Hmmmmmm

Hardquy:

I am born of God

luluosas:
Hmmmmmm

If you no believe me na u sabi my brother

GALAXY11:
i de brother,can we chat on watsap?

Yeah, my whatsapp line is on my profile and signature

AntiMen:


Did I force the feeling on myself....
It grew naturally.

Keep on deceiving yourself with excuses, don't run away, stay there and be crushing untill he finally pull your pants.

Sometimes i wonder if some women use their senses at all.
The devil is about to use someone here.

I like how you did not malign your husband and blame him for this. Most women would look for reasons to justify this unwholesome feeling by listing the shortcomings of their husband. The pastor knows you have a soft for him. As someone with a higher spiritual standing he’s supposed to kill whatever this is about but he’s fueling it. He’s the object of your fantasy but realistically he’s your problem.

What you are going through is not real. It’s just a flash that’ll pass, if you can contain yourself & give it time, you’ll see. If you do otherwise, it will blow up in your face to embarrass you and leave a lifelong taint on the character of your person. It may destroy your family. Trust me, the pastor will mostly not sacrifice his standing (which he spent years to build) for you or destroy his own family. If you go ahead, when eventually you’re found out, he’ll run you under the bus. Using even the lips you sent on chat as alibi that you were chasing & pressurizing him. His fellow pastors will rally around him & say it’s temptation, saying he needs to be backed up with prayers. You’d be postured as the tool the devil uses against Pastors, a Villian.

You have to stop being overtly friendly with him. Don’t reply unnecessary chats. No unnecessary smile. He’s an agent of destabilization, treat him as such. If he greets you in the midst of others, do not feel special, do not respond. Any discussions about improving your spiritual life or whatever are attempts to get close to you and fasten his hold on you. His intentions are not pure, blatantly turn down any of such.

And lastly, trust me when I say there’s people in the church who’ve observed what’s going on between you two and are watching. They may be his wife, or women he has tried to or built such connections with in the past, or just observant people. Trust me when I say eyes are on you already.

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

By their fruit you shall knoooooooooow....

AntiMen:


What reason will I give my husband for not following him to church.

You like sex too much that's your problem

You just want to Bleep your pastor, you may have been seeing his dick dangling while he preaches

Go ahead and Bleep him freak

my sister, that's not � ,it is in inflatuation

Gospel2Day:


If she feels same way for her boss or colleague at her workplace would you advise her to "Leave the job. Look for another job"?
To many people church is like supermarket. You choose whichever one you like.
God plants people in true churches.
And you CAN'T just leave for another BRANCH unless by His authorization or permission.

If leaving would prevent her from sinning then yes.

VOsimhen144:
You're married with kids and you claim you still love your husband But yet you're crushing, liking and developing feelings for another man. Nawa oo!

This is the main reason why most guys don't take Nigerian women serious.

I do come across some foolish articles on nairaland like "How to make a woman love and respect you" "How to make a woman stay with you till eternity" "How to make a woman do this... How to make a woman do that... Blah blah blah" the funny thing is, SIMPs will even be saying "nice one op".

Lol, seriously I go just dey laugh and dey look them like mgbeke.

Oga, if you like give Nigerian women the whole world, If you like chase everybody away to planet Mars and give her the whole earth. She would still cheat on you to go collect better preek in planet Mars.

Dear Men, don't ever take Nigerian women serious Please. Avoid Nigeria women like a plague.

Meanwhile.. Adeleke ifeanyi be like Madam carry your mouth go one side... abeg.

