IdanNla:

That is exactly what I want to do but she has been avoiding me giving me excuse for not talking to me when I called she would miss my call and drop WhatsApp messages for me when am not online..

Your instincts are right.

She wasn't raped. She's a ho and she will do it again.

Save your self the headache and start searching for someone new.

some guys are just semi human or should I say copies of human being....me de fucck girl no be say na my wife another person come fucck her I go come dey devastated say who die?

Since your kpekus na community type I will go brutal,I will make sure i Bleep every hole on your body knowing fully that we have no future... even if I had future plan before I will change my mind.


Never trust any woman apart from ur mama food.

I've learned not to judge any case like this but is really provocative.

Nice questions you asked. Think again and the answer will be abort mission

all these useless simps believing these yeye stories.... the minute she started to tell you she was raped AT HER COLLEAGUES HOUSE, thats when you should have dumped the deluded olosho. what the fukc did she go to her colleague's home for?!?!? if not to get some dikc, what was so important at his house that they couldnt do in a cafe and/or at work?!?!?

ndukwejoe:
so if Belle no come out you won't have known about the rape, Women you really can't understand them.

She has done the abortion even before I came back and she didn’t tell me willing! When I came back I could sense something was wrong the way she looked at me her vibes everything was not like when she came visiting me at sch etc so I act like I know about the thing she is hiding and put up a good show to confuse her and she first told me about something else but I knew that could not cause mood swings towards me so I pressure her more on leaving my place on Sunday she drop a VN for me explain everything in details!

Iyaebe:
They should answer me because they were so sure she wasn’t raped

ok were you there,why are you sure she was raped?

Nitah1:
some guys are just semi human or should I say copies of human being....me de fucck girl no be say na my wife another person come fucck her I go come dey devastated say who die?

Since your kpekus na community type I will go brutal,I will make sure i Bleep every hole on our body knowing fully that we have no future... even if I had future plan before I will change my mind.

Never trust any woman apart from ur mama food.

I never got problem about the Sex! What cause all the devastation was that she claimed RAPE and said the deed has been done Asin she decided to act like nothing happened that is what is getting me Mad so I am at a cross road WAS she Raped or Did she cook all this up because someone asked you out and you went visiting putting on a gown and pant and the person rolled weed and she sat comfortable and the whole thing started and she fought but the guy have his way with her without having any bruises or her undies getting torn. A girl that I know how she could resist even me if she want no sex Altho I could overpowered but it will be at the expense of hurting her so telling me a guy raped her without bruises is what I can’t just process in my brain! She even talked to the guy the next day shows she is not Mad or furious about the whole thing like she just throw it past her the next day like nothing happened I can’t believe that!

Iyaebe:
Just take your mind off the unfortunate incident and go ahead with your marriage plans, this is the time you should prove your love for her.Please do the needful and inform us of your wedding day, God bless you

OP try as hard as possible to avoid people like this


Their types can advise you into heavy problems

tayo60:
She wasn't raped.

True, she wasn't rape, even the story sounds like a Cook up story.

IdanNla:

That is exactly what I want to do but she has been avoiding me giving me excuse for not talking to me when I called she would miss my call and drop WhatsApp messages for me when am not online..

Brother Man,You have to be firm in your Decision,You Must Take This Matter Up to the appropriate forces and bring that Man to Book,you have to make it clear to her that is the only way both of you can be together,What could be the reason for her avoiding your calls and messages

Because She's Lying My Nigga

Op want to file a case

IdanNla:

That is exactly what I want to do but she has been avoiding me giving me excuse for not talking to me when I called she would miss my call and drop WhatsApp messages for me when am not online..

My advice dump that girl, she is a classic manipulator

Your instincts are a genius

She doesn't like the guy, but she visited him in his house?

Let me shock you,

Your so called girl has spread her legs for that guy more than once take it from a veteran

I know breaking up will be painful, but the truth is bitter

I've never seen anything that doesn't heal with time

Move ahead Bro

Iyaebe:
Why if I may ask

You are always ready to defend your gender when they do stupid things,and it's so sickening

If you were raped and you knew the person that did it would you file a case or not?

Chiraq77:


You are always ready to defend your gender when they do stupid things,and it's so sickening

If you were raped and you knew the person that did it would you file a case or not?

It can never be me because I don’t visit guys and nobody was there to be sure that she was telling lies

Good day OP
I so much like the way you handle the whole thing.
Some things happen in such a way that they go beyond our control.
But God knows the best.

My prayer: may the Lord heal your relationship and be your strong counsel when you're confused.

My prayer and love is with you guys.
This is a storm and it will pass too IJMN.

IdanNla:


She has done the abortion even before I came back and she didn’t tell me willing! When I came back I could sense something was wrong the way she looked at me her vibes everything was not like when she came visiting me at sch etc so I act like I know about the thing she is hiding and put up a good show to confuse her and she first told me about something else but I knew that could not cause mood swings towards me so I pressure her more on leaving my place on Sunday she drop a VN for me explain everything in details!

It's possible they might have been sleeping together for quite a while.
The change in countenance, guilt and remorse were as a result of the pregnancy and abortion.

