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How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by dboY1123(m): 3:09pm On Oct 24, 2022
I made a post before about this girl I met in January, that she lost her phone while returning home and I suggested buying her a new phone. Thank goodness I didn't take that step but rather opted for EasyBuy(paying in installment) and I just had to add small change.
Well, despite using mt details and also putting my money for her to get the phone(via EasyBuy), she went back to her Ex, I saw their chats on whatsapp, where the guy asked her to visit him and all that, I traced the date and that same time she didn't go but came to my house instead. After that scene, she password her whatsapp, and always keep her phone from me anytime she's with me.
MY girlfriend doesn't contribute in the relationship, not attention or even money, even though u send her money anytime she asks, we started having issue when she saved her money up, so she can use it to pay for her Direct Entry and school stuff, but she claimed she gave her mum all the money then came back to ask me for money to support her.. I asked her to get the money from her mum whom she kept it with, but her mum won't release the money. Am I supposed to be responsible for that? This girl couldn't even give me money when I was broke, but always asks!! I explained to her that I wanted to pay my house rent, but she still kept asking for money for hair and stuffs!
Should I end the relationship please?

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Slmgirldippussy: 3:10pm On Oct 24, 2022
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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Jeon(f): 3:10pm On Oct 24, 2022
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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Romanoff(f): 3:19pm On Oct 24, 2022
Where do you want a student to get money from, what business is she doing?

You people will not stop dating children who are still dependent on their parents.

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by virginprincess(f): 3:20pm On Oct 24, 2022
cheesy cheesy,I don't know why i find this thread funny,i very sure the girl you are dating is not working,so where do you expect her to get money to invest in the relationship,if you are looking for a girl that will invest then leave students and jobless alone,stop coming here to ask us senseless questions .
Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by neonly: 3:20pm On Oct 24, 2022
See questions yur mumu never do

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Coolguy34(m): 3:38pm On Oct 24, 2022
Continue wasting money Bro!
Since that is what you are good at.
When she leaves you then you will get back to your senses..

I do data entry-related jobs and I'm good at it hire me and I'll give you a perfect job

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by dboY1123(m): 3:48pm On Oct 24, 2022
virginprincess:
cheesy cheesy,I don't know why i find this thread funny,i very sure the girl you are dating is not working,so where do you expect her to get money to invest in the relationship,if you are looking for a girl that will invest then leave students and jobless alone,stop coming here to ask us senseless questions .

She's working not a student yet, I don't ask money from her if she doesn't invest in the relationship it's fine, but asking me for money always while she gives her mum all the money she saved? Why not find a way to collect the money from her mum ? Cz she's giving me headache!
Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by SyrusdeHansome(m): 3:55pm On Oct 24, 2022
Romanoff:
Where do you want a student to get money from, what business is she doing?

You people will not stop dating children who are still dependent on their parents.
Even the mature nd well to do ladies like u will still see relationships as a means to have all ur needs met. Only 0.5% of Nigerian girls are truly independent

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Romanoff(f): 4:13pm On Oct 24, 2022
SyrusdeHansome:
Even the mature nd well to do ladies like u will still see relationships as a means to have all ur needs met. Only 0.5% of Nigerian girls are truly independent

So it's best to date small children and expect them to invest financially in the relationship.

Unless she's into business or doing runs on the side.
Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by virginprincess(f): 4:21pm On Oct 24, 2022
dboY1123:


She's working not a student yet, I don't ask money from her if she doesn't invest in the relationship it's fine, but asking me for money always while she gives her mum all the money she saved? Why not find a way to collect the money from her mum ? Cz she's giving me headache!
If you know you can't cope with her attitude then let her go.

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Ballzproblemm: 4:24pm On Oct 24, 2022
God bless redpill ,I will Never be this stupid thanks to it

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by SyrusdeHansome(m): 4:32pm On Oct 24, 2022
Romanoff:


So it's best to date small children and expect them to invest financially in the relationship.

Unless she's into business or doing runs on the side.
Babe i knw many working class ladies that still depend on their partners 4 provisions. It's like ur gender are naturally wired 2b dependent. It's not abt being a student or working class because av also seen girls that are very contented with the little their parents give so that u can never catch them using material gifts. This kinda girls when they say they love u they do that 4 real

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Savedday: 4:43pm On Oct 24, 2022
9ja girls are the most useless and wicked, when it come to marriage/relationship.

