I chase a phone number? You're literally on the wrong thread man.

Tonnyray:
See it as needs based.
Women need love.
Men need respect.
That's my understanding of it.

Hmm... so if man needs not 'respect' from woman he has no need for a relationship, unless he expects "love" in place of respect?