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Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by sylve11: 7:20pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Shalommy: But the bride price of the mother is not supposed to be paid by the boy. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by meobizy(f): 7:22pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
she's nice, godly and has most of the qualities i want in a wife.Why do you people always write this? Do all of you read the same books on marriage or were you created in the same company? If you have to pay her mother’s bride price then you and her have to engage in bedroom duties. Lol. If it’s their tradition then the ball is in your court. All I know is money won’t come out of my pocket for any good if I won’t sample it one day. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by judecares1(m): 7:22pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Can you ask which part of Obiaruku is she from before I give you the best advice you seek for Drsnives: |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Osanoghodua1: 7:23pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
It's normal, if the dad is still around, let the dad pay it. I joined my siblings to pay my elder brother's bride price otherwise the daughter can't marry. The man is not even aware |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by aribisala0(m): 7:25pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Datboredberry:Very foolish talk There are strange traditions everywhere |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Oziens: 7:26pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Nice question. Datboredberry: |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by purpleicious(f): 7:27pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
By my own knowledge, your father's people are supposed to go and pay your mum's brideprice else nothing happens. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by macrodata(m): 7:28pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Candidlady:All these your long talk no make sense. Just mind your business and choose to reply post that are relevant to you. This your attitude fit make you put talk for wetin you go regret one day. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by osazsky(m): 7:29pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Candidlady:but this is not wat we are discussing make una try to they discuse a particular topic..there are other topics u will see...like i am jobless but i love my girl and want to marry her..u can channel all these energy on that thread..na people like una dey fail exam..the op is not pleading or begging us for assistance to marry or trian his child..lets try to discuse this topic..how d op feeds fuk shouldnt be ur hiz sir..sorry for replying u this way thanks |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Candidlady: 7:31pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
macrodata: Regret what ? Sir kindly stay at your ends |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Emmaculate77(m): 7:33pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Datboredberry: Noo! Na the kinsmen wan cashout. They don't want to forget the past |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by OblorOblor: 7:33pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
The girl must be very virtuous to attract double dowry in a time like this. But if you ask me, I think the late dad's kinsmen should pay the dowry on behalf of their late brother,after all they'll benefit from their daughter's dowry. Again, it is dangerous for the young man to go ahead and pay the mother-in-law's dowry because an unhealthy bond will form between them since she is also young. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by badboyTee(m): 7:34pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Candidlady:I trust you Haifa shey you still dey run hookup? Let roll |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Datboredberry:Igbo?? |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by PDPGuy: 7:36pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Lmao I no dey pay any bride price for her mum |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Candidlady: 7:38pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
osazsky: But it is a convo that builds up another discus right? We good tho!!! Do have a lovely night rest |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by egunna(m): 7:39pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
McEphiks:ppl no get shame sha.make ur son in-law pay ur bride price.which kind thinking b dat?and d woman and her daughter go comfortable.na ppl wey go come tell u say Dem tear eye b dis ooo |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Angrymode: 7:40pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
McEphiks: So it's the man's fault for her father not to pay her mother? What kinda of useless tradition is this. What happened to her paternal family? This tradition is is very funny. OP, if it's me, I will tell her to let me know when someone has paid for her mother's dowry while I'm looking for another woman. I can never pay for such rubbish except am I'm going home with mother and daughter. This is just ridiculous. The whole community are just extortionists. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by macrodata(m): 7:45pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Candidlady:Ignore the messenger. Pick the message. If somebody wants to marry, it's their business. Your advice and opinion is irrelevant. Goodbye! |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by ginggerxy: 7:46pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Drsnives:which part of Delta is that? If its Igbo part of Delta then I think your girls family is trying to play smart on you in other to avoid being embarassed from her mother's family. Why I said that is because if a man doesn't complete the marriage rites of his wife and the woman gives birth to a girl , during her own traditional marriage , the mother's family has every right to seize what ever is left undone on her mother and it's embarassing . So I think that's what the girl is trying to avoid. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by AdaAwkanwa(f): 7:51pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Let the family of her father pay the bride price, if you pay her mother's bride price then you are marring mother and daughter. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Cutehector(m): 7:53pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
The fùckery and fakery of this post bewilders me. I cannot can! |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by chloride6: 7:54pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Wahala |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by favour32(m): 7:55pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
The matter nor dey unusual na normal thing. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by DarkJeddi(m): 7:55pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Shalommy:So what does this have to do with him? Is the mother his wife or what? Why should he be paying for the bride price of a woman that is not her wife? |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Nicepoker(m): 7:57pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
That's the tradition. We practice that in my place too. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
I wanted to ask if she is from delta before I saw the last part of your post. That is how it is in some part of Delta. Blame your girlfriend father for failing to marry his wife properly. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by sisisioge: 8:01pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
You have to do it....afterall, the mother inlaw is like a bride herself....in her thirties! Chai....I feel ancient menh |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Generalfra1999(m): 8:01pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Drsnives:It by is the tradition of igbo people you can not do tradition weeding rite for a girl if nothing was done for the mother |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Connected1: 8:02pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
If you know any aged/young single person in your family or friend as the case maybe that doesn't mind paying the bride price of your supposed mother in-law. Then you should go ahead with the marriage. Otherwise you have to back off, you can't marry a young mother and daughter without sleeping with the mother someday, you will be tempted and you will fall. Look for someone to pay her bride price then you pay that of your fiancee. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Shalommy(f): 8:09pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
DarkJeddi:It's not a must for him to pay but the mother bride price must be paid before the daughter. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Ilaje1: 8:13pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
McEphiks: Even if it is 1 naira, why does he have to pay it? He shd walk away. |
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