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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Nobody: 7:29am On Apr 05, 2022
kals4luv990:
This woman if you are married, then I pity your husband
Im not married sir but my future husband will never regret marrying me
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Nobody: 7:43am On Apr 05, 2022
Lol.. different analysis. Nairaland detectives say she wasn't raped op grin
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by espn(m): 7:50am On Apr 05, 2022
IdanNla:

That is exactly what I want to do but she has been avoiding me giving me excuse for not talking to me when I called she would miss my call and drop WhatsApp messages for me when am not online..
That's a wrong advice....It will be childish of you if you do that. We have had many innocent people behind bar for bin accused falsely for rape. If you put too much pressure o her...She might consider lying against this guy and you might end up sending an innocent man to jail for a consensual sex.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by medriano: 8:04am On Apr 05, 2022
She could have been raped and fear that if she reports to the police, people will get to know what happened and that’s a serious stigma...maybe she doesn’t want that.
If I were her, I would make sure I report that guy to the authorities. Rape is no child’s play and no woman deserves such experiences.
When she says no, let it be no.
She had no business visiting that guy.
When I was much younger, something close to this happened except I wasn’t raped. I was so young then and a virgin. I visited my class mate and before I know, he locked the door. I was scared but as a mafia, I didn’t show it. I asked him to open the door or I would scream.
He immediately opened the door and I left. That was the last day I spoke to him. Ten years later, he tired to be friendly but I wasn’t interested.
That thought me a lesson. I don’t ever visit a guy in his house or anywhere. It helped me a great deal.
Ladies, let’s be careful please cos some guys are not it.
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by franchasofficia: 8:11am On Apr 05, 2022
Iyaebe:
Is this my franchasng or an impersonator
Na me oh, they banned my main account cos of a comment on politics section. Been stranded, can't comment cant do anything. Really sad
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Nobody: 8:13am On Apr 05, 2022
franchasofficia:
Na me oh, they banned my main account cos of a comment on politics section. Been stranded, can't comment cant do anything. Really sad
That’s sad hope it’s not a long ban, you can do with this one for now till the ban expires.
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Daxyd4realzy(m): 8:15am On Apr 05, 2022
Bro, forget that lady, she wasn't raped!

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by franchasofficia: 8:33am On Apr 05, 2022
Iyaebe:
That’s sad hope it’s not a long ban, you can do with this one for now till the ban expires.
November 2022 cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by advanceDNA: 8:34am On Apr 05, 2022
My own question in all of this is .....na 4K them dey do abortion....??
Na so the thing dey cheap??
No wonder this girls dey remove bele anyhow..

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Nobody: 8:35am On Apr 05, 2022
franchasofficia:
November 2022 cheesy
Let me try my luck with mynd and see if he can unban you, he gets angry easily and gets over it easily as well
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by franchasofficia: 8:39am On Apr 05, 2022
Iyaebe:
Let me try my luck with mynd and see if he can unban you, he gets angry easily and gets over it easily as well
hehe, if they like they can ban it forever, I am only here to air my opinion on issues I feel like, its not as if I am earning a dime from here shocked

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by AjiBussu(m): 8:40am On Apr 05, 2022
IdanNla:
My girlfriend was rape around March but did not tell me anything about it not until I came back from school and I found out she is acting strange and I got to put up an act so she did tell me what happen after much act she didn’t tell me but lied about the whole thing but I still put more pressure and she later drop a voice note telling me how it happen, that a co worker of hers invited her to his home after work and the same guy had asked her for a relationship which she said no and the guy lockup the matter. So this fateful day she requested or invited her to his house getting there the guy junior brother left for school cause they are daily part-time student after his junior ones leave he roll up weed and started smoking so during the process of smoking or afterward the whole thing started and she claim to fight him and scream but the guy overpower him and had his way with her after which the guy pleaded saying he’s sorry and she left for home and called her best friend which she suggest she reported to the police but my babe told her she don’t wish to pursue any case that the deed has been done already and they both lockup the mater. And she even talk to the guy the next day at work and the guy was like he’s sorry and bought her prevention drug which she collected and use. After that day the guy wanted to start a connection which she refuse and the guy was like what else she did want cause he had already beg so what is with her attitude and the guy lockup with her. Some weeks later she discover she was pregnant and she told the guy which the guy gave her 4K for abortion and she collected the money and did the abortion. After saying all this she pleaded I should not breakup with her cause she don’t know how to manage the aftermath of the breakup and what happened was not her intention that she was sorry such thing happened!! After hearing all these I simple ask her some question about the incident which she don’t have an answer to
*1= A guy asked you for a relationship and you said NO that is the more reason you should not give him chance of being close or being with him alone in a room!!!*

*2= You went to visit such guy at home and you wore a gown like a guy whom ask you for a relationship would not touch you when he had the chance of being alone with you in a room?*

