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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:18am On Mar 26, 2022
1. They don't have money to marry.

2. Most women have raised their standards, so some men are not finding it easy getting the kind of women they want.

3. Too many women have taken the "highway" so wife material aren't in abundance anymore.

4. Some people have become "woke" and uninterested in marriage since they can simply cohabit, or have baby mamas.

5. Finally, some men are genuinely scared. With all the bad marriage stories louder than the good ones.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by IamDavid(m): 11:18am On Mar 26, 2022
They are looking for money. That's the case in over 70% of cases. May God help us. However, despite the economy, many men above 30 live independently and ladies, hmm, some of them can at least feed too. We should realize that most of the expenses come from multiple children. Nigerians should really be considering getting married and having just one baby and be fine with that.[b][/b]

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by porthouse7(f): 11:19am On Mar 26, 2022
Cutehector:
taa..scam..rubbish. na una line wey una dey use for men to make them have a rethink, it will not work..

Any lady that tells me wait until you are 40 and lonely, na to carrry bucket stone am..she dey mad
am a guy talking from experience
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by kunkelhanspeter(m): 11:19am On Mar 26, 2022
No offense but it seems like %95 Nigerian girls are now olosho looking for yahoo boys to marry them. The rate of runs girls in this country is something else I have slept with 3-4 who want me to buy dem goods… Na people girlfriend we dey only deep this days.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by professore(m): 11:19am On Mar 26, 2022
Minime10:


Marriage is no achievement and besides, it is not even any criterier for making heaven if there is a place like that.
The word marriage doesn't even make any sense to me.
So marry ya marry and stop hyping the nonsense
Albert Camus says, I will live my life as if there is God and die to find out there is no God than to live my life as if there is no God and die to find there is God. My advice for you this morning is for you to live your life like you are sure there is heaven. Peace be unto you.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by SlurUsername1: 11:20am On Mar 26, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
...because marriage is overrated and many dont need/want to get married until much later.

also, we have the sad deluded ones that are waiting to hit it big before getting married, not knowing they probably will never "hit it big"

and finally we have men who dont believe in marriage and therefore will just chop and clean mouth until they get to 80yrs old, then find one Regina something to marry, just to flaunt it in the face of all the young boys in town, lol.

Ma niqqa, may Godbless you for this comment
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by cmecproblem(m): 11:20am On Mar 26, 2022
You mean over 40/50? No one is interested in marriage again. You try finding a good woman, it's extreme sports!

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by richie240: 11:22am On Mar 26, 2022
Luke 20:34 - 35
[34] And Jesus answering said unto them, The children of ds world marry, and are given in marriage,

[35] But they which shall be accounted worthy to obtain that world (heaven) neither marry nor are given in marriage"


Minime10:


Marriage is no achievement and besides, it is not even any criterier for making heaven if there is a place like that.
The word marriage doesn't even make any sense to me.
So marry ya marry and stop hyping the nonsense

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by faithfull18(f): 11:23am On Mar 26, 2022
falcon01:
Because men have realised that;
1. They have alot of time from 20 to 50 years they can still marry
2. Marriage is a waste of time money and effort
3. Getting married early is a waste of your youthful age
4. The man is Mostly on the giving end in Marriage
5. Marriage favours women more than it favours men
6. They want to break the loop
Marriage favours women How exactly?
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by IamDavid(m): 11:23am On Mar 26, 2022
PrimadonnaO:
1. They don't have money to marry.

2. Most women have raised their standards, so somw men are not finding it easy getting the kind of women they want.

3. Too many women have taken the "highway" so wife material aren't in abundance anymore.

4. Some people have become "woke" and uninterested in marriage since they can simply cohabit, or have baby mamas.

5. Finally, some men are genuinely scared. With all the bad marriage stories louder than the good ones.

Women should keep raising standards o lol... But really, ladies are at the receiving end. My boss married a 28 y/o at 38. They're doing very fine now. My point is, men can always look down and marry when they're ready. Ladies, your game becomes more difficult as you age. Take this into consideration while "raising standards" too, add some realissm biko, it's for your good.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by JooEeL(m): 11:23am On Mar 26, 2022
So zoogerians don't know that Nigeria has stole the very essence of life from them.

So pauperised that they have to delay even getting married.

Keep upholding One zoogeria, enyin eranko.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Cutehector(m): 11:23am On Mar 26, 2022
porthouse7:
am a guy talking from experience
na u wan dey lonely na..

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by CalmElder(m): 11:24am On Mar 26, 2022
I'm 43 and single.
I will marry when I'm READY.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by knowhowk: 11:24am On Mar 26, 2022
Stop asking this Dumb Question...Marriage is a Scam ,Both Male and Female are knowing that now...

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by SlurUsername1: 11:24am On Mar 26, 2022
porthouse7:
wait until u are 40 and lonely, u will have rethink

Shut up your mawt.
We will wait till we're 80 and marry any virgin Regina something available

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by LesbianBoy(m): 11:24am On Mar 26, 2022
falcon01:
Because men have realised that;
1. They have alot of time from 20 to 50 years they can still marry
2. Marriage is a waste of time money and effort
3. Getting married early is a waste of your youthful age
4. The man is Mostly on the giving end in Marriage
5. Marriage favours women more than it favours men
6. They want to break the loop

I swear! Even relationships.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by pekisdgee(m): 11:24am On Mar 26, 2022
I got married at the age of 29, my first daughter will be 8years old soon ... some of my friends are yet to settle down because country don hard...
assuming i misuse the opportunity i might still be single then blaming buhari like others do now... Thank god i took the bold step Happily married with 3 kids and God has been so faithful...

