Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

According to you the guy "partly" trained her in school, your family did not remember then that she is their daughter and responsibility, they are married and a year into their marriage the man is down and needs the help of his wife and your cousin "his wife" and your family is pushing the guy to his family, will you guys do this if she's the one who is down and the husband is a biological match? Would she and your family push him to his family if it is a mega bucks opportunity he got? A husband and wife is the first family, they should be able to sort out issues without involving their extended family, your sister is not a wife material, It is the guy who got married to a fair weather wife that I pity. I pray he gets a biological match from his kindred and get back on his feet.

Nigerian guys are so daft and useless, na why SARS dey kill una like flies.

GooodHardDick:
After enjoying the man's money, now she wants to japa? The man even trained her in school?

Nigeria girls are useless. All of them. Nigeria girls are so broke and brainless for my liking. Na why dem dey always use dem do rituals.

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Nyascobar1414:


Bro.. Calm down... You see that girl, when she was kinda young she spoke in the favour of women, tryna check her previous comment years back. And in her former picture she was like a kinda young girl in her hoe phase...
She's now hit the wall, that why she's now unbiased so that guys can be hookedup to say she's a good girl...
I've been monitoring her..
So no too think say she's good

Now I see

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Selfish wife

Slynation:
You just shifted the goal post...war is a different scenario, you either kill or get killed

Thought kidney problem is a war to the husband which could possibly affect the wife too considering the fact they just married. Just a thought anyway... We all know what we know...

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Females always do what's convenient for them. There's nothing like love.... they stay only so long as it suits them....

Nobleking2000:


Selfish wife

How?

SlackWeb:


I have up to 20 persons better than you on my payroll. Are you okay ?

So,why are you here?

If na me, I am not donating.

Wetin come concern you for the matter? You no get life to live?

Necessary questions are to be answered:

1. Was he healthy prior to the marriage, or the kidney issue just started?

2. How did he discover that she is a match, or was she married because of her kidney?

3. Why is no one from his lineage offering to come through for him?

4. Why is his family on the wife to donate her kidney? Isn't it supposed to be a couple discussion/agreement?

I smell a rat

Juoflife1:
If na me, I am not donating.

why?

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

So, no one is aware that this topic was recycled

Weird comments on this thread... it's not by force! If I was in her situation I couldn't do it. I wouldn't expect his kidney and I wouldn't offer my kidney. Everybody to their organs

Because I am not willing to. I don't know the health implications on the long run. Some people are willing to sell. All the family need to do is source for funds and buy kidney.

Rubyjade:
why?

ValCon888:
Nigerian girls don't marry for love. Know this and have rest of mind.

For better for worse don jam road block.

Gbam.

One question for those shouting the woman is this n that..if she's your sister would you allow her to donate her kidney? The family is wicked why hiding such an important issue from the lady till after marriage? They are all demons. For the fact u hid such thing from me till after marriage shows u don't mean well for me n that's the reason why I must JAPA!!! Ndewo nu

Hamachi:
she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Why is the lady and the family saying no to get helping her husband?

Nyascobar1414:


Bro... Why are most men foolish?
Why dont they think like you?

I weep for our present effeminate men...

Your wife will 4ever be a stranger, so no need of empowering or showing excess care cos she can never reciprocate that...

I wish 99.99% of men reasoned like you

Las Las, it's your kids or parents that will be there for you, wife will probably go to be with another man

She shd support his husband and stop complaining

she took a vow on the altar not if death. if the role were reversed will the husband give his kidney to her? my sister pack and go.

MadamVanessa:



So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


The few ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice even if it means for them to lay down their lives for their wife/husband are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to. So sad, sad indeed.

What a world we have found ourselves.
May God heal the man.

Sure you are doing great.

Favfables1:
The same way I risk my neck for my spouse is the same way I expect my spouse to stick her neck out for me, if she can't do that, then there's no point being together ...

1. She's a match
2. She has 2 good kidneys
3. The man is not just her husband, he has made sacrifices for her in times past, he "partly" sponsored her through school...

And yet, she can't give him her kidney??
So all these things doesn't count for nothing??
Doesn't the vows she took mean anything to her??

Well....
Since she's hesitant, then no one should force her into doing whatever she doesn't feel like doing, they should look for an alternative....

And besides is there no one in the man's family that is a match for him??

The scale is once you are married family is mere formality as two adults you both are the principal, the bible says the two becomes one not the man or the woman with his or her family.
Therefore the wife is the priority even if there are several matches.
The other people who could make such sacrifice are the parents yet he is probably not their only son so as long as the wife matches she is the perfect candidate and if she want to divorce me she should be bold to tell the court her reasons while emphasizing for better for worse and the dignity of the vow she took.

Am suspecting a set up here from d man n his family Dey knw abt d kidney Ish n Dey knw d gal is a match,dats y Dey wanted her to marry him b4 Dey will inform her..never d less if d lady knw her husband worth d sacrifice ,why not ..Dey r partners in crime ,Gud,bad n ugly

Dollish:
One question for those shouting the woman is this n that..if she's your sister would you allow her to donate her kidney? The family is wicked why hiding such an important issue from the lady till after marriage? They are all demons. For the fact u hid such thing from me till after marriage shows u don't mean well for me n that's the reason why I must JAPA!!! Ndewo nu

But if you're the woman in question, will you still talk like this? Won't you want your husband to donate his kidney for you?

How long does kidney transplant keep someone alive??

Since they didn't tell her the condition of their son, and she can't continue in that condition, she should meet the pastor who wedded them for advise.

Hamachi:
is there no match in the man's family?

Do you know during pregnancy both kidney needs to function properly?

is the wife not his family too, abi won't his wife chop his money before any of his extended family or relative

GooodHardDick:
After enjoying the man's money, now she wants to japa? The man even trained her in school?

Nigeria girls are useless. All of them. Nigeria girls are so broke and brainless for my liking. Na why dem dey always use dem do rituals.

Train a girl in school with the hope she will marry you at your own peril.