*3= The said guy roll up weed and light it right in front of you and you sat there comfortably!!*

*4= You claimed you fight him but you got no bruises on you or your undies gettting torn nor your cloth*

*5= You talked to the same guy the next day after the incident*

*6= You concluded to act like nothing happen !!!*

If you are to be me what would you decide after processing all this Asin put your self in my shoe or If your Senior Brother came for advice from you stating all this what would you advice

Right now am devastated not knowing what to do cause this is the same girl am planning on marrying next year or so and I love her more than I can actually comprehend.. Right now she is avoiding me etc But what I wanted to do right now is filling a case at the police station as breaking up has not cross my heart yet but to punish the dude for what he did.. [color=#000099][/color]

That story is a scam, she belong to the streets. Drop her there and move on

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by AjiBussu(m): 8:48am On Apr 05, 2022
Don't be a simp. Just catch cruise with her till you get another and dump her sorry ass. Always obs. Trust Nigerian girls at your own peril grin
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by kals4luv990(m): 9:16am On Apr 05, 2022
Iyaebe:
Im not married sir but my future husband will never regret marrying me
that's if he is aware he is marrying a woman with the IQ of a retard

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by SEGLIZ: 9:18am On Apr 05, 2022
Iyaebe:
Just take your mind off the unfortunate incident and go ahead with your marriage plans, this is the time you should prove your love for her.Please do the needful and inform us of your wedding day, God bless you
you women are so pathetic when it comes to backing up your follies.

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Nobody: 9:18am On Apr 05, 2022
kals4luv990:
that's if he is aware he is marrying a woman with the IQ of a retard
You are the slowpoke for not having the ability to think deep and see through things, you are noticed, kindly get out and go make money like your mates are doing
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by kals4luv990(m): 9:23am On Apr 05, 2022
Iyaebe:
You are the slowpoke for not having the ability to think deep and see through things, you are noticed, kindly get out and go make money like your mates are doing
how much has iyaebe made since last year..slowpoke bitch ass manipulative woman..tueeh

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Nobody: 9:27am On Apr 05, 2022
kals4luv990:
how much has iyaebe made since last year..slowpoke bitch ass manipulative woman..tueeh
I’m not under any obligation to make money but you see you, don’t make money and see if any girl will ever agree to have anything to do with you, oniranu. Hungry materialistic man
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by benqo01(m): 9:29am On Apr 05, 2022
Omo this her tales get k-leg she dey play you my man,some girls self why did she go there I. The first place
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by kals4luv990(m): 9:32am On Apr 05, 2022
Iyaebe:
I’m not under any obligation to make money but you see you, don’t make money and see if any girl will ever agree to have anything to do with you, oniranu. Hungry materialistic man
yu see how low your reasoning is..dnt make money nd watch your rubbish yu..this girl must be cracked upstairs..Abi your sister FERNANDEZ don tire..e remain yu

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Nobody: 9:35am On Apr 05, 2022
Ladies let's all be careful, these are desperate times
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Nobody: 9:35am On Apr 05, 2022
kals4luv990:
yu see how low your reasoning is..dnt make money nd watch your rubbish yu..this girl must be cracked upstairs..Abi your sister FERNANDEZ don tire..e remain yu
Not every man is as hungry and materialistic as you are, I repeat I’m not under any obligation to make money and it’s very obvious you are among the modern men leeches looking for successful women to devour, hmmm go and make money oooo I’ve said my own
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 9:36am On Apr 05, 2022
Nothing No Go See For This Blogging Business
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by Coldie(m): 9:38am On Apr 05, 2022
Na your gf not your wife, I bet u once u leave her she would go and start dating that guy since matter don already cast.

Just keep her around while u search for a new and better gf

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by ajayiopy: 9:38am On Apr 05, 2022
IdanNla:
My girlfriend was raped around March but did not tell me anything about it not until I came back from school and I found out she is acting strange and I got to put up an act so she did tell me what happen after much act she didn’t tell me but lied about the whole thing but I still put more pressure and she later dropped a voice note telling me how it happened.

That a co worker of hers invited her to his home after work and the same guy had asked her for a relationship which she said no and the guy lockup the matter. So this fateful day she requested or invited her to his house getting there the guy's junior brother left for school cause they are daily part-time student, after his junior ones left, he rolled up weed and started smoking, so during the process of smoking or afterward the whole thing started and she claimed to fight him and scream but the guy overpowered him and had his way with her after which the guy pleaded saying he’s sorry and she left for home and called her best friend which she suggest she reported to the police but my babe told her she don’t wish to pursue any case that the deed has been done already and they both lockup the mater.

And she even talked to the guy the next day at work and the guy was like he’s sorry and bought her prevention drug which she collected and used. After that day the guy wanted to start a connection which she refused and the guy was like what else she did want cause he had already beg so what is with her attitude and the guy lockup with her.

