My fellow nairalanders help me out on this. My immediate elder sister said she can't marry the guy she's dating.

The guy is a successful barber. I love the guy because he seem responsible and well cultured. From the looks of things, he will make a good husband for her.

But my sister shook the whole house yesterday when the supposed barber proposed to her, She outrightly rejected the guy because of his profession.

She's in her mid 20s. Please what should we do? She's getting older but she seems not to realise.

The guy called me this morning and pleaded with me to talk to her. What will I say to her, now?

A wider view will be much appreciated.

She has every right to make her choice...

Mid 20s, small pikin still dey worry her

Give her another 10yrs

There is probably another guy in the picture that she is comparing the guy too

Her problem is peer pressure, allow her to mature a bit more

Holly Gram


her LIFE, her BUSINESS, her CHOICE!


NEXT time mind ur BUSINESS b4 KALA go REACH ur left leg!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

If she cant marry him then why date him??
Anyway it's her life dont force her because any problem she will blame you and her mind in not even in the marriage so she should do what she wants.
At least the guy have a legit profession unlike those yahoo guys

The most annoying part of all these marriage talks is that there's nothing she is bringing or will bring to the table!

Iya ebe:
Do you know that you are already a table as a woman?its now left for the man to design his table to his taste.Every woman out there is naturally a table.

Then she doesn't have table manners!

Zee0007:
My fellow nairalanders help me out on this. My immediate elder sister said she can't marry the guy she's dating.

The guy is a successful barber. I love the guy because he seem responsible and well cultured. From the looks of things, he will make a good husband for her.

But my sister shook the whole house yesterday when the supposed barber proposed to her, She outrightly rejected the guy because of his profession.

She's in her mid 20s. Please what should we do? She's getting older but she seems not to realise.

The guy called me this morning and pleaded with me to talk to her. What will I say to her, now?

A wider view will be much appreciated.

Mydn44
Lalastica

She can fork a Barber � I laugh ooooo

Her life her choice
WDGAFF

OP, When 2029 or 2030 go come meet ur sister, she go get sense by force! Most Girls re myopic! They dont know dat some small time hustlers have very Robust Bank a/c's!

Nobody should force her to do what she's not ready to do. Marriage is not wedding that lasts for 4 hours. It a lifetime biz. Except she decides to ride with the latest divorce move.

Na person wey wer shoe dey know where he dey pain am.

chatinent:
The most annoying part of all these marriage talk is that there's nothing she is bringing to the table.

Where is it written that a woman must bring something to the table?

it's her choice

Well,why was she with him if she can’t marry him?thats bad on your sisters side but tell the guy not to pressure her as he won’t like the aftermath.If you know you can’t marry a barber then don’t date a barber

Allow her marry who she wants to, she will be the one to suffer the consequences in the future if things turns bad for her.

Zee0007:
My fellow nairalanders help me out on this. My immediate elder sister said she can't marry the guy she's dating.

The guy is a successful barber. I love the guy because he seem responsible and well cultured. From the looks of things, he will make a good husband for her.

But my sister shook the whole house yesterday when the supposed barber
proposed to her, She outrightly rejected the guy because of his profession.

She's in her mid 20s. Please what should we do? She's getting older but she seems not to realise.

The guy called me this morning and pleaded with me to talk to her. What will I say to her, now?

A wider view will be much appreciated.

Mydn44
Lalastica

Mid 20s u say? Like 25? Lol...them no dey geh sense...but she can collect money from the barber and fvck him for the money right? That's the reflection of our women of today. No love, no emotions..just waste of resources.

Wait till she's 30..she will be at Shiloh by then.
...Funny if she meets a great guy with tushh career and pay at 26, she might also lose him if her character and entitlement complex is bad . She will later say she's now 30 and the guy wasted her life for 4 yrs...lol.
She won't tell us her nagging, quarrelsome and cheating attitude that made the guy run away after enduring her for 3 years.
U can't pity those gender most times.

Brace up y'all, I forsee incoming vawulence on this thread

She's brainwashed by society and fantasy on social media. Work harder on your sister to save her soul.

chatinent:
The most annoying part of all these marriage talk is that there's nothing she is bringing to the table.

Bring wat to d table? Our naija ladies dont do such. Dey re looking for Bankers or Good fearing Yahoo boys!

