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Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by MJBOLT: 9:47pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
this op might just foolishly pay the bride price |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Blackdisciple(m): 9:48pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Rubbish |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by GreatDamife(m): 9:49pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
The op's mind is fixated already. Poor dude is blinded by love. This is all shades of annoyance haba! Marry that girl from such a shameless home and regret for the rest of your life. Rubbish! |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Cloud007: 9:51pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Zonefree:I guessed she made that one up...lol |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by deavicky(m): 9:56pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
wirinet:see how ur mouth they sharp. If it is out of place they won't be asking for it. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by KevMitnick: 9:57pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Don't do it, its a trap. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by ThinkSmarter: 10:04pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Drsnives:In Igbo culture. If it happens that the marriage rites were not completed on a woman by her husband. What usually happen is that if the womans daughter grows up and ready to get married. The bride price on her head will be used to settle any remaining expenses in her mother's family. The daughter's intending husband won't even Know. It will be shameful to disclose to your in-laws that you have been marrying your wife on credit. You are not supposed to pay double. Except the lady wants to scam you. Maybe you are showing too much interest in her. And she want to cut cake for his family. Tell her you can't afford it and watch her reaction. Tell her you may give up and watch her reaction. It's the responsibility of the husband or his son to complete the wife's bride price. Lol I see the way you wrote Ukwuani Seems you are not Igbo. Dem think say they won't see you again. So they want take style sell the lady to you (wholesale) |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Bloggz74(m): 10:06pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Yes if the mother's bride price wasn't paid earlier it has to be sorted out before the daughter's. However it is not your responsibility to do that but your father in law to be. It is even an abomination for you to say you want to do rather it should be a behind the scene arrangement if you want to help. But not your responsibility at all. Drsnives: |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Jamesbiodun(m): 10:09pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Op sha don marry iya arugbo |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by rickleye: 10:10pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Drsnives: Them don't see mumu ! Soon they will say you have to pay for the younger sister as well. Just cut your loss and move on Bro ... the family no good. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Kooldon(f): 10:12pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Datboredberry kindly enlighten your community to do away with widowhood obnoxious practices. If you need guide, I hope you know how to contact me. It is not the guy's responsibility to pay for her mother-in-law's dowry. I believe, someone will represent the dad on her TM, let her dad's family sort it out or you look somewhere else. Dowry in Nigerian constitution is six naira 1 Like |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by BLoomfrancs(m): 10:35pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Marry the both of them |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by flokii: 10:42pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
@OP That's weird.. you should only pay the bride price of the woman you want to wed. From the look of things, you're getting daughter and the mom. Will you now put the two of them in the same house and be taking turns to sleep with them? Think well o and seek for advice from those with knowledge. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Drsnives(m): 10:52pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Truvelisback:Late 30s oga, read well b4 finding fault. She gave birth at a tender age |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Drsnives(m): 10:54pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
iLiquidator:Na my fear be that, since shes still young b4 them go say make i lash her join 1 Like |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Sunrise258: 10:54pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Generally, marriage/dowry pmt in SS & SE is bag of trouble for the groom. Imagine this madness. How on earth would a son in-law pay bride price of his mother in-law?! |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Drsnives(m): 10:56pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
mmsen:That's why am seeking you guys opinions, am in a tight corner |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Truvelisback(m): 10:58pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Drsnives:Alright, marry one, get one free. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Coolbadguy: 10:59pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Drsnives: Nothing as such in obiaruku, maybe she doesn't know the traditions well, ask her mother or find out from the elderly people there. |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Drsnives(m): 11:01pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
godofuck231:I no fit foot that bill abeg, why me |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Drsnives(m): 11:10pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
lecturer22:I no even get 50k to waste self.. i tot the girl was taunting me now i know its real |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by suarezteeth(m): 11:12pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
In benue also... But it shouldn't be brought up now until you are done with yours Drsnives: |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Drsnives(m): 11:16pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
linearity:Her dad is late |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Drsnives(m): 11:19pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Enemyofpeace:You no serious |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Drsnives(m): 11:20pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Neroiam:You have a point, I'll stick to that when next i meet her |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Icepresh(m): 11:35pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Run oh 1 Like |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Drsnives(m): 11:37pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
LesbianBoy:Real matters bro. Am lost |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Drsnives(m): 11:40pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
kaymart:That's was what some of the comments suggested i don't have any other options than to stick with that |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Drsnives(m): 11:44pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Albert0011:Pls do n quote me |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Aaaoo: 11:48pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
Hmmm |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Drsnives(m): 11:50pm On Mar 07, 2022 |
ginggerxy:Yes from the igbo speaking tribe |
Re: Am I Not Making A Mistake? by Wealthoptulent(m): 12:04am On Mar 08, 2022 |
SNEFF: Ontoh! A mumu guy |
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