This romance section, una dey get sweet sweet stories o.

Back to topic, you see this rape issue, I no dey like put mouth again.

90% of the girls I've dated told me they lost their virginity through rape. In fact, I had one lady who was telling me how she lost her virginity, she was raped, blablabla... Surprisingly, another lady told me EXACTLY THE SAME STORY just few days before that. I had to tell this particular one to stop and completed the story for her

She was surprised and was like, "Did you talk to my sister? Was she the one that told you? How did you know the details?"... I just smiled and told her I didn't talk to anybody, that someone else actually told me exactly the same story just few days back, claiming that's how she lost her own virginity... The girl begin cry, cos I just couldn't help it, I started laughing at her.

For me, I actually have a more fruitful relationship with ladies that don't claim rape but are straightforward about their sex life if it comes to discussing about such... Nobody holy pass, so wetin we dey try cover

IdanNla:
My girlfriend was rape around March but did not tell me anything about it not until I came back from school and I found out she is acting strange and I got to put up an act so she did tell me what happen after much act she didn’t tell me but lied about the whole thing but I still put more pressure and she later drop a voice note telling me how it happen, that a co worker of hers invited her to his home after work and the same guy had asked her for a relationship which she said no and the guy lockup the matter. So this fateful day she requested or invited her to his house getting there the guy junior brother left for school cause they are daily part-time student after his junior ones leave he roll up weed and started smoking so during the process of smoking or afterward the whole thing started and she claim to fight him and scream but the guy overpower him and had his way with her after which the guy pleaded saying he’s sorry and she left for home and called her best friend which she suggest she reported to the police but my babe told her she don’t wish to pursue any case that the deed has been done already and they both lockup the mater. And she even talk to the guy the next day at work and the guy was like he’s sorry and bought her prevention drug which she collected and use. After that day the guy wanted to start a connection which she refuse and the guy was like what else she did want cause he had already beg so what is with her attitude and the guy lockup with her. Some weeks later she discover she was pregnant and she told the guy which the guy gave her 4K for abortion and she collected the money and did the abortion. After saying all this she pleaded I should not breakup with her cause she don’t know how to manage the aftermath of the breakup and what happened was not her intention that she was sorry such thing happened!! After hearing all these I simple ask her some question about the incident which she don’t have an answer to
*1= A guy asked you for a relationship and you said NO that is the more reason you should not give him chance of being close or being with him alone in a room!!!*

*2= You went to visit such guy at home and you wore a gown like a guy whom ask you for a relationship would not touch you when he had the chance of being alone with you in a room?*

*3= The said guy roll up weed and light it right in front of you and you sat there comfortably!!*

*4= You claimed you fight him but you got no bruises on you or your undies gettting torn nor your cloth*

*5= You talked to the same guy the next day after the incident*

*6= You concluded to act like nothing happen !!!*

If you are to be me what would you decide after processing all this Asin put your self in my shoe or If your Senior Brother came for advice from you stating all this what would you advice

Right now am devastated not knowing what to do cause this is the same girl am planning on marrying next year or so and I love her more than I can actually comprehend.. Right now she is avoiding me etc But what I wanted to do right now is filling a case at the police station as breaking up has not cross my heart yet but to punish the dude for what he did.. [color=#000099][/color]

Once blood (abortion)
is involved you better find another girlfriend, talking from experience. Premarital sex is still a sin before God. Remember that.

Lamba

You are being played by a bitch. Use your head.

wasn't raped ... Well, check my pr.ofile if you need help with your assignment, dissertation, or thesis.

Bitter truth? Your girl was never raped. It's all lies to cover up her shameful act of cheating on you.

Never fall for it.

No sensible lady will visit a guy that was once all over them asking them out and expect nothing to happen.

Ladies are very mysterious, believing her would make you foolish.

She visited a guy who isn't her boyfriend alone. CRAZY.

Op I know you know the story doesnt add up, so many gaps and lies inbetween sir.

Well getting more answers from her at this point will and may not be easy task so I will advice you end relationship as sooon as possible not minding the fall back

She may want to use "I shouldn't have open up to you or tell you the truth blackmail " on you, never fall for it


Possible scenario of what happened or what is happening

- She and this guy in question are either sex buddies or flirting buddies

- She took the weed also and the sex happened if they were not sex buddies already

- She Enjoyed the sex

- She didn't regret it

-She is still communicating with the guy

-She will sleep with the guy again in the nearest future

- Sex, pregnancy, abortion have an unbreakable bond with people that commit it

- She is bond to that guy


POSSIBLE QUESTION YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF

- why did she open to you now, when she kept the toasting part, visiting part, rape part, abortion part from you from day one

- Why now, when she can easily play you along


POSSIBLE ANSWERS

women hate to loss- They like eating their cake and having it-

If you continue with her she will date you and that guy, you indirectly gave her permission to, she is bonded ro him(blood-abortion) have deep psychological effect on women


NB-The chances of a guy raping a girl the very first day of visit is very rare and low ,

Live that girl sir, she is just feeling really confuse now, trying to choose between you and her Bleep buddy,

You don't wanna go this path.. Thank you

Chiraq77:


Brother Man,You have to be firm in your Decision,You Must Take This Matter Up to the appropriate forces and bring that Man to Book,you have to make it clear to her that is the only way both of you can be together,What could be the reason for her avoiding your calls and messages

Because She's Lying My Nigga

Thanks for this just concluded and she is calling in to report the case like this!