Some weeks later she discovered she was pregnant and she told the guy which the guy gave her 4K for abortion and she collected the money and did the abortion.

After saying all this she pleaded I should not breakup with her cause she don’t know how to manage the aftermath of the breakup and what happened was not her intention that she was sorry such thing happened!! After hearing all these I simple asked her some questions about the incident which she don’t have an answer to:

*1= A guy asked you for a relationship and you said NO that is the more reason you should not give him chance of being close or being with him alone in a room!!!*

*2= You went to visit such guy at home and you wore a gown like a guy whom ask you for a relationship would not touch you when he had the chance of being alone with you in a room?*

*3= The said guy roll up weed and light it right in front of you and you sat there comfortably!!*

*4= You claimed you fight him but you got no bruises on you or your undies gettting torn nor your cloth*

*5= You talked to the same guy the next day after the incident*

*6= You concluded to act like nothing happen !!!*

If you are to be me what would you decide after processing all this Asin put your self in my shoe or If your Senior Brother came for advice from you stating all this what would you advice

Right now am devastated not knowing what to do cause this is the same girl am planning on marrying next year or so and I love her more than I can actually comprehend.. Right now she is avoiding me etc But what I wanted to do right now is filling a case at the police station as breaking up has not cross my heart yet but to punish the dude for what he did..

when you and your girl friend are ready to tell us the truth ,we will comment
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by danigeorge: 9:38am On Apr 05, 2022
embarassed

IdanNla:
My girlfriend was raped around March but did not tell me anything about it not until I came back from school and I found out she is acting strange and I got to put up an act so she did tell me what happen after much act she didn’t tell me but lied about the whole thing but I still put more pressure and she later dropped a voice note telling me how it happened.

That a co worker of hers invited her to his home after work and the same guy had asked her for a relationship which she said no and the guy lockup the matter. So this fateful day she requested or invited her to his house getting there the guy's junior brother left for school cause they are daily part-time student, after his junior ones left, he rolled up weed and started smoking, so during the process of smoking or afterward the whole thing started and she claimed to fight him and scream but the guy overpowered him and had his way with her after which the guy pleaded saying he’s sorry and she left for home and called her best friend which she suggest she reported to the police but my babe told her she don’t wish to pursue any case that the deed has been done already and they both lockup the mater.

And she even talked to the guy the next day at work and the guy was like he’s sorry and bought her prevention drug which she collected and used. After that day the guy wanted to start a connection which she refused and the guy was like what else she did want cause he had already beg so what is with her attitude and the guy lockup with her.

Some weeks later she discovered she was pregnant and she told the guy which the guy gave her 4K for abortion and she collected the money and did the abortion.

After saying all this she pleaded I should not breakup with her cause she don’t know how to manage the aftermath of the breakup and what happened was not her intention that she was sorry such thing happened!! After hearing all these I simple asked her some questions about the incident which she don’t have an answer to:

*1= A guy asked you for a relationship and you said NO that is the more reason you should not give him chance of being close or being with him alone in a room!!!*

*2= You went to visit such guy at home and you wore a gown like a guy whom ask you for a relationship would not touch you when he had the chance of being alone with you in a room?*

*3= The said guy roll up weed and light it right in front of you and you sat there comfortably!!*

*4= You claimed you fight him but you got no bruises on you or your undies gettting torn nor your cloth*

*5= You talked to the same guy the next day after the incident*

*6= You concluded to act like nothing happen !!!*

If you are to be me what would you decide after processing all this Asin put your self in my shoe or If your Senior Brother came for advice from you stating all this what would you advice

Right now am devastated not knowing what to do cause this is the same girl am planning on marrying next year or so and I love her more than I can actually comprehend.. Right now she is avoiding me etc But what I wanted to do right now is filling a case at the police station as breaking up has not cross my heart yet but to punish the dude for what he did..
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by chronique(m): 9:38am On Apr 05, 2022
IdanNla:
My girlfriend was raped around March but did not tell me anything about it not until I came back from school and I found out she is acting strange and I got to put up an act so she did tell me what happen after much act she didn’t tell me but lied about the whole thing but I still put more pressure and she later dropped a voice note telling me how it happened.

That a co worker of hers invited her to his home after work and the same guy had asked her for a relationship which she said no and the guy lockup the matter. So this fateful day she requested or invited her to his house getting there the guy's junior brother left for school cause they are daily part-time student, after his junior ones left, he rolled up weed and started smoking, so during the process of smoking or afterward the whole thing started and she claimed to fight him and scream but the guy overpowered him and had his way with her after which the guy pleaded saying he’s sorry and she left for home and called her best friend which she suggest she reported to the police but my babe told her she don’t wish to pursue any case that the deed has been done already and they both lockup the mater.

