ValCon888:
Nigerian girls don't marry for love. Know this and have rest of mind.

For better for worse don jam road block.

enonche85:


Train a girl in school at your own peril.

enonche85:


Train a girl in school at your own peril.

MadamVanessa:



So that vow ",for better and for worst and till death do us apart" is actually a lie. People lied in front of the priest, parents, family and friends.

If actually we hold that vow to our heart, there's no sacrifice too much for us to make for our spouses. But no, it's all lies, we say it with our lips not with our heart.

This action has clearly shown that there's nothing like love even among married people, we only deceived ourselves. The day you'll realized that your wife or husband that pretend to love you never really loved you as you think,is the day you find yourself in a greater mess.


The few ones that love genuinely and are ready to make any sacrifice even if it means for them to lay down their lives for their wife/husband are always taken for granted . They're not always appreciated by the people they sacrificed to. So sad, sad indeed.

playapayaski:



Cos the heart never talks but the lips, neither does the heart think but the brain.. hence love and all other feelings are all temporal. Keep saying it, marry for understanding, sacrifices n legacy if you must as a man, not for love or any stupid feeling

Lekan239:
is the wife not his family too, abi won't his wife chop his money before any of his extended family or relative

HiideaConsole:


Why is the lady and the family saying no to get helping her husband?

BigBashiru:


Females always do what's convenient for them. There's nothing like love.... they stay only so long as it suits them....

Enemyofpeace:
no need of wasting another person’s kidney jo, anyone that does a kidney transplant will eventually die after few years, so why not just move on when the death comes instead of wasting another person’s kidney. I’m in support of the wife not giving him her kidney

house10s2:
nig women are only here for the better, simple.

GooodHardDick:
After enjoying the man's money, now she wants to japa? The man even trained her in school?

Nigeria girls are useless. All of them. Nigeria girls are so broke and brainless for my liking. Na why dem dey always use dem do rituals.

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

luminouz:

But if you're the woman in question, will you still talk like this? Won't you want your husband to donate his kidney for you?

dominique:
How come the wife's kidneys are a biological match but none of his family members are? Not even one? None of his family wants to sacrifice their kidneys they now wants to force the wife to do it. Would they allow their own son to surrender one of his kidneys for his wife?

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


How did they not know about his kidney failure before marriage .
I know the optimistic part of me would really want to give that kidney to my husband but the logical side of me would not support that decision , marriage is not a do or die affair in my opinion since it's a new marriage and there's no child involved it's okay to leave if she feels pressured , it's not wickedness , the man could do same to her if she were to find herself in an unfortunate circumstance , I mean we see it everyday where the women can't have a child and the man ends up marrying someone else or having children in secret , and some will cheat on their wives because she's no longer pretty after 5 kids and is worn out from her very demanding job

The stories I see of this marriage thing is making me doubt that I will even marry who I love , in the selfish world the selfish succeed , you can't force someone to drink medicine for another person's sickness , if she offers to help willingly it's different but saying she has to because he's her husband is ridiculous , it basically means that she has no say in the matter , it's a very toxic type of entitlement

lahizak:

What is d essence of marriage den? If not for a whole hearted love, y get married? If I won't donate my kidney when my wife need it, I have no reason to marry at all

Dollish:
There's a 70% chance he will not because his family like this now will tell him 1001 reasons why he should not.

Originalsly:
Seems like the guy got married for the kidney..... paying her school fees and all that being part of the plan ... to hold her... then pressure her for marriage. Did any of his family members got tested? I doubt it... none was willing to give up a kidney. The wife should divorce him ... marriage not based on love.

Originalsly:
Seems like the guy got married for the kidney..... paying her school fees and all that being part of the plan ... to hold her... then pressure her for marriage. Did any of his family members got tested? I doubt it... none was willing to give up a kidney. The wife should divorce him ... marriage not based on love.

Hamachi:
My cousin who got married last year July is actually thinking of leaving the marriage because the husband was diagnosed of kidney failure and needs a transplant. The summary of the story is that the family of the man is expecting the newly married wife to donate one of her kidney to the man because my cousin is biological match to the husband, she and her family has said LAI LIA O, that his their child and they should find a way to go about it. After dragging this issues for some months, my cousin family are pushing her to file for a divorce

A. Would it be considered wickedness on her part considering, his not only the husband but PARTLY trained her in school too?

B. The marriage is less than a year no much money to even look for a seller, Aunty want to japa and leave the man

What do you think?

luminouz:

The school fees nko? Should be refunded since he didn't do it out of love too..
See your big head!!!

BigBashiru:


Females always do what's convenient for them. There's nothing like love.... they stay only so long as it suits them....

Kobojunkie:
Refunded because she won't give him a kidney? What in the marriage contract stipulates that one give up kidney or refund money spent abeg?

Was there a prenuptial agreement of this sort?

luminouz:

*Sighs*
You no dey tire?
Everywhere chochocho like abakaliki parrot!!!
Surely, my response is clear enough.