King125007:
Op I know you know the story doesnt add up, so many gaps and lies inbetween sir.

Well getting more answers from her at this point will and may not be easy task so I will advice you end relationship as sooon as possible not minding the fall back

She may want to use "I shouldn't have open up to you or tell you the truth blackmail " on you, never fall for it


Possible scenario of what happened or what is happening

- She and this guy in question are either sex buddies or flirting buddies

- She took the weed also and the sex happened if they were not sex buddies already

- She Enjoyed the sex

- She didn't regret it

-She is still communicating with the guy

-She will sleep with the guy again in the nearest future

- Sex, pregnancy, abortion have an unbreakable bond with people that commit it

- She is bond to that guy


POSSIBLE QUESTION YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF

- why did she open to you now, when she kept the toasting part, visiting part, rape part, abortion part from you from day one

- Why now, when she can easily play you along


POSSIBLE ANSWERS

women hate to loss- They like eating their cake and having it-

If you continue with her she will date you and that guy, you indirectly gave her permission to, she is bonded ro him(blood-abortion) have deep psychological effect on women


NB-The chances of a guy raping a girl the very first day of visit is very rare and low ,

Live that girl sir, she is just feeling really confuse now, trying to choose between you and her Bleep buddy,

You don't wanna go this path.. Thank you

She didn’t tell me willing OooO I made her !! I truly want to break up and all But I can’t just possible do that I don’t know how to say it because of this alone!!!

Bro that girl wasn't raped, she's just trying to manipulate you. If you doubt break up with her and you see her going back to the arms of the alleged rapist.
Secondly threaten to arrest that guy she might end up pleading with you not to which is a clear sign that nothing happened.
Thirdly subtly find a way to connect with the guy if possible, you might end hearing it was your girl that made the move.
She knows what she's doing, playing you.
How can a girl reject a guys advances and still goes ahead to dine with him alone? Impossible!

I will play "unbreake my heart, say you lov me again" for her. Mumu.

Iyaebe:
Just take your mind off the unfortunate incident and go ahead with your marriage plans, this is the time you should prove your love for her.Please do the needful and inform us of your wedding day, God bless you

IdanNla:
My girlfriend was rape around March but did not tell me anything about it not until I came back from school and I found out she is acting strange and I got to put up an act so she did tell me what happen after much act she didn’t tell me but lied about the whole thing but I still put more pressure and she later drop a voice note telling me how it happen, that a co worker of hers invited her to his home after work and the same guy had asked her for a relationship which she said no and the guy lockup the matter. So this fateful day she requested or invited her to his house getting there the guy junior brother left for school cause they are daily part-time student after his junior ones leave he roll up weed and started smoking so during the process of smoking or afterward the whole thing started and she claim to fight him and scream but the guy overpower him and had his way with her after which the guy pleaded saying he’s sorry and she left for home and called her best friend which she suggest she reported to the police but my babe told her she don’t wish to pursue any case that the deed has been done already and they both lockup the mater. And she even talk to the guy the next day at work and the guy was like he’s sorry and bought her prevention drug which she collected and use. After that day the guy wanted to start a connection which she refuse and the guy was like what else she did want cause he had already beg so what is with her attitude and the guy lockup with her. Some weeks later she discover she was pregnant and she told the guy which the guy gave her 4K for abortion and she collected the money and did the abortion. After saying all this she pleaded I should not breakup with her cause she don’t know how to manage the aftermath of the breakup and what happened was not her intention that she was sorry such thing happened!! After hearing all these I simple ask her some question about the incident which she don’t have an answer to
*1= A guy asked you for a relationship and you said NO that is the more reason you should not give him chance of being close or being with him alone in a room!!!*

*2= You went to visit such guy at home and you wore a gown like a guy whom ask you for a relationship would not touch you when he had the chance of being alone with you in a room?*

*3= The said guy roll up weed and light it right in front of you and you sat there comfortably!!*

*4= You claimed you fight him but you got no bruises on you or your undies gettting torn nor your cloth*

*5= You talked to the same guy the next day after the incident*

*6= You concluded to act like nothing happen !!!*

If you are to be me what would you decide after processing all this Asin put your self in my shoe or If your Senior Brother came for advice from you stating all this what would you advice

Right now am devastated not knowing what to do cause this is the same girl am planning on marrying next year or so and I love her more than I can actually comprehend.. Right now she is avoiding me etc But what I wanted to do right now is filling a case at the police station as breaking up has not cross my heart yet but to punish the dude for what he did.. [color=#000099][/color]

Mr Man shey you wan hear the truth , she wasn't rape & the abortion of a thing she did that so you won't know she's already pregnant.

I'm not stopping you from marring her because who do you want to leaver her for.

Bro That girl was not rapped abeg, who even does abortion with 4k sef
Me dnt believe in simp but this your mata sef don tire COMRADE