But you are the same people that claim it’s okay for a man to cheat. Don’t you think that what is good for the gander is good for the geese?

iamrealdeji:
AntiMen:


What reason will I give my husband for not following him to church.
Christianity itself is really flawed. A woman would even barely know her Imam in Islam unlike in Christianity where men and women would hold hands in the name of praying and the sexual attraction would start even while praying. No matter how small a mosque is,men's entrance would always be different from women entrance and there is always a wall that separates men and women in mosque,only that the wall would have few perforated blocks only for women to see what's going on during prayers,they follow the voice of the imam and pray and they watch the back of other jamat through the perforated blocks to know the progress of the salat(prayer)women are not allowed to speak in mosque raising opinions or sing or raise their voices due to their naturally sexy voice. They are only allowed to speak among themselves. You can never stare at a woman in mosque cos you would find it difficult to even see her at all,also,women are very much encouraged to pray indoors. God is everywhere. Islam is beautiful and that's why Saudi Arabia and other middle eastern countries have the lowest prevalence of HIV with 0.001 percent and Saudi Arabia is the safest place on earth for women according to studies

But they are the biggest perverts. Those Arab billionaires.

Fake post.

AntiMen:


Did I force the feeling on myself....
It grew naturally.

Just distance yourself from the said pastor. Go to church at only service time and go with your husband after dismissal, no meeting with the pastor, no fellowship, no counseling, no phone calls, no chats. When you do all these, the feelings will just die naturally. Communication fuels love, if you starve any relationship or friendship of communication, it will just die.
Good luck to you.

This post suppose move to Yabaleft

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

It’s the same lusty feelings that got you over excited to post the story here. How can you say you love your husband no doubt and start nurturing feelings for another person. You either chose to love your hubby in peace or Follow this dirty feelings and ruin your home then your eyes will be clear.

You are a wh0re

Hello dear.
I will strongly advice you not to tell your husband. The reason is that he will use it in a negative against you in the future and you will regret it and feel hurt about it.
I understand perfectly how you feel about having crush on another mas as a married woman. It's a natural thing to feel concern that way but you have to find a way around it to stop the feelings but it will take time then if I understand his feelings or his being close to you, I think he finds something powerful or special in the spiritual realm that can help you build your spiritual life but as you said, you are not interested, he continue to try hoping you will conceal to that. Please commit everything in prayer and also taking your mind off it. Gradually the feelings will fade away. May God help you.

Hello dear.
I will strongly advice you not to tell your husband. The reason is that he will use it in a negative against you in the future and you will regret it and feel hurt about it.
I understand perfectly how you feel about having crush on another mas as a married woman. It's a natural thing to feel concern that way but you have to find a way around it to stop the feelings but it will take time then if I understand his feelings or his being close to you, I think he finds something powerful or special in the spiritual realm that can help you build your spiritual life but as you said, you are not interested, he continue to try hoping you will conceal to that. Please commit everything in prayer and also taking your mind off it. Gradually the feelings will fade away. May God help you.

AntiMen:


I wish you could understand the situation of things around me..
I've said it before that my husband can't leave the church because of the key position he holds in here, also the issue that my pastor and I will end up sleeping with ourselves is a fallacy, I can't bring myself to doing that shit...I will never hurt my family nor his..

I only need ways to quench this feeling ,I'm having....

Someone adviced that I speak with the reverend to stay away from me, like how would I bring myself to telling him that I'm listing after him so therefore he should stay away, what if the feeling isn't mutual, wouldn't be feel some type of way about me?

What the person you quoted told you is still the best option!
By telling the reverend, you are creating more bigger issues for yourself.
If the reverend had feelings for you(which is mostly right because of his special attention to you), you would easily set the stage for your infidelity. Don't even cite your rightousnes here. I believe the righteousness was there before you started developing feelings for your reverend in the first place.
And if he doesn't feel the same(which is unlikely judging by his attention), he might look at you dirty. And there is high chance he might broadcast the issue to others either directly or indirectly.

Telling your husband is still the best bet here.
Such ugly instances I raised above would be avoided.
Your failure to disclose the matter to your husband (which is your life partner) would be your undoing.

Worst of all, you feel more secure in disclosing it to the reverend than your husband(your life partner).
That is a proof you would easily jump into the reverend's dick in absence of others.

