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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Bobbyjay001(m): 9:01pm On Apr 04, 2022

GooodHardDick:
Oga, she wasn't raped at all.

That girl just dey whine you. This is called emotional manipulation. You don't like a guy yet you went to his house? To do what abeg? Read the Bible? Werey dey disguise

OP. E sure me die say that girl enjoy the hot bang and will probably go again next time. In fact this time around, she'll shave before going.

Lol were. Your last Statement got me.

Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by jamesversion: 9:04pm On Apr 04, 2022

Iyaebe:
Just take your mind off the unfortunate incident and go ahead with your marriage plans, this is the time you should prove your love for her.Please do the needful and inform us of your wedding day, God bless you

You have never given any good advice on this forum.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Bobbyjay001(m): 9:06pm On Apr 04, 2022

Iyaebe:
Just take your mind off the unfortunate incident and go ahead with your marriage plans, this is the time you should prove your love for her.Please do the needful and inform us of your wedding day, God bless you

You just made a mess of yourself with this is your unintelligent comment,

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by NobeBeans(m): 9:09pm On Apr 04, 2022

GooodHardDick:
Oga, she wasn't raped at all.

That girl just dey whine you. This is called emotional manipulation. You don't like a guy yet you went to his house? To do what abeg? Read the Bible? Werey dey disguise

OP. E sure me die say that girl enjoy the hot bang and will probably go again next time. In fact this time around, she'll shave before going.

Eskis me sir....etiya weyrey......haba manah? Shaving kill that girl there fah

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Nonexisting: 9:12pm On Apr 04, 2022

You already have the answers you seek. Please change the topic to "My Girlfriend Claims She Was Raped". The claims is very important so that everyone will know it's another lie coming from the snake gender people.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by NobeBeans(m): 9:15pm On Apr 04, 2022

This goes to the op.....

According to the street bible,that bitch belongs to the street and to the street she would go back to....Let your heart not be troubled because of descendants of eve,be strong in this game and power of goign out of your miserable experience... See don't arrest or sue anybody because of one careless morafucka who allowed her hole to be wickedly penetrated by weedsmoker.....

Just let her go or na your deathtrap you dey look so my boy.

You would be alright aswear

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Camelot65: 9:15pm On Apr 04, 2022

IdanNla:

That is exactly what I want to do but she has been avoiding me giving me excuse for not talking to me when I called she would miss my call and drop WhatsApp messages for me when am not online..

I have nothing more to tell you than for you to move on with your life. The relationship is heading nowhere.

It may even be a consensual sex gone wrong ( of which is from your post), in which she got pregnant and want to use RAPE to cover the whole thing.

Just move on man.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by princefrank76: 9:24pm On Apr 04, 2022

Abobi use your head. Your banny wasn't raped. How would she claimed a guy raped her the previous day and she talks to him the next day and even collected pills from him as if she can't afford it. Now she got pregnant and it was still this rapist guy that gave her money for an abortion.

that girl no sabi lie abeg.
all na format to make her look innocent.
make i burst your brain, your banny still the Bleep dat manchi even as i'm typing this.

the best thing to do if u really want to find out the truth is; if she doesn't want u to file in a case with the police, she should at least reveal the guy identity to you and possibly try to contact him and listen to his own side of the story.

trust me, u would be shocked of what will be reveal to u.

op your babe is fucking that dude back to back. Forget the cry that's just emotional manipulation. I have been there.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by CAPSLOCKED: 9:28pm On Apr 04, 2022

LMAO

MANY MEN ARE IDĮOTS TBH.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by CAPSLOCKED: 9:33pm On Apr 04, 2022

IdanNla:

That is exactly what I want to do but she has been avoiding me giving me excuse for not talking to me when I called she would miss my call and drop WhatsApp messages for me when am not online..

