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My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Hamachi(f): 7:59am On Mar 13, 2022 |
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too? B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man What do you think? 47 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by MadamVanessa(f): 8:01am On Mar 13, 2022 |
![]() So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends. If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart. This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess. The few ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice even if it means for them to lay down their lives for their wife/husband are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to. So sad, sad indeed. 592 Likes 41 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Hashabiah: 8:02am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Hamachi:During her marriage ceremony shebi she took the "for -better- for-worse vow "...abi? If yes, then now's the ideal time to prove it ,or else she just didn't love the guy and was just probably using him to further her cause in life 58 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Nobody: 8:05am On Mar 13, 2022 |
If true love existed between them this shouldn't be an issue but why is the man's family quick to push him to his wife,if it's to drag riches now they will say he's their son and only a wife and as such she does not have right to his properties. rubbish family 224 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by ValCon888: 8:09am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Nigerian girls don't marry for love. Know this and have rest of mind. For better for worse don jam road block. 289 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Hamachi(f): 8:09am On Mar 13, 2022 |
![]() Hashabiah:is there no match in the man's family? Do you know during pregnancy both kidney needs to function properly? 162 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by yomi007k(m): 8:20am On Mar 13, 2022 |
![]() This story only further confirms that "marraige na scam". For better for stay , for worse for go. 59 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by house10s2: 8:37am On Mar 13, 2022 |
nig women are only here for the better, simple. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Nobody: 8:37am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Una way dey make noise, una gree make them remove one of your kidney, give your wife or husband?? Noise makers na e full this forum. 117 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by idahme(m): 8:46am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Iyaebe: When @bolded happens what do women do? Isn't it fight for your right and inheritance, this is the time for her to reciprocate such scenarios by fighting for her love. In business we have both assets and liabilities, same applies to marriages. One can't only drag for the asset's, when the liabilities comes people involved should also be ready to shoulder the liabilities. 41 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by playapayaski: 9:10am On Mar 13, 2022 |
MadamVanessa: Cos the heart never talks but the lips, neither does the heart think but the brain.. hence love and all other feelings are all temporal. Keep saying it, marry for understanding, sacrifices n legacy if you must as a man, not for love or any stupid feeling 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Nobody: 9:25am On Mar 13, 2022 |
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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by TheRealOwner(m): 9:29am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Hamachi: Sounds like a tall tale 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by blackparadise: 9:37am On Mar 13, 2022 |
GooodHardDick:Jah bless you, black Paradise say so |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by blackparadise: 9:46am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Your cousin no try at all,After she don chop him money, so now they said he is suffering from kidney problem,.. She wan japa, at the initial stage she don't know he has health issues, but Bec of money she married him, when them go say make Dem go for love, nah money.. See why I say ladies are wicked, they are leeches, just to milk you dry.. But on the altar, u said for better for worse, Now there is problem now, you won divorce.. I pray God give the man a good Samaritans that will give them a correct kidney .. She will be ashamed... Your cousin is wicked, what kind of impression will it leaves for the husband family... So that means she doesn't love her husband right from the starting, why did she married him at the initial stage, both your cousin and her parents are foolish, idiotic bastard, werey, oloriburuku people, thiefs una collect bride price, as yu are divorcing him, please return his money for the bride price he paid... But tell your cousin family, if she later divorce, they should return the bride price back,if not nah.. Ogun,Shango,otumapko, esu go strike that family ...this no good nah. Just because your husband not feeling fine,is it not because of love he married your cousin... women women women ,fear women No this current ladies fit be like those years our mama and papa loves each other,they stood by themselves... Not nowadays ladies....... 25 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 10:05am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Hamachi: How did they not know about his kidney failure before marriage . I know the optimistic part of me would really want to give that kidney to my husband but the logical side of me would not support that decision , marriage is not a do or die affair in my opinion since it's a new marriage and there's no child involved it's okay to leave if she feels pressured , it's not wickedness , the man could do same to her if she were to find herself in an unfortunate circumstance , I mean we see it everyday where the women can't have a child and the man ends up marrying someone else or having children in secret , and some will cheat on their wives because she's no longer pretty after 5 kids and is worn out from her very demanding job The stories I see of this marriage thing is making me doubt that I will even marry who I love , in the selfish world the selfish succeed , you can't force someone to drink medicine for another person's sickness , if she offers to help willingly it's different but saying she has to because he's her husband is ridiculous , it basically means that she has no say in the matter , it's a very toxic type of entitlement 74 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by ashawopikin(m): 10:05am On Mar 13, 2022 |
MadamVanessa:this is scary 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by bobbybrown007: 10:21am On Mar 13, 2022 |
I have two healthy kidneys giving out one won't be a bad thing, but will give it out at a right price. 10 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by futurism: 10:23am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Hashabiah: If you like make you no learn from this. Any man who thinks a woman can really love him is fooling himself. Women will only love you for what you bring to the table... they don't love carelessly as men do. Men are the foolish ones in this dating pool and the only person that can genuinely love a man is his mother, no one else. 62 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by luminouz(m): 10:26am On Mar 13, 2022 |
bobbybrown007: You are the only one who made sense so far The rest are busy yelling at one another trying to prove a point. 10 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Rubyjade: 10:26am On Mar 13, 2022 |
bobbybrown007:Let's talk via DM |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Nobody: 10:32am On Mar 13, 2022 |
The same way I risk my neck for my spouse is the same way I expect my spouse to stick her neck out for me, if she can't do that, then there's no point being together ![]() 1. She's a match 2. She has 2 good kidneys 3. The man is not just her husband, he has made sacrifices for her in times past, he "partly" sponsored her through school... And yet, she can't give him her kidney?? So all these things doesn't count for nothing?? Doesn't the vows she took mean anything to her?? Well.... Since she's hesitant, then no one should force her into doing whatever she doesn't feel like doing, they should look for an alternative.... And besides is there no one in the man's family that is a match for him?? 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Nonexisting: 10:41am On Mar 13, 2022 |
MadamVanessa:Thank you for being honest and unbiased and from today, you'll have my respect in this forum. Unconditional love doesn't exist anymore. People especially women marry for some reasons and when those reasons stop existing, their love disappears like the midnight stars. I don't believe in love anymore and if I will ever give it a chance maybe in my next world, I'll make sure the girl hates me first before loving me. That way, she will have no single reason to love me and we may wing it from there. 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Nobody: 10:45am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Ok |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by africanpride1: 10:45am On Mar 13, 2022 |
All these una lie lie Story! ![]() 12 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by izubext007: 10:45am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Infertuation has play her role |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by IgweOfNnewi: 10:46am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by DrFunmisticGlow: 10:46am On Mar 13, 2022 |
Hamachi:she should not be forced to donate a kidney, nobody should. Of roles were reversed, I would type the same thing. Was the man forced to put her through school? Was he forced to make the sacrifice? Everyone has boundaries. It's not easy living with one kidney. The lady will need to make changes to her lifestyle. With the way the man's family is going about it, o have a feeling that the man and the family knew about it and probably married her to rope her in. The family is emotionally manipulative. This is fishy. If she wants to donate her kidney, she shouldn't be forced. 39 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by KHARISDo: 10:46am On Mar 13, 2022 |
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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Jalaw: 10:47am On Mar 13, 2022 |
FICTION 8 Likes |
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