MrBrownJay1:


also, we have the sad deluded ones that are waiting to hit it big before getting married, not knowing they probably will never "hit it big"

tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.

faithfull18:

Marriage favours women How exactly?

porthouse7:
wait until u are 40 and lonely, u will have rethink

tayepop:


I'm also single, I asked because these same guys still believe in the concept of marriage but are still single. For me, I don't believe in the concept of marriage.

AfroKnight:

Marriage should be sweet but naija women fail to realise that both partners MUST contribute to a happy marriage, not just the man.

Demigod22:
Marriage should be a thing of choice. Although, the economic reality is affecting, and most importantly, the scary stories of paternity fraud, infidelity and domestic violence is discouraging guys.

I told my mom that marriage is not my priority, I just want to live my life. If it happens fine, but if it doesn't, I am still great. Peace of mind is my priority.

Yamiriflathead:


If marriage is unfavorable to women why don't you all become baby mamas and save us the peripheries and extra costs?

porthouse7:
wait until u are 40 and lonely, u will have rethink

Magnoliaa:
Redpillism is destroying them. It is a cancer to the society. Ordinary bird, an average man cannot kill anymore. Deth to all alphas and cheers to the restoration of the Matriachy.

Highlyrespected:
Marriage is blissful when you are with right person.

Marriage is fruitless when you are wrong person.

To settle down is not the issue but to find the right person is the main issue.

korilala:

Same here. I'm 41, a single father blessed with two kids and frankly I'm happy focusing on my kids and my job.
Why tie myself down to heartache and misery?

Magnoliaa:
Redpillism is destroying them. It is a cancer to the society. Ordinary bird, an average man cannot kill anymore. Deth to all alphas and cheers to the restoration of the Matriachy.

Favfables1:
The day I realized that women who were practically nobodies could become billionaires on account of just divorce alone, was when it really sank in that this marriage thing doesn't favour men one bit...

A woman doesn't have to work at all, just marry a rich guy, give birth to a couple of kids for him, divorce him and Bam! Half of everything he worked for his entire life time belongs to you ....

It's little wonder why over 80% of divorce are intiated by women ...

Yes! One may argue that, that doesn't happen in Nigeria, I agree...

However...
Why should I be responsible for ALL the expenses of an adult who practically have slept with other men, acts like a child, throw tantrums, nags at every slightest opportunity and yet still wants to be treated with "love"?

And besides...
Everything an average wife has to offer can be replaced with money, so why not focus on making money, get those things and be free from the trouble that comes with marriage ...

Minime10:


Marriage is no achievement and besides, it is not even any criterier for making heaven if there is a place like that.
The word marriage doesn't even make any sense to me.
So marry ya marry and stop hyping the nonsense

tayepop:


I'm also single, I asked because these same guys still believe in the concept of marriage but are still single. For me, I don't believe in the concept of marriage.

porthouse7:
wait until u are 40 and lonely, u will have rethink

faithfull18:

You still didn't answer my question.

porthouse7:
am not woman, children alone can not make a home, u will realize this fact when u are in ur 40s

PrimadonnaO:
1. They don't have money to marry.

2. Most women have raised their standards, so somw men are not finding it easy getting the kind of women they want.

3. Too many women have taken the "highway" so wife material aren't in abundance anymore.

4. Some people have become "woke" and uninterested in marriage since they can simply cohabit, or have baby mamas.

5. Finally, some men are genuinely scared. With all the bad marriage stories louder than the good ones.

falcon01:
Because men have realised that;
1. They have alot of time from 20 to 50 years they can still marry
2. Marriage is a waste of time money and effort
3. Getting married early is a waste of your youthful age
4. The man is Mostly on the giving end in Marriage
5. Marriage favours women more than it favours men
6. They want to break the loop

porthouse7:
well said. but all ur points are youthful points, wait till u are in ur 40s u will need a companion regardless of ur obvious facts

tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.

jimcaddy:
Such thoughts crossed my mind too. It's like there are so many guys in their mid 30s that are just not interested in relationships. There is pressure on a woman to bring a man home. But hardly do parents pressure their male child to bring home a wife.