And she even talked to the guy the next day at work and the guy was like he’s sorry and bought her prevention drug which she collected and used. After that day the guy wanted to start a connection which she refused and the guy was like what else she did want cause he had already beg so what is with her attitude and the guy lockup with her.

Some weeks later she discovered she was pregnant and she told the guy which the guy gave her 4K for abortion and she collected the money and did the abortion.

After saying all this she pleaded I should not breakup with her cause she don’t know how to manage the aftermath of the breakup and what happened was not her intention that she was sorry such thing happened!! After hearing all these I simple asked her some questions about the incident which she don’t have an answer to:

*1= A guy asked you for a relationship and you said NO that is the more reason you should not give him chance of being close or being with him alone in a room!!!*

*2= You went to visit such guy at home and you wore a gown like a guy whom ask you for a relationship would not touch you when he had the chance of being alone with you in a room?*

*3= The said guy roll up weed and light it right in front of you and you sat there comfortably!!*

*4= You claimed you fight him but you got no bruises on you or your undies gettting torn nor your cloth*

*5= You talked to the same guy the next day after the incident*

*6= You concluded to act like nothing happen !!!*

If you are to be me what would you decide after processing all this Asin put your self in my shoe or If your Senior Brother came for advice from you stating all this what would you advice

Right now am devastated not knowing what to do cause this is the same girl am planning on marrying next year or so and I love her more than I can actually comprehend.. Right now she is avoiding me etc But what I wanted to do right now is filling a case at the police station as breaking up has not cross my heart yet but to punish the dude for what he did..

You better dump that lying girl.
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by NotoriousBiggyS: 9:40am On Apr 05, 2022
That's not the first time they been fuckingg steadily for long. Your girlfriend is a liar. Don't trust any girls nowadays. Right now there's a lady I am fucking everytime, this lady has a serious relationship. Her man do not even know he's dating a cheat. I even dey bang her pass her guy self

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Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by mymadam(m): 9:40am On Apr 05, 2022
No long story... dispatch her IMMEDIATELY undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by almarthins(m): 9:40am On Apr 05, 2022
IdanNla:
My girlfriend was raped around March but did not tell me anything about it not until I came back from school and I found out she is acting strange and I got to put up an act so she did tell me what happen after much act she didn’t tell me but lied about the whole thing but I still put more pressure and she later dropped a voice note telling me how it happened.

That a co worker of hers invited her to his home after work and the same guy had asked her for a relationship which she said no and the guy lockup the matter. So this fateful day she requested or invited her to his house getting there the guy's junior brother left for school cause they are daily part-time student, after his junior ones left, he rolled up weed and started smoking, so during the process of smoking or afterward the whole thing started and she claimed to fight him and scream but the guy overpowered him and had his way with her after which the guy pleaded saying he’s sorry and she left for home and called her best friend which she suggest she reported to the police but my babe told her she don’t wish to pursue any case that the deed has been done already and they both lockup the mater.

And she even talked to the guy the next day at work and the guy was like he’s sorry and bought her prevention drug which she collected and used. After that day the guy wanted to start a connection which she refused and the guy was like what else she did want cause he had already beg so what is with her attitude and the guy lockup with her.

Some weeks later she discovered she was pregnant and she told the guy which the guy gave her 4K for abortion and she collected the money and did the abortion.

After saying all this she pleaded I should not breakup with her cause she don’t know how to manage the aftermath of the breakup and what happened was not her intention that she was sorry such thing happened!! After hearing all these I simple asked her some questions about the incident which she don’t have an answer to:

*1= A guy asked you for a relationship and you said NO that is the more reason you should not give him chance of being close or being with him alone in a room!!!*

*2= You went to visit such guy at home and you wore a gown like a guy whom ask you for a relationship would not touch you when he had the chance of being alone with you in a room?*

*3= The said guy roll up weed and light it right in front of you and you sat there comfortably!!*

*4= You claimed you fight him but you got no bruises on you or your undies gettting torn nor your cloth*

*5= You talked to the same guy the next day after the incident*

*6= You concluded to act like nothing happen !!!*

If you are to be me what would you decide after processing all this Asin put your self in my shoe or If your Senior Brother came for advice from you stating all this what would you advice

Right now am devastated not knowing what to do cause this is the same girl am planning on marrying next year or so and I love her more than I can actually comprehend.. Right now she is avoiding me etc But what I wanted to do right now is filling a case at the police station as breaking up has not cross my heart yet but to punish the dude for what he did..

She is not telling the whole truth
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by ednut1(m): 9:40am On Apr 05, 2022
Lies from the pit of hell
Re: My Girlfriend Was RAPED I Don’t Know What To Do by everythinggirly(f): 9:41am On Apr 05, 2022
She's a Big grown fool! Why would you visit him in the first place? Abeg getat!

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