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Funkyswagzz(m): 11:25am On Mar 26, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
...because marriage is overrated and many dont need/want to get married until much later.

also, we have the sad deluded ones that are waiting to hit it big before getting married, not knowing they probably will never "hit it big"

and finally we have men who dont believe in marriage and therefore will just chop and clean mouth until they get to 80yrs old, then find one Regina something to marry, just to flaunt it in the face of all the young boys in town, lol.

Theres nothing i wont hear in this country.. abeg which one is marriage. Soon everyone say sex is overrated
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 11:26am On Mar 26, 2022
tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.

1. The concept of marriage has been exposed as nonsense.

2. Marriage is mostly for the benefit of women (especially in the West).

3. Usually, a woman (with her nagging) becomes your burden after you marry her.

4. Increasing cost of living and tough economies makes the burden of marriage un-appealing to guys or makes them delay it.

5. Feminism has destroyed the femininity & quality of women and what they bring to the table; making them unappealing to many men.

6. Many girls have had so many sexual partners to the point many men see their value as a wife as low, hence limiting the pool of options.

7. You can get all the benefits of marriage from outside marriage, e.g. sex and child, without having to subscribe to the pains of it.

8. Due to no significant biological clock, men can decide to marry late.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by BannedUser: 11:26am On Mar 26, 2022
Same occurrence abroad

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by SlurUsername1: 11:27am On Mar 26, 2022
CalmElder:
I'm 43 and single.
I will marry when I'm READY.
Please fvck the hoes good and have some children now.
If you must marry, do that in your 60s to a virgin like Regina something with tight kpekus in her early 20s and with fresh blood
Women want resources and we mustn't give it to them freely.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Chubbyflaiva(m): 11:27am On Mar 26, 2022
smiley
Afrobasic:


Same thing I have observed too.

Nigerian men are waking up. We would rather live single than to partner with a human leech (a modern day Nigerian woman)

Plus sex (the only thing that gender can offer) is practical free. Just tell her the lies she's willing to hear, and collect your share.

Overall, marriage is a scam.
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Nobody: 11:28am On Mar 26, 2022
This is what Americans want the negros to believe that marriage is a course and not a blessing. And then basterd kids comb the society.




Find a good girl and get marriage. Have one or two kids and continue your life.


No go loose guard o. Disease choke.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by freesoul12: 11:28am On Mar 26, 2022
porthouse7:
wait until u are 40 and lonely, u will have rethink

Wats is loneliness at 40 ... U think its only marriage that makes life lively. Well thats ur opinion though

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by SlurUsername1: 11:29am On Mar 26, 2022
Gamesmart:


1. The concept of marriage has been exposed as nonsense.

2. Marriage is mostly for the benefit of women (especially in the West).

3. Usually, a woman (with her nagging) becomes your burden after you marry her.

4. Increasing cost of living and tough economies makes the burden of marriage un-appealing to guys or makes them delay it.

5. Feminism has destroyed the femininity & quality of women and what they bring to the table; making them unappealing to mem.

6. Many girls have had so many sexual partners to the point many men see their value as a wife as low, hence limiting the pool of options.

7. You can get all the benefits of marriage from outside marriage, e.g. sex and child, without having to subscribe to the pains of it.

8. Due to no significant biological clock, men can decide to marry late.


Chaii brotherly... Increase the volume to volume finish...
Your number 6 and 7 enter die

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by seyz91(m): 11:29am On Mar 26, 2022
cheesy

All said and can't be said any better
MrBrownJay1:
...because marriage is overrated and many dont need/want to get married until much later.

also, we have the sad deluded ones that are waiting to hit it big before getting married, not knowing they probably will never "hit it big"

and finally we have men who dont believe in marriage and therefore will just chop and clean mouth until they get to 80yrs old, then find one Regina something to marry, just to flaunt it in the face of all the young boys in town, lol.
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by ManOfSon: 11:30am On Mar 26, 2022
tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.

Social media is a cancer destroying marriages. The young and unmarried read these stories every day. They're scared to death. I'm not talking about those guys sending their dick pics to women they know to be married. Those ones are staff of NFA - no future ambition.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by seyz91(m): 11:30am On Mar 26, 2022
Said it all

Can't be said any better
falcon01:
Because men have realised that;
1. They have alot of time from 20 to 50 years they can still marry
2. Marriage is a waste of time money and effort
3. Getting married early is a waste of your youthful age
4. The man is Mostly on the giving end in Marriage
5. Marriage favours women more than it favours men
6. They want to break the loop
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by SlurUsername1: 11:32am On Mar 26, 2022
Hammyaladin:
This is what Americans want the negros to believe that marriage is a course and not a blessing. And then basterd kids comb the society.




Find a good girl and get marriage. Have one or two kids and continue your life.


No go loose guard o. Disease choke.

Children born out of wedlock are not regarded as bastards in my culture. Stop making convoluted statements

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 11:32am On Mar 26, 2022
Highlyrespected:
Marriage is blissful when you are with right person.

Marriage is fruitless when you are wrong person.

To settle down is not the issue but to find the right person is the main issue.

Stop talking nonsense!

There is no marriage that is "blissful".

At best, you get a "good" marriage. It can never be blissful!

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Nobody: 11:33am On Mar 26, 2022
Yamiriflathead:


Children born out of wedlock are not regarded as bastards in my culture. Stop making convoluted statements
Get married and build a family when you have a sustainable source of income.

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