ODE-NLA. CONTINUE PLAYING THE SUPERHERO INSTEAD OF TAKE WHAT'S ON PAGE 1 AND DO WHAT'S NECESSARY. THE WAY YOUR NURSERY 1 HEART WILL BE LEFT WHEN SHE'S THROUGH WITH YOU, BODY GO TELL YOU cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by harsysky(m): 9:43pm On Apr 04, 2022

Get a mature friend who is still studying law if you are a student or any lawyer friend of yours to come and ask her some questions like he/she wants to take the matter up. Her response will make you know the truth, and the truth will set you free

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by rickleye: 9:56pm On Apr 04, 2022

IdanNla:
My girlfriend was rape around March but did not tell me anything about it not until I came back from school and I found out she is acting strange and I got to put up an act so she did tell me what happen after much act she didn’t tell me but lied about the whole thing but I still put more pressure and she later drop a voice note telling me how it happen, that a co worker of hers invited her to his home after work and the same guy had asked her for a relationship which she said no and the guy lockup the matter. So this fateful day she requested or invited her to his house getting there the guy junior brother left for school cause they are daily part-time student after his junior ones leave he roll up weed and started smoking so during the process of smoking or afterward the whole thing started and she claim to fight him and scream but the guy overpower him and had his way with her after which the guy pleaded saying he’s sorry and she left for home and called her best friend which she suggest she reported to the police but my babe told her she don’t wish to pursue any case that the deed has been done already and they both lockup the mater. And she even talk to the guy the next day at work and the guy was like he’s sorry and bought her prevention drug which she collected and use. After that day the guy wanted to start a connection which she refuse and the guy was like what else she did want cause he had already beg so what is with her attitude and the guy lockup with her. Some weeks later she discover she was pregnant and she told the guy which the guy gave her 4K for abortion and she collected the money and did the abortion. After saying all this she pleaded I should not breakup with her cause she don’t know how to manage the aftermath of the breakup and what happened was not her intention that she was sorry such thing happened!! After hearing all these I simple ask her some question about the incident which she don’t have an answer to
*1= A guy asked you for a relationship and you said NO that is the more reason you should not give him chance of being close or being with him alone in a room!!!*

*2= You went to visit such guy at home and you wore a gown like a guy whom ask you for a relationship would not touch you when he had the chance of being alone with you in a room?*

*3= The said guy roll up weed and light it right in front of you and you sat there comfortably!!*

*4= You claimed you fight him but you got no bruises on you or your undies gettting torn nor your cloth*

*5= You talked to the same guy the next day after the incident*

*6= You concluded to act like nothing happen !!!*

If you are to be me what would you decide after processing all this Asin put your self in my shoe or If your Senior Brother came for advice from you stating all this what would you advice

Right now am devastated not knowing what to do cause this is the same girl am planning on marrying next year or so and I love her more than I can actually comprehend.. Right now she is avoiding me etc But what I wanted to do right now is filling a case at the police station as breaking up has not cross my heart yet but to punish the dude for what he did.. [color=#000099][/color]

I do not want to attack the veracity of the story but as it is laid out and in light of the #meeTOO movement.

1. Why didn't she call to tell you what happened when you were in school.?
2. She needs to tell the police - non negotiable. ( If he did it with her, the dude may have done it with others)
I don't what the punishment for rape is but rape is serious..
3. How could she cope seeing the dude at work day in and day out ?
4. It would have been nice to have her story corroborated with a doctor to see if there are injuries at the vaginal area.

My compromises
1. He quits his job. He either tenders his resignation or I walk up to the boss and inform them of his deeds.

On if to continue the relationship.
I leave that up to you but you both must heal from this terrible thing. It also takes a matured person to look at your g/f and not see a victim but a survival of the crime.
Does she have nightmares of the incident ?
Will you fight fair ? - Will you bring you this issue if she doesn't want to have sex when you do ? If she does something you don't like.

[s]P.S in another life.. I would have slept with the dude's girlfriends as punishment but ..... [/s]

Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by akaahs(m): 10:06pm On Apr 04, 2022

Iyaebe:
Just take your mind off the unfortunate incident and go ahead with your marriage plans, this is the time you should prove your love for her.Please do the needful and inform us of your wedding day, God bless you

Guess u don't know the implications of rape its true because if u do u won't advise the opp to just over look it and go ahead with the marriage plans. From experience, if the opp did not work on her mental state, he ll never enjoy her sexually because the bad experience ll always torment her to resist the opp.

Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by TheWolfen(m): 10:08pm On Apr 04, 2022

onlyson16:
Mind ur business. The girl av told u de truth. If u like marry her if not let her go in peace. Mumu man

Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by IdanNla(m): 10:18pm On Apr 04, 2022

akaahs:

Guess u don't know the implications of rape its true because if u do u won't advise the opp to just over look it and go ahead with the marriage plans. From experience, if the opp did not work on her mental state, he ll never enjoy her sexually because the bad experience ll always torment her to resist the opp.

