Case closed.

Stop crying....man will come.dat one na still boy.

Cheer up. Go to the gym or start exercising at home. Forget about him and love your child to the moon. He is not man and right for you. You will find love when the right man comes around. Take care and feel good

I smell vawulence in this thread felt sorry for OP tho, cos that nigga knows exactly what he is doing, he just want to use n dump her, any man that truly loved his girl will stand by her side no matter the obstacles on the way....

Your child is an important part of you and anyone who can't accept that don't love you.

Don't kill yourself o. After you don cry finish, enter market again. Your own man is waiting for you.

My sympathies are with you. Just move on. Also, try to understand the mother's perspective. You're also a mom. Every mom wants what they think is the utmost best for their child.

We live in a society that's not very accepting of single moms. So this kind of scenario is expected. But then, God is still in the business of arranging someone's son wey go love you unconditionally, one day.

Please run, don't wait! She will be a problem for you in future

just let go,you don't need a man that can't stand to defend what he wants... I'm not saying he should go against his mum,but convince her...

For your next relationship be with a man that loves you and your child wholeheartedly..Focus in yourself,trust me love will find you...all the best lady

The only thing to do here is move on.

Temmytayo97:
It hasn’t really been long that we met ( more than 2months though), we vibe very well right from start until recently that he started coming up with attitudes . I asked what was wrong and all he said was he needed time to be sure of what he feels for me. He asked for space and of which I gave him. At the end of the couple of weeks that he asked for, I asked him what’s up with us, all for him to say he doesn’t see us together in the future. I was curious to know what happened or what I did wrong, he said I’m a good woman but we can’t just be. After so much pressure, he opened up to me that his mum isn’t cool with our relationship because I’ve a child. I’m so so heartbroken and devastated. I really do not know what to do, he’s never going to disregard what the mum says. Though I won’t ever ask him to go against his mum but I don’t just know what to do, I’m helpless.

The guy naa liar.. he just use him mama cover up.. he don chop wetin him wan chop then wants to move but no know as him go tell you...

No mind am... Men are scum

Anyways, I like single moms. Can we vibe for 2-3 months too..

Temmytayo97:
It hasn’t really been long that we met ( more than 2months though), we vibe very well right from start until recently that he started coming up with attitudes . I asked what was wrong and all he said was he needed time to be sure of what he feels for me. He asked for space and of which I gave him. At the end of the couple of weeks that he asked for, I asked him what’s up with us, all for him to say he doesn’t see us together in the future. I was curious to know what happened or what I did wrong, he said I’m a good woman but we can’t just be. After so much pressure, he opened up to me that his mum isn’t cool with our relationship because I’ve a child. I’m so so heartbroken and devastated. I really do not know what to do, he’s never going to disregard what the mum says. Though I won’t ever ask him to go against his mum but I don’t just know what to do, I’m helpless.

you cant be mad at people following their mothers wishes and/or looking down on your single mother status... just live your life and find someone who will accept you fully.

Op nor vex, If I'm in your boyfriend's shoes, I will not marry you as a single mother.

And why is nobody asking the Op "Where is your baby daddy??


It is easier for a Camel to pass through the eye of a needle than a single mother to get a Bachelor to marry her.

The one for you is yet to come, don't panic. Don't forget to make the best of your days. Breathe that outside air, do what makes your heart joyful.

1-0 isn't a fair scoreline to begin a match with... Where is your baby daddy?
Look out for divorced or widowed men to even the scoreline.
The guy's mother shoved the REDPILL down his throat.

Temmytayo97:
It hasn’t really been long that we met ( more than 2months though), we vibe very well right from start until recently that he started coming up with attitudes . I asked what was wrong and all he said was he needed time to be sure of what he feels for me. He asked for space and of which I gave him. At the end of the couple of weeks that he asked for, I asked him what’s up with us, all for him to say he doesn’t see us together in the future. I was curious to know what happened or what I did wrong, he said I’m a good woman but we can’t just be. After so much pressure, he opened up to me that his mum isn’t cool with our relationship because I’ve a child. I’m so so heartbroken and devastated. I really do not know what to do, he’s never going to disregard what the mum says. Though I won’t ever ask him to go against his mum but I don’t just know what to do, I’m helpless.

You sound like a nice person.. See don't force it just let go, if it's urs then it'll definitely come back to you

And all the evening newspapers left the thread. Op the Truth is if ordinary evening Newspapers finds it difficult to get married. How much more an evening newspaper with a thorn front page.

I truly understand how you feel. I'd urge you not to worry too much and pick yourself up. I'm glad his mom was transparent about her opinion of you. A broken relationship is still better than a broken marriage. I believe you should understand that most parents especially mothers are against their kids marrying a single mother/father.

However, there are many men our there that their mom's gonna accept you with your kid.

I wish you well.

Just look for a baby daddy too.

You no fit cheat somebody's son na

Get a job and become financially independent, and guys would flock around you for marriage.

If you continue to sit there and cry over that news, start planning to live the rest of your life as a broke single mom or better still make up with the guy who impregnated you so that he can at least shoulder the responsibility of the child he brought into the world.

Nigeria's economy is terrible no one wants a liability into his life, if you're careless enough to get pregnant then work hard to cater for it.

