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Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Ghoxt: 9:07pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
"For better for worst" has nothing to do with organ donation. She should not make that mistake of giving out her kidney. Go for the divorce. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by OreoPaschal(m): 9:07pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Rubyjade: Yeah! It was a heartbreaking moment for her! I can still picture how broken she was, the day he broke the news to her. I have grown to understand that in life, you live for the moment and you prioritize your happiness before others. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Shegzdave: 9:09pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
luminouz:You don’t need to honor her with a response. She loves baseless arguments. |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by luminouz(m): 9:14pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:K |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by luminouz(m): 9:14pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Shegzdave:Noted for next time chief. That geh is in serious psychological trauma |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Blackdisciple(m): 9:17pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
They shouldn't force that on her at the first place . Let her decide because he is her husband, so if she truly love him she will do that even without anyone asking her to but since they asked and she's following what ever her family says then she is not the right person for him. My advice is there will be someone his family that will match , conduct the transplant since it's like finance is not the prob. Do the transplant then call off the marriage since she don't wanna do meaning she's not for better for worse, in good health and in sickness. |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by luminouz(m): 9:21pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
OreoPaschal: Was he mandated to donate his kidney or something or why the drastic decision to divorce your elder sister? |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Ogbotobo77(m): 9:21pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Hamachi:HYPERGAMY |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Shegzdave: 9:23pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
luminouz:It’s always best to ignore her mentions for one’s sake |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Nitoriolohun1: 9:23pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Tannhauser: Don't be too sure ... |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by luminouz(m): 9:27pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Shegzdave:Sure chief I go ignore her henceforth 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Mariangeles(f): 9:55pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Munzy14: That is what happens when people don’t take their time to get to know each other, to fall in love. They’re always in a hurry. I feel sorry for this generation. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Verysmart101: 9:57pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy: This ur comment is just ridiculous.Pray u Don't fall into the man's situation like this mmm |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by lahizak: 10:02pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Me. D only reason I will want to marry is because I love the girl so freaking much and would want to spend d rest of my life with her. Any other things, I can get without marriage 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Kobojunkie: 10:07pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
lahizak:You know say love no dey inside legal definition of marriage, right? ![]() So, don't expect every marriage to be like your own oo! ![]() Also be sure to get a prenuptial agreement, to at least make sure your partner is on the same page as you love-wise. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Aaay: 10:19pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Why |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by slevan: 10:24pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Your cousin or you? Say the truth and let the devil be ashamed. Hamachi: |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 10:50pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Verysmart101: If I were to fall into a situation like this , I won't force my parents , my siblings , my children or my husband to donate anything , I'd even be more worried for them because it might end up causing harm to them , if they offered to make the sacrifice I'd appreciate it but it won't be by force oh , and if he were my husband it definitely depends on how long we've been together , it's 5 months , I feel like they married her knowing fully well that he was not in good condition but wanted to manipulate her , there is one person I'd give my kidney to if the need arises that person is my father because I know who he is , it's been 20 years of imperfect but understanding love and I owe him my existence , you see my husband of 5 months he should go and meet his mother , he can qualify for my selfless love when we've been together for years and have kids together , I won't let the father of my children die without a fight oh , I will fight till the last drop of strength leaves my body , but 5 months abeg I've seen a situation where they adopted a girl simply to use her to heal a sick child , they showed her love only to dump her after they were done with her , humans are manipulative and marriage is a scam these days , if you had a sister with a sick husband go ahead and kill her to heal him , in fact sacrifice your daughter that one is not my business , all I know is before you make any sacrifice for anyone you have to analyze a lot of things , it's not an overnight decision God doesn't answer stupid prayers , he won't put me in a situation that is not for me , especially not because I decided to drop my honest opinion on one social media thread , rest abeg 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 10:58pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Now that it feels like life or death , people are busy shouting love love love , if it were the case of a barren woman the entire family would be suspicious , love no go dey again oh , it will be cases of shaky trust because oga will be like how many children did you abort before you married me , men are so self centered , someone posted a thread that he lost interest in his wife after child birth and people were advicing him to [/b] help her exercise , teach her how to dress , show her other women you want her to look like ,[b] noone cautioned him that he should've married who he loves unconditionally , some even came to advice women in general that they should stop letting themselves go after children so that their husbands won't [/b]stop loving them[b] mtcheeeeeeew 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Kobojunkie: 11:03pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy:ROFLMAO ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Munzy14(m): 11:09pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Mariangeles:As in eeh...That get to know eachother for a period of time is very important... But, ndi a ma nu onwe ha, OP said he was part of the lady's training in school...I just don't like this...Because of some reasons. I feel a man kwesiri I meet a lady nna ya zuchara, bia kwnayere ha ugwu....Ha gozie ya, ya kporo nwunye oma ya lawa.. Too many disappointments with all this I trained her school people...It will lead to marrying out of pity.. ![]() I si sorry for generation oma anyi a, o lee generation nke i no? ![]() Honestly, can you do that for your husband? Sacrificing a kidney for him? Gwa m eziokwu o.. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 11:10pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Meaning |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Kobojunkie: 11:16pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy:I laugh at the way love has suddenly taken centerstage in many of the comments here, just as you iterated, this word hardly ever mentioned in conjunction with marriage before this..... ![]() I can even imagine what it is like to be mandated to give up a kidney barely a year into a marriage - why? Because some how the statement "for better or for worse" is being translated to mean I have you forfeit a kidney? ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 11:32pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: It's the entitlement for me |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Kobojunkie: 11:38pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Love has never been a mandated requirement in marriage. In fact, during our parents times, we were constantly reminded of how love was a foreign concept to our culture. We even gulped down tales of how it is OK to marry first....love, we were told, develops overtime in marriage. So why require things be any much different now? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by OreoPaschal(m): 11:41pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
luminouz: No mandate! Emotional support was all she needed from him. I guess, he was scared of having the tag "Widower". ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Mariangeles(f): 11:44pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Munzy14: Cannot be overemphasized.
When I saw the title of the thread, I intentionally avoided it. Your comment led me to read and comment. Nsogbu kariri. I’m in this generation, but I’m not of this generation. ![]()
What I can truly tell you is that one does not know what they’re capable of -how far they can go for another person- until they’re in love. Again, one cannot honestly answer certain questions (like that one) until they find themselves in the situation. In other words, only in that situation can you truly be tested. Kind of like how Peter swore he can give his life for Jesus, only to deny him. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Mariangeles(f): 11:52pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Love is very necessary in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by luminouz(m): 1:07am On Mar 14, 2022 |
OreoPaschal:Damn .. Sad stuff |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Kobojunkie: 1:28am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Not all marriages. As our ancestors previously informed, and we have come to see from right here on nairaland, love is simply an option where marriage is concerned. ![]() Marriage takes place with or without love. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by Anuoluwagbemiga: 2:03am On Mar 14, 2022 |
some guys wont open up to their spouse when they were in courtship,that im this am that,i have seen a muslim guy that lied to his wife until he got married and now want to change his wife to a muslim by force .let us be straight to ourselves. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving by toprealman: 2:59am On Mar 14, 2022 |
Hamachi:https://www.instagram.com/p/CZ7c2rZgNt2/?utm_medium=copy_link Summary: A lady donated hers but the man jilted her later. In another story a man donated his own but the lady also dumped him later. This is down to your value system Your cousin's line of argument sha.... 2 Likes |
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