Oh that true she did not resist me OooO but the experience led to all this cause the way she dey do Ehn it like say I Dey do her bad thing and she seems sad self that I wan first mad say how you go dey have dat kind look for me nah how I take onow say something is wrong thi

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Benki003(m): 10:21pm On Apr 04, 2022

Bruh forget all these stuff it happened to me before, turns out shes gonna be visiting the guy daily and trust me has started harbouring feelings for him angry

But op before you forgive her always remember there was a time the d slid out and she hurriedly put it back grin

let the thought of that hunt u more wink

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by akaahs(m): 10:40pm On Apr 04, 2022

IdanNla:

Oh that true she did not resist me OooO but the experience led to all this cause the way she dey do Ehn it like say I Dey do her bad thing and she seems sad self that I wan first mad say how you go dey have dat kind look for me nah how I take onow say something is wrong thi

Na so she go continue even if u marry except a psychologist or sex therapist work on her. Talking from experience. my wife was once rape before I meet her sef but she claimed she had long over come it not until its began to affect our sexual life I decided to involve a psychologist

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by omochelsea004(m): 11:04pm On Apr 04, 2022

Iyaebe:
Just take your mind off the unfortunate incident and go ahead with your marriage plans, this is the time you should prove your love for her.Please do the needful and inform us of your wedding day, God bless you

You dey mad, or maybe nah mad dey do you!

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by omochelsea004(m): 11:06pm On Apr 04, 2022

tayo60:
She wasn't raped.

God bless you jare my dear sister, you aren't sentimental like one noise maker that is always off point here, no meaningful input can ever come from her, very disgusting human being

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by okrikaboi: 11:26pm On Apr 04, 2022

Let me add more details when his d!ck slipped out she put it back in grin

Mumu if you had not invested painfully in her you for don drop her like hot potato since or turn her to friends with benefits but you come here dey create thread eh ya cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Kingsean(m): 11:51pm On Apr 04, 2022

IdanNla:

That is exactly what I want to do but she has been avoiding me giving me excuse for not talking to me when I called she would miss my call and drop WhatsApp messages for me when am not online..

with all these, it's now evident she wasn't raped. she's really playing a game with you. she went to the guy's house for sex. investigate very well pls. don't rush into any marriage with her abeg

Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by ndukwejoe(m): 12:24am On Apr 05, 2022

Mate that is women for you

IdanNla:

She has done the abortion even before I came back and she didn’t tell me willing! When I came back I could sense something was wrong the way she looked at me her vibes everything was not like when she came visiting me at sch etc so I act like I know about the thing she is hiding and put up a good show to confuse her and she first told me about something else but I knew that could not cause mood swings towards me so I pressure her more on leaving my place on Sunday she drop a VN for me explain everything in details!

Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Demigod22: 12:48am On Apr 05, 2022

OP, I won't advise you to go and make joke of yourself in filing a case. You have too be extra careful when dealing with these girls.

To be honest with you, your girl just cheated on you and she decided to manipulate you emotionally to cover up her shame.

Why would a girl that is in a relationship go and visit a guy that is asking her out? When you hear some stories from girls or hear their reasoning, you wonder the kind of brains they have.

Because you are not always with her, she decided to go cheat and because she see the husband material in you, she decided to keep you. Your girlfriend is just a typical Nigerian girl, so we are not surprise.

I can bet Buhari's life that the sex between your girlfriend and her colleague didn't happen once, she is just like every other average Nigerian girl.

Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by emorse(m): 12:49am On Apr 05, 2022

Benki003:
Bruh forget all these stuff it happened to me before, turns out shes gonna be visiting the guy daily and trust me has started harbouring feelings for him

But op before you forgive her always remember there was a time the d slid out and she hurriedly put it back let the thought of that hunt u more

Ah! Werey! grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Demigod22: 12:54am On Apr 05, 2022

IdanNla:

I never got problem about the Sex! What cause all the devastation was that she claimed RAPE and said the deed has been done Asin she decided to act like nothing happened that is what is getting me Mad so I am at a cross road WAS she Raped or Did she cook all this up because someone asked you out and you went visiting putting on a gown and pant and the person rolled weed and she sat comfortable and the whole thing started and she fought but the guy have his way with her without having any bruises or her undies getting torn. A girl that I know how she could resist even me if she want no sex Altho I could overpowered but it will be at the expense of hurting her so telling me a guy raped her without bruises is what I can’t just process in my brain! She even talked to the guy the next day shows she is not Mad or furious about the whole thing like she just throw it past her the next day like nothing happened I can’t believe that!