There's nothing wrong in refusing to marry someone cause of their profession, what's wrong is in the fact that she was wasting his time in dating him, when she knew he's in for marriage.

Meanwhile, that man is very SIMPle. Coming back to beg after she rejected him shows he's not a worthy human, talk less of a worthy man!

Iyaebe:
Where is it written that a woman must bring something to the table?

Anybody not contributing something to wherever they benefit from when they are not handicapped, is a leech and a nuisance!

FirstSon01:


Anybody not contributing something to wherever they benefit from when they are not handicapped, is a leech and a nuisance!

Do you know that you are already a table as a woman?its now left for the man to design his table to his taste.Every woman out there is naturally a table and you’ll find a lot inside that table which most men can never withstand and cope with if roles were exchanged,God designed us differently let’s all embrace whichever part we fall into and also play our roles diligently

Iyaebe:
Where is it written that a woman must bring something to the table?

A Real woman contributes financially to the success of her home! Just dat Poverty/Entitlement mentality cant make our African ladies honor this practice!

Iyaebe:
Do you know that you are already a table as a woman?its now left for the man to design his table to his taste.Every woman out there is naturally a table and you’ll find a lot inside that table which most men can never withstand and cope with if roles were exchanged,God designed us differently let’s all embrace whichever part we fall into and also play our roles diligently

Thrash!

You're a human being, the relationship is the "table" in the context not you. The fact that women tend to feel the entire focus or use of the relationship circles around them is why y'all tend to come to relationships with next to nothing.

Meanwhile, since we're all equals. If the man is gifting the lady gifts (cash and kind), worth 100k monthly. The lady should respond likewise and gift him 100k monthly and not sex!

Iyaebe:
Do you know that you are already a table as a woman?its now left for the man to design his table to his taste.Every woman out there is naturally a table and you’ll find a lot inside that table which most men can never withstand and cope with if roles were exchanged,God designed us differently let’s all embrace whichever part we fall into and also play our roles diligently

Wtf did I just read. Na wa o!

Vinnie2000:
Bring wat to d table? Our naija ladies dont do such. Dey re looking for Bankers or Good fearing Yahoo boys!

Lol

Vinnie2000:
A Real woman contributes financially to the success of her home! Just dat Poverty/Entitlement mentality cant make our African ladies honor this practice!

Weak men e no dy hard to spot una.You better change your mentality

bigcee:

Wtf did I just read. Na wa o!

What did you not just read,change your mentality so that my message can sink

Iyaebe:
Weak men e no dy hard to spot una.You better change your mentality

Na so! Classic Nigerian Babes! Sitting and waiting for a Super Rich guy to come for dem! Many of una would become Old spinsters or Fall into unhappy marriages!

Vinnie2000:
Na so! Classic Nigerian Babes! Sitting and waiting for a Super Rich guy to come for dem! Many of una would become Old spinsters or Fall into unhappy marriages!

Not all men agrees with you,there are men who don’t care if their partners earn or not, so we will not become old spinsters and as a matter of fact na we dy quick see and marry better husband as we sabi know how to submit and respect a masculine man.Shebi you guys hate feminists (them agree 50:50 na) but at the same time hates submissive women who don’t want to be a feminist,is that not confusion?

Zee0007:
My fellow nairalanders help me out on this. My immediate elder sister said she can't marry the guy she's dating.

The guy is a successful barber. I love the guy because he seem responsible and well cultured. From the looks of things, he will make a good husband for her.

But my sister shook the whole house yesterday when the supposed barber proposed to her, She outrightly rejected the guy because of his profession.

She's in her mid 20s. Please what should we do? She's getting older but she seems not to realise.

The guy called me this morning and pleaded with me to talk to her. What will I say to her, now?

A wider view will be much appreciated.

Mydn44
Lalastica

Talk to her but if she insist of no marrying him then let her be future will decide

Realmi:
She has every right to make her choice...

Mid 20s, small pikin still dey worry her

Give her another 10yrs

There is probably another guy in the picture that she is comparing the guy too

Her problem is peer pressure, allow her to mature a bit more

A girl in her mid 20s you're all those things, my brother age is no longer on her side

Iyaebe:
Where is it written that a woman must bring something to the table?

Now you are looking for where it's written, lazy idit