Na ashawo spirit just descended on you. Na the phase 1 be this.

AntiMen:

When I say I'm Antimen, I'm only against the bossy attitude of men, nothing more nothing less..and that doesn't stop me from loving or crushing on anyone....
It's just a feeling, im only Looking for ways to making it stop ,nothing more....

Can you fuuuck him already and get the lust out of your system..

Then in few months
Your home destroyed
His home destroyed
The church emerged in destroying scandals
You want to know one funny thing... he won't marry you...neither you him


So like I said get a room and fuuuck him

If you could name yourself AntiMen, then you must be one of these weird Women's World people for reasons best known to you.

The truth is the devil (your flesh) is pushing you gradually, promising it could be sweet but i assure you it can not end well. Put the thought away, think about what you love the most about your husband, his and your vows, how much you [probs] love him, what you think you see in the priest. Try to revive the spark in your relationship.

If possible take a discrete vacation from the church. While you are at it, fast and pray for God's help because the more you entertain that thought the stronger it will be pushing you.

If all these don't work [which I believe it should], then you need to reconsider if you truly love your husband, and.. your moniker should have been FearWomen.

Feeling is a natural phenomenon ' the best way to stop it with the rev is to friendzone him'
Take him as your friend and nothing more

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

Some people will not understand you but I do because I am also a victim. My colleague likes me a lot and I also like him. This is a guy that hardly talked to me in the psst. All of a sudden he started having feelings for me and would not see me with another person.

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

go fuk him, so u will break ur home his home or better hopefully he isn't a dog, u will break only ur home n ur husband can finally know he married a loose cannon

Do your best to avoid him. Anytime the feeling comes, get busy. You don't need to involve your husband or your reverend

Do your best to avoid him. Anytime the feeling comes, get busy. You don't need to involve your husband or your reverend, do these, the feelings will erased

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

Hi Antimen

Happy Palm Sunday to you

I suggest you change church before the feeling gets out of hand.

One thing with this kind of feelings, it's not something we human are meant to control, that's why God said we should flee.

Just change church

Please sent me a message on WhatsApp 08100553547

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

Give me your husband phone number, I wan tell am about one business like that.

AntiMen:


I wish you could understand the situation of things around me..
I've said it before that my husband can't leave the church because of the key position he holds in here, also the issue that my pastor and I will end up sleeping with ourselves is a fallacy, I can't bring myself to doing that shit...I will never hurt my family nor his..

I only need ways to quench this feeling ,I'm having....

Someone adviced that I speak with the reverend to stay away from me, like how would I bring myself to telling him that I'm listing after him so therefore he should stay away, what if the feeling isn't mutual, wouldn't be feel some type of way about me?

Proximity brings passion . I wish you can still read through my advice to you.
My best advice as a married man with experience to you is to first Stop the communication with him , if possible block him on phone ,social media without having access to you and deleting anything that will make you remember him . If he care to ask you why , simply tell him that's how you plan to live your life henceforth. Talking to the Rev or your husband about it is a NO No, the Rev might capitalise on your weakness and cause more damages to your mental health if he had feelings for you but scared to tell you.
You admitting to him gives him the go ahead .
Avoid any discussion or prayer session in his office or private places to avoid it started with a kiss before ending up with pregnancy that drugs or abortion won't solve but a bastard child .flee completely and be more closer with your husband than before so as to set yourself free from the bondage you are in now . Ire ooo. God will uphold you and your marriage so as not to fail because once you fail and tried that path , there is no turning back oooo. O ti bo niyen

AntiMen:


Did I force the feeling on myself....
It grew naturally.

You can control what you think.
Until you tell yourself that you re not helpless in this situation, you will end up messing with this your crush.

If I want to hate someone eternally, it doesn't take me a day to develop a negative feeling and the person is my enemy.

Develop negative feeling, simple!

A clear forged story...u don't how how ur beginning to like him?...stupid story...how can some 2 person get fond of themselves just like that