OP, the girl just cheated on you. You are reasonable by asking those questions, but since she can't provide the answers and shedding the crocodile tears, you already know the qualms.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Dshocker(m): 1:36am On Apr 05, 2022

IdanNla:
My girlfriend was rape around March but did not tell me anything about it not until I came back from school and I found out she is acting strange and I got to put up an act so she did tell me what happen after much act she didn’t tell me but lied about the whole thing but I still put more pressure and she later drop a voice note telling me how it happen, that a co worker of hers invited her to his home after work and the same guy had asked her for a relationship which she said no and the guy lockup the matter. So this fateful day she requested or invited her to his house getting there the guy junior brother left for school cause they are daily part-time student after his junior ones leave he roll up weed and started smoking so during the process of smoking or afterward the whole thing started and she claim to fight him and scream but the guy overpower him and had his way with her after which the guy pleaded saying he’s sorry and she left for home and called her best friend which she suggest she reported to the police but my babe told her she don’t wish to pursue any case that the deed has been done already and they both lockup the mater. And she even talk to the guy the next day at work and the guy was like he’s sorry and bought her prevention drug which she collected and use. After that day the guy wanted to start a connection which she refuse and the guy was like what else she did want cause he had already beg so what is with her attitude and the guy lockup with her. Some weeks later she discover she was pregnant and she told the guy which the guy gave her 4K for abortion and she collected the money and did the abortion. After saying all this she pleaded I should not breakup with her cause she don’t know how to manage the aftermath of the breakup and what happened was not her intention that she was sorry such thing happened!! After hearing all these I simple ask her some question about the incident which she don’t have an answer to
*1= A guy asked you for a relationship and you said NO that is the more reason you should not give him chance of being close or being with him alone in a room!!!*

*2= You went to visit such guy at home and you wore a gown like a guy whom ask you for a relationship would not touch you when he had the chance of being alone with you in a room?*

*3= The said guy roll up weed and light it right in front of you and you sat there comfortably!!*

*4= You claimed you fight him but you got no bruises on you or your undies gettting torn nor your cloth*

*5= You talked to the same guy the next day after the incident*

*6= You concluded to act like nothing happen !!!*

If you are to be me what would you decide after processing all this Asin put your self in my shoe or If your Senior Brother came for advice from you stating all this what would you advice

Right now am devastated not knowing what to do cause this is the same girl am planning on marrying next year or so and I love her more than I can actually comprehend.. Right now she is avoiding me etc But what I wanted to do right now is filling a case at the police station as breaking up has not cross my heart yet but to punish the dude for what he did.. [color=#000099][/color]

You are crying more than the bereaved,to the extent of you wanting to report over a case you aren't sure about.

That wasn't the first time of her visiting him.

Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Joeyfizzo: 2:23am On Apr 05, 2022

Post her picture lemme see if she was the one I saw on Tinder ...DM me bro

Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Nobody: 4:42am On Apr 05, 2022

franchasofficia:

Is this my franchasng or an impersonator?

Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by princefrank76: 5:23am On Apr 05, 2022

Iyaebe:
Just take your mind off the unfortunate incident and go ahead with your marriage plans, this is the time you should prove your love for her.Please do the needful and inform us of your wedding day, God bless you

iyaebe you're just too biased in your judgments. You're such an hypocrite coz u wouldn't av said this if the table were turn.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by odinson1(m): 7:12am On Apr 05, 2022

Martinez39s:
You are being played by a bitch. Use your head.

He's lucky all the guys in the first page are real niggas. If this thread were infiltrated by females, almost all of them would have told him to go ahead and marry her.
This is why i pity men who ask for Marriage/relationship advice in the family section. That section is filled with "real men" and women who believe in "happy wife,happy home". So you have to make your wife happy(at your own expense) in order for peace to reign.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Nobody: 7:15am On Apr 05, 2022

franchasofficia:

Is this my franchasng or an impersonator

Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by kals4luv990(m): 7:22am On Apr 05, 2022

Iyaebe:
It can never be me because I don’t visit guys and nobody was there to be sure that she was telling lies

This woman if you are married, then I pity your husband

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