I see you starting a business, I see the business flourishing, I see the guy coming to beg for forgiveness...

This I have seen.

FalseProphet1:
Get a job and become financially independent, and guys would flock around you for marriage.

If you continue to sit there and cry over that news, start planning to live the rest of your life as a broke single mom or better still make up with the guy who impregnated you so that he can at least shoulder the responsibility of the child he brought into the world.

Nigeria's economy is terrible no one wants a liability into his life, if you're careless enough to get pregnant then work hard to cater for it.

I see you starting a business, I see the business flourishing, I see the guy coming to beg for forgiveness...

This I have seen.

I’m not a broke single mum, I’m a graduate and I work in a good company. That asides I’ve a handwork and of which I’ve a small shop that I’m managing. So please I’m not a liability.

FalseProphet1:
Get a job and become financially independent, and guys would flock around you for marriage.

If you continue to sit there and cry over that news, start planning to live the rest of your life as a broke single mom or better still make up with the guy who impregnated you so that he can at least shoulder the responsibility of the child he brought into the world.

Nigeria's economy is terrible no one wants a liability into his life, if you're careless enough to get pregnant then work hard to cater for it.

I see you starting a business, I see the business flourishing, I see the guy coming to beg for forgiveness...

This I have seen.

Then again, please mind the way you talk to me here. I came here to seek people’s opinion not condemnation. Mind you the father of my child is taking full responsibilities on his daughter so I’m not in any way a liability. Because I’m a single mum, does that mean I’m not entitled to love someone and be loved back in return? Am I not entitled to happiness? Why are we Nigerians always complicating issues? Please if you don’t have anything good to say to me, please don’t add to it. Thanks

Temmytayo97:
It hasn’t really been long that we met ( more than 2months though), we vibe very well right from start until recently that he started coming up with attitudes . I asked what was wrong and all he said was he needed time to be sure of what he feels for me. He asked for space and of which I gave him. At the end of the couple of weeks that he asked for, I asked him what’s up with us, all for him to say he doesn’t see us together in the future. I was curious to know what happened or what I did wrong, he said I’m a good woman but we can’t just be. After so much pressure, he opened up to me that his mum isn’t cool with our relationship because I’ve a child. I’m so so heartbroken and devastated. I really do not know what to do, he’s never going to disregard what the mum says. Though I won’t ever ask him to go against his mum but I don’t just know what to do, I’m helpless.

95 percent sure he's lying.

luvmijeje:
Your child is an important part of you and anyone who can't accept that don't love you.

Don't kill yourself o. After you don cry finish, enter market again. Your own man is waiting for you.

what about the man that pregnant her,did he love her?

Temmytayo97:


Then again, please mind the way you talk to me here. I came here to seek people’s opinion not condemnation. Mind you the father of my child is taking full responsibilities on his daughter so I’m not in any way a liability. Because I’m a single mum, does that mean I’m not entitled to love someone and be loved back in return? Am I not entitled to happiness? Why are we Nigerians always complicating issues? Please if you don’t have anything good to say to me, please don’t add to it. Thanks

why didn't you get married to the father since is taking responsibility?

MJBOLT:

his mother knows single moms are bad news and must be avoided,if he is wise he will heed his mother's warning.

You feel single mothers are bad news… really!
We conceiving a child without having the mindset of terminating it, is that bad news? We giving birth to our kids alive, is that bad news? So single ladies who has terminated all the babies they are to give birth to are good news right? Please before you say something terrible to single mothers, think of the fact that you have sisters and mothers too. Not all single mothers wish to leave the father or their kids, and not all single mothers wish to be single mums. Is it not nice to keep the baby than terminating it. Please whatsoever you want to say , please always think it through before saying.

Temmytayo97:
It hasn’t really been long that we met ( more than 2months though), we vibe very well right from start until recently that he started coming up with attitudes . I asked what was wrong and all he said was he needed time to be sure of what he feels for me. He asked for space and of which I gave him. At the end of the couple of weeks that he asked for, I asked him what’s up with us, all for him to say he doesn’t see us together in the future. I was curious to know what happened or what I did wrong, he said I’m a good woman but we can’t just be. After so much pressure, he opened up to me that his mum isn’t cool with our relationship because I’ve a child. I’m so so heartbroken and devastated. I really do not know what to do, he’s never going to disregard what the mum says. Though I won’t ever ask him to go against his mum but I don’t just know what to do, I’m helpless.

yea , the mum is right

uthlaw:
why didn't you get married to the father since is taking responsibility?

With due respect, I owe you no explanations. If you don’t have anything to say, please just let It slide.

uthlaw:
why didn't you get married to the father since is taking responsibility?

With due respect, I owe you no explanation. Please if you don’t have anything to say then please let it slide.

Chikpat:
Cheer up. Go to the gym or start exercising at home. Forget about him and love your child to the moon. He is not man and right for you. You will find love when the right man comes around. Take care and feel good

Workouts are magical.

Temmytayo97:


With due respect, I owe you no explanation. Please if you don’t have anything to say then please let it slide.

okay!

It's not easy raising another man's child. With time you'll find the right guy fr u. The most important thing fr u to do now is to invest in ur child's future