If you don't want to die B4 your time, kindly leave the oloshio and focus on yourself most especially your English.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Romanoff(f): 4:44pm On Oct 24, 2022
SyrusdeHansome:
Babe i knw many working class ladies that still depend on their partners 4 provisions. It's like ur gender are naturally wired 2b dependent. It's not abt being a student or working class because av also seen girls that are very contented with the little their parents give so that u can never catch them using material gifts. This kinda girls when they say they love u they do that 4 real

When you say working class women "depend" on their partners for provisions, please, elaborate.
Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by AgentGoat: 5:13pm On Oct 24, 2022
Some guys will just dey make this relationship stuffs their business. From one to another. Must you all always be with a woman?

Na fuvk dey hungry una like this?

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by 2buffagain(m): 5:18pm On Oct 24, 2022
Would it not make sense to be with a fellow working class woman? Students are basically bums. Date your level.

Nigerian men, respect yourself enough to know that some females are actually well beneath your level. It's dating, not poverty alleviation. She is not your wife. Save small money for your actual wife.

Extracting resources from the men dumb enough to date them is the core skill set of a lot of girls.

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by begoniaa: 5:23pm On Oct 24, 2022
You guys should take time to grow up before jumping into premature relationships here and there na. undecided

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by GoldenJAT(m): 5:38pm On Oct 24, 2022
Nigeria guys no just value their mental health at all! You mumu eh!!

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by dboY1123(m): 8:07pm On Oct 24, 2022
Savedday:
9ja girls are the most useless and wicked, when it come to marriage/relationship.

If you don't want to die B4 your time, kindly leave the oloshio and focus on yourself most especially your English.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Lol.. I didn't pay much attention to the errors, just hope you got the right message thats all..thank U
Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by SyrusdeHansome(m): 8:44pm On Oct 24, 2022
Romanoff:


When you say working class women "depend" on their partners for provisions, please, elaborate.
I mean women who r doing very well financially still depending on their men to provide 4 them

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Romanoff(f): 8:49pm On Oct 24, 2022
SyrusdeHansome:
I mean women who r doing very well financially still depending on their men to provide 4 them

Provide what and what?

Provide as a husband or father?

Or once a while provision?
Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Enny2013(f): 8:57pm On Oct 24, 2022
Until she finish u n go back to her ex...
Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Streetmovement(m): 9:01pm On Oct 24, 2022
Wotoporiously cool speaking

Una dey try sha

This dating thing na waste of time especially for naija

My own na to just dey Bleep and chop life until maybe the day God say he will get married.

Even God know say for me to marry from Nigeria go hard sha

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Basiljoe: 9:04pm On Oct 24, 2022
Didn't bother reading through it all when I saw you opted to pay for her phone.

Genuine attraction cannot be negotiated.
"The fundamental flaw of the Savior Schema (a.k.a. “Cap’n Save a Ho) is that it is essentially negotiated intimacy, and negotiated intimacy is never genuine." - Book 1, RM

“The only way to determine genuine motivation and/or intent is to observe the behavior of an individual.” - RM

"You cannot negotiate genuine desire." Book 1, RM
Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by dboY1123(m): 11:01pm On Oct 24, 2022
begoniaa:
You guys should take time to grow up before jumping into premature relationships here and there na. undecided
Well, I was not supposed to post this., I just wanted to know if some ladies are greedy.
She's more like mt fiancee, she has NCE to her name and I'm a graduate as well. I just need to hear out some few things, its not that serious. I'm not a kid, I took my actions already. I just love other people's opinion.
Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by dboY1123(m): 11:47pm On Oct 24, 2022
begoniaa:
You guys should take time to grow up before jumping into premature relationships here and there na. undecided
We are both mature.
Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by begoniaa: 11:48pm On Oct 24, 2022
dboY1123:
We are both mature.

Mo ti gbo.
Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Davidave(m): 1:12am On Oct 25, 2022
She is just using you. Time to say bye bye.
Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Autobot05: 6:58am On Oct 25, 2022
dboY1123:


She's working not a student yet, I don't ask money from her if she doesn't invest in the relationship it's fine, but asking me for money always while she gives her mum all the money she saved? Why not find a way to collect the money from her mum ? Cz she's giving me headache!


Continue bro
Your reward is in heaven

Lmao

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Re: How Do I Cope With A Girl Who Doesn't Invest In The Relationship? by Autobot05: 7:01am On Oct 25, 2022
dboY1123:

We are both mature.

Your doings says otherwise sir plus your username is actually "The boy " lol

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